NewStats: 3,261,343 , 8,173,728 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 09:30 PM 3a2j4a

I cook for me and my gf. Sometimes we make salad together. If I'm tired, she does the cooking and if she is, I do the cooking. It's not compulsory who does it.

Back to your question, if you dnt cook for ur BF soleLy cos u dnt wana appear cheap and all what not, no problem. If you do it cos you can't cook, you are on your own when you eventually cook after marriage and add all the salt in Ebonyi State. You're solely on ur own o.

Funbii:
45k... You really should get one, I'm loving every bit of it

Thanks maam.....Wia did u get it? I stay in Lagos.

Funbii:
I already got an S5, thanks tho ☺️

How much did u get the S5, Pls. I really need that fone.

Laveda:


At emboldened, in as much as I'm in of this particular comment I don't think that's right.

There's just a number of guys a girl date, and you'd just ask 'nah wetin nau'
Yes! No one is supposed to settle for less, but there's a point it gets to and you just need to sit and ask yourself certain questions, how long will you keep changing men? When it comes to issues like these we shouldn't compare ourselves to men, let's face reality.

I think when a girl is faced with things like these, its better she takes her mind off relationships and think of better things to do with her life, till the next better man comes, she observes and see if he'll be good for her.

PS: the girls changing boyfriends like boxers, go ask them they aren't proud of it.

Brilliant! Even the guys that change girls are very, very, very insecure and have great issues with trusting even a virtuous partner.

EternalBeing:












Thanks dearest. We shall not miss Heaven IJN.

Amen

EternalBeing:
How about secret fornication.
Let's be very sincere with ourselves for once, it's very hard to abstain from sex.
I hate holier than thou attitudes of some Christians.





































But the truth is that it is very POSSIBLE! I relate and talk more to average unperfect Christians because I've "bin ther done that" and I know how hard/painful it could be wanting to please GOD but feeling so... I'm happy to tell you that GOD understands, all you need do is that you must NEVER give up on trying to be Holy; that's the key. HE just want you to be sincere like David. Because of Pride, most people don't table their weakness before GOD. David wept bitterly before GOD, confessing and telling GOD that he had a weakness that would destroy him if GOD doesn't intervene. GOD saw his sincerity and proclaimed him to be a "Man after my Heart" All HE needs is your sincerity. Philippians 1:6 "HE that began the good Work in you is more than able to perfect you" When you realize that out-of-wedlock sex is the most effective weapon of the enemy through which you are being rubbed of the speedy fulfillment of your Glorious Destiny, then you'll know it's mandatory to abstain. The big question is HOW?

1. To start with, you have to be very sincere and determine that you want to be Holy(it's a very Great Power).
2. Read/watch/listen to only books/movies/musics that glorify GOD and fill your mind with love for GOD and desire to see the world become better and Holy.
3. Remind people that Rapture is about to happen and the need to be Holy and rapturable (the devil hates preaching with strong animosity). The more you evangelize, the easier it is for your not to do things you spoke against (scientifically proven that you find it more difficult to do things you condemn).
4. Pray fervently during your private vigils on your bed that Holy Spirit should take permanent control of your thoughts and the Source of your Thoughts.
5. Thanks GOD continually everywhere in your mind, while working, eating, bathing, every time. It's the Key to your next Level of Greatness.
Finally, if you still don't have the Grace to abstain, get married. "Pride goeth before destruction", a cheap wedding with the presence of Parents, Pastor and few important people is acceptable. Even as a student, you can marry and take injections that prevent pregnancy. That way, you and your hubby focus on fulfilling your Glorious Destiny with clean conscience. The major cause of all problems in the world today (resent alarming rate of divorce, corruption, murder, armed robbery, etc.) resulted from indiscriminate sex with different partners. The day you start having sex with another person other than your first love/partner, a large part of your conscience dies.
We shall not miss Heaven in JESUS Name.

I've Learnt from this. God bless you.

dollyjoy:
I think your sermon is totally unecesary if the said friend is not a Nairalander, besides, the story scream "Fiction" in all ramification,.

Let's say the Op wanted attention but now, you've taken it all!

PlayerMeji:
Warris all dis!

Wen do we get to hear 'Most Creative Girl in ABUJA' abi 'Most Innovative Boy' Award?

Even America after all the wealth and luxury dont have the time for all this nonsense we parade everyday because of its 'vanity' status

We are here in Nigeria, going through one of the world's harshest economic weathers and we are here celebrating the looks of someone who must have slept with another cucumber to get there.

SMH

Most of them are for our polithiefians to squander their excess loot. Naija is a big Scam! Common Rwanda without any resources always have light from begining of the year thru the end. The person who says Naija is the giant of africa is a bigger fool than a He-goat.

The best advice is what ur instinct told you in those few seconds or minutes you caught them. You dnt even need to OPen a thread for this. So long have we stopped listening to our instincts and it makes us eventually make wrong decisions. I ain''t gonna advise you, bro. Do to others how you would want them do to you.

warrenweste:

how did u do that?

You go to Payoneer site and find a transfer button there.

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Singapore1:
Didimario is good

Thanks brother.

Infamous:
Please, which freelancing site pays skrill? I am assuming you are a freelancer

No one, I transferred my funds to skrill from payoneer.

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Bethelwealthy:

Please go and choose her and let us hear word.
Stop defending stupidity. You forgot there's decency in appearance abi.
Everybody have their preferences, i hate tattoo, period.
go and marry her.

Allow us to hear word too. That I love tattoos and you hate it doesn't make u a saint, bro.

Toks2008:


Leave story dude.

Tattoo is a NO NO for any responsible man in Nigeria...even all over the world..Quote me anywhere.

And not believing you could make you tag me irresponsible, I guess. One man's meat is another's poison;take it or leave it.

Bethelwealthy:
With all these tattoos all over you, responsible men wouldn't stick around....
Are you a drawing board??
My children cant come and be looking at their mum like a art-work Abeg.........

I will choose a tattooed body with good heart over anyone without tattoo who is bad. That you dnt love tattoo doesn't mean u shud judge those who have it as bad folks. You could even be worse than they are.

moscobabs:
Just resumed my new office last week o.

My first time of working with White man sa (Lebanese) , The man is free and humble in fact everybody loves him, among other Lebanese my Boss is jovial, free and hardworking man.

He has worked in 5 African countries so he understands Africa and her culture very well.

The real story....

I resumed very early this morning and I decided to wait in front of office before I start today's activities when I saw my boss coming down from his Truck carrying his bag , as a young Yoruba man that comes from good background ..lol So I ran to him and say Good morning sir (bend my head) and I stretch my hand to collect his bag.

The man who has never disrespect me like that before shouted on me!!

Who owns the bag? he asked

repeat!!!! who owns the bag moscobabs?

Me: You sir!!!! I replied..

if it's me "why should u collect it from me?

Me: I just wanted to help u sir.

Y? ..... I couldn't respond .

I say why? ...meet me in office now!!!! he commanded .

We entered his office and he sat me down

moscobabs, You were employed as so so so in this company not to carry bag, the bag belongs to me and I must carry it, also you always bend whenever you greet me...please its not necessary, in fact its not official, I just opportune to be your boss, you are married as I , You are graduate although you are younger than me but you have to attach respect to yourself.

I was like " ki la gbe, ki la ju" but I replied him by saying ....

Sir, I am african we have cultures and Traditions and parts of these is what I did, We respect our elders and seniors that's why we bend or prostrate while greeting and we do help them carry their loads even if we carry ours too.

And he responded with smiles...No problem But when next you greet me in such an embarrassing way or try to collect my bag I won't think twice before I sack you!!!

I beg o Is anything wrong in what I did?

Is there any other reason for his reaction?

The man just dey look me somehow since morning

Yea, something is wrong! You don't act professional for christ-sake. That you work for someone doesn't mean you act like a slave. People don't value slaves. They value You knowing fully well that you do what you were asked to do and not EYE-SERVICE.

Op, ever heard of the statement " life begins @ 40?" Anything u choose doesn't matter. As far as ur heart is inline with what you want, go for it!

I bought an Itel phone(those their small phones with torch) for #3700 just for back up incase of necessity. Mhen, the problem this phone has given me, I don't think I will buy ITEL in my life again, even if na dash, I no take.

I pray that bloggers reap what they sow. The Husby may not see anything wrong in what has actually happened but seeing things in the Perspective of these foolish bloggers might make him think his wife doesn't appreciate his hustle. I wish I cud use vulgar words on these bloggers but I just can't...

Masters won't put food on your table but experience will forever give u an edge over those with masteRs. Secondly, you can still do ur masters when u are fully on the Job.

My 2cents

Akkotto:
Arithmetically remove 30b from 90b dollars you will still have 60b dollars so then why is buhari borrowing, what happen to the 90billion recover from Gej and his Govt, unless somebody is being economical with the truth.

The recovered one is for washing and setting while the borrowed one is for the econoMy and also for washing and setting . U grab?

PaulIdu:
But if they appoint his mum now he will be saying thank you Jesus

He has no relationship with Onyeka Onwenu. This so called bloggers and fake news ehh. Nwelue is just a great writer who caMe to stardom when he wrote the arbisnnian boy (can't recall the spelling). I'm very sure the two Onyekas ain't related.

Cutehector:
Jokes apart, it's not right to wash a woman's clothes.

I'm not disputing you, but why isn't it right?

guassian:
Bible says in proverbs: There is one who scatters, yet increases more; And there is one who withholds more than is right, But it leads to poverty.

Tithe is not forced on anyone, if u believe in it you pay, if not don't pay. But it will be better you go to a church where tithing is not preached if you dont want to pay tithe. Any church you attend, you must abide by their doctrine. For example, You can't say you want to go to cele church and wear shoes inside d church because u don't believe wearing shoes is a sin.

Tithing is a way to give back to God a portion of what he has given to you. Many people who don't pay tithe in church still want to go to a beautiful church, well air conditioned, executive chairs, good toilets etc is it your 20naira offering that will get all that? Apart from tithes and offering, donations are still made to get all these facilities.

In the days of the apostles, congregation brought their all, sell all their belongings and everyone had things in common. Is that not even more than tithe?

How many of people condemning tithe go to the orphanage to give them gifts?

How many of them even give to their neighbors.

Just keep on condemning tithes, people are getting blessed from it. Paying tithes wont make you poorer. Its not paying it that will make you poor. Many people eventually wast more than 10 percent of their salaries on women, gambling, hospital, theft, etc. Those are devourers which God have promised to rebuke if you pay tithe.

tithes are used to take d gospel to villages and nation where gospel needs to get to, even if the pastors are getting rich from it, they have their own case in heaven, you dont have to judge them. Many of these pastors have their own source of income and some fromyou gifts, seed offering etc. And it might not be your tithes that is making them rich. Give what is ceaser unto ceacer because if you get to heaven and you are rejected because of not paying tithe, then you will regret it, if you are told that tithing is not that necessary, you are still saved.


TITHE IS NOT MEANT FOR ALL. GIVE YOUR HEART TO GOD FIRST BEFORE YOUR MONEY. THE SACRIFICE OF THE WICKED IS AN ABOMINATION TO GOD.

MY man, I'm not gonna praise you, but I thank God for the wisdom He has given you. God bless you.

safarigirl:
it's you that asked whether I'm doing what I studied, hence my reply. Or do you suffer from temporary amnesia?

It's you that should shut up and face your front next time, I wasn't talking to you when you carried your aproko mouth to quote me like a useless neighbourhood gossip.

Na you ask question, na you dey yarn dust. Anumanu

It hasn't come to that naa. "Anumanu", my sisi, na wa for you o. How can I appease you.

Frankly speaking, don't blame peeps when they choose to divert. Our generation ain't easy as before, eventhough we have technology and other stuffs to make things easier to our advantage. We are in a phase where your degree alone can't help or sustain you, hence the reason why people diversify.

Don't resort to insult;it's bad! Olee ebe isi?

safarigirl:


Lol, fresearch purpodes?

Oga, I still dey the school. Studying Law, now, I plan on being a writer, which means, I am not veering totally from my path.

I know of people who read medicine and then become bloggers, but they blog about medicine. How is that veering?

Most Nigerians study what they have zero plans of doing, one of those "I'm a science student because my friends are science students or my daddy said so"


Waste

That you are studying law and plan to be a writer isn't anyone's business. You can't use a 5-year course to judge how one is probably gonna live almost 70+ years. It's a choice. To find one's purpose in life is tasking and should always be respected when one finally finds it.

You act like u see the future when you know absolutely nothing about the next hour, so keep shut and face ya life, maam.

safarigirl:
A chemical engineer somehow gets a bank job and then abandons it for blogging.

This is why Nigeria is here, cuz lots of square pegs are in round holes. Most science students couldn't care less about science

If this is your sole reason for why Naija is here, I think you need to still go back to the drawing board. I could read a 5-year course just for research purposes doesn't mean I will wear helmets working as a Chemical Engineer. I think there is energy economics, I stand to be corrected, and it could be what someone who read Chemical wants. I love her chosen part, afterall it's her choice and has nothing to do with affecting Naija, abeg.

You , now, are hunting lions , shey?