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*A Call for Reform in Catholic Discipline*

_By Rev. Fr. Victor Vaachia Ullam, Parish Priest, Holy Cross Catholic Church, Gwarinpa II, Abuja_

*The State of Our Faith*

It's heartbreaking to see the erosion of reverence and discipline among Catholics. Sacred gestures and practices that once defined our faith are fading. If we don't correct this, we risk losing our sense of devotion entirely.

*Key Areas of Concern:*

1. *Lack of Reverence in Church*: Genuflection, Angelus, and respectful behavior are often neglected.
2. *Disrespect for the Eucharist*: Receiving Communion without preparation or reverence undermines its significance.
3. *Inappropriate Attire*: Casual wear at Mass shows disregard for the sacredness of worship.
4. *Rushed and Distracted Prayer*: Prayer is becoming an afterthought, rather than a foundation of our faith.
5. *Neglect of Holy Days of Obligation*: Declining attendance and lack of awareness of important feast days.
6. *Loss of Traditional Devotions*: Stations of the Cross, First Fridays, and novenas are being forgotten.
7. *Lack of Silence in Church*: Chatter and distractions before Mass disrupt the sacred atmosphere.
8. *Inadequate Catechesis*: Many Catholics lack a deep understanding of their faith.
9. *Failure to on the Faith*: Parents often neglect to teach their children prayers, catechism, and proper behavior in church.
10. *Lack of Boldness in Defending the Faith*: Catholics often remain silent on moral and social issues, fearing offense.

*A Call to Action*

It's time for reform, not in doctrine, but in discipline. Catholics need to return to reverence, prayer, and tradition. If we don't reclaim our faith, who will? Let's work together to restore the beauty and depth of our Catholic heritage.

What did your last breakup teach you?

I can't just believe a farmer in Benue state was been arrested for poisoning cows of Fulani herdsmen who feed their cows with his crops.

However the man says he only poisoned his farm. He didn’t poison any cows- except they invaded his farm because he has suffered a lot from damages from cow.

I want to ask questions.
What is this man's crime now?
Because it is just like putting rat poison in your house

What was the reason for you first breakup?

Let's hear it, we don't judge

What do hospitals do with the gowns somebody died in? Are they thrown away or do they just wash them?

Bill who dey climb you

Climb who dey bill you

No dey stress me abeg

If two people date from 18 to 21 and marry at 22, and another couple who are 33 and 35 years old, date for 3 months and marry.

Who do you think rushed into marriage? Exactly

These People were asked “What is your worst sleepover experience?”

Some of us have suffered in relationships more than the Israelites suffered in Egypt.

Room and parlor self contain to let.
Very close to the road

E get as boy go take knack girl, you go know say him nor love her

Politely I want to know why many see sleeping with someone's wife as a curse but sleeping with someone's husband is not a curse.

Be honest : Do you see a future with your current partner?

What has 2024 taught you so far??

Drop a breakup message that doesn’t seem too harsh. Someone might need it to get out of that relationship that’s draining them.

Mature men who are 25+, please drop one piece of advice to men 18 to 24. It can be about anything!

I came across a story about a married woman who lied to her husband, saying she was traveling. He agreed, took her to the park, and waited for the bus to leave. She got off on the way, took a cab to a hotel to meet another man, and tragically died there.

A name you can never give to your child?

What do you think is causing the rise in single men uninterested in relationships over the past few years?

What’s the most important quality you look for in a partner?

What scares you about marriage ?

First sign of a relationship that won't last long.

You don carry girl go house before make you no later touch her?
Tell us the reason why

No matter how touching their story is, don't let anyone squat with you...I'll explain later

Benefits of having you as a neighbor?

Between a father’s absence and a mother’s absence in one’s life, which will have more negative impacts??

Go to her phone , enter WhatsApp, email, and Facebook messenger & search

- fvck
- raw
- on my way
- big head
- you’re funny
- I like it
- where are we meeting
- give me some time
- I don’t have a boyfriend
- my love
- lol
- talk to you later

&know who you’re dating

What do you consider cheating in a relationship?

Divorced women are dating married men, but they divorced because of a man cheating .....

THERE IS NOTHING LIKE PARTIAL STROKE. It's good people know this
It doesn't exist.

A Stroke happens when the Blood vessels that supply the Brain either burst or get blocked .

It cannot be partial . It is always complete

It can manifest with a huge number from face dropping, hands & legs not moving well, speech problem, loss of consciousness amongst many depending on the part of the Brain affected

Sometimes we can have something where the person develops some of these stroke symptoms and gets better because the clot that caused is dissolved by the body called Transient Ischemic Attack (TIA) which a lot of people call "PARTIAL STROKE"

NO, They should still go to a Hospital. A TIA is just like a warning saying , you're about to have a Stroke, go see your Doctor.

A stroke is never partial, it is always complete

PS- Anyone can have a stroke..Yes, from babies to toddlers to preschool to teenagers to middle aged.
Anyone can have a stroke

Regina Daniel married her husband in her prime , at that moment she was very hot and every one wanted her but she decided to settle down .

Mercy Johnson married her husband in her prime , at that moment everyone was enjoying her shape ,beauty and everything but she decided to get married .

These two women knew there was nothing out there , they knew there is pride in settling down and building a home .

Some of you are hot now , you don’t just want to hear anything about marriage , you want to live your life , go to clubs , smóke , sleep with many men and ask them to forget about your past when you are tired . No one is going to forget your past .

Moral lesson : Your past will always catch up with you .
There is nothing out there , settle down .

These are some benefits of eating dates and who should avoid it

🔑 Rich in Nutrients

Dates have essential nutrients, including fiber, potassium, magnesium, and vitamins like B6. They provide a quick energy boost while ing your overall health.

🔑 Promotes Digestion

Dates are high in dietary fiber, which aids digestion and prevents constipation. Adding dates in your diet can help maintain a healthy gut.

🔑 Heart Health

Dates contain potassium and magnesium, which are crucial for heart health. These minerals help regulate blood pressure and reduce the risk of heart disease.

🔑 Brain Function

The antioxidants in dates, like flavonoids and carotenoids, help reduce inflammation and protect brain health.

🔑 Healthy bones

Dates are rich in minerals like calcium, phosphorus, and magnesium, which are great for maintaining strong and healthy bones

🔑 Energy boost

There are natural sugars in dates, such as glucose, fructose, and sucrose. They provide a quick and sustained energy boost

🔑 Skin Health

The vitamins C and D in dates help maintain the skin and keep it smooth. The antioxidants fight skin issues and signs of aging.

Who shouldn’t eat dates?

🔑 People with Diabetes

Dates have a high natural sugar content, which can cause blood sugar spikes.

🔑 Those with allergies

Some people may be allergic to dates or sulfites often used in preserving dried dates, leading to allergic reactions.

🔑 People on a Low-Fiber Diet

Dates are high in fiber, which can cause digestive problems like bloating and gas in those unaccustomed to a high-fiber diet

🔑 Those with Kidney issues

Dates contain potassium, which can be a problem for those with kidney disease as their bodies may struggle to balance potassium levels.

🔑 those trying to lose or manage weight should consume them in moderation to avoid excessive calorie intake.

🔑 It can create issues for people with certain gastrointestinal issues like irritable bowel syndrome (IBS).