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If all his wives should be side chick's, they sure are some exclusive side chick's that never slept with another man. Props to Ned, he knows what he wants and he went and got it, don't hate, congratulate, many men can't successfully accomplish the things he has for himself, stop judging him negatively because of his facial appearance or age.

With the numbers of lazy naija women and coded prostitutes doing hookup and short time/ long time on the rise, the number of virtuous women you can safely have a relationship with are dwindling. Nobody wants to claim a runs girl or ex runs girl/ashawo/ big girl and say that is his beloved, because once you've made that mistake thts when her observers and friends, social media and he say she say will bring up her true history "that big girl that married the governor, wasn't she the one that used to go to Dubai every month or so to replenish her funds?" Scariest thing to find out is that your babe had been wined and dined with faeces by Prince Mustapha Alhamdulilah bin laden, this is currently many Nigerian men's predicament. Nigerian women will do everything degrading for any amount of money making sense to them. The ones that will suffer the most are the attractive good women remaining, any man wooing them will be praying for the truth to come out and at the same time praying he doesn't hear one typical news flash about her, so men also avoid relationships and dating with good women (if you can't care for your basic needs and have had a sex transaction in whatever context, you aren't in the good women group im referring to, and by good women I mean beautiful women with virtue and still have clean reputations, below 3 body count etc. These women too are suffering the lack of men willing to fit their bills, sex in Nigeria is a business transaction in most cases whether from the streets or a so called gf that will leave or sleep with another man because he became broke catering to her. As with any transaction demand drops in times of economic hardship, and now even demand for prostitution has drastically decreased, women used to be bold enough to try and charge a stranger 100k b4 for one encounter, now they are cut between sticking to their delusional pride and going hungry, reducing her asking price to where the market has shifted to and right now very few will accept to pay 50k, they would rather find a cheaper alternative for 10k that looks just as good and can drain your balls. Both sex and relationships have taken the hit since, men were already beginning to conclude that most young ladies are into a form of prostitution, it just took the economy to reveal the minds of men physically. There's a global statistic saying in 2030 50% of all women 18+ will never have children or marry, this is because like Nigerian men, most men around the world are done with the majority of women, their demands and entitlements never made sense but when money was flowing men just focused on satisfying the urge, now that it's not men are realizing how many women are truly prostitutes masquerading as potential wives and gfs. I doubt that it is worse in America, but even there, the men have decided to renew their port and go overseas to countries with traditional women rather than deal with the vast number of low value sex workers (the so called normal women that aren't selling their sex in the streets). This problem is likely to get a bit steeper and women who openly it to being runs girls and prostitutes will be able to live off multiple customers, no longer will a self acclaimed good girl be able to demand for monetary gain without having to identify herself as a sex worker. Will this cause every woman not from a wealthy home to reveal their true sexual natures and all just become content with identifying as a sex worker just so the business can carry on even if they are exposed and their reputations take a hit, at least nearly every naija woman will become content with the derogatory names for their line of work, just to survive. Women of low virtue equate survival to prostitution and will not mind being truth full about her activities if it will earn her bread for another day. Meanwhile Nigerian men may follow suit with American men and start traveling abroad to find virtuous/traditional wives.

The reason may be due to high poverty and lack of humility and contentment, MOST Nigerian women are known sex workers or have recieved pay for sex, most also turn relationships into a money for sex exchange so they can cover up their whoring spirit. As for Nigerian men, men will be men, but i don't think we come close to American men whether they know how to knack or not. Anyways if you're looking for a virtuous lady to marry here, good luck, they are few, it's better to go to East African countries like Ethiopia, eritrea, somalia and egypt.

Leave it to Nigerians to disrespect a man for asking a real question, when there's a simple yes or no. Oh well that's how messed up we are in this jungle nation poverty turns formerly good ppl into disrespectful ppl if prolonged.

Are you very sure you're beautiful in other ppls eyes? Maybe you're not the guys spec or they are used to foreign babes or super models. I know that was my problem moving back to naija, i had been too used to being worshipped by the most beautiful women from around the world that when i returned my standards were way up high, too high for the average Nigerian babe. This caused me to be dissapointed because i didn't find the ladies here pretty enough till i forced my standards down."

You sound like a really young girl that still wants to have fun and mingle with guys at school, otherwise you'd understand your husband's jealousy and refrain from doing anything to make him jealous or even suspicious so he can be at ease with you, right now you are reaping the repercussions of the bad deeds other women have done to their men and your husband does not fully trust you yet, in fact arguing or resisting his decisions that deter you from keeping male friends only increase his suspicions and distrust. I would advice you to not listen to your female friends or women without a successful marriage till today for their advice, they will lead you astray and destroy your marriage, when loneliness, guilt and hardship set in your eyes will be clear. I won't judge you for choosing your life partner based on his money, but that is an irreversible mistake and there should be common sense to tell you a man that is ready made by himself can never trust a woman, he will always think they will leave when he has no money and their love is a lie, this is the case with all self made men, they will look at you like the cheap girls they are used to attracting very easily with flashy things. They are unforgiving. His monitoring you is well within his rights as annoying as it is because you are his woman, don't attempt to divorce him for a silly reason like him being full of jealousy, or distrust, if you walk out the marriage you are destroying the gift God gave you when he answered your prayers, and he will not give you another opportunity to break another innocent man's heart, you will be single for life or you will have to settle for what ever kind of man will accept you knowing you cannot maintain a commitment, walking out the marriage is the biggest mistake you can ever make. Accept that you are now a married woman who's duty is to satisfy and care for her husband and make sure you change your heart into one that will please him, don't let him see you looking sad or uneasy because of his love and jealousy or he will be affected emotionally too and will never trust you. Face forward and build a future with your man and don't look back at the things single women do, you have crossed that bridge already, don't go back or you will lose what you prayed for, you are not losing out on anything right now, in reality you have a treasure the devil wants to use your emotions to steal from you.

Sorry bro, normal 9-5 working class women can be a bad mistake not to talk about a video vixen, models, actresses, loving such a girl can be a fatal mistake especially if she's beautiful. Even if she stops, the streets will com searching for her and enticing her, she can never stay faithful through a rough financial season as she will probably have dated for money and benefits before. Also what will you do if she decides to stop until you marry her, then she goes right back to it? Are you ready for a divorce before you've even married? You're complaining already that she doesn't love you well, what will happen when the stress of marriage or motherhood hits her? she will look for a way to cope from her old lifestyle, be it drugs, alcohol, a boyfriend or divorce. Today most women are defiant rude or rebellious when you put your foot down as the man in any situation, or make rules she doesn't like even if they are the best for your family, are you ready to endure insults, low key disrespect and blatant rebellion after numerous talks and counseling sessions without filing for divorce?
Deep in your heart you know the answer, sharp guys judge them based on their actions, morals and personality and will have taken a slice or two of her pie and left, a recurring theme in most independent women's lives, including vixens. Too many reasons to not get unequally yoked, even if you overlook her history in the industry, your friends and family, colleagues, business associates, etc that have seen her before will lose respect for you if she is your wife, but will hail you if she's a side piece or fling. It's sad, but wisely choose to endure the temporary heartache, remain friends at a distance but NEVER MARRY HER! respect yourself, you can never change an adult.

Yeah, the whites gave Nigeria and Niger their names cos they were in the same region. They intended to use the name nigger area to describe the west African civilization from whence most of the black American slaves were taken from, the French colonized Niger and turned it into Nigér.

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If shes Nigerian count me out

why tho?

no it's not, but at least if it's a serious relationship, text her everyday

because most of them come from poor backgrounds with poor social skills, and they don't want to be exposed as lower grade hence all the make up, fake stuff and bad attitude. At the end of the day 1 brother somewhere gon take her down for the team and dump her, the classic pump and dump.

Wow good luck to you ma'am you cheated on a man from one of the best if not best black nations in of drive, values, family, providing and a rich African heritage & culture despite all the bad rap about fraud and cc scams. They come from and build the most stable homes compared to Europeans and Americans as long as the man is given the crown and the woman gets the scepter and wilfully submits. I'm going to be brutally honest with you, Nigerian men never forgive cheating even if they do so themselves, they almost believe it's their right as long as they are playing their role and not bringing any other woman around his family and their abode or even mentioning her name to avoid natural female jealousy, and as long as they don't biblically commit adultery, but it's still wrong technically but ancient times married men made a provision for themselves to stay away from prostitutes. So back to topic, now you see the depth of what cheating on a man means, you've taken his crown and put it on another man's head, he his no longer your king, the other man or men are. So apart from giving his woman a permanent bad label, he gets no respect from other men that know about it and still see you both together, even with American men, they clown men that "couldn't control they woman" or " he's lacking so his wife got a boyfriend". The Shame on the man amongst other males especially alpha and sigma males is too deep to forget and will take forever to heal if it ever does. That's why men say once a woman cheats there's no bond existing, in ancient days and some countries today the woman would be stoned to death or beaten with a cane till her back was red and raw and dripping. It was and is the mightiest disrespect every where but the west. The best you can do is hope for a platonic friendship after sincere apologies and do your best to move on with your life. If he's just exaggerating and you were thinking it was just a convenient fling, then hold your head high, you did no wrong but then again you both are married with a kid, didn't you draw no borders when deciding to marry to help him with his citizenship? Now it got you looking bad. He'll never love you or trust you again like before and will take every opportunity to pay you back each time you commit a small offense or talk back to him, you'll in essence have to become the perfect wife from then on if there is to be any hope, and you'll have to keep it up for a considerable length of time talking about years. I don't know about modern western women being able to humble themselves that much for any reason. But if you decided to try, make no more excuses own the mistake, let your actions show your intentions, initially they may be met with disgust, but keep it up and he'll soften and you'll be friends again, keep it going and you'll be a couple again. BTW I assumed youd let pride get in the way and you will not be able to go thru the humbling process for the time necessary to win him back, that's why I said it was over already and he'll never forgive. Good luck sister

Modern women even Christian women are quick to reject scriptures and the validity of their faith if it doesn't conform with their emotional needs, little do they know that Satan was the very first feminist, he rebelled against the boss and inspired women to pervert God's plan for male female intimacy, in reality true feminism is a plot to use women's emotions to steal joy from their lives and destroy any potential they once had for a thriving marriage, first the woman reflects the man's God given authority, rejects herself as being the complement to the man, and she destroys everything desirable about herself to men, but they wonder why they are so angry and bitter, a real woman needs a man to lead and protect her physically and emotionally, while she exchanges the her softness sweetness, kindness, submissive and caring personality for his masculine essence and energy, a true feminist has learned not to fall again for the devil's lie that she will become like God through knowledge, but are now reaching for what the devil has deceived them is a much more attainable goal, to be like man. Feminists in essence are hypocrites, they want only the perks they believe should come with feminism, but non of the less desirable factors that come with being a man. Being equal to God is being God, being equal to a man is being a man, no normal man wants to be with another man.

Most Nigerian women have deeply rooted insecurities about being abandoned or dumped, they try and hide such behind the mask of self sufficiency and fake superiority to hide the things that make them feel inferior, such women in an effort to remain calm on the exterior try to kill their natural drives such as love and care, they open themselves up for varying degrees of demonic attack by being heartless. All she really wants is to be valued, but her insecurities will never let her express her true feelings, all of this is displayed as self destroying pride. There are some women that will realize when they have messed up for too long and even if there's no chance will quickly run back to their man and humble themselves at last, though it may or may not be too late, they have at least been able to conquer a trait that sets them up to be God's enemies, as God detests the proud, no exceptions, so they may be too late to win back a loving man, but may be granted another opportunity at love because she humbled herself and tried from the bottom of her heart to get things right. Also though, there are the greatest tragedy of them all, the woman who will go to the grave with all her pride, never say sorry, never try to fix things, sorry to say, such a woman has been cursed by her actions and may never know the love again, she will become everything she dreaded to be seen as, weak, hopeless and lost, lonely after destroying a good relationship because she refused to let her man be the boss. Such women are to be avoided by men and even women at all cost, they are wasters of years of their own lives and a little of the lives of their partners, they are dead inside, they are caged in spiritual prison of pride and can not be freed, only a strong deliverance ministry and thorough apologies and repentance to all she took for granted and repaid evil for good. Truly all things are possible through God, but to avoid wasted love, time and money, avoid such women and men, does she find it hard apologising after she offends you because she feels justified? Does she always feel she's right? Does she argue for the sake of argument only to become upset and unapologetic if proven to be wrong? Does she repay her man's heartfelt gestures with a non chalant attitude like his effort was no big deal? Does she lack the ability to make her man feel loved? Does she act heartless and uncaring? Finally does she laugh off the grave consequences of her pride and attitude justifying herself by her own standards only for the truth to catch up to her and her pride to destroy her and all she has? Run far from such a person, they are specially oppressed cases and need urgent spiritual attention not a relationship, they are not fit for love and can not show love, nor do they crave love, they are walking dead. This applies to both sexes, the walking dead can not smell their rotting carcass until all is lost, they can not take advice even if they tried to change their ways and will never be able to fully make ammends and move forward in life because her pride is her god!

I dnt think beggarly ladies know or even care about what begging men that are not their relatives for money makes them look like or makes men see them as, if they cared most women would immediately stop begging, we automatically assume such a woman is unproductive and a liability to date and also assume that she begs other men for money and puts herself in hoish situations for money, and so if she's pretty we cancel any thought of making her a wife or committed gf, and most men will just want to make her pay for the money with her body since she has nothing of value about her that can earn her money. Why not beg other women like yourselves for money if there's no sexual connotation? Must it be men?
I would personally chastise my sister or daughter God forbid she did such a shameful thing. Some not all Women send the message that they come from poverty hence there's no shame to be felt begging for their very livelihood, but who from both genders respects or wants to date a beggar anyways?



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You guys are always quick to run a lady down but forget that you yourselves are also beggers , even though I don't begging guys for Money and your post is only true when its extreme just as your story implies .[/quote]

you will get married to the female version of you, you can't claim to want what you don't deserve.No promiscuous man should desire a virgin period

That's actually false, good and nice guys get avoided by bad girls and good girls alike, till women wisen up and stop running after rich men the good girls will always end up with bad guys that have slept with and keep sleeping with multiple women due to the money/power they have that removes the common sense of most females including virgins when they smell it from a distance. Money power trumps p***y power everytime. This sucks but its women that despise good character but celebrate money regardless of where it came from, you never hear a girls mother tell her "make sure you marry a godly self respecting man" instead they teach their daughters "don't pay any man attention that cant buy anything for you" thus women spread hoism to their innocent offspring.

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Thank yuh, we've heard that u now have a china laptop and nnewi black berry

any other thing to tell us

You 100% must be the kind of beggarly female in question, how did you take offence and begin dissing him about his belongings if he didn't offend you and what he said about beggar females didn't strike a nerve? My point exactly, you too are a begging ass female.

Not all Nigerian women are unattractive, even though it seems like most are, you have to take into the climate, extreme poverty and the fact that the few beautiful women usually have children by rich unattractive men like Tinubu or Obasanjo for financial security rather than go for love, naturally those men on their features to their daughters that's why they look so masculine, African women usually look like their fathers, handsome fathers breed beautiful children likewise the opposite. Try not to generalise, yes many are not what we typically call attractive but not all, when a Nigerian woman is fine she is fiiiine and can stand in league with women from across the world, the real ugliness lies in the character, a great number are deceitful, lazy, ungodly, proud for nothing clear to see, arrogant and sadly never learn from the mistakes of older women and so its easy to predict the mistakes they'll make and behaviour in any testing situation because their pride and emotions overwhelm them and deactivates their common sense, after they've called down their pride will not allow them make amends they'd rather die with their pride than live a good life in humility, its amazing how something with no value rules over them. They conveniently blame their shortcomings on men because like they say "he will still cheat" meanwhile men everywhere else cheat but their women dnt use that as an excuse to be rotten. On the other hand just like everywhere, we have our rare gems and true Queens that despite their beauty are filled with humility and are hardworking wifey materials. If you find a good Nigerian woman looks and character wise you've found one of the best in the world.