NewStats: 3,264,227 , 8,183,033 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 08:59 AM 4n3h4r

Olu1000:


Sad one !! But why did they panic and enter water when they did nothing wrong? The boy is way too small to be involved in illegal maritime activities! It’s well

This is why I say that anyone who hasn’t lived in the Southeast doesn’t know enough to have an opinion on what the police and army are doing there. If soldiers return from an operation without success, they might kill someone randomly, place weapons beside them, and claim an IPOB member was killed. The evildoers on Nairaland will celebrate, the victim’s family will mourn, and life will go on as if nothing happened.

In the Southeast, encountering the police or army is often worse than encountering criminals. With criminals, you know your fate—give them what they want, and you might have a chance. Soldiers don’t give you that chance. You don’t have to be guilty to be killed; down here, we’re all born looking guilty. The war never truly ended.

It's same everywhere in South East. The police down there are daylight criminals.

The builder of Lagos is now completely clueless, visionless and without direction.

RoyalBlu:
She couldn't cancel her vacation for his funeral, but is willing to be on ground for his Will reading pronto.

Someone you claimed to have been married to for 17 years!

This level of 'anyhowness' is frightening.

Oyibo way of life is on another level. So I'll just...

Let the dead bury the bed abeg 😂 😂 😂

This is exactly why I count my garri and rice before leaving the house.

But seriously, is she a liar? Has she lied about things before? I’m just trying to understand what kind of person she is, because if she can lie about something like this, who knows what else she’s been lying to you about?

You called her your woman, but I’m not so sure you’re her man. That's disturbing.

yemmit90:


You don't know when a girl is forming hard and when she don't want to look cheap to you. Understanding the both will help you alot in dating game. So you want a girl to sleep with you in her first visit to your house? Only wayward or Olosho girls do that please.

A girl that don't want anything to do with you will never come to your house. You were the one that failed to specify what you expect from her if she come. If you want just sex from a girl, you tell her before she come, if she still chose to come after that, then you win, because the possibility of accepting you at first visit is slim, infact you shouldn't attempt such at first visit if you want your dignity intact.

Are you sure you're replying to my comment?

BrutusOj:
I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh?

Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started.

Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys

When she accuses me of rape, what needful will you do? the other victims of one side of the story to cancel me bah?


Verbal consent isn't even enough for me these days, I will ensure she consents on whatsapp too.

Here's a proud irresponsible man ✌️ ✌️



Those whose palm-kernels were cracked by a benevolent spirit will always think every other person's story is same as theirs, don't let them get to you.
When a man wakes up is his own morning.

nolamicautos:
Osimhen isn't really suited for the Premier League. He should stick with Napoli, please. As for Mikel, he should consider coaching instead of talking nonsense. Football isn't an easy game, after all. How many goals and assists did he even manage in his career? Just leave our Jackson alone—we love him.

Mikel was right on Jackson.

1Sharon:


Why not ask ,why don't the men help women?

I said that single fathers make better parents and you said it's because women are helping them and now you're asking me why men are not helping the women?



You good?

1Sharon:


The reality is that most single fathers are getting help from the women in their family. Alot of them say they want custody just to spite the mother. But no worry nah, there's an epidemic of women leaving kids with the father after their relationship goes to shit. They don't want to be turned into single mothers.

So women help men but don't help women and men is the problem?

helinues:


Are those ing this government buying things from different market?

Are you saying that Nigerians should not complain since those that foisted hardship on them are not complaining?

helinues:


The same government policies are favouring some people. Life is not one straight road

Why are you so against the people? What's your motive? How do you sleep at night?

People are working hard, getting promoted, and advancing, yet they’re getting poorer, and you claim it's not the government's fault?

The price of 25 cups of rice now could buy you a full bag under Jonathan and you don’t see anything wrong with how things are now?

Patriotism means being loyal to your country, not blindly ing those in power. It’s fine to back the government, but not unconditionally.

What do you expect people to do? Set their own prices? Drill and refine their own fuel? This isn’t how politics should work. We’re human beings first, above all else.

Chelsea is beating wolves like bandits.



I didn't see this coming at all.

FRANCISTOWN:

😂😂😂Ha! Tallesty. You are naturally not a good person with that your head like tyre of yaba motor.😂😂😂

How yaba Tyre be?



Make I know whether you're a friend or foe 😂 😂

Emvirints1:
and loud or colos.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

folake4u:


This is too detailed. 😂😂

I know their type ni.

Tightpussy2024:

You may like to rethink your stance when you realize I am not talking of widows but SM through divorce or out of wedlock.

So why do women fight for custody during divorce?

Tightpussy2024:
it's not just to quote statistics but look at circumstances that lead to the statistics.
A single father has more system both emotionally, psychologically et al. How often have you seen a single father stigmatized or shamed? They bundle the kid(s) to their relatives for most of the time or get a girlfriend that will nanny them. While most single mothers are chased from families(unwed teenage moms), a single father counterpart has his kid lulling in the homes of his relatives.

Then finances as well. Most men that are single fathers are more financially stable than their female counterparts. Not that they magically do better jobs or so. They are also too few as well. Not enough sample sizes.

It’s great that you see things clearly, unlike others who’d rather argue than actually look into the facts. Honestly, one doesn’t even need to dig deep to see what’s right in front of us.

Single fathers usually don’t get much from anyone, while single mothers are more likely to receive help or at least feel comfortable asking for it. Widows get plenty of from the government, foundations, and churches, but there’s hardly anything out there for widowers. So that part of the argument isn’t exactly accurate.

There’s a reason nature made men the gender to provide and protect, but since some women say they don’t need that, whatever challenges they face in taking on those roles don’t really concern men.

Men work hard to provide for their kids and are often better at discipline too. Nature equipped us differently for a reason.

Nice one.

folake4u:
We don score one goal now oh.

They shouldn't have scored. Early lead hardly end well for Chelsea

femi4:
Very useless team..Jackson was busy fighting up n down. Useless striker

Dude is not qualified to be called a striker.

Mentholated:
FAKE STORY

You created 2 threads the same day. You had a girlfriend in one and a wife in the another.

Welcome to nairaland.


If you go to his house now, you'll see he has no wife or girlfriend. Just a small Hisense fridge with four sachets of water and a bottle of groundnuts inside.

olushollys:


You ended your story by saying "people are all about themselves now" showing that people are generally ungrateful, undeserving and wicked if I get you clearly, but you started by sharing your good experience with another human; a kind soul that appreciated you far beyond the good deed or favor or assistance you rendered.
My point! Huimans are of different types; the good, the bad, the urgly.

You kind and be good, that's the nature of God. Don't expect people to pay you back, God cannot owe you.

You're right bro

AareGaa:


You sabi things well.
E be like say you go farm well well for village.

😂 😂 😂 😂.


Na we dey spend weeks for farm when Nigeria had security 😂

The Suya resemble Awara

Maeve7:


Have you got any statistics for us now or not? Or are you asking us to do the research after you evoked the impression that you have all the facts?

You need less than words you typed here to get it on the web.

1Sharon:


Yet if a woman gave you full custody of your child, you'll freak out and rush to remarry.

Bold of you to think you k now what I will do.

EreluRoz:
Where you see that statistics from abi is it all those redpillers statistics you are quoting

Nope, you should check it out or observe the real people around you.

A father's love is in most cases a disciplinary love, while a mother's love is more nurturing and cuddling most of the times.

You know which one will be more helpful to a child in life.

Na the discipline wey fathers dey discipline kids mothers dey use turn kids against fathers.

This one never turn kidnapper like this?

EreluRoz:
A responsible mother's absence, you can never fill that vacuum.

Statistically speaking, people raised by single fathers fair well in life than those raised by single mothers.