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crackhaus:

If you are sure in your heart that you as a wife will do all of these and make them your primary responsibility without any assistance or complaints, then no problem.

Unfortunately, you and I both know that after just two weeks of doing these yourself, you will still start complaining all over again.

Nigerian women, na una way...

Of course, i do all this without complaining. Did i add that i still go to work to complement my husbands income. Handing off your sole responsibilities of providing for the family and expecting me to shut it is the height of injustice and responsibility.

biGDhAp:



since the man is suppose to do all this

what on earth is the woman suppose to do.

Weekly clean

2 Daily clean

3 Vacuuming

4 Cleaning kitchen/bathroom

5 Heavy duty kitchen cleaning
6 Tidying up

7 Washing clothes

8 Washing bedding

9 Changing sheets

10 Ironing

11 Managing the family budget
12 BEARING THE BRUNT OF CHILD BIRTH/FAMILIY PLANNING AND POTENTIAL INFERTILITY
13 GIVING BIRTH

14 Organizing payment of utility bills

15 Liaising with school/nursery over everyday issues

16 Liaising with school/nursery over trips

17 Being the first person called if there's a problem at school/nursery

18 Packing schoolbags

19 Doing/supervising homework

20 Arranging childcare

21 Arranging applications for primary/secondary school

22 Arranging play dates

23 Taking children to schools

24 Organising birthday parties

25 Buying clothes

26 Organising Christmas

27 Buying family presents/cards

28 Managing hospitals appointments

29 Looking after children at evenings and weekends

30 Search for a nanny to look after the children at evenings and weekends

31 Reading bedtime stories

32 Looking after SICK children

33 Taking time off work to look after SICK children

34 Settling children that wake in the night

35 Organising birthday presents for family

36 AND MANAGING YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS BULLSHITS

Snow1:
Got my Nclex, thinking of g up with port usa, they have been following me up and responding to my mails.
Avant: send Email, it will take 3 to 5 days for response.
OGP: said I should look for 200 bedded hospital, I am like "you guys are insane". OGP is not serious, maybe they have a lot nurses with them.
I noticed most of these top recruiting agency are doing shakara..they have benefited and gotten a lot of profits.

Please update us on the one you later signed up with. About to write NCLEX.
Try WESTWAYS STAFFING SERVICES, INTERSTAFF, ADEX MEDICAL STAFFING AND SHEARWATER HEALTH.

ObinnaObinna:


There's no need to bring my mom and sister into this.
I love my mother more than anybody right now. And I would die for my sister.

But it doesn't mean I would like every woman to be like them. I have my reasons for liking Joke Silva.

ok. SIR.
Maybe you should marry Joke's daughter then, case settled

ObinnaObinna:
I LOVE JOKE SILVA.

She's such a wonderful embodiment of motherhood for me.

I wish my wife or mother-in-law would be like her.

WHAT ABOUT YOUR MOM AND SISTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cry baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!That's how they cry over the cyberspace because they are losing substance.
A shame you are, sir.
Come let me feed you. Man!!!!!!!!!!!
You are a droplet infection sir, anybody that comes near 3mm of you is bound to be infected.

genq:



Shut the fvck up! You women wanted equality right?
This comment is a perfect example of how illogical and irrational the female species is.
Nonsense

bukatyne:


Did you read where the man provides every other thing?

|Every other things like what When you are not feeding your family as a man, it nullifies every other thing you are doing. A man that waits for a woman to feed him. A man that shares his god giving responsibility of putting food on the table with his wife, that man is less OF a man. The new generation of men has watered down their responsibilities to the extent of delegating FEEDING, SHELTER AND SCHOOL FEES TO THEIR WIVES and still expect to be respected.

Let the wife provide the money, let the man buy and cook, i think the woman will agree to this since we are in the era of delegation

A man that can't provide for his family
He expects his wife to provide for the family but will call himself a man
The family section is getting dysfunctional by the day.
The woman is expected to provide money for food, buy the food for the family, cook the meal and wait for the adulterated prick to come home and eat I raise yansh for una.

Bossjakande:
dear am not angry is ur body and ur life if u feel ur body has a price is okay if am dating u u say I should pay to enjoy u in room den dats sad.I want a woman I can girl my girl frnd or wife not my personal ashawo. I will not pay 1kobo to sex a girl DAT is not and ashawo. but wat she will gain from me will 5k or 10k is sometin u cant buy or measure in money.she will gain my heart and love. how much is love and fatefulness?

We are saying the same thing. Haba. She gains something, right? and you gain something too Right Am i right Sexual fulfillment or love, whatever you choose to call it.
So what are you saying?

You pay her sometimes in monetary , sometimes you don't while others do. So ain't nobody got right to judge others for their choice, let their conscience do that for 'em.

The Boss is angry.

What's love anyway?? Both you and the prostitute having sex because of love or finance is gaining something in return. Ces' fini

rawitools:
My Friend carry you bag and your child away from that house. Is that one marriage na force u want to die inside? Are u drugged or charmed? Give him 2 years break let him have all the fun he wants. I think he is not ready to settle down.

she CAN'T, CAUSE THE MAN PROBABLY HAS MONEY, LOTS OF IT.

Husbandman:


You learnt to check your emotions in check. I wish I know of ways to make her put her emotion in check. She says crying is the only way she knows to relieve pains. So if she is 40, she will cry in front of her kids when she kicks a stone?

I learnt to keep it in check in a very disastrous negative way. I became a hardhearted bitch which is very abnormal.

Husbandman:


Looks like you understand what I'm going through. Thanks for sharing your experience with me. I guess I should try that while I tell her the peles. Maybe when she has a child it will stop. It's natural to cry but not any slightest opportunity like mistakenly kick leg against stone, or slightly bruise hand against wall. Something a 5 year old girl would just winch about.
Infact the last time this happened, I told her Pele and told her to stop crying like a child, immediately she stopped and was very angry with me.

Please pet her any chance you get. I tried that hoping to get the PETS and GOODIES but ended being ignored. Now, i am a hard-ass unemotional being that even the very sights of my dreadful phobia doesn't move me. I didn't cry when i was in labour even though the pain was ripping me apart. Hubby got involved in an accident and i laughed like it is the funniest thing. News of death got me popping champagnes. I was told to be strong from childhood and I was, the hopes was to relax and be petted by my husband but ......well.....

Try your best sir.

Abcruz:


I beg to differ with the bolded opinion of yours.

In the old testament, God regularly refers to Israel as His wife.
Understood this way, the Songs of Solomon is an expression of the kind of intimacy God desires to have with His elect and not a lesson about sex.

Please be guided.

Asexual human beings everywhere, using bible and God to cover up. The Parameciums and the Amoebas.

Songs of Solomon that described sex explicitly.
I wouldn't want God to ire my breast and other hidden body parts the way Solomon ired his lovers body in that explicitly written book of his. It is creepy.

I wish you eternal rest sir. Quite painful that you are no more.

Remain that dude, Nwaamaikpe. Somebody should reach out please cos the suspense is killing. We are losing the intelligent dudes that makes nairaland a livable place.

Seenyo:
no need to argue....#IT'S BASED ON AVERAGE !


AVERAGELY, most men cheat for FUN!


AVERAGELY, most women cheat when EMOTIONALY attached!


FINAL VERDICT...a man can cheat and stay but when a woman cheats, she's GONE!


#A WORD IS ENOUGH.........

Funny.
Prostitutes and run-girls cheats even though they have boyfriends and husbands at home. Are they also emotionally attached to those men.? Very Funny indeed.

Men have chased away their wives after meeting new women for as long as we could . King Henry VIII did that to Catherine of Aragon when he meet Anne Boleyn. Musa Danjuma, the younger brother of General Theophilus Danjuma did that when he meet his new flame and had to discard Caroline Ekanem.

Lets stop over flogging mediocrity. It goes both ways damn it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They always come up with this filth every freaking time and still end up dying like paupers. King this, king that, yada yada yada!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.


What about the queen? You forgot that both the king, the queen and the subjects makes up the kingdom, with each having its own role specified. If you keep on lording your kingship over your house hold, one day it will cease to exist, just like for instance the fall of the French monarchy under Louis XVI and the more popular Marie Antoinette, who was the last Queen of before the French Revolution.
They were both enigmatic in their own rights, with each trying to outwit and outsmart the other. Louis was handed a monarchy on a platter but his frivolous lifestyle (which was also helped by that of Maria Antoinette) costs them their heads and the French Kingdom. Up till this present day, every other monarchy from the low countries of the south and the Prussia-Brandenburg in the north had learnt from their mistakes and had minded their business by staying clear of the state affairs unless it is absolutely necessary -(Belgium, Denmark, Luxembourg, the Netherlands, Spain, Sweden and the United Kingdom). Most of this countries practices pseudo-democracy for survival, to stay afloat and relevant.

Choose wisely the system of government in your home. Democracy still overrules.

MatthAnn:

So from everything I wrote up there, that is the only thing you could pick out? Lol



And use your brain next time.






Not every girl is a slay queen,probably like your girlfriends.
Read and comprehend so you won't be disgracing yourself up en down

MatthAnn:
Well about your mum,I think she is wrong to some extent (asking a preg woman to sweep). Sort of exercise if you ask me.
Your wife is wrong when you look at it from all angles.
Asking an elder to sweep for her,holding grudges against her mother in-law..........
Analyse it properly,you will discover the mistake made

The embolden is rubbish. What do you mean "asking a pregnant woman to sweep"?Was she not supposed to do anything again because she is pregnant? What type of stupid entitled mentality is that? She shouldn't even be reminded to clean up if at all she was well brought up.

Her actions and inaction reeks of a premeditated plans to prejudice her inlaws for no reason .
What am i saying sef, the league of slay mamas won't see anything wrong with what she did.

They were never compatible. They just found out who they were when they started living together.

They should separate and stop pointing leprous fingers on others.

Mailisa:
I have no words for you. My parents do have 3 monthly check up overseas� sorry to burst your bubble. I don't diagnose or treat family �. To help your miserable self, you might do with some financial elevation as you sound both lame and gullible. Sorry, try next post if you are looking for fame. No one has called anyone a witch � where did you get that from? Very petty and pathetic you are.

Frustrated and paranoid Mailisa.

Mizwisdom:



3monthly check up overseas? now, that's a lie and you know it even Buhari doesn't get 3 monthly check ups abroad

You dey mind the " everybody is against me holier than thou UK-house buying daughter of a perceived witch".

Mailisa:


You are sensible, and appear knowledgeable to the signs of dementia and Alzheimer. I am not surprised if you are one of those that see spirituality as gibberish and thus live in denial.

My mum is age 54, of sound mind, very educated, drives a Mercedes-Benz E class no driver, she runs multiple businesses, she is active in church and very popular, calls all my siblings except me, whatever she says stand. There was no cultural change shock on her visit because she has visited the Uk, Us, Barbados, Australia severally on her own independent holiday. When I look at the symptoms of dementia and Alzheimer she doesn't fit in. Maybe am missing a clue, but I will continue to seek wisdom from God.

You are trying to diagnose your mother yourself instead of taking her to hospital.

Who knows what she have as many people has undiagnosed brain tumors that alters their emotion and thinking processes. An African will rather pray and fast for the rest of their life than to go to a hospital and have their body most especially their brain analysed.
Then, you are calling your mother a witch even quarreling with your husband and your siblings while pointing your leprous finger on your mother. Ma'am i[b] THINK THE PROBLEM HERE IS YOU...YOU ARE GODDAMN PARANOID AND MUST BE SEEING ISSUES WHERE THERE IS NONE
[/b]
NO WONDER YOUR MOTHER like hell.....

X2ksed:


I really do not like responding to messages like this but let me correct your thinking . You do not have to engage in fraud to make money bro. What have I really achieved that is so special that cannot be achieved with hard work ? Bro tell me.

Look man, I have worked my ass out bro . When I dropped out of school , my dad warned me about a particular cousin and their family and tried to pain them in a bad light . That cousin linked me up with someone in Lagos and I hussled in a ship day and night bro. Cold hammer my life . My whole life be life refrigerator and I was asthmatic and I had to do it. Ventolin inhaler and aminophylline injection go school for my body . You do not sit in the comfort of your home and judgement , people go throw a lot . My plan was to work in the ship for one year and make enough to go back to school as the pay was good. I worked with Arabs bro and during my one year, things started changing . A new set of Arabs where brought in and they where homo sexuals . Bros , I had to run as I was almost raped and they threatened to throw in the middle of the sea . The hussle to Bleep ass was real. I left there and went to work with Indians bro. They where better off but don’t pay much as they complain of government and no
Money but I had to manage. Some Nigerian guys had to present their ass to the Arabs to remain onboard. I worked with the Indians and I was able to save some cash bro . Whenever I am off, I had friend who sells wrist watches and necklaces and I told him the Indians I work with love wristwatches . I introduced him and he made his first supply which was about 370k . The Indians later discovered the watches where fake and I was used as the sacrificial lamb . I lost the job . I tried looking for a better job on board but I couldn’t get any . I then met a guy who was into oil theft for naval officers . He introduced me and asked me to start work in two weeks . I later got a news from his brother that he died and was killed by propeller . The little I gathered I wanted to cross into Europe throw Morocco and desert movement and I was about making the move when my pastor called and asked me to stop every movement that he had a vision and saw me dead. I then met a friend I knew in school and he told me about Georgia and that Georgia is a good country . I told him I had some money and wanted to do business . He convinced me to go to Georgia and buy clothes and sell and he also said he can link me up to Ankara turkey . I started that business bro and I was almost duped but I held my ground bro . Na Beijing person never enter buy goods. Bros , men dey wey hussle legit . The only problem I have is family , they do not see my effort to help . I work my ass out just to help but they fucking don’t care .

Damn bro, you are one hell of a hustler!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

vickyehi:


1.....I believe you did your BSN for 4 years so technically the only thing you didnt do is write council there. So I would say you should send CGFNS all 3 transcripts. Across board I guess you should be able to meet any threshold of hours.
2....it doesnt cost extra money is of CGFNS fees. You would only be paying extra in of cost of sending transcripts.
3....I dont know of any.
4.....there may be recorded delays here and there but in this journey, persistence pays off a great deal. So keep pushing forward.

Thanks so much dear.
Yes the BNsc was a 4 year program.

IYIMAN
Barbiee,
Vickyehi
And etc.
Greeting to you all!!!!!!

I have been following this thread since barbiee created it. I have seen the contributions, i have followed those that commented to learn more on the process involve and i have started reading for NCLEX. After the motivations i garnered from here, i decided to I apply through an agency but it did not work out so i am taking the bull by the horn to initiate the process myself. My main motivation is to leave this country before the Nigeria nursing and it's frustration gets to me. I am interested in applying in state of Texas or any other states with less application hassles.

I am a ed Nurse/Midwife with a BNsc and i am in a serious dilemma. I obtained my RM qualification before the RN and BNsc and all of these qualifications are obtained from different schools in Nigeria.
So in sourcing for information, i find out that what is CGFNS needed for evaluation is RN qualification which i obtained within 18 months accelerated program.

Herein lies my predicaments..

Will it cover the number of hours needed by CGFNS and BON in all faculties?
Do i need to include my RM in my application, if so how much will it cost?
Do you know of any basic midwives with post basic RN who was able to scale through CGFNS evaluation, the processes they followed and how much was spent?
I have heard of delays in obtaining CES report which may occur as a result of many factors. Quite frankly i do not wish to waste money applying for something that may cost me a great deal of headache. I am gathering some cash for this process and wish to be put through on the step my step process to avoid the delays.
Thanks in anticipation.

Amhappy:
You two bleep,she got pregnant,lost her job,was itted for 32day more likely a risky pregnancy,hospital bills paid by mostly her parents,christening and dedication and birthday you are an attendee, you kept distance, buying irrelevant things instead of basic needs. My Anambra brother something is wrong. A baby need both parents so I don't your baby mama but bro try abeg. Ndi be anyi anaghi echu afa. It's not in our blood.

I dey shame sef. I feel like whooping his ass. What nonsense His audacity is mindboggling.

He expected them to treat him with respect after nearly[b] killing their daughter and forcing them to spend ONE MILLION on hospital bill[/b] Maybe he was not raised in the east where peeps that committed this type of traditional sin of unwanted pregnancy are treated like pariah both male and female. And you have the got to go to thier house DEMANDING RESPECT AFTER IMPREGNATING THEIR DAUGHTER OUT OF WEDLOCK. YOU ARE LUCKY THIS DID NOT HAPPEN IN THE EAST EVEN YOUR KINSMEN WILL BARF ON YOUR BEHALF..........

Wait your turn when the girl is 18 years and by then she may have forgotten who you are. Or you hit jackpot......maybe you can then debate in the court but still no court will give you custody but visitation right of a few hours in a week.

Lemme remind you that you disgraced us by your "irresponsible actions" it is totally abominable cos we are known to take care of our own even though we maybe accused of being domineering.

The man is still living with his wife after 7 years of creating this thread. He knows he CANNOT leave the marriage because he CAN'T and the wife is still communicating with the ex........lmao

wikinaka:
Please anyone who is processing her USA Cgfrn can kindly get in tourch with me, i really need help.
My wife has ed her IELTS , but o grady wouldnt take her because she is a pediatric nurse.

This post is somehow. Was she not an RN before becoming a peadiatric nurse? She should apply as an RN please. Let her try interstaff.

Make money ...more money or you will end up like this guy. It is a natural law.

Contumely:


A woman had the audacity to lock the husband outside because the husband was insecure?

She took tv cord too because the husband was insecure?


She complains about contributing to buy things because husband was insecure?


Oponu radarada.