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Tranquility2345:


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But it's sensible and not women hating

I don't consider myself an Alpha nor a Beta male, but I do consider myself an Edo Man and always want to relate the way my ancestors did with society.
Though I didn't live with any of my Grand Dad ( wish I did cause those men have steel for balls ) but I learnt few things from men I've come across ( I'm a part-time farmer so I've lived with REAL Men in their 70s)

1. Don't spend your money to help women for the sake of impressing them, you'll always live to regret it.
back story - I know a man in the community my farm who spent millions to solve women's problem just to have a taste of the coochie, now baba can't sew wood anymore and doesn't have a pin to his name.
2. ' Na wetn you give woman nai she go take '. Stop pardoning nonsense or dismissing your women attitude with the mindset of ' na small thing, e no matter ', first she will take hand, if she sees you didn't react to it, she will take the arm, before you know it, you'll be toy.
back story - I've a brother who was misbehaving with a girl, baba attitude shocked some men in the community, when I was talking with an elderly man, he made that parable.
3. Any money you have, use it to develop yourself, don't ever underestimate self development. instead of sending that girl that 5k, use it to buy a tro or shirt. use it to improve your worth. these days - though I haven't had paid sex, i find it difficult to use my money to run expenses on top sex, I'd rather use it for clothes or more investment.
back story - There's this man in the community, who sold his only inheritance - 8 plots of land, to marry a woman, who had married 3 times and has given birth to 6 children prior his relationship with this said man. baba sold the land this year February, as at May, the woman has been hoping on dicks in the community.
4. I've realized the men who have total control of their wives and still getting young girls without spending much, don't take nonsense, they uphold tradition and they married more than 2.
5. I've also realized forming game is not game at all, if it's not in your Gene or didn't learn, you are not it.

While you improve yourself and manage to accrue some resources focusing on your goals, you also become a target of these alpha widows, gold diggers waiting at the finish line for you to come save them while sleeping around with guys they consider superior to you all the years you were building yourself. Either ignore and reject them if you are moral or pump-dump them to their dismay.

I agree with you with a lot of things you said until the last sentence. A broke Alpha will not get more sex than a rich simp instead a broke alpha will get the best sex with few ladies than choose him than lackluster sex they give to their rich simps.

Look around you, the sugar daddies and the rich betas are getting more sex than the broke dudes (even if Alpha) because they have the resources to get it, eventho the sex might not be good enough and they come at a ridiculous price. Some rich simps are ready to spend millions for a pussy a broke Alpha gets for free.

The broke Alpha don't necessarily get laid by all the women he comes across, why? He can't attract them all but the few he gets give him mind blowing sex which the rich simp can never get. The rich simp has the resources to get any girl laid even if watery sex is all they have to give him.

The broke Alpha gets few quantity but high quality sex, the rich simp get high quantity but low quality sex.

Crumbian:




Amen brother, amen.


E get this fine light-skin babe for work wey be like say she like me. Na she even save her number for my phone.


Everyday interacting with her na war. I be like "don't simp", "don't simp" "PLEEEEAAAASE DON'T SIMP!!!" but before I know wetin dey sup I don dey buy data to "help" her set up some stuffs for her phone.


Later I was like "IDIOOOOT! I TOLD YOU NOT TO SIMP!!!". Bros, e no easy

😆
Lolzz

Crumbian:
Omo, not simping is hard ooo, especially if the girl is very fine/sexy/fresh come get nyash .

I'm telling you my brother and we have our sexual urges on everyday just on seeing ladies

God will help us

I’m so sorry to say. If you meet a fat girl with smelly pucci, you dicc will naturally be flaccid, except you take viagra.

Once a woman uses lubricant for you, just know that there’s zero attraction. If there was, she’s be dripping even from something as simple as texting or hugging you. Another thing to watch out for is her nipples: if it’s doesn’t get errect, my bro just fashi that girl.

I’m speaking from experience.

ubunja:
How Commitment From Men Creates Orgasms For A Woman.


LET'S START AT THE VERY BEGINNING.
Women control sex. Men control commitment. Because women have the pussy and men have the money.

Women are choosy with the men they sleep with. While men are choosy with the women they commit to.

Men are choosy in commitment because a man's commitment is costly to him in that he bears the financial costs of the relationship so who he commits to is a carefully made decision.

Women, on the other hand, are choosy with who they sleep with because sex carries so many physical, biological, psychological and societal risks for them. Everytime a woman sleeps with a man she risks Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) which tend to be more aggressive towards women and some of which can destroy her womb, she risks pregnancy which can go wrong if she gets an STI that can to her unborn baby, she risks physical harm on her delicate organs from sex with aggressive partners and she also risks dickmatization if the dick proves too good, driving her nuts and messing her up mentally.
A woman also risks socially when she has sex because sex with the wrong men - men who are judgemental and talk too much - will ruin her reputation in her community, church, school or workplace and bring her ratings down as far as marriage is concerned. So who a woman has sex with is a carefully made decision.

WOMEN AND COMMITMENT.
In sex women are invested and they have a lot to lose because their bodies are on the line, but in commitment they are not invested because they don't bring much to the table financially (the table being the relationship or the marriage), hence women initiate the most divorces.

Because they came empty-handed women don't lose anything by walking away anytime. A woman's power in a relationship is that she can walk away anytime, because she's not invested the way men are.

No matter how irresponsible and careless a married woman is, she's never the one who has to watch her life savings go down the drain as the marriage breaks down. It's the men who invest their life savings into a marriage. It's them who lose the most when relationships break down.

Most often men are irreversibly ruined financially by a divorce while a woman can simple marry another man.

MEN AND SEX.
When a man and a woman start a relationship all the financial costs, by default, fall on the man. He's the one expected to pay for the dates, buy the gifts, pay bride price, fund the wedding, organize a home, put food on the table and make sure the woman is provided for. Which means for men relationships costs money. And since a relationship can only happen if a man is committed to a woman, then commitment costs a man money. And because money is something a man works hard for, he has to choose his girlfriend and wife carefully or risk losing it all if he commits to the wrong woman who'll abandon him.

But on the other hand, men are not invested in sex because their money and their bodies are not on the line, and all they stand to lose during sex is some pocket change (since sex is as cheap as a loaf of bread), some sweat and maybe a tablespoon of sperm - hence men screw anything in a skirt and it is virtually impossible to get a man to take contraception seriously because he can't get pregnant no matter how careless he is with sex.

No matter how irresponsible a man is with his dick, he's never the one left carrying a baby. And STIs are generally kinder to men than they're to women. And even if an STI was to be so aggressive as to destroy a man's fertility, a barren man is less a catastrophe than a barren woman.

So men are careless with sex, while women are careless with commitment.

And men are careful with commitment, while women are careful with sex.

WHAT SEX MEANS TO MEN AND WOMEN.
For men sex offers maximum benefits (orgasms are always guaranteed and their bodies don't get ruined) while offering minimum risks - but sex is hard to get for them.

For women sex offers minimum benefits (many don't even orgasm) and maximum risks (pregnancy, disease, bonding issues with future men and it ruins women's bodies) but is easy to get.

Men go through life begging for sex. Women go through life turning down sex.

Men come from a place of sexual scarcity. Women come from a place of sexual abundance.

Men come from a place of sex without fear and without concerns because in sex men are not risking much. But women come from a place of sex filled with anxiety and concerns - due to the risks sex presents to them.

WHAT BLOCKS A WOMAN'S PLEASURE?
Although women get sex easy, the sex act itself is very dis-empowering for them. A woman is powerful out there when she's teasing men with her scanty clothing and tempting attire. But the moment the bedroom door closes behind her and the clothes come off and that dick slides into her pussy, the man has all the power. Never is a woman more vulnerable, more defenseless, more exposed and more overpowered, than when she has a dick buried inside her. Her pussy, heart and mind have all been penetrated and taken captive by the man - someone with so little to lose from the sex.

The man, hardly invested in the sex, controls the sex. The woman, she who has everything to lose, has zero control of the moment. If the man decides against condoms he'll most certainly get his way. If his dick is too big for her hole - too bad, she's going to walk funny and sit funny for the next couple of days. If the woman changes her mind and wants the sex to stop - too late, this train doesn't stop till ejaculation! If the man desires to come inside her, there's nothing to stop him.

When a woman is having sex with a man who doesn't love her and who's not committed to her in any way, she shoulders all the risks of the sex all on her own. Whatever the outcome of the sex - pregnancy or disease - she's on her own. She may use contraception but she knows no contraception is 100%. She may have the option to abort any unwanted pregnancy but most women don't feel okay with murdering unborn babies plus abortions carry their own risks. So whatever safety nets and measures exist to minimize the risk of sex for women they still feel exposed to many dangers.

And so, during the sex, while the man is lost in the bliss of intercourse enjoying the ecstasy of copulation, the woman's mind is restless with worry: "What if something goes wrong?", "What if the condom breaks?", "What if he doesn't pull out?", "What if I get pregnant?", "What if I get sick? Who will help me? Will this guy help me? But he doesn't even love me! Yes he gave me money to fvck me, but if I get a baby or a disease that money is peanuts".

Now, these thoughts are very distracting for a woman. They draw her mind away from the act she's participating in.

Instead of focusing on the action between her legs and savoring the sensations, the woman's mind is all over the place. On things that can go wrong. She's wondering what she'll do if things go sideways. Knowing fully well the man fvcking her won't be there for her should the worst happen.
All this brainwork drains the magic out of the sex. It negatively impacts on the woman's experience. It blocks her pleasure. She's too preoccupied analysing worst case scenarios to mentally relax and enjoy herself. She can't reach the highest highs of pleasure with these worries weighing on her mind. And so the sex ultimately never quite fulfill or satisfy her. Her mind is not present in the moment. She's too worried to enjoy anything. And days and weeks after the sex, she'll still worry about other consequences of the sex that may yet surface.

UNLOCKING A WOMAN'S ORGASMS THROUGH COMMITMENT.
NOW, when a woman is having sex with a man committed to her, who loves and cares for her, who values her and who has abundantly made it clear he is willing to shoulder the risks of sex together with her and has sufficiently invested in her as proof, it reassures her and gives her the confidence to cast her worries to the side. This casting away of worries, this alleviation of concerns, this neutralising of fears, this building of trust and confidence, this relief from anxiety - all this puts a woman in a safe and secure mental space. A good place. A happy place. This mental space, this good place, this happy place, is where a woman's orgasms come from.

The difference between committed, loving sex and uncommitted, casual sex, for a woman, is the STATE OF MIND she's in during the sex which in turn affects the amount of pleasure she can derive from the sex. Committed loving sex yields more pleasure.

Because sex, enjoyable as it is, has the potential to ruin a woman's life in so many ways, it is when a woman fully trusts her man to co-shoulder with her any undesirable outcomes, that sex becomes amazing for her. When a woman fully believes that a man will stand by her in dealing with whatever might happen to her because of the sex, her mind is free to let go of all worries and to focus on actually enjoying the sex - it is then that the orgasms will hit. And they'll hit more and more frequently for her.

When there are safety nets, a woman soars and touches the sky.

Inside a relationship, when it comes to sex, It's not so much the size of a man's dick or his sexual prowess that makes sex amazing for a woman, but it's what the relationship represents to her: security - courtesy of the man's commitment.

Her man's commitment to her enables the woman to cast her cares upon him, freeing her mind to fully partake of the moment.

"MONEY MAKES ME WET".
And it's not just the vanquishing of worries specific to sex that makes sex great for women. Women are historically poor and many struggle financially even though they have a job.
The worries that come with not having enough money - worrying about the bills, about food, about the cost of beauty products, clothing, her future, etc, all these are pleasure blockers in that they keep a woman's mind preoccupied - even during sex.

When a woman is a married virtually ALL these fears are allayed. She's at peace and her mind is free. This is fertile ground for women's orgasms.

Men think safe sex is condoms. And that's true. But for women safe sex goes further than just condoms. It includes financial aspects. Aspects that have NOTHING to do with sex. But aspects that, for women, have an immediate and direct effect on the sex.

And on condoms, if a woman has to use condoms to have sex with you already she views the sex as risky and already her pleasure has been blocked. Women hate condoms. And not because they enjoy less with the rubber on or they're allergic, but because of what the rubber symbolizes: "I don't trust you and we shouldn't be doing this, so let's keep our flesh from touching". Which makes the sex cold, detached, unromantic and mechanical - like sex between a man and a prostitute.
Women don't get joy from this kind of sex because it's not intimate. Because there is no skin to skin touch and no exchange of bodily fluids that build that connection and that bond where two become one.

Safe sex for women is sex where they don't have to use condoms because everything is safe . Sex that is happening at the right time with the right man in the right environment for the right reasons.

A slut who has given sex to many men for many years without getting so much as one orgasm can have her first orgasm in marriage with her VIRGIN HUSBAND. Not because virgin husband has superior skills. But because of the circumstances of the sex. The environment. The reasons. That in turn determine the quality of the sex.

QUANTITY VS QUALITY.
For a woman - as far as sex is concerned - the choice between being a hoe and being in a loving relationship with one man is the choice between QUANTITY and QUALITY. Where hoering offers high quantity sex, but a loving one-man relationship offers high quality sex.

A woman who has chosen sexual quantity is an insatiable black hole that consumes and consumes and can never have enough because unrestrained female sexual appetite is bottomless. Also a woman who, in general, orgasms easily during sex is likely to choose to be a hoe. Because she doesn't need that safe and secure mental space (which a relationship creates) to get the most out of sex.

THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COIN.
But, as with all things sex and romance, men and women live in different realities. Opposing realities. And sex and commitment is yet another area of opposites: while sex with commitment is the best sex for women, sex WITHOUT commitment is the best sex for men.

A man enjoys sex best when he has no regard, no respect and no care for the woman he's screwing. The woman the man holds in high regard whom he respects and cares about, sex with her doesn't quite blow his mind. It's that whole Madonna-Wh0re thing. Where the respected girlfriend or wife is loved but the debased hoe is lusted.


# MGTOW
# TheRedPill

emmaodet:


bro, it all depends on the angle you look it from.
The ONLY single reason women sleep around, club, bang and chase the top 20% guys is because deep deep deep down, they know the remaining 80% will be stranded and really thirsty. So no matter what, worst case scenario, they will get a beta to settle down with at the end of the day even if they actually don't like him. They will grudgingly settle down with him.

Bro, the thirst is real, i see it on daily basis. A lot of men invincible to ladies meanwhile crying for ladies attention. IT IS ALL GAME OF NUMBERS.
If most men are seeing women on daily basis for relationship like 1 lady per day, then it is a game over.
These thirsty men EASILY give out their most priced advantage which is COMMITMENT.I was once in that shoe but i thank God am out of it. Let's be frank with each other, MONEY is a big factor that changes the game 180* to most men favour provided you know your worth ofcourse.
I met a lady here on NL, mid 30's desperately looking for a hubby but when we got closer and she told me about her past, wawuuuuuuuuuuuu....
Banging different kind of men, partying, drinking, clubbing thinking the whole earth revolves round her and got carried away, Boooom.....she is in her late 20's/early 30's struggling to hold down a quality man but in all these, she is not short of thirsty low quality men all begging for her to be their wife and throwing the singular advantage they have out to her.......COMMITMENT. Their commitment is soooooo cheap thereby not valuable.
If all poor and struggling guys can take commitment out of the table, a lot of sanity will be restored in relationship.

"No sex till marriage" should be a respected phrase from virgins ONLY.
Even women understand this.
Usage of this phrase by any category of women lesser than a virgin is pure manipulation and gaslight tactics.
Declaration of such should be a one point Red flag.
Wimps,simps and soy boys will disagree.
These kind of women are the women that have "one last sex" with their exes before the wedding
OR
Keep having sex with another man who has no plan for them while they keep you waiting to spend millions to unpack the garbage left.
Women only repent out of necessity to survive and adapt.
Most of their repentance schemes are scheduled and preplanned.
Everyone is aware of what they're doing.
The plan is to win.
Explore in the present. Repent in the future.
All women repent.She has repented.
Time to hook a man now
If she's given to opportunity to come to this world again with this knowledge, she would still repeat the same strategy.
She didn't just find God. She knew where God was, she just didnt want to go there yet.Women go to parties in their 20s and Churches in their 30s.
If aging could be paused, most women would never find God.
They will continue to live in delusions till eternity.Most women find God after reality and time set in.Women don't want religion.
They need religion

If a repented hoe suddenly discovers that she should keep herself from you. Don't force it.
Move!

What's she's saying is that, _"I am not as attracted to you as other men that ran through me when I was still riding the hot dog carousel", "I got tired and I want to retire", "You will need to wait till marriage and commit your life to me for you to have a taste of what I used to dash out for free"._ _"Although after you marry me, I wont give you constant sex, I will deprive you. I will stop respecting you."_

I wouldn't recommend wifing a woman that perceives you as beta.

Signs are that prior to the marriage or relationship, she wouldn't enjoy getting wild with you (either by declaration of fantasy or practice); being dominated by you ; following your directions. She double checks your authority and jokingly chip away your ego.

Some men not all men. Some men just start shaking when they see a woman. They can empty their for her. Woman wer don get like 25 body count o sad

I know majority of women are dishonest but you just took yours to a whole new level. Quite sad if I must add.

On any scale, in any environment, more women are likely to be sexually loose than their male counterparts. I mean as a woman, all you need is a great body to court attention of men. Men will promise vacation, cars and many more to have a taste of that coochie.

Just for being a woman, either poor or rich, men will PROMISE or GIVE something in return for sexual pleasure from you. For a man, it is not so, your access/ownership to resources qualifies you for sex and it doesn't even guarantee it.

Especially that hoe phase of 16 - 24 years, girls change boyfriends like they are changing scarfs, it is fuçking sooo easy. Women are getting laid and getting money as a plus. And you have the nerve to say we have more faithful ladies than guys? Perish that thought abeg.

Only about well-to-do 20 guys can be fuçking 800 girls during that hoe phase and the struggling guy have to wait for crumbs.

WHY A MAN SHOULD NOT MARRY EARLY
In general, a modern man shouldn't marry before he has built a masculine frame and understood female nature, regardless of his age.
A masculine frame and understanding of female nature are provincial attributes compared to age.
It is because of this shortcoming that some men, despite being way past 40, divorce more than twice as they strive to get it right.
Traditionally, older people believed that wayward young men who lacked of direction and drive should settle down in marriage. Marrying a woman grounds a young man and gives him a purpose to apply his energies towards. Typically, that comprises feeding his wife and children.
But marrying while young in a modern world often nullifies a man's prospects of having a stable fulfilling marriage, especially from a financial front. In general it blocks his view from finding any higher purpose other than meeting the demands of the survival pressures applied upon him by his family.
Marrying early often poses a life risk to men. I have seen men die prematurely because they married when they were too young. I have seen marriage cutting off young men's chances of developing themselves. Often, gathering frustrations and the futility of their efforts drive many young men to depression and substance abuse.
For many young men, their fortunes often take a turn for the worse when the kids start popping. Marrying young for a man is very much like a girl getting pregnant while still in school.
Of course, for some men who marry early, things work out. Oftentimes, they're men who marry traditional conservative women or men who manage to stay on the path of growth and probably benefit from their parents' .
But these men are not the norm. For most men, marrying early carries the following disadvantages.

1. YOU CANT GET A QUALITY WOMAN
A man is born without value and must make himself valuable. This takes time, and most men hit their financial stride in their late thirties and forties.
If you marry in your twenties, you are broke and don't have a large pool of women to pick from. So you pick whatever is available to you.
When you've made yourself valuable, you can attract better-quality women and have more options, so will not be operating from scarcity.
Men with limited options make necessity a virtue and are more likely to suffer buyers remorse later on when they realize they made a hasty decision and settled too soon.

2. YOU LACK A MASCULINE FRAME
Because you haven't developed yourself as a man and are far from maximizing your potential, your attainments are few and resources meagre.
As such, even if you invite a woman into your life, it's fairly threadbare. She cannot be contained by you and feels exposed and insecure.
You're likely to be dick driven in your twenties and are more likely to surrender leadership to a woman because of the dopamine you get from her. You haven't fortified yourself as a man and understood
You lack perspicacity and will not make the best decisions in of how to direct your attention and spend resources.

3. YOU ARE LESS LIKELY TO GET SUBMISSION FROM HER
Because you're young, the woman you're likely to marry will not be far from you agewise and in of life achievements.
She will therefore likely see you as a peer and not a leader. She may not submit to your leadership and you will struggle to have authority in your household.
Even traditionally conservative women often change and their hypergamy makes them leave such unions.
You will find yourself struggling to pay for her maternity, buying pampers, taking care of the growing family and so on.

4. A LITTLE LIVED EXPERIENCE MAKES YOU PSYCHOLOGICALLY WEAK
Because you haven't experienced much in life, you're psychologically weak and may have similar anxiety levels as your wife.
So you will not be able to make her feel secure and listen to you. You will be second-guessing yourself and may find yourself deferring to her leadership.
In addition, it places you in a precarious situation in case the relationship goes south of faces turbulence. Your decision making skills are poor, your problem solving skills untested and so on.
You're not ready.
Many guys hanging out in clubs imbibing alcohol and guys using alcohol as a crutch for the difficulties they find themselves in. They don't know what else to do about their indentured lives. It's a slow death. Gout, heart disease and declining SMV stalk them like phantoms.

5. YOU'RE MORE LIKELY TO STAGNATE
Because you're weak willed, under siege, reeling from demands from your wife and children, you're not going to have room to manoeuvre.
If you dropped at form four, there may be no room to for a diploma or evening classes so that you can gain a valuable skill.
This is because the basic needs of your family will take priority over you going to class.
If you have a visionless woman, which is likely, you will be living hand to mouth and working like Sisyphus pushing a boulder uphill your entire life.

6. MARRIAGE OFTEN KILLS AMBITION
Because you do not have a frame and are underdeveloped psychologically, the dopamine you get from regular sex will likely sedate you and kill your hunger for success as you make the woman the center of your universe.
Many men give up on their ambitions once they get married and tied down to their family because of this. They tie their identities to their wives and tether themselves to their families. So they miss opportunities and become devoted father's living a life of insignificance that is hardly a reflection of their potential.

7. ITS OFTEN ILL-INFORMED
Charles Njonjo married in his 50s and lived to see his grandchildren. Jomo Kenyata married Mama Ngina when he was 58 and they had many healthy children.
In Luo, we say a man does not rot. Men age like fine wine and women age like milk.
Don't be in a hurry to marry. Times have changed and the glue that held marriages together has changed or been stripped off.
Take your time. Focus on building your value and protecting your health.
Unless you have a terminal illness, or are from a rich family, there's no rush.
It's women who should worry about marrying young because they have a biological clock.

Take your time and consider very carefully before you marry in your twenties.

Jacob Aliet

CaveAdullam:
Well, I'm not an advocate of promiscuity in men even if it is instinctually wired in them, because when men begin to live according to this way, civilization will quickly run into a quicksand----and this is the problem we are facing today in the world----men becoming feeble without regards for their goals which is more higher than women. These men;simps as they are called will sacrifice their goals and youthfulness chasing women and doing anything to please them hoes.

Nevertheless, truth must be revealed. Men and women are not equal; psychologically, neurologically, biologically and cognitively. That is both genders are complementaries but WILL NEVER BE EQUAL.

A woman seeks a good provider, leader and protector role in a man, and will stick to this man for life because it is what tingles her v****a strings and causes vibration. But such kind of men are rare and for this reason---Women innate dual mating strategy; Alpha f^¢ks beta bucks. AKA Female Hypergamy.

A man will put a cutthroat to his promiscuity based on the love he has for his woman and on the grounds of morality/religion only if a woman can be able to seduce him with her feminine qualities. The women with a high dose of these untapped qualities are mostly virgins who grew up under the auspices of their traditional parents inculcating core values and tradtions into them, and educating them about sexual purity.

In the case above, love will flow naturally from the man to the wife without any thought of numero uno whorism in the mind of the man concerning his beloved wife.

Nature is already a sexist----why the f^¢k do men not have an hymen to determine their debauchery? It is an enigma for the feminists and they are foolishly led astray as a result of this cause.......looooool

Repentant hoes have a chance to lead a good marriage with simps but Kings has predilections for virgins with raw feminity only.

Men should pursue long term values for the sake of nature and civilization progress and not alter it in exchange for cheap hoes and their pu$$!es while women should seduce men with natural feminity within and outside marriage and not with useless feminism.

Thanks.

Good day.

CaveAdullam:
Subjectively, you are right, individuals should find whatever mates that rocks their boats.

But as far as nature is concerned, virginity is a prerequisite for men when choosing women because it indicates that that woman is fertile. Fertility here indicates a spouse free of diseases, a spouse who will reproduce fertile kids, a spouse who has a high degree of pair bonding, a spouse who is loyal and will want a long happy relationship. These are very important because men are the ones committing, bringing more resources and less resistant to danger in the relationship.

Men don't attach emotions to sex, but women do! Women are both psychological and emotional about sex. Committing to a woman who has fvcked a lot of d!cks is a bad investment for the man because he's committing to a woman with a long standing sexual history encoded in her memory and who still have the tendency to go back down the memory lane reproducing these histories.



First of all, nature doesn't care about religion, morality(good or bad), ethics, principles blah blah blah. Everything you must understand when it comes to intersexual dynamics boils down to biology, evolution, psychology, biochemistry etc.

1. Natural selection selected females that has hymen to survive in the genetic pool because it was preferred by males. If males never found it important, women wouldn't have evolved to have hymen. Same way men didn't evolved to have hymen because women didn't see the need for it in men. Peacocks evolved to have beautiful tails because that's what peahens are attracted to and will mate with.

Men evolved to have bigger body mass and more violent because women preferred men that can protect, provide and be parentally invested. Women didn't because men never required women to defend them and also because women are the weaker sex.

Simply put, what each sexes desired in the other was selected for while others either became redundant or wiped out.

Morality may be put in place to check some excesses, however, it must be understood that nature must be worked with to achieve a positive aim rather than tamed!

And there's nothing like illicit sexual activities. I know you're ego invested in your religion/belief system. Humans have 3 mating systems: pair bonding or monogamy, casual mating or promiscuity and polygyny. (For polyandry, it is not common)!

Men rank higher in all of these sexual mating system, hence, it tends to seems that men are the only ones fvcking around. Why? Because:

1. men have a high libido fueled by testosterone.

2. A part of men's brain is stimulated when exposed to pornographic content.

3. Short life expectancy plus millions of sperms which must be spread out as fast as possible. Therefore, every mating opportunity must be properly utilized.

However, since women are the gatekeepers of sex, sex only happens when they decide! While commitment is decided by men! As a result, women can decide to have sex when they want, with whomever they want, unlike men that must persuade women before having sex. Ironically, though men are highly promiscuous, yet, they don't have sex regularly because women only want men that occupies the totem's pole of the society.



This has nothing to do with the Bible or religion dear Christian!

To be sexually free of diseases is very sacrosanct. Hence, both men and women must practice safe sex. Because, none will invest in a partner that is sexually impure. So, where this has been taken care of, virginity still comes into play as mentioned earlier.

Now, exposures to unrestricted sexual activities among a population tends to lead to decrease in social, mental and productive energy. (Alright, you're now happy)! Zooistic and manistic societies when compared to deistic societies are in the lowest scale of civilization because of their unrestricted sexual activities. The highest in this energy is rationalistic societies, however, only few societies fluctuates back and forth in it without gaining proper balance.

This progress in civilization has been traced to limiting female promiscuity, : women are the gatekeepers of sex. Therefore, if you observe great societies or individuals during a particular period of time tracking their progress, you will notice this kind of mating system: Monogamy>polygamy>unrestricted sex. Monogamous societies are the second in the pyramid after rationalistic societies which is at the top.



You are so full of emotions!

Evolutionary, female children are more beneficial than male children. They survive more at birth, have higher life expectancy, taken care of by men and society from birth to death, decide the number of men who will their genetic line to the next generation. Men are the expendable sex!

Men are the ones held responsible for everything because the growth and future of civilization falls upon their shoulders. And when they fail everything collapse. No wonder every good and great inventions and discovery has male signatures upon it.

Nobody is insinuating anything bro, it's nature doing the Lord's work. Women receiving series of harangues to remain virgins is for their own good because no reasonable man in his right senses with good resources will commit to a damaged woman.



What should be discussed on that drawing board is not Bible study nor religion, but everything that has to do with facts and figures, that's, data, statistics, observations and researches, and not fairy tales.

Understanding how things work, will be a proper guide if progress will be made. Men and women's nature must be understood, and since the sexes are sexually dimorphic, individual man and woman can decide on possible ways to work with their inherent nature rather than feel guilty. The consequences both intended and unintended must be properly analysed when discussing whether to run amok or not with our primal and inherent desires.

Thanks.

Good evening.

25 rules for young men:

1. Know the difference between love and lust.

2. It’s OK to go to movies by yourself.

3. Hygiene is more important than you think.

4. Never date a friend’s ex.

5. Stay informed on what’s going on. Don’t be a sheep.

6. Have a sense of humor but don’t joke about dreams and goals.

7. Study the type of people who upset you and why.

8. Stand up to bullies. You’ll only have to do it once.

9. Don’t bully people weaker than you.

10. Learn how to tell stories.

11. Don’t lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books.

12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family.

13. Don’t complain– you seem helpless. 80% / 20%

14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter.

15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more.

16. Have a memorable style.

17. Don’t feel guilty for being ambitious.

18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones.

19. Always have some cash,
and a power bank.

20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity.

21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters.

22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do.

23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like.

24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the right industry.

25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you..💡

Warfare: Control The Pacing To Stack The Odds

In warfare, pacing is extremely important and determines the tone of the conflict.

Slowing down the pace, depriving of information, dragging things out etc incites impatience and racks up expenses - this is war through attrition and focuses on exhausting resources both mental and material to drain the enemy over time. This is a low energy slow moving strategy that aims to bring about a win condition by taking so long it depletes the enemy of all vital resources, or agitates them so greatly they make greater concessions to bring about hastier resolution.

Overwhelming a defence simultaneously from all angles with multi vector bombardment (blitzkrieg) to break through a defensive line (or pressure point) and elicit surrender is a much higher energy strategy which involves limiting their options to make your offer the most appealing. This typically involves a lot of pre-planning to cut off their routes of escape for when you plan to strike. This entails having a knowledge of what their options are, what they are likely to do, and either making said options costlier than giving you what you want, or removing them as options entirely before they even know you're in conflict.

Flow of information follows the same principle of attrition and bombardment, either give them very little to work with to reinforce their ignorance through mysteriousness, or give them more than they can handle to cause confusion via complexity. The latter is the spirit of malicious compliance, giving them what they request - just not in the way they want it.

These principles apply as much to a competitive video game as they do to a business deal or a divorce. Determine the pace. Make them go slow when they want to go fast, and fast when they want to go slow. If they are desperate for it to be over and want the quick win, drag it out. Even if you cannot win, make their win more costly to make your loss less painful. If they want to drag it out, look for their stress points to break through and yield a concession (identify weakness, and apply leverage against it) - this isn't done for the sake of spite, but to throw them off by frustrating them thereby undermining their clarity of thought and tactical efficiency.

People who have to go slow when they want to move fast are frustrated things aren't moving along quicker, and people who have to move fast when they want to go slow are caught off guard and often forced into making a move when no move is their best option (zugzwang).

Being patient and able to endure a protracted conflict whilst also being able to anticipate sudden changes in tempo which force you to act quickly is key. Treat the battlefield as a fluid space with variations in tempo that reward whoever adapts to them quickest. Secure an advantage by forcing them to react, rather than always being the one forced to react. If you think of it as a dance, the one forcing reactions through their action and inaction is controlling the tempo and thereby the pacing, whilst the one always reacting is on the backfoot and thereby at a disadvantage.

He who sets the pace, and switches pace based on optimal logistics and timing has an unfair advantage and thus the highest probability of winning. And , not everything in this life is zero sum, but when it is - set the pace to stack the deck in your favour. If you're forced to go at their speed, they're in control.

The problem with most men is that they are always on the look out to please women.
Don't look for a woman to please, look for a woman that will please YOU.

*Sexual market value
-Inherent or acquired values that helps you to command attention, especially towards a means to fulfill your innate sexual needs/desires. (Sex/Survival).

-Sexual market value (SMV) refers to an individual’s mating value. It is a total sum of what you offer in a sexual relationship.

*i.e. Female- Beauty ,Fertility, Age .*

*Male- Strength, Resources, Status.*

Agbomma wants you to think that every wo.man is like her - with no real value to offer a man.

That's why she'll tell you that you're wasting your time if you think you'll find a decent girl for something serious.

What Agbomma's sense doesn't tell her is that before she became Agbomma, she was once a decent girl or at least had the opportunity to choose decency or Agbommaism.

Agbomma, there are still girls in that phase you were before you started your endless soujourn in the streets and not all of these girls will choose the path you chose - the ones who follow your path will still meet us and we'll treat her just like we're treating you. Pipe and Swipe.

The ones who choose common sense will be treated with common sense.

Agbomma wants every wo.man to think they're like her that's why she comes up with statements like

"Who good geh epp?"

Agbomma how is your bad geh life epping you?

If it's that rosy, why do you want to kill an innocent man who says your body count counts?

Why do you hide your Agbommaic nature/lifestyle, travel to another location and repackage for a man in hopes that he'll marry you without knowing your past you're proud of?

Agbomma, if your wayward baddie life is really pleasant why do you later become a "new creature in Christ" and ready to retire into the home of an innocent man?

Damaged people(male or female) want you to think its not possible to see people that are not damaged. They want you to think you are doing to much to want the best for you. They discourage you by saying all sort like Keep searching till you’re 50, go and marry an angel, you no fit see virgin etc.
It is a good thing as a person to have standards and stand by it. It is better to be by yourself than settle for regrets.

zenithgroup:
It's true brother, if you couldn't control your lustful desire for opposite sex; such men always end up trapped in woman web.

Solomon
Samson
David
Adam

geedot:
It's not even about others, it should be about you! Why should you pay a lady for sex? I don't know why I don't like hearing this statement "what others are getting for free", what concern of yours is what others are doing or not doing?

What's important is you don't do it[i.e pay for sex]! So let's assume everyone now pay for sex and no one is actually getting it for free, would you start paying too since no one is getting it for free?

Alright bro
Thanks for your insight

Only foolish men pay for the pùssy someone is getting for free

Never forget this

Malachi 2 vs 14-16
14Yet you say, “For what reason?”
Because the Lord has been witness
Between you and the wife of your youth,
With whom you have dealt treacherously;
Yet she is your companion
And your wife by covenant.
15 But did He not make them one,
Having a remnant of the Spirit?
And why one?
He seeks godly offspring.
Therefore take heed to your spirit,
And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.
16 “For the Lord God of Israel says
That He hates divorce,
For it covers one’s garment with violence,”
Says the Lord of hosts.
“Therefore take heed to your spirit,
That you do not deal treacherously

Colossians 3:18-19
18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

Ephesians 5vs 21-26
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.
24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word

1 Peter3:5-6-For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.

Titus 2:5-To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.