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Trust Bank sponsoring the event
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What if APP was Wike's plan B
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NL just be like today, yesterday and forever
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Person go stay for that uncompleted building shoot am for head
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datola:Bring your wife over and split bills 1 Like |
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tsdarkside: Check this page out bro on fb it might change your narrative. *nwanyiocha* |
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OlawaleBammie: They started with Buratai in Zaria |
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noble71:They are 7 Likes 1 Share |
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ahnie:You're save bro. It's now accepted 4 Likes |
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Fahvvy:Your daughter will be attacked and you'll be there to experience it |
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Opinedecandid:What's your point bro |
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This life is just complicated. I was watching a program the other day where people are been screened before they enter into a country. A kid from another country though who got ission to learn English in that country was suspected and was interrogated. When asked about his father's pay, the guy knew exactly what his dad earns. He came into the country legitimately and was freed. Imagine a kid knowing his dad salary but coming back home it's difficult for spouses to know that. Anyway I don't know which side to be because I am not married. Everyone has a reason for their decision. |
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We, as a society, seriously need to stop this nonsense of secrecy in abuse. Children in abusive homes should not say anything outside at the detriment of painting their Men and women in abusive relationships should not say anything outside so they wouldn't shame their There are people googling and researching ' What to do if someone you love abuses you ' because they can't even fathom speaking up. They're afraid of tarnishing the image of their abs. Worse still, most of them are afraid of what society would say about them, the victims. 'What would people say?' has killed many people, left rapists roaming around family gatherings and kept victims in God when relationships with their emotional, sexual and physical abs. So back to the Google searches. There's barely any answers (well, not the exact answers that the victims are looking for) Why? 1 Many victims come from a place of feeling like they are at fault. (Keyword being many) 2 They are searching for exact cases or scenarios like theirs. So even if they find an abuse story matching theirs 99%, the missing 1% makes their case different 3. They don't even know if it's abuse. They feel a type of way about it. Find similar stories. But, it doesn't sit well because there's just one common advise. LEAVE How do you start the process of leaving someone when you're not even sure it was abuse. (Inserts the fact that they're ashamed to talk to anyone about it). 4 Finally, (especially with Nigerians) Na white people write am. They are too liberal. They don't know what we face daily and how normal these acts are. Hence, they discredit all the information they googled. The worst part? There's a repeat action and they find themselves googling again. A fucking toxic cycle.� The secrecy is what starts the problem. Conflict and Abuse Thrive in Secrecy The world isn't changing soon. I just feel like dropping the judgemental tone would help victims actually feel safe with you. The moment you start asking very stupid questions like ehn, so you're trying to tell me a girl raped you? Or Your gentle partner beat you? Drop the judgement abeg. And don't be propagating rubbish. Because here's the truth. Dear beautiful souls in abusive relationships, it's always better on the other side. It may not seem like it. But it's always better without the ab. And if it's love and acceptance you're searching for, the only person that can give you that 100% is YOU. Always look out for Number one. THAT'S YOU Treat yourself better. Please.
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Dbrawllm0098:If Ned nwoke call u like that nko 2 Likes |
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Omoh Kaduna wey be centre for learning no make top 10. A state with the highest number of institutions in Nigeria
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Edezzz: https:///FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT The link is correct. You can use another WhatsApp link as reference so you'll know where to input the other words ( nairaland usually remove it from the link) |
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Edezzz:Check your spellings whatsapp should be in small letters. Also check if the link is complete |
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I’ve opened a WhatsApp group for the trainee position please so we get better info with this link https:///FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT https://chat(dot)whatsapp(dot)com/FhMAgQVKrTaD8UU3GtzXvT Replace (dot) with . |
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ASUU Kaduna State University Chapter
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Search that name on fb. U might be lucky to trace the owner
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Good day all, after numerous job applications, I was fortunate enough to be invited for a 3 weeks training in Ikoyi by Prudential Zenith life insurance. Currently, I have no one around there or in Lagos. Please, I am looking for anyone who can help accommodate me for these period or know a place I can get cheap accommodation around these axis(2, Aromire Street by Kingsway Road, Ikoyi (Zenith Bank Building), Lagos) thank you.
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Chao. . in the class, the woman will be like, my son wetin be number 1
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Increase your digital skills get this ebooks now. 3 in 1 package for just 2k 1: Python- how to program 2:Smart phones troubleshooting and repairs. 3:Web design with HTML and css 0.9.0.2.4.7.4.5.9.0.9 |
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My go check comment section. Ican Money no won drop
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Lightway:if person go teach me, I go learn. I've been looking for funds for ICAN exams no way. Be like yahoo go be next trial |
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Kpengla:Thank you bro. Do you know any means I can reach out to him? |
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PharoahIII:Just pray for me Sir. That will go along way |
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omowolewa:Thank you. Your prayers and help will go along way. I am just confused now |
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ManOfCompetence:I am confused what will I say when they'll be expecting me to write the exam. Hence the suicide thought |
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VeeVeeMyLuv:Thanks bro. Need your prayers too |
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onumadu: Thank you. I am tired of this world. In my bid to gather more for tutorial classes I lost everything. Darkness everywhere for me |
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