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maak400:The outcome is dependent on what wes will evaluate your diploma certificate as. So I will say submit both and give it a try, you have nothing to lose and you won't be paying extra. I just hope you included the diploma at the point of registration for WES. If not , you can send them a mail to include that since your evaluation is yet to start. |
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Canadahome:The only thing that is required of you to prove your employment is a reference letter in IRCC format. To be honest, na over do dey make us add bank statement. She will be fine, if the VO needs additional documents, she will be ed. However, if she still doesn't feel better, she can go ahead to add her bank statement but if I were in her shoes, I will wait it out. 3 Likes |
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Wisdom7400:You know you and shoeshineguy could have just quoted me directly instead of responding indirectly and lamenting about how you wanted to quote me on this and that. Anyway I still maintain that my opinion is mine and I am only responsible for what I type and not what you understood from my post. Yes, it's not a gender war. If my opinion isn't objective enough, state yours in the most objective way you deem fit. I may be biased but in your hearts, you know there may be a 40% or even 50% possibility that this was done out of spite and wickedness. We have seen too many wickedness going on in a lawless country like Nigeria to not want to tilt towards ing the female gender (YES, I am biased in this case and I it. Hope that makes you feel better). Femi Fani Kayode comes to mind of how spouses with more money are more powerful in Nigeria and how they can do things and get away with it. What if he gave the consent and then revoked it just as the woman claimed? That's another angle. Like I said in my post to the first guy who quoted me, I am only pained for the kids who are caught in between two immature parents. I hope now that he has the kids, he is going to devote his time to them instead of keeping them with relatives or leaving them unsupervised with nannies. They are the real victims in all of these. The woman had the option of going for full custody but she chose to cheat the system by forging a consent form as also stated in the case so she should be left to bear the consequences of her actions. Going back to court to decide full custody could be long but it will give her peace of mind or better still a safer and peaceful option of sitting and having a discussion with her ex spouse is another. But I am left to wonder why a woman would want to take the kids away from her husband without a genuine reason? There is a reason for everything, I don't think she is a monster who just wants to deprive a man access to his kids. However, nothing changes the fact that the burden resulting from the selfishness of two adults is falling on two innocent kids. Seeing that they both have money to drag each other to court internationally shows they will both be fine. I am sorry if you don't like my post. 23 Likes |
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EsoEso:It is not a gender war. I have said mine, you can say yours as well from a different perspective without reference to my gender. I am only pained for the kids whose selfishness from their parents has put them in the middle of an unending war. The real victims here are the kids. Peace 2 Likes |
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Olisa222:Yes, it's still within the last 10 years. 1 Like |
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GraciousWords:This is really sad. He only thought of himself alone. In my opinion, he didn't think of the good education and life opportunities the children could get. In the long run, the children would despise him and this gra gra ends when the children turns 18, he wouldn't have the legal binding on them again and boom she can sponsor them since I read that you can now sponsor your ward of 21/22 years of age ( can't say precisely) and they may cut with him. People like this were probably missing in action when it comes to taking care of the kids. She may have been the only one taking care of them both financially and physically but he knows he has a legal power and he used it. As for the woman, she didn't get proper guidance. In her case, she should have tried to get full custody of the kids, that's what is usually advised for single parent instead she went to forge documents. She went about this the wrong way. I hope they all find peace. 7 Likes |
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This is very inspiring.
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Tonyamori:@maak400 this is another angle ooo. 1 Like |
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EsoEso:And what part of my posts suggest that? He said his friend is willing to gift him the money not loan and I advised based on people's past experience that using a friend is not acceptable. I read that as his friend willing to help him with the funds. You may correct me if I am wrong. |
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maak400:However, please ensure its not a loan. Using loans for EE is not acceptable. Be sure it's a gift before even accepting the funds. 2 Likes |
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maak400:Gift deed from friends is not advisable and not acceptable. No VO will believe a friend is gifting another friend thousands of dollars as a gift. The friend can credit one of your parents and then your folks can do the gift deed. 4 Likes |
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Lagosboy12:If your job is currently related to what you studied in the university, why not consider Australia? You sound like you have the cash inflow, you may try that as your second option while waiting for PNP. 1 Like |
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Cut off with whoever will take away the peace of mind you have worked so hard to build irrespective of the relationship you share. Some blood relatives are toxic and draining! Family is beyond blood, there are people who aren't related to you by blood but would love you like you are siblings. I am tired of hearing people say forgive and forget. You can forgive and decide not to forget. I wish you all the best.
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tossie101:You have stayed in Lagos long enough to say that most of the men from one tribe are aggressive and women beaters? ![]() Kinzo0917: My dear brother, she is no better position to judge nothing. She should change the people she associates herself with. Environments matters as well, you can't stay in some environment and not expect to see frustrated folks. I don't associate myself with their tribal wars but the confidence in writing the post above is appalling and I had to address it. 1 Like |
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maak400:All you need is the soft copy. There is no use for the hard copy. Besides my first report was delivered even with the Nigerian postal service palaver, I was the one who rejected the report when the dispatch guy was asking for an arm and a leg after I paid. I told him to use it to decorate his house. However if you would still like to use the other options, it's your call. |
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maak400:It's because you selected the expensive courier. Kindly select the standard one. They charge $10 or thereabout. |
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space02:French as a first language is no longer a criteria. About two people in a group I belong to got NOI from Ontario and it's been a while I heard people were selected from that stream. 1 Like |
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Diaperssbabies:Yes. We are all human and are prone to mistakes. IRCC understands this as well. 1 Like |
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gbemmyusuf:Congratulations to you! May the Land favour you and yours! 1 Like |
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imarrpopson:BCS is a part time course, so input it as that on your profile. |
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Mercychen:Please ignore those who wants to derail your thread. With regards to your thread, like I said earlier you are not selfish for wanting one child. Motherhood and pregnancy is not beans as well and what's the point in birthing children you will resent and not have the emotional and mental capacity to be able to take care of them? However you will be selfish if you make someone reluctantly agree to something they don't want to do. In your case, the guy doesn't want to do a vasectomy and he even reluctantly agreed to your one child policy which to me is a red flag for you and your wants. He is not a bad man, he knows what he wants but he doesn't know how to communicate. He probably reluctantly agreed because he feels you will change your mind after one child. So when you came with vasectomy, he out rightly said NO! Ignore these Nairalanders insulting you and get out of the relationship. You both are not good for each other because you're not on the same page. There are a lot of guys out there who would agree with the one child you want and immediately get a vasectomy. I wish you all the best. Trust me, the people insulting you are not worth it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Relixy2k:When you place an on lien to the best of my knowledge, the amount placed on lien cannot be withdrawn. I think it's safe to say someone in the bank may be involved in the theft. |
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ruggedtimi:Can you just imagine that? I am so sorry. I would have been pained. 100k then wasn't small money and even 5 years later it's still not money to throw away. Is it then safe to say some of these fraudsters have help within the bank or some of the bankers are involved in the fraud themselves? |
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Maybe the story painted here is not exactly how it happened because what I don't understand here is if the was placed on lien, how were the fraudsters able to transfer the funds? Just how? Make it make sense!
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HelloWriter:His cousin has posted his video online after the school released this annoying statement. The boy was in serious pain before he gave up the ghost. It's all over Twitter, my sister showed me yesterday night. The boy in the video didn't look like someone who was sick naturally, he was tortured and probably given something to drink because he had blood all over his mouth. It was a sorry sight. |
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Pppe:You should be able to create a profile. What's your level of education and years of experience? |
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In my opinion, this is how marital problems start oooo. That man did not agree wholeheartedly with your one child policy, he reluctantly agreed after much conviction from you and no one knows how much energy you put into convincing him to agree to your one child rule. Personally, I am not a fan of plenty kids in this our not so friendly economy however it has to be an agreement that from both parties willingly and not reluctantly. That being said, the NO clearly means NO and it is an indication that they guy is not on board with your plans and probably plans to sort himself out in the future perhaps it could ego or ignorance about the vasectomy procedure. Besides you are the one who wants one child, the responsibility is on you to prevent yourself from having another. He clearly doesn't agree with your suggestions and you know it. Let him go and you can find someone who agrees with what you want. If you eventually coerce him into doing your bidding, he will resent you later on in your marriage and trust me you don't want to live with that. Find someone else who agrees with you and your wants and please let him also get someone else to give him the number of kids he wants. You two are clearly not on the same page. Finally your reasons for not wanting to be the one to do the child control is very selfish. You come off selfish with your assertions. I wish you both the best in your endeavours.
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Pppe:What's your NOC code? List out your IELTS scores in the following order LRWS |
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hunclecj:How are you not able to see that this is a scam job when it is screaming scam scam scam right before our faces? What kind of foreign job requires you to make payment before getting an offer? Even in Nigeria gan as bad it is with the exception of the bad eggs in government parastatals, you don't pay to get a job offer for genuine jobs. Please be careful so you're not duped of your hard earned money. 11 Likes |
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Mercychen:Exactly! This is a good advice. May we not be behind bars. I suggest she takes it to Police while also involving the school authorities. The teacher should be arrested and charged to court. Though I doubt taking it to the school authorities will lead to anything. They will only beg your sister and she would be manipulated into letting go. However the teacher will not be sacked, meaning the teacher may still be able to hurt another Child. 17 Likes 1 Share |
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