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thomasjoe1: 11:31am On Apr 30, 2015
breadandbutter:
[b]I watched with sadness how thousands of innocent people died in Nepal from that earth quake and it makes me wonder if God really finds joy in the death of people. The so called God is claimed to be alpha and omega but how come he sits dumbly and lazily and watch people they claim he worked so hard to create die like fowls Many Nigerians are deep into the belief of this dead God that they no longer use their brains when commenting on tragedies because they have all been brainwashed into believing their existence is owed to a fable God sold to them by Isrealites who are far worse in commiting crimes against humanity in of war and killing innocent people. A four month old baby survived the earth quake and i was surprised to see some people thanking God for her survival shocked
Thank God for killing over 5thousand people and saving a 4 months old Africans are so mentally lazy that they call an imaginary Dumb God in everything. FuCck the foolish God for watching innocents die while watching. that is if the furker called God even exist. IT SHALL NEVER BE WELL WITH GOD FOR HIS WICKEDNESS IF HE TRULY EXIST. nonsense undecided[/b]
@ Bread and Butter! ...........which God are you talking of ? The one that Man created through Religion or the one that created Man!?
When you answer this question , we can start talking !
thomasjoe1: 9:55am On Mar 23, 2015
prof1990:
It is a disgrace to see a president reading a script during a debate.



Its also a disgrace seeing a party shouting " change " and boycotting debates + contradicting the true meaning of Change!
thomasjoe1: 3:28pm On Mar 19, 2015
Nice one ! But Iam not PDP or APC ................pls how many times will Fashola commission this place na ?
He commissioned it last year and it was celebrated on Nairaland! How many times will he commission and re-commission ? He who must come to Equity must come with clean hand s ..............APC e rats ........be guided .......Propaganda and Hypocrisy is not an advantage . it is a SIN ....REPENT! the Kingdom of God is at hand
Check the links below for the Last Years commissioning thread !
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/1818928/lagos-state-opens-new-cardiac/
thomasjoe1: 8:55am On Mar 10, 2015
mekaboy:
Interesting. In that case an attack on jonathan is an attack on the north.

Nonsense, always beating around the bush, when u shit wait for Gej to come clean ur nyansh. Until people start to be honest about the situation and point to the root cause of the problem, they will know no peace.

Bokoharam hosts flag, ISIS hosts flag.

Bokoharam behead people, ISIS does the same.

Bokoharam kill soldiers, ISIS does the same.

So what does Bokoharam and al queada , El Shabab and ISIS have in common?

I guess its jonathan that they av in common.
My brother aberg tell all these E-diots!

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thomasjoe1: 9:33am On Mar 06, 2015
2)freedom to cheat-she can cheat on me.i can cheat on her.

"3)we can watch pornography together and practice a new style"
Babes that are not prostitutes but have matured minds do this so no biggie

"4)i must not always be on top.i may be tired from work and ask her to keep me company ssexually"
Babes that are not prostitutes but have matured minds do this so no biggie

5)



"While the prostitutes are straight forward, other girls are hypocrites and tend to conceal their sex urge."
Prostitutes are not what you think ...............get a "faithful customer" and discover that she starts behaving different .......claiming to be a saint thats a victim of circumstance


5)sluts are fashionable
no harlot ties wrapper immediately after marriage.somehow,their breasts dont sag even after breastfeeding seven kids.

6) girls are boring. Sluts are not.they are adventrous.. She can say interesting stuff, and make jokes, and get jokes, and be a part of the conversation
YOu nerva meet real chick noo ni


7) they are no finacial burden.when things are going down, they source their own money and help family
" on the lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng Run , they are a huger financial burden .......pm me i go tell you more grin

coolhonest,openminded,straightforward[/quote]



in fact its clear you dont know much about Girls/ Ladies / Prostitutes and Women ................
My prayer is that if you are not married , you get married soon and start a REAL life ...........Ashawo no de pay and no be work
thomasjoe1: 10:00am On Feb 21, 2015
1LRNZH:
While the battle to route Boko Haram insurgents within six weeks as promised by the Federal government rages, an army officer, nursing the wounds and deep feelings over the whole incident, spoke exhaustively to Saturday Vanguard about his battle field experiences at Gombe and Yobe axis and why he deserted the profession he loves so much.

His narration which runs like a ‘war memoir’ is as interesting although the military has recorded reasonable success with more equipment with which they have attacked terror camps and killed a great number of them.
However we present to you an interesting of an officer who deserted the army from the battle front.
Excerpts:

BACKGROUND
‘’I have served Nigerian Army for about twenty years. I enrolled through the regular course.
I have served in almost all formations in the country. I am from the middle Belt part of the country, married with two children, a boy and girl. I have also served in foreign missions in Sierra-leone, Liberia and Dafur and we always came out in flying colours. Sierra-leone and Liberia were for peace enforcement while Dafur was for peace missions. We fought real battles at Sierra-leone and Liberia for about one year. We were there as a member of ECOWAS and we proved our mettle. It was popularly called ECOMOG. The battles were tense but rewarding in the sense that we were heavily equipped and all we needed for the war were adequately provided for us. During the battles we recorded very minimal casualty though. You know that it is difficult not to record casualties in war situations.


A picture taken on February 17, 2015 shows Cameroonian soldiers patrolling in the Cameroonian town of Fotokol, on the border with Nigeria, after clashes occurred on February 4 between Cameroonian troops and Nigeria-based Boko Haram insurgents. Nigerian Boko Haram fighters went on the rampage in the Cameroonian border town of Fotokol on February 4, massacring dozens of civilians and torching a mosque before being repelled by regional forces AFP PHOTO

FEDERAL GOVERNMENT LARGESSE
‘’In spite of the fact that the war was being fought outside Nigeria, the Federal Government of Nigeria under General Abacha provided us with all we needed and when ever we complained of any inadequacy, the Federal government provided them without delay. That was the spirit and we relished and cherished it. It was such that we were all looking forward to being drafted back to continue with the war. But it is a totally different thing with the against Boko Haram in the North Eastern part of Nigeria.

FEARS OVER ILL-PREPARATION
This is a war in which almost 95% of our soldiers fear to . Our fears are not that we were not trained enough to face the challenges but simply because we seem not to be prepared, at all, for the war.
A lot of sabotage, politics and other extraneous factors are seriously inhibiting the success of the war. Unfortunately, we are loosing a lot in men and material. It is so much that whenever the toll will be taken, the world will weep for this country. Already, thousands of families are in deep grief, having lost their dear ones in the war.
As we speak, I have deserted from the battle field at Bajoga, Yobe State.
Let me give you a vivid of the circumstances that led to my deserting the profession I love so much.

MY STORY
Until the unfortunate and very painful AWOL, I was serving in Bauchi as a Sergeant. While carrying out our normal duties, I was abreast of the ongoing war my colleagues were waging with Boko Haram and I was inwardly praying for an action whenever I would be drafted to the front. Alas, my battalion was informed of a certain foreign mission. I was ecstatic, knowing that we always triumphed during such missions. Unfortunately, when the real action came, I regretted ing the Nigerian army.

FOREIGN MISSION SIGNAL

After the signal came for the mission, we started training from Ohafia in Abia State. Later on, we heard that the operation had been changed from peace keeping in Liberia to Zaman-Lafia in the North East. We thought it was a joke and when we finished the training at Ohafia, we were sent to Jaji in kaduna State. It was at Jaji we realised that the rumour of going to the North East was true and we all knew that it meant going to fight the insurgents called Boko Haram. We were very sad because most of us were due for compensation and that was why they selected us to go for foreign mission. About 90% of us were victims of previous attacks at Bama and other areas and we lost both our loved ones and properties. So, military authorities selected us for foreign mission as a way of compensating us but unfortunately, we were diverted to go and fight Boko Haram insurgents.

MOVEMENT TO GOMBE
We, however, took it in good faith and after we completed our one month training, they moved us to Gombe.
That should be around early January this year. On arrival around 2pm the next day, the Brigade Commander came to address us. To our chagrin, he told us that even of Boko Haram were aware that we were coming, that they had sent a text message to him that we were coming to attack them with the local hunters and heavy equipment and that they were ready for us.

DISAGREEMENT WITH COMMANDER
The following day, he wanted to move us (about 600) to Mallam-Sidi area of the state but we objected because our Commanding Officer had not come and those heavy tanks, like the APC’s and other ing weapons were not equipped for the battle ahead.



Soldiers tasked with fighting Boko Haram militants arrive to face trials for mutiny in Abuja on October 2, 2014. Nearly 100 soldiers tasked with fighting Boko Haram militants in Nigeria’s far northeast appeared at a military court martial on Thursday, facing a range of charges including mutiny. The hearing comes just weeks after a tribunal sentenced 12 soldiers to death following their conviction for shooting at their commanding officer in the Borno state capital, Maiduguri, in May. AFP PHOTO

The following day when the Commanding Officer came, he compelled us to move to the place, saying that it would be more conducive and safe for us to stay there than being left at the open and ill-equipped barrack in Gombe. We then moved to Mallam-Sidi where we spent almost two weeks before advancing to the war front. While we were there, they told us they were making provision for all those weapons that were not available. And, actually, while there, they brought three armoured tanks, replaced some of the APC’s that were in bad condition and brought new ones.

MOVEMENT TO THE BATTLE FIELD
On a Sunday, precisely on the 8th of February, around 2am, we advanced towards Bajoga, a town between Yobe and Gombe States. We were there before 6am. Before advancing to the battle field,we were fed with tasteless jollof rice that was as dinner. About 9.30 to 10 am we started advancing to the location where the insurgents were. While we were advancing, the three helicopter gun -ships that we were earlier promised would assist in the operation hovered round and landed. Even the Alpha jet came and all of us were jubilant and battle -ready to win at all costs.

HOPE DASHED
However, five minutes before we met with our target, the helicopter and alpha jet disappeared. Even at the peak of the battle, our commander called them for backup but they did not surface.
The battle raged for over four hours, they were surging like locusts towards us with sophisticated weapons including ant-aircraft guns. In conventional wars, such weapons are not used on human beings. They are used to fell air crafts. But, the insurgents use them brazenly to kill our soldiers. It tears human body into shreds on .

OUR EQUIPMENT
It is pertinent to let you know how we were equipped for the war. Before the battle, they gave us three armoured tanks, three artillery guns, five APC’s, grenade launchers and AK47 rifles with three magazines per soldier. But on the day we started advancing, only one armoured tank , five APC’s, and artillery guns advanced with us. If we had gone into battle with, at least, the three armoured tanks, nothing would have made us lose the war. As the battle raged, it did not take time for their fire power to sur ours.

SUICIDE BOMBING

Initially, we had upper hand, but they struck with two golf cars loaded with bombs and dislodged us. It was a suicide mission. The explosion covered the whole area with thick smoke and the insurgents used the opportunity to advance towards us. In the process, we were asked to withdraw because they were coming ferociously. We were killing them but they kept on advancing like bees. Then, it was almost 5pm.

RACE FOR SURVIVIAL
That was how the race for survival by our men started. You know the terrain is a very open and large expanse of land with scanty vegetation. It was just like running in a football field with no place to hide. We ran into a small settlement and they pursued us. They were quite familiar with the terrain but we were not.




We succeeded in crossing the first stagnant river, before we noticed the presence of our alpha jet which started backing us up. That did not deter the insurgents from pursuing and killing our soldiers one by one.

IT IS NOT THE WAR YOU KNOW
While we were running for dear lives, some soldiers were falling by the wayside after losing strength to continue with the long race for survival. In fact, because of the fact that we were not equipped with water bottles, our throats were drying up as we continued running.
It got to a stage when dehydration set in and if you try to swallow saliva, it will be almost impossible and choking. Our spit was so white, slimy and it splattered on the faces of most of us due to exhaustion.

One of the most pathetic cases was that of a colleague who got exhausted and simply collapsed on the ground. He was even pleading with us to continue without him because he could no longer make it. One of our officers, a Lieutenant pleaded that we should lend a helping hand by tly helping him to continue with us. His plea touched us and we tried our best to help but we were also too exhausted to help offer help.

BUT THE WAR THEY FOUGHT
Nevertheless, some of us tried to help him but we could not continue when we saw the way the insurgents were running towards us. We dropped him and only God knows what happened later.
As we were running, bodies of many of our soldiers, both wounded and killed littered the open field. It was heart-rending seeing a close friend lying helplessly and you could not help because your own life was in grave danger and you were not sure of survival.

When we were about crossing the second shallow river, the villagers we met told us that we were in between Borno and Adamawa States, that from there to Bajoga was 75klm. Surprisingly, the villagers were very friendly and even gave us water.
They were about giving us food but advised that we should quickly continue with our journey in order to avoid the insurgents meeting us.

They arranged three vehicles that lifted us for about a kilometre and the driver refused to proceed further claiming that the road was not good. We quickly disembarked and trekked all night till around 5am when we entered a village and met of the local vigilante who helped us to arrange for two Diana Trucks that carried us to Bajoga junction. From there, we entered another vehicle to Mallam-Sidi and that was where we met some of our soldiers with serious bullet wounds.

The wounded among us pleaded with the second in command to take them to the hospital in Gombe but he objected saying that order has been given to move everybody to Ashaka where we use as harbour. After some deliberations and objections, we had no option than to obey him. When we got to Ashaka, to our chagrin, instead of taking urgent care of the wounded, feeding us and even given us a day rest after our narrow escape, the Commander ordered that we should turn back and advance, back to the battle field. That was the final straw that broke the camel’s back. At that stage, many of us decided inwardly to dessert the army and that was exactly what we did.

I handed my gun to one of my colleagues to return to armoury after I left through the nearest way in the midnight. I trekked for two hours to the main road before I boarded a bike that unfortunately missed the road and we saw ourselves back at Ashaka.

I then disappeared amongst the crowd at one of the checkpoints and went to the motor park where I boarded a vehicle towards Abuja. It took time for me to take that decision because this is a profession I love so much and I have put in about 20 years.
Agreed that from day one, we signed to fight and die for our dear country, but of what use will it be when it was obvious to me that things could be done differently and we would have results. For instance, we were supposed to be paid N5000 daily but what our Commanders paid was N1000.

If you sustain injury in the battle field, you spend your money treating yourself. The worst is that we were not adequately equipped for the war. We only got to battle field with our rifles, no kits, no vision goggles etc and this is an oil rich country where politicians are embezzle trillions yet, this battle that calls for the best in both incentives, morale and equipment is being fought this way at the grave expense of our dear lives.
Our military is strong and can do better if well funded and equipped. As I speak, many soldiers have deserted the army.

Their families are starving in the barracks. The most painful aspect of the whole thing is that after the battle, no efforts were made to ascertain or give of our dead and wounded soldiers. The dead ones are left in the battle fields while most of the wounded die face agonising death. What the authorities do is to close of soldiers not seen after some days.


In the past few days, however, it has been reported that the military has received more equipment and their forces have made reasonable inroads into terrorists camps and they have recorded reasonable success although the battle is far from being won.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/02/b-o-k-o-h-a-r-a-m-battle-field--of-a-military-deserter/

"Nigerian Army" writing memoir like a well trained international Journalist/Author - APC make una continue ......................!

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thomasjoe1: 7:46am On Feb 17, 2015
ayokellany:


I presume that was why your clueless president confessed on NTA that he has boko haram in his PDP led government and also masterminded the killing of his kinsmen NSA Azzazi for announcing on Channels TV that PDP is boko haram and boko haram is PDP
Lets not be in a haste in making such comments ! However , only time will tell .Rip too the Dead
thomasjoe1: 9:03pm On Feb 10, 2015
julie8:
We have no business with WAEC. They did not conduct the exams. The exams were conducted by Cambridge University College, and they have released an authentic statement. Africans are easily swayed by money and promise of more appointments. How can we take them serious?
Sai Buhari.
@Julie8
m neither PDP or APC .................believe it or not ! but think for yourself
Why should Buhari write to his secondary school when he could have written to Cambridge to clear his name?
Why has he not made any categorical statement for or against? ( Pride?@!!!!)
Cambridge doesn't release any result except with the permission of the Student in question --so where are the Nigerian Media getting the Cambridge result from ?
GEJ did so much but his performance in Security and Corruption is nothing to write home about - so why worsen it by siding someone who has not taken this certificate thing beyond reasonable doubt?
Leaders of tomorrow (and Today) vote wisely so that our GrandPa's don't steal your future! vote !
thomasjoe1: 11:12am On Feb 04, 2015
Godfullsam:
Why is this clueless Sambo always talking about religion during pdp campaign


Na wetin concern religion with politics undecided
Someone should call this man to order abeg.


Wake up ..............! REligion na Politics
no dull yourself ................read your bible , Koran and other holy books .............you can see prophets warning kings etc!
Nigerians and their yeye reasoning sha
thomasjoe1: 10:25am On Feb 04, 2015
She removed the Matchstick below the E becoming HOTFL .....Hold on. till. father. leaves..................
thomasjoe1: 9:22am On Feb 04, 2015
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/2125775/9-big-fat-lies-ait[/size]


WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER BIG FAT TRUTHS?
thomasjoe1: 9:58am On Jan 30, 2015
Profound!

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thomasjoe1: 11:24am On Jan 26, 2015
faithugo64:
Did you respect the office of the president when your permission was sought for??
amechi respect is reciprocal!!!

And APC used the Stadium for their own campaign, so why not also allow PDP? ...............! Im not impressed that Amaechi cannot use common sense to choose his Battles ! Now , he will look more stupid ....!

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thomasjoe1: 9:22pm On Jan 17, 2015
ChinemeOkpan:
Governor Amaechi is acting within the law

The stadium is not yet completed. A president with a so called PhD should know the health & safety implications of conducting a campaign in such a venue.

Unlike him and his cronies, the APC will not endanger the lives of Nigerians like he did with Immigration recruitment exercise. The APC values the lives of Nigerians.

The PDP can campaign on the streets like they have been doing so far.


So childish .........i must say ................when APC used the stadium , there was no " health & safety implications of conducting a campaign in such a venue"....................Im disappointed in the Gov ! This will further generate empathy for GEJ / PDP! just watch

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thomasjoe1: 8:00pm On Jan 17, 2015
torkaka:
The Cameroon government announced Tuesday that their military had killed 143 of Islamic extremist group Boko Haram after the militants had attacked a Cameroonian military camp in Kolofata.

The militant group, who was recently responsible for the death of hundreds of unarmed citizens and the burning 10-20 Nigerian villages, has terrorized northeastern Nigeria for the past five years in an attempt to establish an Islamic Caliphate.



http://www.agbosblog.com/2015/01/see-dead-bodies-of-143-boko-haram.html?m=1
Good job! but that doesnt look like 143 in the Pix ..less than 10 I think....................SMH for Nigerian Press! all in a bid to "discredit " our military....................just saying !
thomasjoe1: 9:23am On Jan 12, 2015
baseg25:

source :http://www.punchng.com/news/ph-shooting-jonathan-leading-nigeria-to-hell-says-fanikayode/

Nigerian Politics is getting more shameless
Its a big shame, some E rats will dig up this story from last year January ( just to overheat the Polity and cause more confusion)..............
Make una continue ..........! After Feb 14 .......it will be between you and your conscience

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thomasjoe1: 9:20am On Jan 12, 2015
Nigerian Politics is getting more shameless
Its a big shame, some E rats will dig up this story from last year January ( just to overheat the Polity and cause more confusion)..............
Make una continue ..........! After Feb 14 .......it will be between you and your conscience
thomasjoe1: 10:00am On Jan 08, 2015
Japhet04:
*clears throat*

I have so many reasons why you should date a shy or introverted girl..Although I'm not an extrovert but I've spent time observing these interestingly captivating set of ladies and I felt there are some interesting facts reasons why you should date them..,you never know you might just get to like them...Enjoy wink


1.)They are not talkative or arrogant

shy girls are not talkative or arrogant rather they are coolheaded people who are reserved and this is a quality that makes them so adorable that sometimes you can't help but wonder unlike the extrovert girls who are talkative and always seek for attention,the Nigerian man would term it as 'notice me'

2.) it's easy to make them blush

shy girls have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you will see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident or rash girls who will only say thank you. That's if they even say it at all, try dating a shy girl you'll love em wink


3.) shy girls won't cheat on you

A shy girl can't cheat on you,of course not. They don't cheat on their guy,shy girls would never stoop so low to having a guy behind you. Unlike the confident and extrovert girls who want to exploit anything they see,money, fame etc but keep the emphasis on money.


4.) They are beautiful

yeah shy girls are beautiful and don't give a damn about it, they're so adorable when after lectures you see them in the class staring into space and engulfed in their thoughts but the reverse is the case for confident and extrovert girls, most of them are ugly but when they paint their face and look like black albinos you see them flaunting themselves everywhere seeking for notice (ifa hear )an ugly girl remains an ugly girl.


5.) They are good listeners

shy and introvert girls are just good for one thing, they are extremely good listeners..Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion, unlike extrovert girls who will keep shouting to the extent that other people will hear your discussion but shy girls, you can count on them on giving you all ears smiley


6.) They don't party nor drink

shy girls don't party nor drink,they being introvert wouldn't do have such bad manners unlike some extrovert girls who would always know the latest parties on campus and tell you the kinds of expensive wines they have drank and also tell you the number of guys they have had sex with from Bomboy to azninu from azinu to kponkius just name it...


7.) Shy and introvert girls are very educated and intelligent


this is true shy girls are very intelligent, they being intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. Date a shy girl today and you'll be glad you did wink

feel free to add yours smiley


where to find a shy girl


1.) During church service

These awesome set of people are very easy to find during service,they always sit at the back and rarely dance unlike the extroverts that would even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu (what?.in the church....smh)a shy girl would never do this

2.) in class at the back seat

shy girls usually stay at the back seat of any class,alone in their thoughts now this is the best time to approach them, they're very friendly smiley, while the extrovert ones will always sit in front were they can be noticed (Ifa hear),this is for those in the university or higher institute

how to know if a girl is shy or introvert

it's very easy to spot these sweet girls,they will always blush at everything you say another way is to monitor their movements they rarely go out and they bring their charming selves outside only at night, date a shy girl today and you'll be glad you did, I can testify to that wink



inspiration - arva my sister on nairaland she's the top inspiration of this post

tosyne2much this guy is so good in observing that sometimes I wonder if he is a psychologist grin

emusmith this guy thought me that you don't have to make fp just post a nice and interesting update and surprisingly he usually makes fp

elantraceey she thought me that you don't have to clamour for likes just keep cool and you will see them coming wink

thank you for your time hommies,hope this helps wink smiley


" Shy girls wount cheat on you " Hmmm............I once knew a shy girl who I saw as a saint , already Engaged to my friend ....frying the ass of another of my friend ............................Morale of the story ................Never Judge a book by its cover .........- read it !

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thomasjoe1: 4:03am On Nov 03, 2014
ITas not False Alarm ...............just thank Go d you have been saved all these while ..............Estate bus- stop is the Headquarters and the place looks so simple! @ OP Thanks for sharing
thomasjoe1: 9:48am On Oct 02, 2014
OUR NATION SHOULD BE WEARY OF AMERICA ...................MAKE DEM NO GO USE STYLE BRING ANOTHER DISEASE FROM THEIR PLACE COME PLANT ALL IN THE NAME OF STUDYING US ....................MINISTRY OF HEALTH AND GEJ ........TAKE NOTE!

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thomasjoe1: 2:01pm On Sep 23, 2014
grin

Its all about the Oil Baby!!!
thomasjoe1: 5:59pm On Sep 22, 2014
Pls I advice you dont be in a haste to speak in such nonchallant way until you are sure of the circumstance of What led to their deaths
RIP to the Dead .....................(When will African people unite shadada sha na na yooooooo!)

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thomasjoe1: 11:51pm On Sep 04, 2014
Ever wondered why the "Good Girl " suffers? or why many girls havent still been able to HOOK a Mr Right? Well , here are some very stupid reasons............ cool I just don't know why many girls indulge in these irritating behaviors


1. Asking a guy you just met for recharge card
This is very annoying. It makes you look cheap. A guy met you in the afternoon, gave you a call in the evening and you are already asking him to send you a recharge card. Trust me, that guy can never respect you. He might eventually send you the recharge card, but the only thing on his mind would be to sleep with you once or twice and get rid of you.
2. Judging a guy by his looks
I believe guys should be the ones that should be hell bent on beauty and physical appearance. Don’t fall for a guy because he looks good physically. You need to access his acumen, sense of judgment, level-headedness, dreams etc. What makes a good guy is by far more than just looks.
3. Having sex with a guy the day you met him
This is uncalled for. You automatically lose some respect if you allow this guy to get down with you the first day you met him. Little kisses here and there and some cuddling would do, if you are tempted, let him feel your bosoms just to get yourself wet. The longer you make a guy wait, the more he will appreciate you and value your body. No one values what he gets easily.
4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie
Do we have to do this? It’s so disgusting. Okay fine. Every picture of a girl on Facebook shows her pouting her lips to look pretty. This doesn't make u look prettier; it only makes us look childish.
5. Manipulating a guy to over spend for you on a date.
Because he looks rich and came to the eatery in a car makes you feel you can drain his pocket abi. This instantaneously tells the guy that you are a hungry girl and from a very poor background. Can’t you just order for just one ice cream or a soft drink and be fine with this cool dude. Even if you do not like him, do not do this. Trust me, the guy will never call you again and if he does he only wants to get laid just once. The worst is taking your friend along so that you can both finish him.
6. Forcing yourself on a guy that doesn't give a damn about you
If a guy likes you, he will show it. Don’t you ever force yourself on a guy. You can indicate some green lights but don't force yourself on him. If you do he will treat you like poo. I have read some post on telling girls how to woo a guy. Don’t try it. There are a million subtle ways to make him see that you like him than forcing yourself on him and asking him out rightly.
7. Keeping too many boyfriends
Can’t we just be cool with one guy we love? 8 boyfriends equals to 8 Joysticks. Jesus Christ! How many guys are combing you?
8. Excessive Make Up
Excessive make up make u look like masquerades, ojuju calabar like Tiwa Savage. Trust me, guys don’t like girls with excessive make-ups. I have heard guys say it more than a thousand times how much they hate excessive make up on ladies. Look natural and if you must apply make ups, make it very lite.
thomasjoe1: 2:32pm On Sep 03, 2014
38. you'll also regret BLAMING GEJ for everything without thinking personally and calling Him clueless......
thomasjoe1: 2:29pm On Sep 03, 2014
shey .........Na Devil cause am ! he he he he . This Devil sef
thomasjoe1: 11:10am On Aug 13, 2014
Wow ..................reminds me of my childhoodDreams............Lovely! Thanks for sharing
thomasjoe1: 11:08am On Aug 13, 2014
Wow ..................reminds me of my Dreams............Lovely! Thanks for sharing
thomasjoe1: 7:11am On Aug 02, 2014
Wow ! Thats what I call a balanced view ...............bro you are seriously on point with your writeup
Nice one
thomasjoe1: 6:58am On Aug 02, 2014
Thanks for your posts , kindly allow me clarify the following

Gentleman Mike Ejeagha does not play High life , he plays folkrore "akuko na egwu" music

Chris Mba plays World Music ......better known in Nigeria nowadays as Ninja Hip Hip (whatever that means?)

Sikiru Ayinde Barrister plays Fuji. "Fuji music is a combination of music consisting of sakara, apala, juju, aaro etc

King SunnyAde is a juju Musician and is indeed the King of it

Im not criticizing your write up per se but the truth remains that since Nigerians continually use wrong lingua in categorizing music genres and we have a hap hazzard (let me say Dynamic) musical culture / taste , anyone presents anything and gives it whatever name....
Little wonder why most Nigerians are not nominated for Grammies?
All the same , thanks for your efforts

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thomasjoe1: 6:52am On Aug 02, 2014
you can get them on youtube and itunes
best of luck
thomasjoe1: 6:24am On Jul 28, 2014
Dominionng: When divorce became a trend! What do you expect? Lot'a old kids exchanging vows these days...
Well said Bro!

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