AllMight:
I've been attending this church for 2yrs, i played the sax and band. A month ago, i was told to teach this lady how to play the sax by the pastor's wife. Now this lady stays at their house. At times when i'm chanced i go to the pastor house to teach her, but most time i teach her during/after the chorister rehersal.
Nothing was going on between the two of us. But, i was surprised when last sunday, the MOG said he saw i and the lady in a revelation getting married. I laughed it off because im just 24 and nt yet ready for marriage. But he insisted i pray over it, through the week when i go to their house to tutor the lady, the wife do make subtle remark that i pretend nt to hear.
Then this sunday, the MOG said the lady is my wife from God that i need to listen to God before smtin bad happen to me. I'm nt in anyway interested in her. When i tried reasoning with the MOG, he said im only trying to rebel against God's will. He even threatened to send me away from the church. Please how do i go about it?
Normally Christians are the root of problem we have in Nigeria. Imagine Christians having issues with Christian, husband and wife at that.
BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.
This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,
she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.
But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.
I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.
I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.
Lol why uno know what to do next? Na to kill yourself ode.
Kokorokomaster1:
Me and my girlfriend have some miss understanding lately, then I apologise to her, them she forgive me, her brother is a tenant in this same house with me, then she travels to go and see her parents, I called her on phone, and she was not talking good to me, then with that anger on me I insulted her, so after that I didn't call again, than I weat for her to come back, when she finally come back I apologise to her, than she said that she is not dating again, that she has moved on with her life, I tried my best to make it up to her, but she refused to come back, please what should I do I love her o, and I don't want to lose her
Do me a favor! Carry your problems go your family house abeg
ChildOfDoom:
With addicts, all that matters is satisfying our addictions when money comes and nothing else. Considering the amount I get, I am supposed to be looking suave and decent. Reverse is the case.
Most of my clothes are looking worn-out. As I called an itinerant tailor to patch up some of my old boxers yesterday, I could only shake my head in disbelief at the pathetic state of my lifestyle.
What can I do about it? It's difficult risking my hard-earned money on new clothes when there are sweet bum bum to pound at night. The thought of it all helps me save up and manage whatever I see.
Now I understand why my father was also looking unkempt with worn-out clothes despite having a good job then
EreluRoz:
I didn't read but there's nothing wrong in rejecting a broke guy and later accept him if he becomes rich, women and all other female creatures are designed to go for the highest bidder, even fowl won't let cock climb unless he feeds her.
Gistmedia10: Two employees of the South African Social Security Agency (SASSA) have been suspended for performing a ritual in their office.
The decision was taken after the SASSA officials and two other men were caught on CCTV cameras entering the office after work hours. In the footage, one of the men is seen walking around the office holding what looked like a snake while the other is seen sprinkling liquid around the office. The incident was recorded on April 12.
Their colleagues were shocked to find needles in the office and what looked like muti smeared at their work stations when the resumed work the next day. They alerted their superiors.
SASSA spokesperson in Mpumalanga Senzeni Ngubeni said the two officials involved have since been suspended pending investigations. He said;
“We have found out that two of our officials were involved in the incident. As it stands, they have been suspended. Investigation into their conduct is underway.
“We have arranged with the municipality to use the community hall while we clean and fumigate the office. of the public have been informed to use the community hall.”
You need to start your comedy show bro. You are funny..: lol
Mikuni:
When I first met her, she seemed quite decent and modest. The first time we were all alone, she gave me the impression that she hates sex, because she wouldn't even let me touch her hands. In my mind, I felt I had met a virgin. I was praising God.
Last week, she came around; to my surprise, she hugged me and kissed me. The kiss lasted about 30 minutes. She kissed like she was possessed. I got scared myself. Okay, virgins are the best kissers, I said to myself. She left eventually after everything.
The next day, we had sex. When she undressed, I immediately tried to insert, but she instead started kissing again. After that, she directed my head to her boobs and told me to lick the whole portion of her nipples, including her areola. Each time I tried stopping, she would direct my head to her nipple. She made sex seem like hard work to me. I began to get tired. My tongue was getting pale.
When I eventually penetrated, I was happy it'll all be over in two minutes. To my surprise she told me to hit slowly, then she told me to raise the tempo faster and faster. That took about 20 minutes.
After sex, I decided to sleep a little. I felt really bad. I felt used.
While I was still thinking of how to get aboniki for my waist, I suddenly felt something like a "heavy balloon" on my face. This lady's ass was on my face. That was when I knew I had to run. She begged for head. I declined and left immediately. She felt embarrassed, but I don't care. I can't marry a sex maniac!
Why not tie her down first and see if she go triple her regards for you?
phemyhalaby:
My woman seems not to like me when i show her love.Whenever i bought gifts she just say,"thank you,"briskly,no gushing,no wowing.And then she starts misbehaving throughout the day.In the event that i needed to be intimate with her,she plays hard to get or even declines outrightly.
On the other hand,when ever i treat her bad,she doubles her regard for me,becomes more submissive and brings the intimacy unbeckoned to me,on a platter of gold.
I don't like to treat her bad as i observed it takes a toll on her physical and mental health but she seems to like/enjoy it anyway.
Even,when she thinks that am showing her love,she just deliberately initiate a fall-out or fight.Am just confused.
What can i do?
Gustavowhite:
so because we are the same east,if my fellow easterner is not doing well I should be praising him!?
I am sorry but we are not Yorubas and Hausa who are obligated to praise their leaders even when they fail
Una get problem for that east ooo. Wetin dey work all of una… una still dey beef una self
quote author=Gustavowhite post=128977006]Soludo is laughing but not happy,he isn’t happy that Otti is getting all the attention in the south East,on the day Aba geometric was launched he went to organize a cheap ass “light up South East” initiative in Enugu
The way his face is dark is the same way his heart is
GreaterFuture:
Do you know which States or Cities that their Immigration Offices will be faster, smoother in getting international ports?
Apparently, it seems many Immigration offices outside of Lagos and other major or popular centres, get it faster, much much faster.
Where would you advise or Suggest I go to, that's not In Lagos, but it too far from Lagos, but still southwest?
Because I live in Lagos.
No you are not, your preference is very fine. U go surely see your match even on NL, we have a lot of dummies on here too. Wait, are you even fine? Let’s see a pic.
I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend
Shegs105:
...and we started dating a while now, she works on the Island where she es all nights over there as she has accommodation in the work place.
We haven’t seen each other this year, and we have discussed recently about taking our relationship to the serious pedestal by meeting her parent and considering introduction later this year.
I can tell you for free that since I have been dating her, she had never make any form of monetary or material requests from me, even whenever I call that I would like to send her some gifts to her workplace address, she would usually decline with I shouldn’t bother myself.
At the moment, what I am worried about is that, sometimes we may go one week without hearing her voice, most of the time when I call, it’s either she misses my calls and call back the next day or even days, thus this is giving me a red flag, even though I had questioned her on this and she would always say she was engage with work at that point in time.
TheZeezle(m): 10:51am On Aug 07, 2024 
