NewStats: 3,261,678 , 8,174,742 topics. Date: Friday, 30 May 2025 at 05:32 AM 4f1h2t

Onyi22:

Where will I even start, anywhere let me cut it short.
I dump his useless broke ass because he couldn't meet up with my financial standard.
He's tall, handsome,with well -bulit body, but his pocket was very dry as Dry Gin, so I dump the idiot for good

Pls don't tell me am wicked, is just that I don't deal with Broke men

And you stay in an uncompleted apartment. You are broke and don't deserve a rich guy. I hate it when broke girls think they should even date a guy in the first place.

You are the one that is actuallydull, if not he couldhavebeenableto relate things with you
Nsikak.

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.

I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.

I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .

I'd like to know what you think

i love you

MissWrite:
I would return it.

numbered days

Kellibae:
yes igbo man all the way . at worst i go with edo men

tafrica:


Haba, I don't encourage jungle justice. Infact I hate beating kids let alone kill people, but you can't deny my arguement; you can't catch a thief wanting to steal 7 iphones in a place like computer village and be given fair beating like this or even allowed to sit on the chair. This is a reality in our country. This guy is a probably a known figure (Seun Egbengbe as claimed), that is why he hasn't received more gruesome treatment.

#NoToJungleJustice

e go better

sheedy407:
My bday was better than this because I celebrated it with the best Naija Gin which is Chelsea

i am sure you are part of those that encourage jungle justice to smaller thieves, madam thief na thief!

tafrica:
I think it's Seun Egbegbe. If the thief was just a common thief, he would have been stripped naked, beaten to gulp. You can't treat a thief that stole 7 iphones like this in Com Village (letting him sit on the chair, with clothes on him). This thief was given lil or fair beating probably because he is a known figure.

slight resemblance but tht isn't him

sar33:
I don't know how true this story is but according to the information shared by bodexng on IG,Toyin Aimakhu’s ex-boyfriend Seun Egbegbe was caught in Computer Village,Lagos while trying to run away with stolen Iphones.Below is what bodexng wrote...

'Exclusive/Breaking: Seun Egbegbe was caught in computer village while escaping with stolen 7 Iphones
Eye witnesses said he came into keelcech innovations store in computer village, took two latest iphone 7 and seven iphone 6 plus and told the sales girl he is/was coming and then crossed to enter a taxi
It was after he left it was done on one of the sales rep that someone packed phones so they rushed and caught up with the thief and behold it is/was our controversial Seun Egbegbe
At the process, he gave one of his staff the lastest iPhone 7 and that staff escaped but seun was caught
He was beaten and he begged that nobody should take his picture. As we post this, he is currently at the police station'

Further reports from PorscheClassy and  i-reporter revealed that Egbegbe came to Computer village with some guys in a jeep around 10:30am pretending that he wanted to buy 7 iPhone 6s and 2 iPhone 7 mobile phones.He went into the phone store ‘Kaalcech Innovations and Consultancy’ located on number 9 medical road, computer village, ikeja and requested for nine iPhones, he pretended to be ready for payment after the phones were delivered to him only for him to elope into the waiting jeep before the the sales girl screamed for help.The noise which attracted sympathizers, helped as they gave Egbegbe a hot chase and eventually caught up with him before he could find his way out of computer village.

He was beaten to pulp by the angry mob before the store’s MD, Mr Kolawole Aleshinloye quickly informed the police who came and whisked him away to Area F Police station where he’s currently been detained.

Is there anybody in Computer Village who can confirm the authenticity of the story?


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2016/11/toyin-aimakhus-ex-boyfriend-seun.html

no

BossNixanda:
With the present situation of things in Nigeria now, almost all ladies simply need an already made guy with everything they can imagine like house, cars, swag, six packs, pink lips and just keep naming it all.
Out of the list above I have none but a caring heart, ambition, potentials and the fear of God.

Does my type still have the chance of finding true love anymore in this Nigeria with the way ladies are now or would I just be hoping for just the ones that are desperate because their time is running out?

mine is stupid, i broke up with her

phlamesG:
I'm a young man in his early twenties. I've been going out with this particular girl for close to a year now.
I can tell that she loves me, and don't get me wrong I love her too, I mean she's very beautiful and well endowed in the right places, she's also a good cook and good in bed. But my worry is that she's too obtuse and uninteresting. Whenever we're having a conversation or discussion she doesn't make meaningful contributions to the topic, sometimes her contributions are not well thought out and when she says them it makes her sound dumb. My friends have even given her a nickname 'mumu'. Whenever they want to ask of her, they be like "Charlie® that your mumu girlfriend dey"?
I am kinda afraid to introduce her to my parents so she won't embarrass me. My parents are very particular about the kind of girl I bring home, and trust my dad he's going to bombard her with a barrage of questions. She's also not interested in global happenings around the world or within the country or even recent developments. What really sparked my ire was the just concluded USA elections. I calling her and teasing her as to who will win the elections, trump/Clinton, but I was dismayed by her response " who is trump?" I was totally dumbfounded, how can someone who isn't an illiterate not have an inkling about 'trump'. I'm not saying i know all about the elections, I wasn't even interested in the USA elections because I already knew it was all mere propaganda, but nevertheless I kept up to speed.
Her further response killed my vibe "what concern me with trump? Is he going to give me a role as a telemundo actress?"(she's obsessed with telemundo btw,which brings me to my next point)
She so much loves telemundo and zee world, the only concise narration she can give is the breakdown of an episode of zee world. It's breaks my heart because I love her and want to marry her in the nearest future, and I don't want our kids to turn out to be morons.
Conversations with her are so boring, she basically adds nothing to the topic of discussion. Our time together is mostly spent on long silences

I need only positive responses please...

ugly like ur paleh

chiwetaluAGU:


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/11/sad-nigeria-run-old-ideas-iyabo-obasanjo/

you the one born stupid

Caleycash:
which useless hero?!... his born stupiid, how can you the military when you er the only child of your poor parents?!, Nawa oo

like seriously read your comment again

haywire07:
Theh hav buried his mates last week, he will hav to wait for d next batch


*modified*
To all dos THINGS quoting me to say I have no respect or manners for d dead , I hope he has dashed you his gun and uniform since u have manners

Eyin werey

dear it is scary

MizTyna:


Exactly oh! It happens to me a lot when I'm tired or about to have malaria

Soberdrunk, you sir are wicked! Hehehe. Amoxil won't be bad too

it is so annoying

MizTyna:


Exactly oh! It happens to me a lot when I'm tired or about to have malaria

Soberdrunk, you sir are wicked! Hehehe. Amoxil won't be bad too

unclezuma:

You go school...

it is called sleep paralysis
it has been happening since the AD S

wellstryme:
At around 1:05am I was on nairaland when I heard my shout in Jesus name leave. I was so scared I called on my mum; she told me to go and check up on him, I asked my half brother to follow me, though he was very much just walking with his eyes close, when we entered his room my mum ed us and he said his head felt heavy and he saw someone trying to lift his mosquito net up to touch him, that he only managed to speak the name of Jesus. Is this spirit gone, cause I use to watch movie @ night in the sitting room now am so scared.

marry whoever you waant,if na rich man go do am go ahead, if na cucumber go do am, so be it

shame

Goldpen:
An aborted foetus was found in Mother of Jesus The Saviour hostel (girls' hostel) in Madonna University (Elele campus) on Tuesday, The Bug learnt.

Medical students who examined the terminated child said it was about 5 months in the belly of the mother before being removed.

See photos below (more info and pictures via the link below).

http://www.thebugcampus.com/2016/11/aborted-baby-found-in-madonna.html?m=1

rubbish nonsense bullcrap punkish

sai buhari

really ?

HelenBee:
smh...Yahoo, Tattoo , sports betting, pornography ,celebrity gossips and social trend, has made the Nigerian youth a little less than a fool. We know nothing, we create nothing. This na pesin 'roles model' o.

can we cheat on your boyfriend together

ItsQuinn:
Cheating is normal! I don't know why people take it personally? ....I don't understand *French accent*

Igbo peeps ehn

ammyluv2002:
Her tears not mine!

people are dead today so you can live, i hope you don't feel that was for nothing

THUNDER4real:
O ya go and die ...FOR NOTHING

it is a pant of honour

mikron:
according to joseph dosu on facebook-

joseph dosu on facebook

if everybody no who will

THUNDER4real:
I wonder why people will still the Nigerian army now: you will lose your live and still no compensation for the family left behind....

no

Baddchristy:
Can one be disqualify because of dental issues like one missing a tooth

Brave

trendyprettygir:
Saw this somewhere and decided to share:

Brb to state mine!

are you gay? even if you aren't you just sounded like one. This guy deserves an award , didnt she say her friend were gonna go watch the movie with or without him. is he their father? Abeg Abeg Abeg? make you park well

Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashirus!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised )

I knew it!!!! I talk am!!!! Bashirus never fail to disappoint! 23 BASHING mentions in just 20 mins!!! Gush!!! Guys dey Para o0o!! (Mumu guys I mean)

Buh some guys can be so foolish just to bring cover their shame o0oo!! So cos she didn't say "can my friends come with me and you'll pay for their tickets" now means he's exonerated from any allegations??!! C'mon fellas!

Olamide came on stage and was hitting on the organisers of a particular event. He never mentioned Don Jazzy buh we all knew (including The Don himself) that he was referring to Don baba Jay! Why??!! It's an IMPLIED STATEMENT kiddos!!

She needn't mention the paying of tickets part to the boy na.... since he agreed that she bring her friends along, then he should know what that implies!!

"Honey, my friends wants to US in seeing the movie, are you comfortable with that?" Guys make una sef give unasef some level of respect na....If she wasn't matured enough to tell her friends NO, he should be matured enough to do that!!
In Psquare voice "no start watin you no go finish, I no be George Finidi, oh oh!!"

This is what i expect from every Nigerian guy> put them in their Fu(ken place!!!