NewStats: 3,259,487 , 8,170,270 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 May 2025 at 09:14 AM 39296a

Sabadon:
Game plan......well peter obi is the goal, get your pvc and vote en mass, suffer no dey tire una

Honestly, I don't understand Nigerians.. How will I quene under the sun to vote for tinubu no be curse be that... Didn't they say a friend of a thuef is a thief as well. He boast say na him iñstall buhari as president so, how his he going to be better than buhari. Chaiiii..... This country does not deserve to exist! We need to take pictures of those ing tinubu honestly, so as to check their mental health...

ATEAMS:
Elements of truth

I am so proud of chief ogbonnaYa onu. So courageous of him to speak the truth!

Mindlog:


Some men want, for some reasons that would make you doubt their sanity!

I am telling you.. they exist ooooo

Thank you for putting him in his place.

On point! I love old people alot! God bless our aged parents in Jesus name amennnnn

JovialJune:
Why is he scared? I thought men are proud of being polygamous in nature? Except he's scared of the outcome knowing the kind of wife he has,

You deceitfully married another wife when there was no agreement before marrying the first wife that you are a polygamous man, and you think all will be well with you? I pray the first wife finds you out, so that you will face the terrible consequences.

Don't mind him

My dear I will advice base on experience, you see that your job, that is your sure security and dignity as a woman. Never let go of it no matter the love sharking you now for nothing. If he wants you to resign your job, let him create an alternative source of income for you, like opening a business or paying some money into your for personal upkeep. It is a terrible thing for a woman to depend on her husband wholeheartedly for financial sustainance. You are always at his mercy and God helping you, you have a terrible misunderstanding with him, huhhh, of course you know, no money for you for that period. Don't quit your job for nothing my dear, encourage him to open a business for you cause, it wouldn't be funny when you stay for a month without any alert into your as it used to. Wisdow is profitable to direct. Your job is your strength and protection as a married woman. And you know we human, we are unpredictable especially men of these days with their adulterous lifestyle. Be wise!

PDJT:


-You're quite rude. Aren't you?

Hello Mr PDJT, trust you are doing great sir.... So sorry for the other day, I was just pissed off with the betrayal of that young man. I apologise sir as I realize I sounded so disrespectful by calling you Mr polygamist , I'm really sorry sir but that does not change the fact that I hate polygamy. Please accept my apology sir, pleaseeee....

Thou:
ordinary chatting you called it? You are a wh¤re no doubts abt it.

Smhhhhhh, omode...... I forgive you.....!
But please, for next time sake, check my profile name properly, don't ever quote me again. I only respond to mature people here pls.... I have been here since 2015, so check properly, I am not those type you people insult anyhow. I don't know you, so if you delights in insulting people, stay off my mention....

armyofone:


I agree with you. It is so unfortunate that those in leadership in Nigeria don't know what they are doing.
Sex, women, rat race from bottom dwellers to top dwellers. The Nigeria people are just too inhumanely greedy!

How come the animals you keep be hungry? Not a single good zoo in a whole giant of Africa?

Just look at their leaders - only huge stomach is what we see!

It's so annoying my brother...

Klass99:


I am smiling at the bolded. Wetin Yul Edochie don cause ehn and the subsequent reactions we saw on this forum, just showed that even the loyalty of a good woman doesn't count for jack shit. Poor May, I felt sorry for her and how she found out.

Huhhh, my sister that thing pained me seriously and the reaction of nairaland men makes the whole thing worst. Naim make now, women don dey get plan B for marriage this days, including me myself.

see as I dey laugh here.... God please help me oooo... Yul edochie matter and majority of nairaland men's opinion on polygamy, has now made me to always laugh whenever I read about women cheating ... Who are these women cheating with? Our polygamous men of course! You see, when the society evil because they feel the gender involve his superior according to their mentality, then it will surely rob off on every one of us. Oga op, sorry oooo, forgive your wife as men will always say women should forgive them when they cheat. Always endeavor to pray together both morning and night with her, by so doing, God will be involve in your home.

Haakeem:
Divorce her in a brutal way, i mean she should not see it coming.

As for the male teacher where did he get the audacity from? Gather agberos,pay them make they go teach am lesson.

I hate nonsense

you see how painful it is for you men to see your wife doing ordinary chatting with another man but you Nigerian men will cheat, rob it on your wife's face and still raise your shoulder high as if nothing is happening. If op is innocent of cheating no wahala, but if he has ever cheated on his wife and never repented of it, this is just the beginning..... I am sorry if I digress from the topic but I just needed to voice this out of my mind...
Please note, in all honesty, I do not condone cheating one bit. I am against cheating be it from either of the party but since I saw you guys reaction on yul's edochie infidelity, I kind of soft pedal on been hard on my fellow women in n marriage. I encourage women to do that which makes them happy always....

HITsquad:
Smart girl, feed and feed him till he gets even more fat.

a fat man is slow and can't run away from you.

Hahahahaha, funny you...

Kaiiiii..... Which dey my country Nigeria go be like this, huhhhhh? Well dedicated zoo keepers, sane and well organize citizens, clean environment and above all, a well structured society. Chaiiii......, Na only sex sex and polygamy our people dey hussle for here, nothing tangible dey their head except to accumulate women and sex their life out. See society that thinks of their children's future, see society that loves humanity, see society that respect fellow human without debasing any gender..... .... Honestly, we still have a long way to go.
Quoters, please, e jooo nitori olorun, mio nii agbara ati rojoo laleyii. As e be me naim I take write so, I no ready to respond to any quote.... I dey vex for this country wey we don destroy like this

Let me just relax alittle with this thread and add mine. Met in the Young Shall Grow Motor park, Owerri baCk 2002. Dated for 7years, got married in the 7th year 2009 and till date, we are still growing in love, tolerance and understanding. 20years of being together and still going..... Thank you the Young shall grow motors! You are simply the Bomb!

Klass99:


He has given us (women) a lot of food for thought. Me, I just can't get over the fact that he wasn't in love with May but had 4 kids with her. Why not stop after a boy and a girl?

The lack of a male child is not even the issue. If all his kids with May were female, I may reason that the quest for a male child drove his actions.

I know a woman who married as a virgin, at some point in her marriage she was treating herself for gonorrhea and she never cheated in that marriage. Her hubby cheated and infected her with it.

It's like our feelings and well being truly do not matter to Naija men once they marry you. Marriage to a Nigerian man is becoming less and less attractive, with the kind of stories you hear online and offline.

That is not to say men of other nationalities are any better, but kai our men are something else, extremely selfish and insensitive.

Very wicked men, heartless and full of never grow me syndrome. Na Dem jealous yet they cheat any other living things. Some nigerian men are evil and I know God will punish them in one way or the other.... Make Dem no worry, he go clear for their eyes.....

koyyess:


Only born leaches, prostitutes and male apologists will ignore this. And they will pay dearly for it.

Women with brain are learning seriously from this.

I am telling you.. no woman should suffer anything with any man again. Let them provide for the family 100% since they have enough money to cheat. Women arise and be independent, some men are heartless....

peepydelano:
Go jail him na

Hmmmm, this one pain you oooo awon tii polygamy, smhhhhhh

Misterone:
talking about abortion? first, the guy is looking for a son. don't be surprised his family is behind this move. second, the lady in question is loaded. na dem dey give small small boys money to touch their gbeje well.

But he has three boys and a girl from his wife, so which boy him dey find again? Na long throat land am for this thing wey him do so....

maasoap:


Meet his waterloo for marrying a second wife? Lol. I guess all polygamous men are going to meet their Waterloo too, right?
Meanwhile, we know many monogamous men who had been killed by their one and only wife without any serious reasons other than mere allegations. Was that their own Waterloo?

Smhhhhh.... I dey vex abeg leave me, all you ers of evil will surely meet their water loom. If what yul did to his wife of 17 years is ok by you, then may you experience the same. May you be betrayed at the point when you are meant to relax and enjoy your sweat. I no curse you ooooo, but na word I talk....

Mrkumareze:


Male version of the mum.. Yul must have carried out DNA, reason he waited all dis while before announcing it. He's a wise nigga.

Which wise?? Na him sin hook am naim make am rush announce am as the girl don follow am hold ground say she no go abort the baby. That lady Fine reach destiny Etiko abi she fine reach other Nollywood actress wey full that movie industry? Infact, this yul act shows he is so daft and foolish for marrying a woman with two children from different failed marriages according to information here. Person wey suppose to dey enjoy him life now with him beautiful wife, wan come start to dey buy pampers again smhhhh, some men just need to be taught a small lesson in this life.

PDJT:


-You're quite rude. Aren't you?

Yes, I am rude, I it it because I am really angry and pissed with you sir for ing yul action towards his wife. This is my first time in this forum, that I will be using this harsh tone on anyone but unfortunately sir, it happens to be towards you. Nigerian and Africa men are maltreating women badly forgetting that you also have sisters and possibly daughters that will someday get married. Look at the dishonourable way he shamelessly announced it without putting the woman's feeling into consideration, why am I stressing my self in explaining to you how I feel, you are his partner and last I , misery loves company. I am a married woman for your information, hence, the reason behind my anger...... Look at the beautiful and georgoua woman he left for after two woman that has failed in marriage twice and here she is destroying someone's happiness on in the name of being a second wife. I will not apologies to you oga, as long as you are condoling yul actions, I will not....

TrumpDonald2:
Hahahahah... You done carry eye do DNA already. Baby calm down.

Honestly, check that baby well.. that guy dey vex me. If person hurt him sister that way how him go feel? Some men are wicked shaaa and no law to fight and women in this kind of situation where a man betrayed his marriage oath.... Chaiiii African women are really going through hell in some marriages shaaaa

Mrkumareze:
I respect you my Man. Who sees such a handsome boy and refuse paying his mother's bride prize

That child doesn't look like him one bit. Look that pikin well

JovialJune:
Lol

You owned up because gistlover was about to expose you

You owned up after you were forced by Judith to marry her last week Sunday

You were the same person that threatened her to abort the pregnancy, when she didn't, you had to accept it, she threatened to expose you if you didn't marry her

Your second wife was married to different men with two kids, so you are responsible for taking care of them, she is a left over while your wife was a virtuous woman

Men that marry second wife usually marry a fresh young untouched young girl, you married a left over while your wife was pure from the very beginning.

You are not a real man, you are a real idiot.

Nnem idiot is too nice to quatify that guy, he is a beast and he will surely meet his water loom..... Women should please wise up.... Stop ing any man again financially. Every married woman should start saving for herself and her children because the generation of men we have this days, lacks integrity and discipline

PrinceOfLagos:

So many heads were cut off for these

Don't quote that man again oooo, na Dem Dem, he sef marry two wives, na so him tell me. So don't bother educating him, he is in the league of polygamist, so he can never see anything wrong in what his partner has done, untill old age..... Don't bother yourself my friend about quoting him again...... Na Dem dem

Righteousness2:
There is no good way to do a wrong thing.

Yul's act is a clear act of dealing treacherously with the wife of your youth.
It does not Matter how the crowd hails you, what you have done is Wrong.

We living in a crazy and Sinking world.
A world where people are bold to declare their love for evil
A world where good is called evil and evil is called good.
A world where humans give u reasons why they engage in evil.

Mr Yul Edochie, listen to the voice of reasoning. You have made a bad and wrong decision.
You have dealt treacherously with the wife of your youth.
Before GOD ALMIGHTY and I, You and this lady are Decieving yourselves. You both are simply Sin Partners and nothing more.

Retrace your step Quickly and do what is right before it is too late.

Thank you pastor righteousness, people like you who stand on the word of God and have good morals are rare on this last days. A man boldly betrayed the wife of his youth for no just course, and his immoral partners are all hailing him, calling him a real man and I shake my head in disbelieve to what humans have turned into. He his playing with fire and I know sooner or later, he will look back and regret his actions. Thank you pastor righteousness, regards to your lovely family....

christistruth01:


You are assuming that the Wife is happy to be in a Polygamous marriage what if she is a from a Christian background such a situation will only sow headache and Confusion in her and her Children's lives

The man is now clearly in love with Someone else, if they didn't have issues he wouldn't have married someone else

For her own Peace and that of her Children she should just quietly go and live elsewhere, it is going to get much worse
especially as it has started like this

She should not belittle herself to be dragging with the new Wife she should allow them to themselves and focus on God and her Children

She should just go abroad with her Children, just tell Yul you want your children to School abroad and relocate with them

A man who stripped you naked in the market and made you National headline News doesn't love you anymore

Focus on Jesus Christ his love is Eternally unfailing

Malachi 2:14
You ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.

Mark 10 : 5-10
5“It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied. 6“But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ a 7‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, b 8and the two will become one flesh.’ c So they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9Therefore what God has ed together, let no one separate.”


Three People in a Marriage can never become one flesh, the 3rd Person has separated the first two

My Friend God bless you jaare, but they will not listen to you because the devil has seal their mind with sex sex sex. Let them marry three wives sef, no be this Niger we dey. God go bless you in Jesus name amen. Dem polygamy people, we dey here dey watch una ooooo....

LollySeaSide:


Polygamy is not legal in Nigeria.
It might interest you to know that even though polygamy is neither legal nor illegal, it is unlawful in Nigeria.
No marriage registry will issue a certificate of marriage to a man who is already married and has an existing marriage certificate.
That is why people go through divorce and settlements before taking another wife.
States governed by sharia law allow polygamy within the context of their local laws. Still, they can not issue more than one marriage certificate to a man at any given time.

I knew the the person who own this thread just want to rubbish women... No be man wey him manhood dey stand naim go fit marry second wife�����.

nwakibie3:


But somebody must care about how many wives a christian marries abi? By the way Must be follow his father's footsteps?

Shuooooo, if he no follow him papa discipline footsteps which person own him wan follow? Yes ooooo because a christain guide is the bible and the bible said in genesis that God made Eve for Adam and not Eves, so you see, God no give Adam two women to keep am company but na only one him create for Adam but we human come wan use our hand create another Eves for our self which means double curse..... Well, I wish him well but eni ba dalee, a ba ile lo

PDJT:


-Leave people to their freedom of choice- it is their fundamental human right, not a gift from you, any other human being or government. You absolutely have no right to people's private family life. Mind your business.

-As for killing your partner for marrying someone else, only life losers do that. Grow up! As for your parents, their choice. Not mine.

I didnt quote you mr polygamist, you quoted me first and i responded. It is your life but as for been a loser, nay, wicked people don't deserve to roam the face of the earth. You don't hurt someone who have given you her youthful years with enough sacrifice on her part and expect her to clap for you. Like I said before, there are many ways to kill a rat. Your choice not mine, culture my foot..