NewStats: 3,261,381 , 8,173,848 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 05:29 AM 2o5w1q

Nbote:
Make God no go allow person marry wolf in woman's clothing

you no quick talk, the trap don hold me already

RIP Ma

I my people will mess it up. Black people are very weird creatures.

TruthHurts1:


How did a 12 year old acquire this type of demonic mentality?😭

This points to a huge parenting failure.

its a parenting success. the girl took after her parents.

This (excessive flogging) happens in most schools in Nigerian schools. The most painful part is that the school owners and her fellow teachers will cook up all sorts of stories in defense of the evil teacher. Government need to do more to stop this.

if layiwasabi see this one now...

this is very urgent i need past questions and answers of Nigerian universities. kindly assist in anyway you can.

please, somebody should help me with a site where i can get past questions of Nigerian universities.

kendrick93:
None.
Eto'o was better in the years Okocha had a claim.
Far better actually.
you are right, but dem go gree?

its not about the comment, most Nigerians are naturally uncultured especially on social media.

Chicagograduate:
You change his life from nothing to something Kwa!Were you the one that is playing the ball?Were you the one that introduced him to Manchester United owner that sign him? Giving him sex is not an achievement.

just fear women simple!

They have learnt a lot from the whole buhaha. i can guarantee that they will still jet out of this country in the next five years. Mark my word!

can anyone show me where to find remote jobs that accepts Nigerian applicants?

i once knew a girl who was always on her phone when she was with me but never with her phone when she was not at my place. she is now a ex.

Black people are so gullible.

The reason is very complicated.

cococandy:
D.I.V.O.R.C.E
H.E.R!!!!!

I don’t know what’s complicated about it.
If it’s that miserable a marriage what’s the point?

Divorce might be a selfish option, especially for men that desire a stable family environment for their kids. Society needs to identify and address the causes of situations like this.

olabrinks:
The question is.. why is the woman verbally attacking the man? Women don’t nag for no reason. There is peace when men act accordingly. They’re some women that have bad character, but a lot of times marriage brings out the beast in women. Let’s start from there.

Are you providing financially to your best capability?

Are you emotionally abusive ( keeping late nights, leaving the house without telling your wife, silent treatment etc)

Do you have ego/ pride issues where you can never it you’re wrong ?

Do you have addiction problems ? (Smoking, drinking, gambling, masturbation etc)

Are you a chronic cheat?

Do you help your wife with the care of your children or do you leave 100% responsibility on her?

Are you emotionally unavailable? ( you don’t show any type of affection to your wife/compare her to other women)


These are the main things that will bring out the beast in any woman. Check your character.

You are probably not married yet otherwise, you won't reason this way.

Nazgul:
I've come to understand that as you get older and more mature, you become responsible for your choices.

What you should know is that nobody suddenly becomes bad, they've been bad from day one. Just that you choose not to be observant.

The reality of this is that so many men these days marry for beauty and not character, as long as she's got a good àss, firm and properly rounded boobs and a pretty face, they're definitely going to make a fine couple.

So they don't care if she's saucy, or materialistic, or lazy, or a liar, or a chronic cheat...etc. As long as they were able to wife the pretty girl, they're good.

Sadly, as the years goes by, the woman's true nature becomes visible even to the blind, then they complain. The question I keep asking myself is that, at that point when the woman constantly torment them emotionally, does her boobs or àss mean anything to these men who would do just anything to leave their home for a moment's peace? Short answer...No

So make your choice based on common sense and character and not physical beauty and you'll enjoy your marriage.

It's not as straightforward as you make it seem. True, some men may fall into the category you have described but most are victims of the imbalance in the justice system, the refusal of the society to acknowledge the reality that men do suffer as much if not more than women in relationships and the persistent atmosphere of conspiracy against the "husband".

As a matter of urgency, we need to review the marital dispute resolution mechanism otherwise, we will soon find ourselves in an era where people shy away from ordinary boy/girlfriend relationship talk less of the more complex husband and wife dilemma.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

#Copied#

SILENT PAINS OF A HUSBAND

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husbands. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

When the aggressor plays the victim you know you are on a long thing.

All I can say is you just have to respect Tinubu even if you don't like or agree with him.

Nigeria is heavily tribalized. We are beyond redemption.

90% of what health workers do in Nigeria will land them lengthy prison in the western world.

They are so wicked, so evil.

At the end of the so-called investigation, the people responsible for this poor girl's death will escape the consequences of their negligence. Their colleagues will defend and cover them up. And the parents of the child will be asked to bear their loss.

Most Nigerians will prefer to insult their perceived opponents to submission rather than engage in fact-based argument.

ijustdey:
“The day I knew I didn’t have a future practicing medicine in Nigeria was the day I was almost beaten by a patient relative in…




https://tribuneonlineng.com/doctors-share-stories-of-attack-on-duty-in-nigerian-hospitals/

If Nigerian doctors carry their incompetence to Europe many of them will end up in jail.

Some years ago my beloved brother died in the hands of a careless and very arrogant doctor.

It's just like yesterday, the pain has not faded. The guy is gone forever.

At the time I wished I could kill the bastard, but I couldn't.

I don't feel sorry for this doctor or his family.

DivinegiftofGod:


You have not experienced that kind of cold that is why you're talking this way.

Do you know what it feels like living inside the freezer? Someone said she wears nothing less than seven clothings everyday before she can go to work yet the cold is still biting.
Can you be doing that stress everyday? How many clothes do you even have to be changing with seven everyday.?

We always think its better on the other side..

She's not serious. She didn't need to wear that much clothes, there are specific clothing designed for such weather.

revaultng:


How can i reach you?

I sent you a dm. You can send me your WhatsApp number.

The stuffs Andrew Tate said about this woman are simply shocking!

revaultng:
Hello.

I feel I’m impotent and I’m really worried. Extra worried. I’ve never had penetrative sex all my life and I’m 26. Since 2013, I’ve been a chronic masturbator. I felt it was safe since i read online that it had no side effect. So i felt I’m good till i was with my girlfriend. We tried having sex and I couldn’t penetrate her. I wasn’t hard enough. We tried several times again and it was the same thing. She broke up with me. Fast forward to February this year. I was with another babe, we linked up and tried to have sex but still the same thing. I felt I wasn’t attracted to her. Another in June and I wasn’t even erect one bit.

Then i got so worried. Went to the hospital, and the doctor said i was okay medically. Tried herbs and still didn’t feel confident. I read somewhere on nairaland where a guy saiid he used Zinc supplement. I’ve stopped masturbating. And I’ve been using the supplement too. But I’m really not convinced cos I don’t wake up with erections but when I’m awake, i get hard.

Please, I’m dying. I need help ������

I can help you. That is if the doctor said you medically ok.