Doolove:
I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.
I can't the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.
He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.
He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.
This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.
He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.
Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship?
Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere.
You may not believe me but I read every word you typed here. Your guy is an alpha male! I like him and I am sure you like him too, you just don't realize it. Most of you women like and strongly ire such men, just that you guys rarely know what you want. Your other guys who were always at your beck and call, what did you do to them? Denied them sex while relishing the pitiable sight of the simps "crawling" (as you put it ) begging you for sex. I am sure that while you torture them with sexual starvation, you were cheating on them with your alpha man. You may now be reluctant to cheat on this your wicked guy because you know he will kick your sorry arse beyond the horizon. An average woman is a sadist that is wicked to loving men and loyal you wicked ones. Enjoy your alpha male and count yourself fortunate, not all women are lucky to find such, many have to cope with the annoying company of simps. Your guy is karma's gift to you!
LilMissFavvy:
Don't release your child. You should only allow the boy to go when he's 18- 20yrs. If you release your child to him, he will definitely manipulate the boy and cut links with you. Keep your child. What stops him from taking you along? Be wise.
See the way your gender's evil minds work. I wonder how manipulation came into this talk. Both you and the OP are indeed paranoid! If she likes, she should hide the child, when he grows up in this hell hole and learns how his mum frustrated his father's attempt to take him out, I will see how he will like her. And did you say her ex husband should take her to Europe too? See your mouth! Will she do same for him in his shoes? We need her to fix Nigeria, she ain't going anywhere!
OP, your husband is a doctor and he knows about the vulva more than you dom If he said he is checking the vulva then you have no option other than to believe him.
These people are stupid o. What have you done to end it in an age where there are sophisticated drones and other gadgets and technologies that can combat such challenges?
Tinubu would have left APC if he didn't get the ticket
He is not different
He sold the entire South for his selfish ambition
But certainly not to PDP. I never ed him becoming a president and never ired his morals, but he is consistent in his political alignments. You must give that up to him.
inoki247:
Lol what people see in UK I still Neva see am....
Buh anyway I wish dem well....
65k for UK I will rather find one cool Africa Country relocate to nd go start a cool life dere nd still become a business owner Dan waste 65k Pounds to go become Slave....
My Guy wey still use 10k pounds to du UK I still dey use one kain eyes look him.....
With that kind of money, If Nigeria pepper me well, I will rather go to Rwanda and be a king. With Naija sense and God, I will be fine.
The Chief of Army Staff, Lt Gen. Taoreed Lagbaja, has said the Nigerian Army has arrested the soldier who slammed the Lagos State Governor, Babajide Sanwo-Olu, for ordering the arrest of his colleague alongside three other motorcyclists for driving against traffic on the Lagos-Badagry Expressway
Oga, this is a very useless video. No evidence of COAS ordering his arrest, no evidence of him being arrested, just you talking from A to Z.
saphiere:
Nigerian men are afraid of independent women.
They are intimidated by our successes.
They need women that are solely dependant on them so that they can use those women as they whish.
Genevieve Nnaji,
Funke Akindele
Tonto Dikeh
Are a proof that Nigerian men can't stand independent women. They need people they can intimidate. People to bruise their ego on.
If the aforementioned women weren't independent, they would have been in their husbands' houses.
I spit on a gender who hates other gender's successes.
Can you see how the above monikers made mockery of Nigerian women? Asking if it's Akeke bread or sliced bread. Because for their minds no Nigerian woman deserves to be a breadwinner.
Asking why would Ini Edo disrespect men are you indirectly saying that women are created to respect men? Respect is earned to given.
Those women you mentioned are not more successful than Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Obi Ezekwesili and Folorinsho Alakija who have been married for decades and whose husbands we barely know anything about.
If you like pay your gateman a monthky salary of N200K it will not stop him from stealing the diesel in your generator to sell once the opportunity presents itself!
If you pay him less, you double his chances of stealing from you. Play your part first.
How is he right? You made a good point and then you started apologising. A stupid blogger carried a video showing two white dudes arguing and a foolish Nigerian blogger said it is a Nigerian that was using his neighbour's wifi. Does that old man in the video look like a Nigerian?
Ememmmi:
I have an uncle that ed on early last year. My daddy told me he's my "uncle" but a distant relation because I don't know him in the village. We only met in lagos here so I think we are related but not close relation. Before he died, I use to send money to him especially during covid. At times he will ask and atimes I will send without him asking me. So when he ed on early last year, I was still sending the little amount I can afford to his wife. Its been 4 months I gave birth and she did not even come to see me. Her house to my house is about 500 transport fare to and fro. She knows there's no how she will come to my house and I won't give her cash even if at all she don't have transport fare.
She called me 2 days ago asking of Christmas money. I told her I will send it but inside me I am not happy honestly. People came from very far distance to visit me when I gave birth but this woman didn't even show concern. Anytime she call me will always be to ask of money. She said all her husband relative has abandoned her.
It is not like I don't have money to give her but her attitude is bad. She has only one daughter which she claimed she's in university. I don't know how true is that
Do you think I should overlook her character and give her the money
Firstly, I wish to commend your kind heartedness which is not too common in Nigeria especially in difficult times like this. Next, I will like to advice you to give the money to her but after bluntly telling her she bleeped up! Don't fail to tell her what she did is wrong and you found it offensive. Kindness to widows is a virtue which never goes without a blessing. May God reward you abundantly.
AngelicBeing:
Nawao, Dem Don already collect egunje of 500 pounds 💷 from you to chop MacDonald's , why didn't you post this question before you gave them the egunje
He been think say na legit parole, so like a typical Nigerian, he hide am make e no cast.
Average South south people have zero principles. That is why in spite of the enormous resources in their region, a vast majority of them languish in abject poverty.
No African mother will reject a successful son unless she's a witch.
The joy of every mother is to see her sons progress.
So, a 22 year old 200 level student should be broke and poor in Nigeria?
I bought my first land in 300 level.
This is the problem with Nigerians. The reason police profile a young boy driving a car as yahoo boy.
See how you just exposed your faulty upbringing on nairaland.
Young boys are making money without yahoo. Yahoo is not the only means of making money online.
As a student, learn a skill while studying. Don't always depend on your parents.
A young man wearing his graduation gown has been seen strolling around the city, celebrating his scholastic achievements by himself the now-viral video, the young man is shown gracefully entering the city, swerving around vehicles and pedestrians along the way, clearly relishing this moment of pride.
In the absence of any apparent family or friends, online s expressed a variety of emotions.
Some felt sorry for the young graduate and wondered where his family and friends had vanished, while others speculated that he might be an orphan who has been left to celebrate his accomplishment on his alone.
In response to the film, a number of people posted on social media about their own experiences celebrating significant anniversaries alone, which sparked a wave of empathy
Must his family be there to celebrate with him? What is even there to celebrate about graduation in Nigeria? A country where jobs are near non-existent for graduates.
A young man wearing his graduation gown has been seen strolling around the city, celebrating his scholastic achievements by himself the now-viral video, the young man is shown gracefully entering the city, swerving around vehicles and pedestrians along the way, clearly relishing this moment of pride.
In the absence of any apparent family or friends, online s expressed a variety of emotions.
Some felt sorry for the young graduate and wondered where his family and friends had vanished, while others speculated that he might be an orphan who has been left to celebrate his accomplishment on his alone.
Must his family be there to celebrate with him? What is even there to celebrate about graduation in Nigeria? A country where jobs are near non-existent for graduates.
In response to the film, a number of people posted on social media about their own experiences celebrating significant anniversaries alone, which sparked a wave of empathy
That you met doctors who had no idea of what to do does NOT give you the right to advise people to consult Google when they want to visit doctors. It's a very wrong and dangerous idea you are giving to people.
You ought to know that there are specialist for various ailment and colloquially, they're called physians or doctors.
Also, it should be noted that Nigerian Healthcare is alarmingly grossly under staffed with specialist healthcare professionals.
When the patient's condition needs the opinion of a specialist, refer tehm to one and stop trying to solve a problem that is beyond you.
israelmao:
If you want to live stressfree and have peace of mind as a landlord or landlady don't live in the same house with your tenants and engage the services of an estate manager or lawyer to deal with your tenants.
Wrong! If you want to live a stress free life and have peace of mind as a tenant, don't ever live in the same house with your land lord or landlady.
Jeon: SS part of the nation.
It's seems that we are closely related, both in some traditions.
Yeah, the story goes this way. The river was abandoned a long time ago, no worshiping, cleaning up and taking care of animals in it.. So it has been sending messages through dreams and life to the villagers [including I ] and the chief, and the worst part of it the chief will tell you to keep your mouth shut that we are now in Christianity.
So Wahala started last week Monday, till Friday.
Which wahala happened?
GOTVee: Even though I'm a born again Christian, I quite agree with Mr Rewane on the increase in the presence of lunatics online and offline. If not for madness and Lunacy, how would a sane human being be celebrating the blood bath in Gaza? Isreal bombing innocent children and women just because of a few renegades amongst them. Only a lunatic will the wickedness of Isreal. If you are ing the genocide in Gaza, then you are worst than a mad man
Anyone that s the killings of October 7th which was perpetrated by Hamas is a mad man too. Those Palestinian dudes raped women and corpses. Anyone that s them is an even bigger mad man.
PROPEACE: 12:29pm On Jan 21, 2024 
) begging you for sex. I am sure that while you torture them with sexual starvation, you were cheating on them with your alpha man. You may now be reluctant to cheat on this your wicked guy because you know he will kick your sorry arse beyond the horizon. An average woman is a sadist that is wicked to loving men and loyal you wicked ones. Enjoy your alpha male and count yourself fortunate, not all women are lucky to find such, many have to cope with the annoying company of simps. Your guy is karma's gift to you!
