NewStats: 3,263,866 , 8,181,654 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 11:22 AM 2r6525

It makes too much sense

Now I see why the Ibo want to creat their own state.

bulldoza:

Exactly.

here comes the religion wailers trying to fight for religion superiority here in NL

Amen and Amen and by Gods power does causes shall take effect in his already bleeped up life.

Acidosis:
In this age where two bedroom apartments goes for about N300k, na im una wan occupy two rooms?

How feasible is that when you have about 2, 3 children?

hahahahah true

sinceraconcept:
Hmmmmn,i suppose you're a man. But you really bleeped up,honestly. How can you compare Tina Knowles with Nigerian ladies? That's America where men are equal to women. But this is Nigeria where we have so many cultures, dude,how can you compare American culture with Nigerian culture? Americans can practise homosexuality and zoophilia,but we're never in of that here. And what you're doing is trying to encourage our women to rebel,you're trying to tell them to claim equal right with men,you're trying to tell them to file for divorce and leave their children behind or cheat if their man cheats. You're trying to tell them if their husband slaps them,they must slap him back,you're trying to tell them they can pull off their top like men do. Mind you,in my own Yoruba land,behind and not beside every successful man,there must be a woman. In my yorubaland,a woman must be submissive to her husband and a woman must stay married,if she packs out of her husband's house,she becomes what we call "Dalemosu" in yorubaland,it is a man's world and his woman must be very respectful to him. You're here teaching our women not to prostrate(at least a bit) when they greet us. In yorubaland,its a disgrace for our women to send them packing,thats why she comes back with her relatives begging the husband,and the husband sits down laid back and give them conditions and make rules on how he wants his home to be like(positive rules) and this culture hasn't gone extinct,so don't teach our women how to adopt western culture. 
Dino Melaye's wife for example must be regretting divorcing her husband and Dino is an original yoruba man who wouldn't start begging a woman to come back home the way you want it. Even though I don't subscribe to the way he used to beat the woman,that's really cruel but even if that occurs,it occurs. A woman shouldn't pack out because of a slap,it doesn't make sense and it means she doesn't likee her children. A woman must endure even beatings and all that and pray the man doesn't beat her again. God can do anything for mankind. Stop teaching our women against us,stop westernizing them. The western culture is a decay to the whole world. It's good to be partly western but not allowing their culture to overshadow ours,we are africans and our culture is better 

I see you women slavery. Did our culture permit men to beat and treat his wife like a slave? Did your youruba culture a man mistreating a woman to the extent of treathen her life? Biko what is the madness of this so called Culture thing that sees women as noting other than sex slave? Morally and common sense should tell anyone what's wrong or right. Lastly I hope you will be very happy if your father mistreat ur mum ! A lot of women endures marriage and not enjoy . They fear what the socety will tag them and so ended up frustrated and misrable by one so-called man.

EVILFOREST:
What does a man need from a LADY...?
NOT her cash.. ..
All we need as MEN is simple " LOYALTY or better still RESPECT".

Most WOMEN lost our love for them, the very day they started seeing their own mothers as slaves to their own father, thinking that what their mothers did then was EVIL.
That's why most "empowered and exposed" Ladies are losing out. Thinking they now know it ALL.
Now with the ADVENT of so many SOAP OPERAS and NOVELS , ladies now see every man as cheat, unromantic and not well cultured. They see AFRICA tradition as EVIL.

They now enter into Marriages with the HOPE that the hubby is already a CHEAT.
MEANWHILE, these same ladies dress indecently even in churches now.
IF u say ALL MEN are CHEAT, i will tell u that, u are d BIGGEST CHEAT because u have TASTED ALL MEN to that they are all cheats.

FOR every man that wants to CHEAT, there is always a WOMAN ready for that.
Ladies should learn to respect men, that was the "ab initio" plan of GOD
Respect and cherish ur man and see if he will not take u to HEAVEN.

lobantan some men are fallen Angels noting pleases them .

mysticgal:

Sweeney you don't keep stuffs that do not belong to you, if he says it is over then I have no right to keep him back. For me, even if it hurts I'd let's go

leting go is the best option so that the one that wants to come and stay will have access in . Many Foolish men thinks sleeping and dumping of girls makes them super hero not forgeting that the ends justify the means.

Owliver:
if indeed you truely found "THE ONE" God made for you at last, why do you still sound pained? you should be happy he left

am confuse here help me out

hahahaha am never angry because God has blessed me more than does times I was with him but hey who wouldn't be angry with such an act?

olac21:


As beautiful as you're?maam are you married now cos life can be Unfair at times!

my wedding is coming forth december 24th by Gods Grace this year

olac21:


Pardon my curiosity,what age were you when you started dating him?

we started when I was still in secondary school

I regreted speding 11years with him only to find out that he doesn't even LOVE me as I thought. He went so far as introduction but when faced with a little challenge from my people he quickly option out . I thank God am a christain otherwise I would have hurt the bastard so bad but hey I found the one who God has made for me atlast.

layla129:


If she still loves you and you love her, why are you moving on? You don't believe it can work?

man of little faith. How could you let true LOVE go?

Sorry for been rude but I want all the so called virgin wanted boys to shut up their mouth. Like serriously who is responsible for the problems women face?

Noting is more confussing like a girl dating a broke guy who is good in bed!

Someone just said JESUS is his uniform ha! My brother Jesus can not be reduce to just ur uniform . Oh God why do people mis this religion thing? How does dressing corporate to a corporate firm will make someone to call the name of the Lord in vain? Hmmmm understanding matters.

Olabestonic001:


Hmm.
It shall be well.
I think as a man, when the lady's family begins to kick against the union, I will just advice him to pull out if they can't be convinced.
You know when trials comes the first thing the parents will flag is "we told you so" and that will bring bitterness between the couples. In marriage, parents are one people whose negative scheming will always threaten the marriage.
The LORD will give you your man in JESUS NAME

Amen

And she look impressive and pretty.

Olabestonic001:


Are you ready to surrender to his religion no matter what?
Forget his love for now and know that he you might need to succumb to his tradition and religion.
In marriage, understanding is the real love not ion.

offcourse but he called up the marrige plan 2days ago saying he can not wait any longer .

Mumunie

[quote author=Toks2008 post=44832212][/quote] what is love not founded on reason? If u love someone the heart genuely accept that person . Biko 0god loves us without minding the fact that we are sinners why can't we love like God?

Thank you mr poster am currently facing the Religion problem and am confussed .

"Ransacked" may God help us to deal with Foolish men properly.

She ended up saying more words than she ought not to say. I think she just said what the does haters are expecting mtcheeeee wetin I no sef!

We don hear but genny rock better.

The Good old days

guy you try ooo this one got me laughing out tears chai!

Oh Lord Jesus pls help this child. Even the president should do something .

Some parent just like frustrating their children life . For God sake Love is free from God and if a woman has choosen her man the best the parent can do is to investigate what kind of family the guy in question from and if pleased the next is to bless them. Nigerians with their yeye procedure . If no be religion e go be culture, or tribe.

Ivegotsolutions:

So when the parents refuses the introduction rites and every effort for a peaceful get together, they should fold their hands and get old?

exerctly my point

Religion superiority is distorbing nigerian people abeg seek for proper knowledge and allow God to be the judge of mankind.

3 kids is ok for me 2girls and a boy why beacuse woman takes care of their parent @ old age more than men and their lovely names will be Adora, miraam and abraham.