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Without any sustainable income, they wouldn't be able to maintain the car or the house they rented.
I used to know a guy (about 28 years of age) In the former area where I lived in 2021.
One Sunday morning as I was going to church, I saw him in the midst of a crowd of guys, they were throwing him up, I slowed down and asked someone close by what the problem is and he told me that this guy just won a bet of about 9m from bet9ja.
That was the last day I saw him in that area until last year when I ran into him. He was looking so haggard and unkept, I couldn't even believe that this guy who had 9m just last year is practically broke a year later.
Most young guys have no plans for themselves, so even if by some miracle, money finds it way to them, rather than set up themselves and become financially buoyant for life, they'll just squander it on women and clubbing and remain poor.
He cheats on his girlfriend whom he has spent over 9yrs dating
I got to be friends with the girl through my friend on their second year of dating
This friend of mine isn’t well to do, the girl has paid her dues and even sleep on the floor with him and go through hard times with him but why he continues to cheat on her is what I don’t understand.
Atleast if I don’t know, I know three girls he has impregnated but it was terminated.
I know his three present side chicks as we speak.
The main chick everyday complains to me but hey! You don’t expect me to tell you to quit a relationship with my guy.
I say some words indirectly to her and she isn’t catching the clues I give to her to quit that relationship. Over the years I have given her clues upon clues for her to move on and find love elsewhere but I think she is blinded by love and not even catching all the clues
I can’t openly tell you that my guy is doing shit here and there. You see the signs, you know the girls and the pregnancy, I give you clues yet you still sick advise or want me to talk to my friend
Yes I do talk to him Every time but had to stop talking let him as a man make his decisions.
Over 9yrs with someone and in the next 5yrs he doesn’t seem like who still has intentions of settling down with her. To think that his new side chick has taken him to see his uncles and parents , starting marriage talk is disgusting. He is playing the new side chick too and his family