NewStats: 3,264,408 , 8,183,638 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 11:06 PM 4e3i3l

@ Topic.

If we tell, then there is nothing called SECRET any more. . . . .Secrets are not to be told to anyone.

Moreover, there are some stuff I cant tell my woman even when I marry her. . . . .
There are some stuffs Ive done and. . . . . . .

I cant tell her everything. . . .Period.

Let her find out if she can. . . . .then we take it up from there.

Busy_body:

Psst, can you keep a secret I don't like to be the bearer of bad news and I was sworn to secrecy and vowed not to spill, but sorry loff, you missed the boat, Sharon's yatch is berthed in Honolulu as we speak, topping up his tan with his bevy of bootilicious harem - Busybein, Tope2000, Tangent and Libragirl Wish you better luck next year Shhh, don't tell anyone I told you please

Dale ru dale ru ore iyawo.

@ OP.

Infact, he is truely the loff of your life. . . .shior!
Its his birthday and you dont know where he is at?
and moreover, you are saying hapi buyday here?

~Sissy~:

silly boy u shouldnt have looked at such thing na u need confession 4 that

you bet I have been on my knees since confessing all that I saw. . . .thank jeez i didnt see much. . ."NEPA" took light as I was about to see verily. . . .lol

HeatFusion:

Bleep!! woman, u iz nasty

blissfullynaughty:

@ Topic,

Because they are assholes.

I bind and cast ur profile pix into the wilderness!
2day na sunday ooo

@ OP.

So with your loud mouth. . .a girl is giving you such an assignment?. . . .shior!

I am not even to surprised. . .with all your ramblings since you ed. . .what do I expect?

To answer your question "bebebe". . . .
Because of whom you are; the girl is serious oooo. . .you should just be a friend . . .and she means a distant friend sef.

Trust me I know when you are attacking me even when you send the kissing smiley. . .its just that the smilling smiley makes raises my alarm warning. . . .and I dont like that. . .thats one of my few weaknesses (being alarmed)

Meanwhile. . .lend me the replacement word naw.

@ bettes
Na waoo. . . .
what an advise.

@ Ogidi.

Yes ooo. . . .

Talking about the dynamics of economics and attempt in having a perfet societal organization. . . .
Infact, dont let us go into the nitty gritty of academical back-up for the quote.

let me give u another quote you could like.

"the fact that someone else drove your care for some minutes doesnt stop the car being yours"

Sorry. . . .oya please lend me a word to replace the word.

Whats with this smilling face you give me?
I prefer an agry face to that smilling face jor. . .

Berra still, just make is the kissing one permanently.

" A good Bleep is not meant for one girl"

Note. . . .: its a quote.

bettes:

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Did you read the part he said he was looking for a girl to settle with?Do you know that to 'tolerate' means to 'endure'?
How can he tolerate a girl's he's meant to spend the rest of his life with attention?if he a guy is 'disturbed' putting it in his own words, a girl giving him too much attention simply means he doesnt like the girl,and he's not met any girl he's liked enough.[/b]You can tolerate someone you don't see regularly,a relative that irritates and comes once in a while but not your future wife.

I do know that to tolerate is not just to endure . . . .but to [b]learn to live with what one cant normarlly stand.

Now, my arguement is that. . . . the poster doesnt "know" what it is to have a relationship because he claimed that he hasnt had one for over 16 years. . . .
This. . .is most likely to make him think that most normal things in a relationship is abnormal. . . . .
I said, he might think the supposed girl is giving him too much attention. . .and it could be that the poor girl isnt. . .he is just feeling that way because of his. . . .emmm. . . ."lack of experience" for the past 16 years.

And also note that. . .the 16 years should really be the period he grooms himself about living with a woman and being in a standard relationship.

So. . .to conclude my arguement. . .
I dont think the girl was showing too much attention to the guy, I think the guy is just ignorant of what a standard relationship should be.

He should learn to tolerate a girl his heart likes and then learn to tolerate whatever he thinks is abnormal abt the girl.

you dont have to sleep with someone before u cheat another person jor. . . .
Youve have just cheated me of my care and virtual kiss by feigning u mad or tired of me.

tope2000:

At one stage in everyone's life, you will get heartbroken by something or someone. but 6yrssssssss Damn!!!!
What insurance r we talkin about here?

Insurance of having a stand by boyfriend of cus. . . .
and , Insurance cover aint valid without paid.

Pls dont ask me what should be between a man and a woman ooo.

SeanT21:

Make him Jelous.Go on a date with a sexy man at his favorite spot.Wear your favorite attention grabber outfit.Pretend to be into the Guy and even give him a kiss on the cheek a couple of times.Make sure Your ex sees it.IT will burn his heart!!

This is so ridiculous. make a man that dumped you after 6 years jealous?. . . . .
Please OP. . . .dont follow Sean's suggestion ooo.
else u will make a fool of yourself.

Moonstone:

Everyman should know what bottle drives him to that point. Ah ahn! Most men know this now. Is alcohol such a big problem for you? :oStop blaming the Devil. You don't see Jesus blaming the Devil for temptation. Instead, he overcame it. Men should do the same especially since we are all created in his likeness.

Girls can be manipulative. That's another topic for another day. Here, we are concentrating on why MEN or WOMEN cheat. Friend is not an excuse. A man can hit on me for 5 days straight without me moving. It depends on the inner will of that man or woman to control his or herself. It's a matter of self discipline. It's hard but it's very doable.

Not every human cheats. We all have the potential to but most of us are good at controlling our bodies.

@ toyin.
Am not justifying anything oooo
am only trying to make u guys see from our angle. . .
that way u girls will see berrra. . . .
cos most of una dey blind when it comes to men and what the devil makes us do.

First. . .We are not Jesus Christ. . .we are only trying to be Christ like and also note that some are not christians and do not have any Christ to look up too.

We will only try to be like Him but we can never be a God like He is.

Girls are manipulative abi. . . .?
I have realized that girls are more manipulative when it comes to sex. . .why?
I think because they love it as much as we do but wouldnt it it.

Moreover, in the issue of cheating. . .if you ask me, I would say Girls cheat more.
It's more rampant to see single girls going after married men than seeing single boys going after married men. . .

85% of girls that boys cheat on has boyfriends or some1 they are dating. . .while the15% are are either married or are Catholic "sisters". . .even those ones sef. . . .

The only thing that makes it look like boys cheat more than girls is because. . .
we boys talk about our escapedes while the girls keep it as secret until they are caught red handed.

Lastly. . .anybody that doesnt cheat now does not mean he or she wouldnt cheat in the future. . .
Sh*ts happens.

Cheat!!!

Moonstone:

If you drink that often, there are psychological problems underlying it. Sleep with my best friend because of what? I will so drop the guy.
Drinking is a stupid excuse. If you get that drunk, you have no self-discipline and the bible calls you a fool in that case. Even God agrees that no one should be that drunk. I blame the man for allowing the devil to have that much hold over his life.  

Well, "getting drunk often" is just an expression meant literarily.
But , seriously its the devils fault.
LOL

Moreover. . .I'd like the ladies to understand that "it takes two to tango"
If there are no ladies to cheat with,. . .then men wouldnt cheat.

For instance, the girl-friend should know this is her friend's man.

The bottom line is that any human is like a potentioal cheating bomb to cheat. . .it could go off anytime. . .
including you ladies in here, . . .

dont mind me jare.
Am just bn silly.
O ti nda ori mi ru. . . . .

bettes:

@sillyboy:the poster said he dated a girl and dumped her because she was giving too much attention,did you say he should tolerate girl's attention?

I believe he could tolerate her. . .what truely seriousgirl doesnt show so much attention to her man?. . .
Moreover, if you ask my opinion about the poster. . .I'd say he is so "disturbed" that he's thinking she's giving too much attention.

If the girl is just asking about him once a week , he will still think its too much attention simply because I think he is not too use to having a girl he can call his (according to him)

*Toyinrayo:

Lol, ok

Why am I disturbed abt this your response?. . .and the smile?. . .its worse than an angry face.

*Toyinrayo:

Actually, I agree with her

Why am I not surprised?

OgidiBoy:

What are you talking about >: accidents do happen I've been so freaking drunk ones and was taken advantage of by my ex- girlfriend's best friend

God bless you. Most ladies forget that we get drunk often and sleeps with their best friends. . . .
women are just so "un-understanding" when we need them most.
They should realize that when the devil try to destroy our relationships with them by making us drunk and cheat on them. . .is the time we need them the most.

Am so annoyed at their lack of understanding.

tope2000:

Gbenu dake jor
Where in the age did it say whatever wrong doing u did blame it on the devil?

The destruction the devil has come to do is in all aspect. . .including relationship. . .
it is left for you ladies not to allow devil destroy your relationships by being understanding at those moments when we are made to cheat.

. . .the bible says we must be forgiving and that the woman should be by her man all the time even in tribulations