NewStats: 3,263,813 , 8,181,483 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 03:50 AM i3s6p

LaSenior:
I am a guy of 30years old yet I don't have a serious relationship and each time I try to contract a serious relationship it will always end in tears for me , I am not the womanising type of guy neither am I that harsh or abusive guy. I love so dearly and I make sure I am faithful sincere and honest I have tried my best all this years searching for true love and happiness but each time I think I have found one all of a sudden things goes off is either they are going back to their ex or they are seeing someone else I have tried my best to make things work and I don't want to change to a bad guy or Start womanising just to kill the soft spots in me , love is actually telling me that it is not for me I have not experienced love before like seeing a girl love me wholeheartedly they always play with my emotions feelings ending up decieving me at the end right now my heart was broken by a woman I love so much when you see people who are heartbroken and committing sucide please don't blame them because it is never easy to over come this particular case ,

I am heartbroken I am heartbroken three times this thing has happened to me there times in the space of 8years each time I feel my heart has found the right one that's when my nightmare starts

What's actually wrong with me should I stop loving and turn into a play boy which I know it is difficult for me because I am not weird like that

When will true Love locate me ?

Never you love with your heart but instead love with your brain OP.
Nigerian ladies are extremely useless and worthless, I wonder what you really need them for.
They got numerous ex most of them are chew-gum or play guys, and you expert them loving you.
Hahahahahaha
You better leave these shit-hole in search for a better Virgin girl to Marry.
Will get you these tips
Try Swaziland or Maybe Mauritius, that's if you're financially bouyant.

Nigerian ladies are useless, all of them..........

thormywa:


Norwegian University of Life Science

That's a top notch institution, and sincerely am not surprised at that.
Go on giving it a try, no harm doing that and then you wait for an favourable outcome ok.

thormywa:
This one the the slot allotted to international students for each course is very low ehn, wetin man go do to boost his chances. Does age matters? Last year, the total number of applicants for the course I'm going for was 158 and they itted just 7.

And What University is that?

Ísland er fallegt, guð blessi Ísland(ICELAND is Beautiful, May GOD bless ICELAND

Spider20 so no cute picture of this country to spice up the above term...?

ChibuGP:
What about visa requirements(proof of funds in particular).. how must is required for a student intending to study in iceland

Why not!!!!
Proof of adequate fund is require

Nevertheless I think application is now open for university of Iceland
Goodluck chaps..........

benob:
What are the chances for a third class graduate to get ission to a school in Norway

Give it a try Man
But make sure you're going for the same course our something similar on what you studied during your undergraduate degree....................

Nigerian ladies are useless+ stupid, all of them...........

Once a simp, always a Simp.
You really wanna date a prostitute
Spits.................

Las Las
Ashawo go reach everybody (male specie)

On my case, I JUMP and

Nigerian ladies are always useless +stupid
Avoid them with immediate alacrity.............

Nigerian ladies will remain being useless and stupid, all of them

Pity useless Men wey go still marry useless Nigerian ladies
Spits............

jobportng:
Thanks guys for your suggestions on this thread i made earlier https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/6785837/girlfriend-boyfriend-please-advise-me and thank you very much lalasticlala for the push, God bless you abundantly .

So guys after reading all your suggestions and the insults ( very mean ones ), i decided to talk to her more , i told her that i was not ready to be an option and that i cannot continue with her, she read the message and called me immediately and started crying she pleaded with me that I’m not an option and that it was her ex who was trying to bring in problems for her, so i asked her about the part where she told the guy she will never stop loving him , and she swore that the message was an old message even before we started talking, that it was before they had issues, that got me confused so i told her to give me access to her whatsapp and she shouldn’t delete anything if she wants to be honest.

so she gave me access to her whatsapp via whatsapp web which i started going through her messages on whatsapp , what i saw shocked me, before now she has been sending messages about me to 2 of her friends that seems to be very close to her, telling them how she met me and how she doesn’t know why she feels so much love for me even when we are yet to meet, and one of her friend was asking her if shes ready to go into another relationship since she just broke up with the other guy and that was when the girl asked her is she didn’t miss her ex and she was like she obviously would miss him but she has gone that stage now and that she wants to be focused on me, and she was like she loves me a lot and bla bla bla , i then headed over to the other guys chat with her and boom i saw my issue , i was in a hurry to judge i just saw screenshot and didn't know the message was an old message and the ex was only trying to bring issue, i saw that after the issue we had she sent the guy a long voice note threatening and insulting the guy for always bringing her pain even when they were dating and how people warned her about him, long story short her mother called me and told me that her daughter explained everything that happened and plenty talk, her cousin too has called me.

she has since sent me series of voice notes of how nobody has ever loved her the way i do and how she fell even more inlove after meeting me, she went as far as telling me she’s ready to take an oat with death if she ever cheats on me, i did a video call with her and dammn she lost weight already with black eyes , which shows she has been crying, i feel so bad for her about the whole thing and i've forgiven her and want to give the whole thing another chance, for those saying simp and all the insults lol chill my case might have a happy ending at last, unlike what you simp calling people think, making fast decisions without thinking is not what makes a man strong, even God made us know he will forgive our sins when we cry to him, that doesn’t make him weak.


Also the part where people said she is for the money, that is one of my main reasons why i love her, she has refused me spending money on her even after we met and she saw their was money i opted to change her phone for her after i saw how bad it was, she seriously refused telling me she can’t use such a phone now because of her area. took her out i ordered for moet and some food , our bill amounted to 165k when she saw it she was upset , and many other things i've seen in her , before i say i get sleepless night for a girl , there is something i saw trust me . so guys i appreciate so much for all the suggestions, God answer everyone of you at your points of needs amen!

It will still end in tears
Such day I hope you won't regret it

ExploreFeelings:
I don’t think I have been lucky in love and I’m thinking of giving up already. All the people have fallen in love with have hurt me in one way or another. And I can’t keep up with the pain. I just want to stay on my own.
Now this new guy is telling me he has fallen in love with me just after two weeks of meeting me. I think he wants to use me! I don’t know! I can’t trust anyone anymore! Maybe he loves me! I don’t know! My heart isn’t capable of love anymore.
But since I closed my heart to love:
I feel rather empty, depressed and I find it hard to associate with people.
And now that someone has fallen in love with me, I don’t know if I am capable of loving him back.
Should I keep my heart closed to love?
Source: https://www.xplorefeelings.com/should-i-give-up-on-love-5-reasons-you-shouldnt/

Abeg getaat.........
What a useless post
Nigerian ladies are useless all of them

A Hoe will always remain a Hoe
Nigerian ladies are useless+Stupid, all of them
Date them at your peril

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys, i met this girl few months ago and we started talking , ended up asking her out, we started dating , at that time she told me she was single , honestly me too i was , fast forward to somedays back , she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, i was worried kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack, i was beyond surprised till now i am yet to recover from the shock, when i asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me , and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now they guy wants them to come back , i saw her chat with the guy , telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she have decided to stick with me because ive shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000% i treat her like a queen , right now i am confused , i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her , i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me i can’t even eat or sleep when i all of it , i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy . guys please constructive criticism are welcomed , please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused . lalasticlala i would be grateful if this gets more audience thanks

A Simp will always be a Simp despite numerous advices....
OGa fix your mess.................

Efe42:
My girlfriend just ended our 8 month's relationship without no suitable reasons when i ask her she said because I don't give her attention anytime she's talking and she most talk about celebrity and social media life style which I don't find interesting topic on.

I'm so tired this evening feeling down about this!!

How can I UNREAD these rubbish
OP, mind yourself
Last warning

Nigerian ladies will always remain useless and stupid..
Date them at your own danger

megatran:
I will keep this short and straight forward. I want to travel out and I need directions.

A little back story. I figured this will help tailor the responses and answers I get to my questions.

I am in my early thirties, single and have bagged a Bachelor of Pharmacy degree. I was supposed to go for Nysc 2020 but jamb regularisation has been unfruitful. I am aware that I need the Nysc certificate for work or pharmacy setup in Nigeria so I am considering moving out for work or MSc in IT.

These are my questions.
1. What are the most affordable country options available for me?

2. Considering my age, what are the best visa options or advice that would work best for me.

3. Are there any skilled workers programs for pharmacists that could ease relocation?

4. How long does it takes for universities to send transcripts to universities abroad?

5. Are there any pharmacists from Nigeria that have branched out into ICT or merged both professions seamlessly?

6. How much should I be looking at spending in average at relocating to any of the affordable countries given in question 1.

This may look all "interview-ish". I just figured I made it easier to get comments. I would appreciate sincere comments as they come.

Try Having your MSc degree in Saudi Arabia...............

Thank me later

engineerabj:
My fiancé is pregnant,and I don't really believe if the pregnancy is true.
We had sex on Thursday,and the following week Wednesday she called me and said she is pregnant.
Please is that possible, because when we had sex,I used protection and the condom did not burst.
Please I need an advice please.
If the pregnancy is mine I will accept,but I am just confused.

You are a Mumu man.....
Na mii, Na mii Bleep up

johnsonmartina6:
she said she wanted some space because we had some quarrel,, i gave her the space and added another extra week,, now she cries of heartbreak on her WhatsApp status ,, i don't understand,,, what should I do

Someone is busy Knacking her..........
She's just playing tricks on you knowing fully well you gonna be viewing her status

Nigerian ladies are useless all of them.
I wonder what joy Men get dating a hoe.........

chocboi78:
Lesotho is a different country from Swaziland na

They're the same Bro...........................
Swaziland Also Known as Lesotho

Don't know why Southern Africa countries female lads are really sexually wide and toxic, be it S/Africa, Botswana and Zimbabwe.

May God Bless Lesotho (Swaziland)
The only country with nomerous female virgin

McSaviour:
Is it good to marry someone who is older than me? Please I need good advice !!!

Get your ass to Swaziland (LESOTHO) or even Eritrea.
Beautiful decent virgins await you......

Thank me later Man

No shame at all.......
Spits......

Nigerian ladies will remain useless+stupid.
I feel pity on your future husband

Seb4luv1:
Please this is for those who lives in the following Countries, Switzerland, Holland and UK.

I am seeking to travel out for greener pasture, the agent I ed gave me an Options of the above listed Countries? Is there any hope of securing a stay in any of those countries without stress, either through Assylum or any other means. If yes, is getting a job a guaranteed? If yes, which country would you prefer for me. First its a budget of 2.5 to 3m and he said UK is 1.2m

Avoid UK pls

BonPatrick:
Good afternoon guys please my girlfriend of 4 months old dating doesn't want sex till marriage whenever she is Hot she ask for headjob( I should suck her pussy) and I am not happy about it. When I am in need of sex she gave me Mouth Action. I am not happy I can't wait till marriage I need to feel my woman but she is not letting me in. Should I sex else where?

Lord have Mercy

Qubrit1:
I am 29 years old. I met this wonderful calm girl last year November, shes 18 now.

Ever since we started our relationship, it has been wonderful. However, she's in school and still have 4 years left on her ticket.

Right now I'm not financially okay to have a marriage , although if I want a mediocre marriage. I think I'm financially capable to do that.

I have a long investment I'm looking at and also growing. In order words, by the time she finishes I believe my business would have grown and also be able to give me the lifestyle and marriage I desire (if God's will). But I'm scared and happy at the same time.
We must have heard stories of undergraduate girls who later Bleep men up on several occasions for one reason or the other.

Though there's no pressure from my family side, but who knows if there will be in the future.

I'm a Yoruba man.

I need your advice on this issue... Pls
Serious minded people

Thank you

OP, never you get entangled to a Nigerian girl.
Never Never Never

Ddrive:
Good morning house
This issue have been on me for long now and I don't know what else to do about it so please I need an advice.
I have been dating a lady for two years now and we actually plan everything together though she is off and on but I still stayed true to her, recently I noticed the changes in her like her sister confuses her that I am not the right man for her so she started calling her exes back and with her sisters backing who is not married she does the unreasonable.
With my understanding her mother is tribalistic because she controls them all.
I love this girl and wish to marry her but with this that I see around her and in her what do you suggest I do.
Please help me out.

A simp will always be recognised as a simp, No matter the advices

Got no advice to waste Man.

ademidedavid:
My greetings nairalanders,
I am married for 10years now and blessed woth 3 wonderful kids but my woman is a bit difficult.

To cut the long story short, i went out with a colleague on friday and due to the fact that the kids are on holiday, i took my wife along because she was already raising the roof bout my outing ( NOTE: I have never ever gone out without my family to avoid wife's palava).

On getting there, she complained i was looking at some ladies lustfully which was not at all.......just trying to figure out some important things in my head. After which she complained that i was drunk.....lo and behold i wasnt because i dont take beer, i only take red wine, bullet and spinnorf......which i took a red wine and bullet before leaving the house and also took 3 bottles of spinnorff ( I was never drunk with all of those)

Fast forward to today, i am very open with my finances guess one of my mistakes.........she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive even though i give her money for things she love like body cream, cloths and others but after all nagging, i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

i still cant place those words.....could it be out of anger or she actually mean the words for real?

Please help a heartbroken brother.

Nigerian ladies are useless+stupid, all of them...

To those that don't date Nigerian girls may the peace of the lord be with you and your household................
Amen!!!!!!!