NewStats: 3,262,013 , 8,175,874 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 02:35 PM 2u445e

kasaliyaro:
Guys, How do you feel dating a married woman?

You don’t need to go for them cos they will surely chase you but wants it to be coded.
They pay more than married man.
All this useless girls pretending that married women don’t cheat while they are the worst.
They are all over cheating ( they act like cat which you can never see pee or wee wee) but they act codedly and never reviles or talks about it in the midst of Guys or forum like this.

Ooh, what a useless write up.
How much are you bringing to the table and stop thinking like an irresponsible girl. Your write up is a summary of how a pauper thinks. Go get a life

KalakutaRepubli:

well said.

Hailings

KalakutaRepubli:

No sensible guy aware of himself should ever marry a girl you know happens to be a runs girl for some basic reasons..

1) Have you ever seen a man colonise a public toilet and call it his? Runs girls/Ashawo are public toilets meant for a man to empty his waste when pressed. On no should any sensible man engage them.. Just use them, empty your waste and move on.

2) A girl that sees herself as an ATM machine, would most likely do same if you as the husband find yourself in a difficult situation tomorrow and get constrain of finances, she will most certainly repeat same act to make money for herself..

Be careful and be wise.

On point.
-Marrying a runs girl and be assured none of the children will come from the man.
- None runs girls cheats a lot let alone core runs girls, I pity the man.
- None runs girls lacks respect and believes that the only responsibility as a married woman is to open her legs for sex, give birth and advice you to open ( both signatory), now look into the runs girls thought on this

A cheat calling men names. She should stop pretending and keep to a di*k.
Women cheats more codedly

The KARMA will fall on the girl when she’s gets married that she can never have her husband all to herself.

chiomzy86:
What is in a man is also in a woman..but greater percentage of men cheat more.. Infact a woman cheats mostly wen she is forced to,like dumped,by their hubby,.or negleted.but most men feel its their world,they do as they like without minding d feeling of their wives...

Also bear in mind that men cheat if also forced to by their wives attitude or neglected too.

The difference between a man and woman cheating is that men talk but women will code and seek empathy when caught saying all this you just mentioned.

- A man can tell you he has slept with three ladies when looked into deeply you will observe its just only one of the ladies he has slept with.

- A woman will tell you she has slept with only theee Guys, also look deep, it will be obvious she has slept with more than 7 guys but will code it to three no to be seen as a loose girl.

With this, I think you will also look deep and see where am coming from, but in all, cheating is not good.

Women are really useless in nature.

I blame men for giving you scum money. All this small girls that commented on this including the main person ( girl) and those intending to, really needs to grow up, be responsible and find something doing.

Why is it that you girls think about sex as the only way of making money?

what a disgrace to female gender.
You girls are actually saying your Dad wasted his money in paying for your school fees, what a collateral damage to life.
it's a pity though.

Tweak2k:




Na tru. The tin z how can 1 find this sure ladies? cause today are too stingy

Bro, na prayers cos they are now raising them to be beggars instead of givers.

TheOdd1sOut:
trash

For you

The OPs is just suffering from “Great female con”
- Useless post.
All you just posted affects Both gender but if you think or say it affects only male, sorry for those being deceived.
I can tell you it affects female more because when you mistakenly marry them, the causes is transferred to you as a man to carry.
- What do you have to say about most men how kept themselves for better future or progress in life, doing well in business and work place and once they marry, they start to struggle in life.
- what do you have to say about most girls that sleeps with married men which you know comes with causes KAMRA and a man married them. “What’s the faith of the man”?

A smart guy should go for DNA immediately.

KAMAR is real, keep sleeping with married men, girls.
Even as the girls are married they still sleep around codedly pretending holly.
Access yourselves ladies before blaming.

The KAMAR will surely come visiting you once you marry and another girl will have and enjoy your husband.
Just openly accept it and don't complain because if you do, mysterious evil stuff will surely consume your life.
The seed you sour, you will surely reap.
Do you know that married women pay or take care of single guys far better than you girls or better than the way married men do for single girls but they still avoid them because of KAMAR and you are bold enough to lay causes on your soul, what I will tell you is, let the KAMAR so be onto your life, say amen where ever you are.

Millenniumlady:
Like you said old fashion

Try and change it cos it goes a long way just the way ladies check, analyze and access men.

Consequences of converting an irresponsible girl to wife.
The earlier girls learn not to be stingy, irresponsible, lazy (get a job and bring something to the table) stop playing the victim all the time.

It’s not a new gist that this woman’s mentality, attitude and uncontrollable sexual desire to cheat exist in many of them and will play the victim that the husband can’t take care of his responsibilities as a man, forgetting he was while working only didn’t cos he lost his job.

She now took over just for a very very short period of time and started complaining of the overloaded responsibilities.

If that the husband demanded for sex, her / most women comment will be ‘ you are not providing for the family and you want sex, showing that’s the only thing most girls can offer in life even when married is just SEX, now the husband wasn’t pushing for sex, the animalistic sexual desire took over her being seeing a handsome pastor who wasn’t providing money for them oo and cheated on the husband.

When exposed now, her responses will be, irresponsible man that can’t provide for the family.

The question is ‘ who is more irresponsible between both, if she was the responsible one, why can’t she sustain the family pending the husband gets back his stand? A word for the wise ladies....

RAPE cases on male child and young guys should be looked into by the law.

The summary is that ‘ She RAPED her son’ and she needs to face the law and penalty as a RAPIST.

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

So on point.

pocohantas:
Cold thread.

How can someone say she never knew males are sexually abused? You think women are angels or you just want to play ostrich?

It is advisable to see a therapist. It helps to talk about it.

Am not here to praise but I like your honesty post. I told a lady that was doubting this male molestation and rape on male child that if she wants to be sure, she should or somebody should raise a topic on male child molestation and rape, guys will surely talk.
Don't want to mention her and I known she has done that to a male child and she's reading all the post.

I am a victim, 3 maids raped me and my mother said its a lie.
I can everything, the way it happened and has being affecting me psychological even till date. it's not an easy stuff to clear off the mind.

Parents should listen to their male child and protect them because when it happens their is no evidence of blood flow unlike a female child to accuse the maid, aunt or mother. All this makes the male child to be thinking about sex even as an adult because they have being exposed to sexual life content at a tender age and worst is that nobody believe them rather put it as " didn't you enjoy it " saying which usually comes from ladies.
The only thing is just a therapist to help out.

It because he knows the girl or gf also sleeps with many men and still tells him his the only person in her life.
Men are also smart in the game so why are you complaining like you are a saint while girls cheat more than him.

Divepen1:
Seriously? You still think like this. So, you can say you're never been turned on despite not having a desire to have sex...

Don’t mind this guy. A girl or woman knows that they also abuse and rape boys so can’t say this trash.

Am not saying that cheating is good but if committed by any one, he or she should apologize.

If the guy cheats, he should apologize and vice versa.

Only a stupid girl will want a guy to apologize when she cheats on the ground that it’s the guys fault for not providing or satisfying her sexual orgy, so same blame should be on you when he Cheats too because you never provided for him too.

A girl who doesn’t provide anything only receiving, saying a guy should apologize must be a foolish scum and needs a psychiatric evaluation.

Biglittlelois:
If you are an ashy good for you, why come out to say some men pretend, we have totally holy guys out there, you do your thing and make your money, their pretense is not your business


FYI, do not think you deserve them holy guys when you want to marry, no ma'am, you will marry a male whòre so you both can continue your legacy

Won't have posted anything if that I read yours because you just made a valid point. They will get married to the ashy guys.

All this girls saying or asking this question.
I won't be surprised if you are one of the ashy. Greater percentage of girls with or without BF are ashy. Greater percentage of guys dating a girl don't know their GF are into the ashy league, thinking they are the only guy in the girls life.
But after all said, girls are still sex hungry ( ashy).

All this girls saying or asking this question.
I won't be surprised if you are one of the ashy. Greater percentage of girls with or without BF are ashy. Greater percentage of guys dating a girl don't know their GF are into the ashy league, thinking they are the only guy in the girls life.
But after all said, girls are still sex hungry ( ashy).

When a woman test a man, they are right but when men test women, they are stupid.
If the that's is the case, all women testing their guys are stupid and scum.
Deal with it

Mustiboy:
A father is the breadwinner of the family. He wakes up for work while the rest of the family are still fast asleep and comes back late at night when they must have gone to bed. All this he does to put food on the table for his family. Then why do the children get to shower him little or no love at all? The answer to this question may vary according to individual perspective.

As the child grows up, it gets emotionally connected to the one who is always around- the mother. Children tend to forget someone whom they don’t always see, or at worst, feel insecure with his/her presence. Does this explain the under-appreciation of fathers? Not entirely. Another point of view to this issue is the African mothers. You may ask what the mother has got to do with this, well, it’s quite simple: the African mother has a way of presenting the father in a non-pleasant way to the children. Let’s take this scenario as a case study : the children of John, who is away at work, come back from school and tell their mother they need money to buy the items needed for their forthcoming practicals in school. The mother tell God will provide, as it is the way of Africans. Later in the night, when the father has arrived from work tired and exhausted, she tells him, while in bed, about the need of the children and the husband provides as it is his responsibility. The mother then gives the children what they need and never tells them where the money came from. With this, the children feel safe confiding in their mother for their financial needs because they believe she is the one providing for them.

Fathers have a lot of work to do in ing their presence in their respective families. It is never enough to be there financially, the children need more of love and . The mother also has a crucial role to play in helping the child appreciate the father. She needs to explain to the child why the father cannot always be around and make it understand that it cares. The father, on the other hand, should try to build a subtle relationship with the children and not to be too dictational and fierce with the children in order not to scare them away. As a father, make your children know you love them, take them out on vacations, pay attention to them, and most essentially, keep with them when you’re around and when you’re not. The child needs you to be at your best, dad!

Why do you think fathers are under-appreciated?

My father is the best gift from God to me and really appreciate his with all my heart.

Pipedreams:
Why Are Ladies Like This? Is Sex A Gift To Men?

I met this lady on saturday walking down with her sis. I holla at her then we exchanged numbers. We chatted briefly on saturday night after she saw a watsapp status of me stunting with my guy and revving the streets in my ride while doing a video. She hailed me for being a flexer.

Fast forward to Sunday Afternoon we chatted and she said she was a bit bored so I invited her over. I picked her up half way at Opebi and we drove to my crib after a brief stop over at Chicken republic for takeaway entertainment.

We got to the crib and after eating and while watching DSTV i made a move and she said it was early but was moaning and we bleeped two rounds, then I dropped her off at Ikeja with some little transport money 2k. I never asked her out or told her i needed a GF.

Why do Naija girls feel after sex you owe dem something? So stupidly entitled. Didnt we both enjoy it? Lmao. Now because i did not call yesterday and text shes getting pissed off. Watsapp chat below.

She was the one that took advantage of you.
A strategy of making of you not exposing her and helping her to release her KONJI

mrcoolautofix:
The first reason is ego,

. Girls have ego that's as big as 40 ft container, and with that gigantic ego she has makes her see every reason why it's the guys duty, she will always prefer the guy making the move while she ignore ignore pretend pretend reject eject.

Seconds is fear of rejection.
Funny enough those who kill a person with gun don't like seeing anyone with gun even if it is unloaded, girls are extremely hash when rejecting a guys who monster the courage to ask them out, making fun & mockery of those can be heartbreaking, they underestimate guys besed on outlook analytics, but handling being rejected by a guy will be the last thing 99.9%,of any Nigeria girls will ever wants to encounter..

3rd reason is Pride
I am this I an that, shut da fk up seat ya ass down you are nobody, ye ye ye I am too beautiful to ask him out, better guys will come, no he should do the toasting while i seat and do the drinking. A whole me toast him..?

4th Lack of confidence and composure

Fifth Greed & crisis of class
If you let average Nigerian ladies to chooses a date for the themselves, buhari son, dangote, in fact Bill Gates will be their first choice, not minding the class of this men, not knowing what your prey is not only greed but a huge problem to getting what you wants to aquire.

But it all boils down to fear of being rejected, even some of them who have attempted asking a guy out will never go straight to the point, they will want to sneek in from backside, I mean they will draft a track and come in as casual friend, and if you resist, they will flee and report you to any guy close to you, and try getting into your life through him, so if you bounce it off they will fly. I have experience it.

Some others girls will trying creating a conversation with youvthat will end up with you asking for her number, she will give in and use that way to get into your life through that loophole making casual requests visit your end,

Some will study you and know what you do for a living, and ask you to give them your number should if any job of such comes up they will get you notified, but the idea is to get into your life without asking you out first.

95% of girls will hide behind reason that the guy won't value her, lie lie

You went straight to the point.
Fear of rejection and others

Everybody needs money.
Women prostitute for the love of sex, wants to taste all size of d**ks before they die, because they are codeded.
let in their DNA

It’s not a new thing. Married women are more into the game codedly than married men.
Talking about NEMSIS, it goes for both single male and female that sleeps with married men and women.
Those ladies saying that it will hit on the guy or “hope he will get married to a woman” or KARMA will follow him.
Why are they not saying all these to all single girls sleeping with married men or going straight to the point like they didn’t do such or evening still doing?
The question now, won’t KARMA, NEMSIS, DEATH follow them, or after all they did, won’t they get married to a man?
If you seek equity, please come with clean hands” cos am not ing anybody into that game or stuff but don’t judge if you ( girl) have done such and still doing it but pointing fingers or crucifying others.
I rest my case...