NewStats: 3,259,840 , 8,170,952 topics. Date: Monday, 26 May 2025 at 05:50 AM 5j46p

Hello, why can’t I edit my profile? It keeps saying “sorry you can’t edit your profile right now” every time I click submit.

This may seem like rants but I’m just a hurt business woman.
Why is it so hard to get guys to do business with you in fields that are male dominated.
For example, I redeem Giftcards for a living and it’s been close to three years now doing this business and I even trade Giftcards for big brands based in Nigeria and Ghana that have apps; that’s how good, experienced and well connected I am in the business. Trading Giftcards is a business dominated by guys mostly, both the buyers and sellers. One would think as a lady getting customers to sell their giftcards to me will be easy but the reverse is the case. I used to think it was an issue of trust, because if you are really conversant about giftcards trading; you will know that there are lot of rippers. I found out recently that the issue was not trust, let me explain. There is this guy I know, I dare say we are friends. He sells his giftcards to people like me, I then told him I buy/redeem all Giftcards both physical and ecodes at a good rate. He told me he has someone he sells to, I then asked for that person rate. It turned out that mine was a lot higher and I was still going to make profit on my rate. If I’m trading Giftcards for big platforms that have thousands of customers on their apps, imagine how huge my rates will be..
Back to the story…..
He then promised to sell his cards to me since my rates are high, only for me to find out from a mutual friend recently that this guy was looking for someone to trade his Giftcards. Guess the reason?? He later confessed that he didn’t like the idea of me transferring funds to him.
Honestly, this has been an issue for me to the extent that I sometimes remain anonymous to new clients and use masculine slangs whilst conversing with clients. I love gift-card trading business and it’s something I’m really good at and I don’t want to have to do another business.
So guys do you think this is fair and do you have the same mindset as my friend. My fellow businesswomen, have you experienced such a thing before?

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Sexytemi:
Tried to vote, but read that voting has closed today, so switann what time is the voting

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when?

hey guys u can start voting now
this is the link below

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pls vote maryanne. voting has started already

the site is down for now. it will come back up later.

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thhe link is not going ooo see what am seing ooo Bandwidth Limit Exceeded wen i click the link

try voting later. . thanks to all that voted,pls guys i need ur votes.

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Tedassie:

Op,this is quite insightful. This underscores the benefits of reading motivational books like the one you made reference to above.

However,i'd like you to make corrections on the misspelt words embolded above.
It's "EMPATHY" not emphaty,"ANTITETHICAL" and not antietical. Good job by the way!!!

thanks....those were typos ish.

One may ask why do you need emotional intelligence? they might even say "besides i think emotions make me weak,i don't need to be emotionally intelligent".
Daniel Goleman first brought the term emotional intelligence to a wide audience with his book. The qualities traditionally associated with leadership such as intelligence,toughness,determination and vision are required for success but are insufficient. Truly effective leaders are also distinguished by a high degree of emotional intelligence which includes;

1. Social Awareness: by knowing how u feel,identifying your emotions and how it affects the people around u. A leader who is not free or always angry or too bossy can't have a good effective relationship with his followers.
2. Self Regulation: we've all had moments that our emotions just wanna come right out and take control over us,by controlling your emotions and actions and by living ur values & holding urself able for your mistakes u r on ur way to becoming an effective leader.
3. Motivation: put off short term rewards for long term success.
4. Emphaty: identifying with other people and understand their want,need & view point. a leader without emphaty isn't considered a leader at all,you should be able to put your self in other people shoes and understand their needs;but also do something about it.
5. Social Skills: this helps u work with other people,manage conflicts with other people.

If u can maintain strong relationships then u can work happily and effectively with the people around u.
So u see,being emotionally intelligent doesn't make u weak it makes u strong. It is actually one of the key attributes of becoming an effective leader. Emotional intelligence also apply to your work place or school cos people hear the word leader and will think until they are Presidents or governors etc then they are leaders. using those five elements together with ur i.q in the work place school,you'd be able to make an impact.
"ion and reason are antietical; rule your feelings lest your feelings rule you"

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U called me rite

I think he meant the peter in the story books

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not a good poet.

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I actually don't...
Wanna help out

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