NewStats: 3,263,761 , 8,181,311 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 07:07 PM 6s392u

Prettiepearlz:
Wow, this is too much, I can't condone this. Haba! Two of her friends. The guy is a serial cheat. She needs to teach him a big lesson and dump his sorry ass. The girls too, dem no try ooooooooo, I am sure both of the cheating girls doesn't know that Lanre is screwing them both, they will both be feeling special in a stupid way. I can't date a married man not even for all the gold in this world, because I can't share. Nonsense. She should get tested and then plan carefully

I laughed at the bolded. Am sure your boyfriend will be laughing now. Nobody wanted to share his or her spouse with anybody. But the truth of the matter is that many are in this same mess unknowingly.

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Thanks in advance.

Symphony007: According to the government, the ebola virus is under control save all primary and secondary s of the patrick sawyer incident, no other case has been reported or confirmed in any other part of the country, so I don't see the reason for cutting short what will already be a short and confusing school year in 2015 with the elections...this just reminds me of the government shutting down schools in 2010 for "voters registration". Totally unnecessary.

Nigerians with double mouth. If resumption was not postponed and 2 or 3 pupils ed d disease, You and ur cohorts will be d first to come to internet and tell us how incapable our president and his ministers are.

Federal Government had taken the best step and I commend them for that. Bear it in mind that when there is life, there is hope.

Ghana that only recorded 1 case of ebola postponed resumption date and u pple are here talking rub.bish.

Phonon: When they want to buy buses for campaign or for government use, they buy Toyota buses. When they want to buy buses that they or their cronies won't use, they go and buy Shin Fu or Li Chan buses that will crumble after a few months. Mtschewww.

Though I was the only one that noticed that oo ... Use.less mofos

vict505: Well there are some solutions and the two solution that are commonly use now are :- 1 through IVF an 2 Evacuating and testing method. The evacuating method is a process where by the couple will go for test to know if the baby that the wife is carrying is SS or AS and once the baby is SS they will Evacuate the pregnancy and that is what that will keep on doing till they have AS or AA cos they both have chances of 25% of AA and AS while they both have 50% chances of SS.

Hmmmmmmm as good and easy it sounds, the risk is still there. One family did such and after 5 abortions, the husband ran away from the wife got married to anothe young AA lady. Where do u think the former wife will start from at age 32?

flyingdutchman: I read so so many comments from my fellow Nigerans and I could only reach one conclusion (sadly)- Nigerians don't do Research. We only hang on to information we had by chance over the 9'O Clock News. WHY DON'T YOU FOR ONCE MAKE USE OF GOOGLE Even Nigerian Medical Doctors are as ignorant as the Nigerians outside the Practice. I once had a debate with two Mdeical Doctors working in a Specialist Center, the result? They now have a broader perspective of things FOR 1.2 - 2.2 MILLION NAIRA, YOU CAN HAVE A CHILD, TWINS TRIPLETS AND EVEN QUADRUPLETS WHO ARE SICKLE-CELL FREE, IN JUST ONE SINGLE PGD PROCESS. THE REST OF THE EMBRYO FORMED CAN BE FROZEN FOR FUTURE USE Google "BOURNE PGD center", or MEDICAL ART CENTRE IKEJA, there are over 150 of such centers in the world today.
Stop deceiving yourselves with Permutations and Combinations. Oya, only the deep thinkers will appreciate this piece.

I strongly disagree with you. In as much as technology has advanced, dont forget the financial consequences. How many pple can pay 2million for wotever remedy available wen u can jejely avoid it. Stop deceiving pple and say the bitter truth.

deavicky: you will never know till u feel the pain. Presently, I'm facing the same situation. I ve what takes to get another lady at anytime I want, but I still feel the pain of trying to break a relationship with the best girl I ve ever known just because of this AS stuff. Prey u shouldn't be in such situation.

As difficult as it may be to walk away from the relationship, I bet you, if u do, it will be the best decision u ever took in ur life.

ENDTIMES: I had the same experience when I wanted to marry, I was in love with an AS gal, but reason told me it's not an option as the fate of any sickle cell child produced from such union will hunt you forever.

I disengaged from the relationship and in less than 6 months God gave me an AA damsel, my wife today and the wisest decision I have ever taken in my life.

Faith in God is also about understanding when some things are not possible or meant for you and your ability not to waste your time on them, only then will the Almighty work his magic in your life!

Good decision u took there. I ended my 7yrs relationship cos of genotype issue. Though it was very painful to walk out of such relationship, but I must tell u, it was d best decision I took then. Today, she is happily married with twins and me too, with my adorable daughter.

WARNING: NO SANE AS's SHOULD MARRIED EACH OTHER. IT IS LIKE DELIBERATELY JUMP INTO WELL WEN NOBODY IS AROUND TO RESCUE YOU.

lestat:

@OP if you are even considering this then you are an idiott!!!! i am so pissed whenever i see Nigerians asking this question!!! you know the truth yet its as if you are looking for someone to lie to you!!

Nigerians really are funny.. Its like a guy who constantly has unprotected sex asking what are his options against HIV!!!!!!

The only reason two mentally sane AS people would get married is because they are very wicked, selfish, sociopaths who care for no one but their self gratification!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Face the reality and stop dreaming!! tomorrow after your child is suffering you will be going from church to church saying your enemy is afflicting you

I WISH PPLE WILL USE THEIR BRAIN AND NOT BRING PAINS UPON UNBORN BABIES COS OF THEIR SELFISH INTEREST

berem: If you are gonna have four kids,one of the kid is going to be a sickler. Two will be carriers and one normal:


AA AS AS SS

Its likely the fourth child will be the sickler but its not in all cases

The interpretation is not correct. Wot it simply means is that AT LEAST ONE OUT OF FOUR CHILDREN WILL BE SS. IN ORDER WORDS, TWO, THREE, OR ALL COULD BE SS.

So, the best thing is to avoid such marriage cos d love u claim now will not be able to hold d marriage wen the problem begins. Besides, it is an act of selfishness and such child/children will not forgive such parents. God gave all of us brain, so lets use it wisely.

ITbomb: Sometimes I notice some parent attitude,
You condone a child's rascality, saying he would outgrow it, then you dump him in some pampered centre called private school, then after failing JAMB repeatedly, you decided to shipped him to a private university, then you expect him to learn Bible principles at university level.

Prof Soludo did say something, he said, "If primary school did not mould a child and secondary school could not shape him, there is nothing the university can do".

Exactly my problem with all these private schools. Teachers don't beat, scold or shout/yell at students. Even some parents will even ask the school to sack a teacher cos he used ruler to beat a student. Can u imagine that? All what some parents believe is that once dey put their children in expensive school .. all will be fine without performing their parental role to instill discipline in their children especially during the formative years. The funny things is that some cults that were rusticated from public university will still find their ways into private university and their parents will believe they will change. Like Bishop Oyedepo said sometimes ago during parents forum that parents should endeavour to train their children cos Covenant university is not a [b]REHABILITATION [/b]centre and any student found wanting will be sent home. The earlier parents take dis serious, the better for them and society at large.

May the Soul of the SAN rest in Peace.

mysticgal: We have one in our church who even beats him in the church whenever he declines her requests, hin to love her,you wan to know what pastor advice was"kick the devil out of her"the day he did she came running almost unclad crying pls beg him for me i swear i will not try touching him and today God be praised she is a silent bulldog.

Ldtmbfh .... Honestly, I gbadun ur pastor no be small.

@ Poster.. As for the guy, He himself need to be cured of "mumuology" How can a man fold his arm and allow his wife to be beating him? A bi the wife don use jazz ni?

Tell ur friend to beat hell outa her worthless life. The thing dey vezz me sef .. rubbish.

The topic is misleading. The guy didnt leave banking job to become truck driver. He was out of job cos he got married to a colleague which is against the banking policy.... But at the same time, I salute his courage and I wish him well.

infolekan:

It could have happened to anybody in this sense is not painting this sa picture.....the whole story is about the breach of trust. Can't count the number of ladies that I've met in chat rooms hat have been over to my place...& the number of friends that I met on  & fb.
This is what we all do on a daily basis & throwing stones won't help when we all live in glass houses.
Her travelling to Lagos to hook up with a guy for fun(if that's what it was all about) isn't the strange part to me, we all do it everyday. The strange part is the part where someone lures you over so that he can do away with person. Now that's a whole new dimension to the whole story.

@ Bolded,

Because you and I plus many others had done this in one time or the other in the past does not justify this risky act. So, say the truth so that others can learn from it.

Bams95: whats your business if she had vibrator with her?you all have things you do in hidden places.that she came to lagos with vibrator does not mean she died as a sinner.do u know if God was so merciful to her that she was able to repent when she discovered she had no chance of making it alive.You are not her CREATOR.so stop judging her.

Where and how did I judge her?

Ileke-IdI:


Plz, which one is romance-machine

@ Ileke-idi

Na weting u ladies dey take help urself .... vib.rator

na2day!:

Yes o!
With a vibra.tor!

Vibrator na her bible wey she dey read.... May God forgive her

RIP Cynthia.

hbk001: Die az a xtian,,,really?Die az a xtian,,,really?Die az a xtian,,,really?

Abeg help me ask the priest

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1one: Why not just break up the relationship,and go fix urself...honestly i don't know why some of us guys act so funny(trust me I could have used another word in place of "funny"...it's just too early to start with those toxic words).
What is in a relationship that some of us just run into like a brakesless train(watch the movie unstoppable..u'll get a clearer picture).

You're a man,ur first responsibilty,ur first desire,ur first goal in life should not be a woman,it sd be in defining ur self,achieving ur life goals,being financially secure!!!....Before God brought Eve to Adam,Adam had a job(he was tendering the garden).

I don't even know what a man is doing in a relationship without a job,love is not about money,but money gives expression to love,u need money to properly express love

So dude,My advice is simple...tell her u want to let her go considering the fact that u don't have enough financial weight to bear her needs.

If she's yours,she'll stay and temper her lifestyle to suit ur present circumstance atleast till when u're more financially bouyant.

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From your response, it is as good to say guys should not venture into relationship untill they are gainfully employed? What about all the high schools runs/relationships that turned good after years of perseverance? Does it means you didnt not have a girlfriend when you were in high school?

Anyway, I think the ideal thing is for a guy to be in a relationship when he was nobody. thats when you can truly know who really loves you. Have you heard that genuineness of a lady/wife is tested when her boyfriend/husband has nothing while that of a man is tested when he has everything?

I started my own relationship immediately after my service year when my monthly salary was N15,000. It was hardly enough for me let alone having surplus to give her anything... but guess what, she stood by me. She encouraged me that I will get better job. She insisted we do vigil on phone (thanks to Zain family and friends package) everyday for at least 1 hour.

Summarily, relationship should not be based on financial gains..but companionship.

Super1759: bros.why you betting your life on this kinda of matter.its like its not precious to you.just keep watching and don't judge by the past.mind you.nigerians aint sleeping anymore.

Bros... I salute ur faith... but what will Nigerians do? Do you think anybody will go on the street to demonstrate again? If you still doubt it, ask the families of those who lost their lives during subsidy saga..they will all have stories to tell... Whether you like it or not, nothing will come out of this. Am not saying nobody will be prosecute ooooo, but it may just be 1 or 2 companies that doesnt know anybody in power or that has fallen short of the favour of the power that be and that can not be called justice

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. I cant believe this is happening in my dear country where 95% of the population are living below $1 per day. What a wasteful government. SMH!!!

Thanks everybody for ur responses. More expected.

Beaf:

GEJ can nominate any qualified person for the post, but chose to nominate her and give us our first ever female CJN.
My last post contains the letter GEJ sent to the senate. Please read it (and follow through with the relevant sections of the constitution that are quoted).

By the way, why do you think you should see GEJ in her profile, is he her husband or dad?

Beaf...u gooved at the bolded. GEJ can not nominate anybody, but the most senior justice of the supreme court. Had it been Justice Muktar had accepted her secondment to Gambia, then another most senior Justice could be nominated.

acidtalk: you dey craze for head.
Why you no write or others for Church.

When dem dey share thing, them go call Akpa, Effiong, Nduka, Alli, Yinka, Okoro,....when e reach your turn, na "and others dem go talk".

Weere! Alakori!! Omojatijati!!! Oyianrah.

LWKMDFHOOOOOO .... bro na fight? cant stop laughinggggg

jay bee:
Why would she want to harm you if she agrees to spend time away from her husband?

He wanted to abscond from home without telling his wife ... do u get it now?

jay bee: If i was in your shoes, i will only agree to help in these circumstances:
They have both agreed to spend time away from each other

He has a detailed short term plan on how to get himself out of the financial/emotional mess

Everyone is in the know that me accepting to help temporarily is not because I'm encouraging him but because they have tried all attempts to solve whatever issues that they may have and it hasn't worked.

Thanks for your candid opinion. If I allow him to come to my house, dont you think his wife will not take it easy with me and if truly his wife belongs to secret group, dont you think I might be prone to attack? Honestly, am scared.

A childhood friend of mine got married some years back and God had blessed the marriage with a set of twins, 2 lovely boys. Before the marriage, things were not too Rossy. It was "off and on" and after the wedding, it was not different either. My friend believed that his misfortune was due to some family problems may be witches in the family. I didnt know why he came to this conclusion. I guess he might have gone for some spiritual consultation, that I dont know.

Like I said earlier that things didnt get better after marriage but worse off. Another friend of ours lately told me that the friend in question will not make headway in life unless he leaves his wife. They are somehow closer than me and I guess they have also gone for some consultations. I asked him why and he said the witches in his family deliberately allow them to marry each other so that they can use her (the wife) as a medium to exert more havoc on the guy. From this analogy, I wanted to believe that the wife is also part of the evil society.

Last nite, I got a call from my friend and he said he wanted to come and leave with me for some time. I asked why he wanted to leave his wife and 2 kids, he said I wont understand until he explains to me. I pleaded with him, but he insisted.

As for me, I wont subscribe to that act of abandoning his family. I believe there are many ways things could be sorted out. My dilemma is that he should have opted to stay with the other friends of ours since they were closer to each other. Two of them are not graduate due to financial constraint. Also, the other friend lives in a room apartment, though single (face to face) However, I'm a graduate by His grace and I live in a 3 bedroom apartment. Am also single.

If you are in my shoes, what will you do? Will you allow him to leave his family and live with you?

Please, this is a true life story, I need sincere opinion.

Note: I will see him on Saturday (Tomorrow) and I must know what to tell him. Presently, am confused

For me, renting/leasing is not for me. I will pray to God to help me and I will buy a brand new one for my jewel. I want to see her that day and be happy. Left for my wife to be, she will prefer renting/leasing. She even suggested we go for low level/key wedding maybe just going for engagement and registry and then pastor's blessing the following sunday in the church, but i refused. It is going to be my best day and I will make sure it is. Though, I wont break bank for it, moderation is my key word. When I told her that I'd gone around to make enquiry for the gown, she was curious to know the amount. When I told her the range, she was of the opinion that we should not buy it... but, I'd made up my mind to buy cos I wont rent/lease my own wedding suit. I must buy new one even if I av millions suits.

AFOLABISUNKANMI: If that Is how God want it to be for her then congratulation funke at least you have husband at last, if not she should think twice, love may be there but polygamous family is a threat on his own, funke is actress why this guy is oshodi boysssss.. Mmm actreses end up most in this type of marriage or even ended worst. Divorce and so on.

This is not God's plan for any lady to be wife number 3. I'am highly disappointed in her. I dont know why pple stoop so low. A graduate of her caliber getting married as wife number 3 to a glorified illiterate cos of money ... That means she can open her toto for dog if it involves money... yeye girl.

Whymee: Girls (expecially christians) will prudently champion any debate relating to polygamy, stating categorical statement she will never marry or date married man.
These are even reasons for some of them converting to Christianity.
But on the long run, if Mr right MONEY show face, it's a different debate entirely.

Not all of them are loose like Funke. Some will still stand by their philosophy not to be wife number 2 or 3 or ...... even if it involves the whole money in this world.


[quote author=otosa]This is a big lesson for ladies that men are rare.thus,don't waste ur time to grap ur own copy in time.

Point of correction.. men are not rare but good husband. Ladies should learn not to waste their youthful time jumping from one bed to another all in the name of becoming "gbogbo bigz girlz" cos no man will want to marry to 4th grade tokunbo.

The best thread so far in Nairaland. Some sweet, some otherwise. I dont know why, the challenges that come with marriage always scare hell out of me. However, I have to take bold step of faith. Should be back here in some months time to share my experience. May God help me... Amen.

abasifo: After Death Rumour, Mr Latin Welcomes Baby Girl In Dublin

Mr Latin's baby

Few hours after Bolaji Amusan popularly known as Mr Latin was rumoured dead, he has welcome an addition into his family.

The wife of the popular Yoruba comic actor was delivered of a baby girl at the early hours of today in Dublin Ireland.

A family source confirmed the news to Nigeriafilms.com. We also learnt that Mr Latin may be on his way out of the country soon to his family in Dublin.

http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/17213/13/after-death-rumour-mr-latin-welcomes-baby-girl-in-.html

Thought Mr Latin said he was with his wife at a film location wen the news about his death broke out... so, wen did that same wife go to Dublin to deliver a baby girl? I need more explanation on this. But anyway sha, Congrats to him and his family.... that is if this is true oooooo

Guitarlife: Mmmhhhh soo many comments but nobody saying the truth. OP see the truth is bitter so please pardon me. Look at how pretty you are and just like you said you chose to chase single, responsible, hardworking men away because of a divorcee what were you thinking. If he was that good how come he couldn't hold jis marriage together. Upon all you have been reading on nairaland people like you ought to be spanked severally.and to think that you can now come and expect NLDeRs to pity you. I think you have a low self esteem to have condemeed yourself to a divorcee , a widower would have been better. Sometime's I am forced to ask myself wether some thing's are not diabolical especially when I read stories like your's. When you should be busy building your future with a young, single man like yourself you chose to hang out with a divorcee who might have beaten the hell out of his wife, someone who has no repect whatsoever for the marriage institution and now you want thim to behave like he is what he is not. As you lay your bed so you lie on it. I know how scarce it is to find a single, responsible man these day's but it has not gotten to a stage where a sane single lady who is not physically deformed and as pretty as yourself will commit suicide over one buffon of a man who is on his second marriage and still counting. You better wake up from your slumber it you made a mistake and move on.

The best response so far. As said above, widower wuld av bn ok.... but a divorcee, sorry..mo pity for you. Just put urself together and move on.. U caused everything that happened to you.