NewStats: 3,259,410 , 8,170,026 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 09:42 PM 4u3s

nairalanda1:


Do you know how many times you people have been warned about Ponzi schemes? Haven't you people learned anything from MMM? Or you want your hand to be held like a five year old?

When SEC was warning people about MMM...when MMM was still paying....people abused them and called them names. When even Apostle Suleiman called it demonic, people who were ing him started abusing him. EFCC came, warned people, they were laughing. And so on until the thing collapsed and Chuddy fled to Asia with his cash.

By the time MMM collapsed, people were blaming government warnings for the MMM collapse. Oh yes. It was all government fault. Same government that was screaming warnings like a banshee...it was their fault.

And CBEX...SEC warned you people, you no hear. The thing has now collapsed. If you cannot hear SEC, you go hear EFCC? LOL.

After all the ponzi schemes that precceded CBEX, if you don't know how it works, then you are either living in some remote village , or you just don't want to know.

**"My dear, Warning your citizens is never enough. As a financial watchdog, it is your duty not just to inform, but to act decisively and prevent fraud before it happens.

Scammers like these would never thrive in the Western world because regulatory bodies there take their roles seriously and act swiftly.

How can you identify looming danger and instead of deploying every tool at your disposal to stop it, your response is to merely issue warnings? Who does that?

Let’s be honest—both the EFCC and the SEC have failed Nigerians. They must be overhauled and staffed with competent individuals who understand their responsibilities and are committed to protecting the financial integrity of this country."**

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

Bros, even before reading your message, I could already tell—it’s the lack of sex that’s disturbing your peace.

But let me be honest with you: you're not being a ive husband at all. Marriage is about checks and balances. It's not always smooth, but it’s the commitment that makes it worthwhile.

Let me tell you a bit about my own situation.
I got married in 2016, and today we have three beautiful children—two girls and a boy. My wife is currently in Ontario, Canada, pursuing her postgraduate studies. Meanwhile, I'm here in Nigeria, holding things down—working full-time in the telecoms industry and taking care of the kids.

And no, I’m not jobless or struggling financially—I earn a decent salary. But more importantly, I’m grounded in my faith. I’ve never cheated on my wife, and I don’t plan to, not today, not tomorrow.

I believe deeply in family, and I don’t see the sacrifices I’m making as suffering. I see them as investments—ones that I believe will yield fruit in due time.

So my brother, relax. Take a chill pill and embrace this phase in your marriage. It’s just a season, and like all seasons, it will . And when it does, you'll look back and thank yourself—and maybe even thank me—for staying strong.

... dey play

....all these explanation is baseless and uncalled for.

A life of a young promising teenager is lost due to security personnel ineptitude and over zealousness and that is what is paramount.

Must you as a police officer shoot at any slightest provocation

#Justiceforkehinde

Therepentant:
Anything to make lagos greater is welcome.

when you see a short sighted man's comment, you will surely know

They are all the same

Bar wey dem go open tonight na im you dey here dey drink panadol for another mans success.

monie na water bro

ChybuzzDD:


A man of God in APC??
That would be an anomaly.

nawaooo

na Reverend father sef

My dear, wetin you want make i talk

Na there their power dey reach.....

But ordinary CBEX came and bamboozled the citizens you were paid to protect and you couldn't do anything.

EFCC name should be changed to 'Yahoo boys crime commission' (YBCC)

i thot a man of God(Reverend Father) is now their Governor.

what is even wrong with Benue state ,always on the news for the wrong reasons

But he is allegedly with PDP....

Is this not anti-party activity?

Funny enough, i'm sure there are some health experts and certified health professionals present in his congregation when he was spewing this health trash...
Don't be surprised that instead of calling their MOG to order, they will be keying in to his mischievous and misleading preachings

Religion don finish us in this part of the world.Chai!

the rate at which this man is visiting SE states nowadays ,especially the ones preparing for election is very worrisome.

Anyways, i', sure they will not buy any goods and services he is selling.

....foolish girl.

bet me, the surprise package from her boyfriend will mature within 9months.

fish brain

these evil people will soon kpai everyone in that Benue state.

very pitiable

i can swear with my right scrotum that some of this girls don dey chop gbola from time immemorial.

Meanwhile, in this 21st century where other teenagers from other countries are gearing towards IT and technologies, we are busy looking for who be virgin and who no be virgin.

Na who do us this bikonu!

drink alot of water

VaginaAcademic:
Later dem go say government no dey proactive dem go ignore this warning now

is that all they could do to save their citizen?

Chai! We will no longer be seeing him on screen.

I will surely miss him in ''My flatmates''

see how this stupid man use hand ruin his once beautiful home ....tufiakwa

we know who are behind this write up......

Please can they enlist what benefits he has garnered to his people after ursurping power

This is exactly why my heart aches every time I see the EFCC rushing to return scammed money to foreigners and plastering it all over social media, just to impress international bodies and beg for validation.

But now, their own people have pulled off one of the biggest scams ever — and it’s Nigeria that’s on the receiving end. Will Interpol or the CIA return that money to us? Will they parade it online like we do? Deep down, we all know the answer — they won’t.

It hurts. Because it feels like our own are too quick to shame Nigeria just to score points abroad, while the world never gives us the same energy in return.

EFCC, stop making a spectacle out of our nation. Stop feeding the narrative that we are the villains of the world. Nigeria is greater than that.

They should call him an American terrorist like they call others

wow! dats innovative

i trust great Ibadan people.


More for your action jare

meth at work

Ivens:
Hope they they don't complain of marginalization in the military years to come

So na only for military u want to balance the marginalization complaints.... What happens to political posts in federal govt.

You want them to station them infront of boko haram war front.

Bros, we have borrowed sense

Mile 2 or Alakija underbridge should be no 1 aswear

How on earth will a right-thinking young man be friending this kind girl abi na man. See her yam legs like welder own

Seadogfellow:


It's not a crime if Abia State government engaged ESN to fight Fulani herdsmen in Igbo land and beyond. Fulani herdsmen terrorist was to sole purpose Mazi Nnamdi Kanu established ESN to protect his people before the banditry Nigerian government came to tackle the security outfit cos they knew it will stop them achieving their agenda which is to kill and mame lives in the southeast and South-South Nigeria

"According to the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) remains a proscribed terrorist organization until such status is legally overturned. Therefore, for a sitting governor to adopt or align with a proscribed group as a basis for forming a security outfit is not only cantankerous but also a direct affront to national unity and the rule of law."

"According to the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) remains a proscribed terrorist organization until such status is legally overturned. Therefore, for a sitting governor to adopt or align with a proscribed group as a basis for forming a security outfit is not only cantankerous but also a direct affront to national unity and the rule of law."

my babe wey dey collect only mouthaction anyhow those days, come dey claim virgin for her hubby.....

Moral lesson:
all dogs dey chop shit but na the one wey em runs cast na culprit