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Sir i will like to secure the future of my dearly loved and beautiful children: Tayo, Mayo, Layo and Bayo and i want to know if this insurance plan will be the best option for them?
Let me get this straight for the insurance policy there is a yearly fee of about 150-200k and in return upon my demise (i don't like the word death) my darlings Tayo, Mayo, Layo and Bayo will get 5mil + accumulated yearly annuity of 150,000 right?
what if i have a will will my children have access to my money without the need of a letter of stration? any way i trust Tayo, Tayo can fight. Please get back to me i look forward to your financial advise.

you are 19 you haven't really dated and yet you think you will be able to keep a husband you are bored of your 19 years of existence what makes you think you won't be bored of the remaining 50+ years. Marriage comes with a lot of challenges e.g. what if you find out you are infertile? or your in-laws don't like you? or your husband starts to cheat? do you think you are emotionally mature to deal with all of that?
also what have you got to offer a man? why would a guy want to marry a girl that her main reason to marry is to earn the respect of her parents

Shy-One:

@ Poster

You left out quite a few details about the Taurean Female. My older sister is Taurus and I have studied her for several years:

Extremely Intelligent

Good Grades in School - Very Studious and Dutiful - When young - they make great daughters to their Mothers - if they have brothers, they are very ive, encouraging and loyal

Once they have a mate - "It's all about the mate and his family"

Dedicated and Loyal to Friends - though in their circles "They have a need to run-the-show amongst their female friends" - but can be quite accommodating - they also can and will retain the same circle of friends for years

Though They are Very Attractive many times they have Low Self-Esteem (though they won't it it) - Needs constant Affirmations on "if she looks good or not"

Doesn't Forgive Easily but gives the appearance to others that they do

Must be the Center of Attention - they stride to improve themselves over and over again to earn that place

You must do things Her Way or she will tell you to hit the Highway

Loves Family

Naturally Competitive

A large majority of them have a "babyface" - They look younger than their years and they age very well

Sense of humor is fantastic

One of the best dressers in a room

Very Feminine but don't cross them as they can be a very nasty opponent

They don't like abrasive people and will most times soften their words even when angry

Extremely judgmental about others behaviors - not so much about their own

Green thumbs - anything will grown under their fingers

If God is in their life - they allow that relationship to be transformative for them and they work hard to be obedient in all that they do in service to God.

Excellent hostess at events - attention to detail is flawless - great cooks

another expert that knows her stuff. As a true taurean i say you are right!

I'm a Taurus girl and i can certify that this is true. Clap for yourself

what did you do? then we can advise from there, ,some sins are unforgivable

you said you guys dated for almost 2 years, did you introduce him to your family? if so then ask your parents (or any of your family that he knows and fears) to get dressed in their best attire- they have a wedding to attend

I think most nij weddings start around 11am right? and it is usually free for all entry particularly to the church service. So just let your parents go to the church and make sure they are in the full view of the groom and he sees them. They don't need to embarass themselves by saying anything. Their mere presence is enough to destabilise him and as he will be taking his vows he will know that he is doomed.
After the church ceremony your parents can simply leave. As for you don't even bother asking him questions just pretend you don't know even if he knows you know.

If however no family intro has taken place then it is obvious it wasn't a serious relationship and you need to be wiser next time. Pele

I use to kinda date one Bayo guy like that. He lived in Lekki but never had money something about him not liking to carry cash anyway everyday he will go on nairaland looking for single babe not understanding poor man is not suppose to date. Please how can he go about selling his family house so he can date? once he does that i would love to date him

poster that's the story of my life! maybe i'm not as nice as i think i am who knows.

well for someone that was genuinely raped (that was how i was disvirgined) i think being sceptical is the wrong approach for a guy to take cos if a girl was genuinely raped she will find your disbelief insulting and make it hard for her to open up. I am not saying girls don't lie but atleast listen and be open minded at first then see if there's a way for you to her story.

damn the wrong guy loves me!

madlady:


To be honest the only number I would really be interested in is his home number. If he doesn't give me a landline number for any reason then I'm not even going on the date,I hate wasting anyones time.

abroad (well in europe) people don't rely on landline much, some people don't even have one + i think a landline is very personal i wouldn't want to give my landline no. to a date even some of my good friends don't have my landline! i hope u don't miss out on great guys due to an unreasonable dealbreaker

you guys are cracking me up! surprising dealbreakers on here- i hate short fingers too but not sure it will be a dealbreaker i will just be scared the date has a weird genetic code/disease that could be ed on to the kids lol
Not sure what my own dealbreaker is cos i am quite open-minded (i think) but religion is a big one for me if he is atheist or not a christain then it usually signals the end   also someone that tries too hard to impress annoys me but i might give him a second chance to redeem himself if he has more things going for him.

it is your friend's fault she should hv nipped the flirting in the bud from day one! what kind of girl stands n watch like a mumu while another girl supposedly friend for that matter openly flirts with her man i wld hv said something in public like "i don't appreciate the way you are approaching my man i think it is disrespectful please dnt repeat the flirting in my presence or otherwise" simple. Next time homegirl shld wise up they no dey sell husband for kingsway o

yes

sometimes people take their marriage vows for granted- it is for better for worse! if u want to start having sex with ur wife again try to talk to her like when you guys started dating be attentive and romantic and don't let her feel that you are only doing it to get down and dirty (even though you are)

report a couple of his e-mails as spam

mystikal:

You speaking for all the girls, right?

for the most past yes. It is also an open invite for other girls to state their own gripes

adosjun:

Sugar p, lets hook up on fbook, i'm feelin u already.

whats ur name on facebook or e-mail addy?

@   poster
yes a guy can do all what you listed but have you thought what girls themself do to a man just to get them layed.

To me women are the worst culprit. Imagine doing all u can to please a lady whom in her minds sees yous as an M.U.M.U or alhaji bring bring.
Imagine taking a girl to an eatery you order something she eats half of it as if its bad when you are about going she orders for take away not only for herself but for her entire clan.

well sometimes we girls do that to guys we want to punish for not taking the hint that we are not really interested especially when the stubborn guy tries to impress us by flashing his cash and thinking that would make us want him more. In that case we like to test his limits and see how far his cash will go

yes definitely cos with me what you see is what you get! no nasty surprises after marriage infact i think the worse is the courtship period if you can deal with me then, then you can handle me in a marriage cos i'm hoping to be calmer when i am married. Also i have all the qualities i will hope my son's future wife will have like:

1. i am intelligent
2. streetwise
3. a genuine christain (not the "for show" christain)
4. witty (no dull moment)
5. adventurous
6. able to handle serious and complex life situations in a level headed way
7. can cook
8. clean but not a clean freak except when it comes to food preparation where i can be fussy about hygiene
9. i don't nag and hate people that nag
10. i can adapt to any social situation
11. not bad looking
12. open to new sexual experiences/explorations
13. faithful and loyal
13. can fight physically and verbally (bring out the ghetto in me)
14. i say how i feel and i am honest and open
14. family oriented
15. i am respectful to elders and most people
16. i am mostly nice
17. i get on well with my inlaws

slap1:

Thank you, too. Some girls are also annoying. When you send airtime every time they ask of it, they think you are their mugu and gossip with you, when you are actually trying to show you understand how poverty is handling them!

well what the girl makes of the gesture is dependent on how she feels about the guy. If she likes him it is a sweet gesture if she doesnt like him then he is her mugu lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9e157Ner90

okay girls don't be shy lets spill our guts and say what sometimes bug us about guys those we are dating or those that are trying to date us. Let me start off:

1. is it just me that finds this annoying: i am having a phone convo with a guy and he decides maybe out of excitement, joy or sheer madness to share every detail of the convo with his friends this can take the form of him putting the phone on speaker or saying hold on while he relays whatever joke or funny remark i have just made to his friends like why even worse is when he says "say hello" to my friends then i have to have chit chat with 20 of his friends that i don't know from adam like why o why o why

2. this one really bugs me: you let a guy know how you feel about him i.e. you kinda like/love him and that's when he decides he wants to play hard to get cos he has memorised the whole 20 step programme of "how to keep your girl interested" from askmen.com ehm dude you are playing hard to get at the wrong time + the authour of the askmen.com article is probably single, have a bimbo for a girlfriend or is plain damn gay! here's a clue when a girl shows interest try and show interest back if you are interested and if you are also romantic this is a time to show it

3. last but not the least- the deaf pursuers. You ask a girl out she says "NO" then you think you can somehow miraculously change her mind. Here's a clue you can't! so the manipulative ones of the deaf pursuers play the role of the innocent friend asking her "what about me don't you like?" the girl says "nothing you are just not my type".
He still won't hear word so he prods her to give more details so she makes out a long list of likes and dislikes in the hope that that will satify him and be the end of things (the pursuing that is) but noooooooooooooo homie decides he is going to change to make himself more attractive to her so he gets rid of all she dislikes about him and then he tries and ask her out again. As usual the girl says "NO" then he recharges his batteries and continues with his final assault of begging and pleading to the annoyance of the girl.
Guys let me let you in on a little secret if we say "No" it usually means "No" cos we have thought hard about it! in some very small cases we say the "No" cos we are not sure or we like being chased but we usually succumb after a few tries and if after we have listed the likes and dislikes and you have even tried to change and we still say "NO" then please please take it as our final answer. If by a miracle or out of desperation we change our mind we know where you live we will come and get you ourselves thanks!

where they find this one come? bobo besto abeg go find your level if they no fine for your family that one be your business if u also no get self esteem that one be your own wahala capische

okay folks i have calmed down a bit now I don't regret my thread but conscious of the fact that i might end up hurting a few peeps in my eagerness to show my excitement. The guy in question is free to do whatever he wants with his life its not my business and i am sure he has his reasons so i wish him luck.
My excitement and joy was genuine at the time i created the thread and i'm still feeling good and relieved that i am rid of him for good! but at the end of the day it also means the point of no return
so folks lets celebrate quietly ok i'm off to enjoy x-factor

well i don't think i'm the loser and even though he is not the best looking guy my summation of him is not based on his physical features. He is a loser cos he acts and thinks like one. Having said that i do get lots of compliments that i am pretty so i don't think your sole opinion will make a difference on how i view myself.

well sorry i am private

@ chuks01 send me urs

190 u r funny o but true shah recession dey outside

i can swear on all my generation that the guy that he is at the mo is not one i would ever ever want to get with so i was absolutely not trying to get back with him and didn't even ask him about his love life (even though he was trying to give me stories like i care). Maybe if he grew up and acted right i might consider him but like i said i know my worth i'm not like other girls that fall and stay in love with losers.
Don't worry i drink champagne like its water. Welcome to the good life

well chux01 if i did i would be begging him back wouldn't i? lol oya shey na beer or wine u want looks like u r enjoyn this thread so much n hence want to rejoice with me

pele looks like you also went to lagbaja comprehensive high school i was fortunate to be better educated.

As i stated i didn't go back to him we got chatting again as some civilised people tend to do + i was trying to be friendly. Giving that i am a principled girl with alot to offer i didnt see the point in wasting my time associating with someone that wasn't going to add to my life so i decided to cut him off permanently and came here to celebrate which is different from all the romantic sob stories on here. No point in bitterness from you! i called for celebration if you are not willing to celebrate with me carry your nonsensical brain away from here