Enemyofpeace:
My Ordeal With My Mistress (Juliet Oberu) As We Finally Go Our Separate Ways.
Our intimate relationship started in 2015 when I met her, few months into the relationship, she notified me that she was pregnant for me, the news greeted me with joy knowing fully well that fatherhood is on its way for me as i welcome the development with happiness.
After she informed me of the pregnancy, I asked her to come into my apartment to stay with me in Ughelli, she gave birth to a baby boy, I did all a man is supposed to do, took care of the baby, took care of her and our living together began.
Within 2015 to 2023, we lived together and during this period, we had another two kids( girls) together, making all the children three, a boy and two girls. Surprisingly, a time came whenever I return home, I noticed funny attitude between my mistress and my eight years old child(boy), she uses eye signals to talk to the child, signs and other funny behaviors like whispering in my child's ear began to occur. I never knew something is already fishing.
Sometime ago, I took the three kids to my mum's place, that very day , my mum had a dream, she called me and told me something sh0cking that she had a revelation in her dream, that in the revelation, she was told that i was having only two children and not three, that the two girls are her son's children but the boy isn't for her son.
In the revelation, she said the two kids( girls) were placing their hands on her chest but the boy was behind before she woke up from the dream.
Hearing this from my mum, I vehemently rebukê d my mum, dismissed the news coming from her. Eight years of relationship counting, and last year, the greatest devastating news ever in my life came knocking.
A certain guy was going round, reaching out to my mistress that he need his child and that another man will not take what rightfully belongs to him. I was hanging out on a good day when someone jokingly said while having table discussion with his friends pointing at me that the guy over there is the one with the woman that gave their friend the first child i claim to be my own.
At this point, I became logical and curious, flashing back to what my mother told me. I lost balance immediately. When I got home that very day, I called her to ask and she wasn't straight in giving me any answer. At this point I became furious because I never imagined it.
Quickly, I opted for a DNA to ascertain the paternity of my son, We both went to Celia clinic in Ughelli to conduct the test, behold the DNA test result came out NEGATIVE, Ooh I cried and became frustrated at this point.
This woman came into my house with someone's else's pregnancy, threw the pregnancy at me claiming I was responsible for our first child. I must say, that Juliet Oberu is an ev!!il woman that can k!!ill a man.
As I speak, the whole truth is out, she is now going round spoiling my reputation that she told me and I accepted the pregnancy of another man, of which at no time did she even mention it for over eight years. she said she was pregnant for me and I accepted the pregnancy because I felt it's my own for the fact that I am already having intimacy with her. Our first child is for the man she was dating before she met me.
After eight ( solid years, the truth came out. This is really inhumane of a woman. What surprises me most is that, her family was aware of these whole secret but they all kept it to themselves forgetting lies has expiring date, a date where truth will prevail.
Juliet Oberu is a dè vil, She is more than jezebel, a woman who can k! ll any man she come across. Anyone who knows her should take not that, we are no longer together, we have gone our separate ways. I am making this public statement for the world to know how wicked some women could be.
Juliet Oberu my estranged mistress was having extra affairs outside even while she was with me in my home. Please let the public take note and if you know her, this is what she was capable of doing.
As Regard the first child, the general public should kindly disregard any rumour that am aware that she brought in another man's pregnancy for me to father, I am not aware.
Gistmedia10: A young lady, overcome with emotion, saluted her brother in a heartwarming display of gratitude for his unwavering throughout her university journey and National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) program.
The lady in her NYSC uniform, saluting her brother with tears in her eyes
The brother's selflessness and dedication had enabled her to achieve her academic dreams, and the sister's salute was a poignant expression of appreciation for his unrelenting .
Gistmedia10: A recent photograph of Samuel Nwanosike, the ousted chairman of Ikwerre Local Government Area, has taken the internet by storm. The image shows Nwanosike clad in a traditional white kaftan, with a conspicuous bulletproof vest peeking out from underneath.
You think the ijaws are vindictive? The Ikwerres are our brothers and we love them. We are all fighting a common interest of advancing the stake of Rivers state.
We have been living in harmony with our Ikwerres brothers. We even inter marry with the Ikwerre people.
What is happening in Rivers state is political resetting of a new order. Wike has done his own time. He should allow Gov. Sim to have his shine.
This present roforofo fight will end up springing up new political players in Rivers state. If for one thing the faceoff between Amaechi and Odili brought, was that it brought new political players to the scene. Amaechi's Commissioners were virtually new players in the political scene.
How can a man after completing his tenure, still arbitrarily imposed the appointment of virtually all the Commissioners that served under him to his successor.
I see new faces as local government chairmen and councilors. Many will move up in the political pyramid in Rivers state with this new order.
What is happening in Rivers state is the dismantling of a political hegemony. After Gov. Sim rules his 8years, if he chose to behave like Wike, I will also other ethnic groups in Rivers state to fight and criticise him.
on point
youth president chijioke ihunwo will藏be appointed as caretaker chairman of obio akpor
At least respect the office if the governor.,. You too calling him names hmmmm
Are you aware that this is like karma
Amaechi appointed LGA chairmen before he left office
When Wike came he flushed them out. And put his own CTC chairmen
So why the fuse when Sim want to appoint his own.
Your tenure by Constitution is over, he did not interface when they are in office insulting him.
Now tenure has expired they said they would not go.
Who dash monkey banana
you are right
the LGA chairmen should leave office , their tenure ends today
Lontorlooka:
The problem started when they opened their doors for franchise players.
People who wanted to start restaurant business but don’t want to go through the effort of creating a new brand and growing customers .
Instead ; they apply, pay some recurring fees , be brand materials , recipes , menu and business starts with customers flooding in .
While this looked like massive chain growth , they couldn’t enforce the meals have the same quality and taste accords board . Franchise started adding their stuff . Why not ! It’s their business .
Then once a customer have a bad experience at an outlet , they start looking for alternatives sub consciously and they’ll feel all outlets are bad .
Prestar:
Babcock Student Whose Nude Video Was Leaked By Her Boyfriend Graduates With A First Class
Naija Flaying Doctor shared the update on social media platform while referencing an old post which outlined the progress the female student has been making.
tunjijones:
That guy with the bass voice killed their "end of the road " song.
They are truly legends cos their song is timeless. Not like most Nigerian artist that you won't even want to listen to their music after just 10 years.
That's Michael
My favourite Singer in the Boys II Men group is Wanya.
This is from the Appeal court, the judges even asked pro wike lawmakers to serve pro sim lawmakers via watsapp because they are trying to employ delay tactics, why employ delay tactics if they are so sure of winning?
I told you and I will say it again, the Amaewhule led- 25 wike puppets will lose their Assembly seats.
We stand with the Oku Jumbo led Assembly.
Good riddance
Goodnewsupdate1:
My wife was pregnant for another man inside marriage’ – Harrysong
Nigerian singer Harrysong has claimed that his estranged wife, Alexer Peres Harry was pregnant for another man inside their marriage.
He lamented that he married into a promiscuous family.
The singer said his ex-wife informed him that she was pregnant one year after he stopped sleeping with her, which made him realise that another man was responsible.
Speaking during a recent Instagram live session, Harrysong said, “My ex-wife’s mother just married her seventh or sixth husband yet she is still cheating in that marriage. That’s the kind of family I married into.
“My wife came to inform me that she was pregnant when I stopped sleeping with her for almost a year. She was pregnant for another man inside my marriage. The only thing I did was to ask her to return to her family. I needed time to get to know her because I didn’t know who she really is. I married her because people said she was a loyal, humble and God-fearing Christian.”
I have just handed over a 22 years old son to the mother, whom by birth was not my biological child as claimed by his mother. Raymond's mother mrs Helmina made this open confession in the presence of my family elders, & her cousin sister mrs Mercy Ogounga, she claimed. 'I was impregnated by my father's next door neighbour somewhere in port harcourt'. The man is from Nembe & not Peremabiri in Southern Ijaw Lga.
Though the boy's mother insisted that I adopt him as my child since she had not mentioned any other name as his father from birth. But I declined the offer & insisted the boy be taken to his real father. I took the child when the mother abandoned him to my relatives in small village called Onyoma at the age of 11 months. He had grown to be a man under my watch & went to one of the most expensive schools (Lead British International Schools) in Abuja, from primary to secondary.
Raymond school fees alone was N970,000.00 as of when he finished from secondary school. But that wasn't the most painful side of the story, the most painful side of the story was losing someone you onced shared as family, not because death took him away, but that you can not retain him because of birthrights that he is no long your child. In 2018, i have built a 4 bedroom flat in the village for Helmina's family as Raymond's mother. Though I did out of free will & I do not regret my desire & share of goodwill. Though, it is painful.
You know what it means to bring up a child like a king, in the kind of comfort every poor or rich father will wish for his kids, only to end up that the child was another person's own & not yours, this is painful. But just like I cannot share the love of my children with anyone, so equally I will not mix up my bloodline with another person's blood as mine when God knows he is not, no I can't. Imagine when the elders of the family asked, 'how old was the pregnancy when you took steps to change the father from your father's next door neighbour to Paul Eris'? '4 months old' she replied. Are you saying one can just wake up to accept a 4 months old pregnancy without proper investigations to ascertain the true nature of the child', the elders asked again?
No sir, I once had an abortion for him, 9 months after, I came back with this very one & tell him it was not properly removed, so the belly floated up', Helmina answered.So what was his react -ions, they asked? He argued that the child was not his own right from birth, but I abandoned the child with his far relatives at Onyoma community when the boy was 7 months old & ran to port harcourt, that was how he went back to carry the child' .. Helmina replied. Well, I have tried to keep the pain since then, knowing life is pain, & pains are signs of courage in every beautiful life you intend to make. Don't get angry, don't fight or rush pain, as long as pain van teach you gently as it can do to the other person.
Just like no one will say to hold a permanent empty heart is easy, I also don't want to confront it. This pain is my privilege, I don't want to continue to get a grip on it. The worst is to get killed by silence, some pains hurt but silence kills. I have tried to turn cold after asking the mother to return the boy to his biological father, & that will give me an immense pleasure, but people still keep the feelings like he is my son, this is why am turning up. Please Raymond is no more my son, accept it & let's move on. To me, he looks very irritating because i cannot adopt him as his mother wished. We shared all the love for 22 years, we can't continue boy, bye!!!
Another Paternity fraud case, I hope he finds closure soon.
The kind of mentality he has is the sole reason for high poverty rate in NIGERIA and the sole reason why the various prisons around the country are filled with a lot of men.
In as much as i understand that responsibilities and purpose are great motivator but not in the case of NIGERIA. I can confidently tell you that the vast amount of married people living from hand to mouth in NIGERIA are more than single men living from hand to mouth. Many among these men were motivated by their girlfriends to carry on into MARRIAGE that things will get better but there they are today.
You don't really need a Female Human to motivate you to hustle more in life. There are thousands of other important reasons to motivate you to hustle more in life.
As for me, I love to look good, stay in shape, eat good and organic foods, reading, researching, traveling, very adventurous and lots more. The Female Human isn't among the Top Ten Of Things that motivates me to hustle more. A Female Human that has no stable feelings and can fade into thin air leaving you to your faith when things isn't rossy!
The interesting part is i have seen many and have some of these made people living the type of life i aspire for around me. So that's enough motivation for any man who knows his onions very well.
franchasofficia:
This story is touching. Unfortunately one person alone who isn't a billionaire yet and not even a government official cannot make a visible change.
Seun please how can you pull willing Nairalanders together to assist some focused, willing, sincere and dedicated Nairalanders with a Nairaland skill acquisition and business training with some startup capital or tools at the end of the training? I am willing to be a part of it, unfortunately I am not a billionaire yet to embark on this journey alone, so we need a crowdfunding or t committee of volunteers to do this, I am in.
Seun Osewa lead this, open a thread for it and call for volunteers and put the thread on front page everyday for 30 days let's get this started because APC government have shattered hope for most Nigerian youths, it's sad. We need to play our own part as willing individuals and help the few we can and also encourage more volunteers to come on board to pull more youths out of this situation.
Praise God!!! She has been found.
She called her dad with someone's phone at Iriebe. He then went and picked her up with his sister,
Kidnapped at Abuloma and found at Iriebe