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So this question on costing came up
All the top pros in the house we need your contribution

How much in Nigeria of today will it cost to deck a three bedroom house given a floor space of 55 by 40 feet?

Or better stïĺĺ what quanties of materials: sand, granite iron, decking planks and labour cost can one plan for?

[quote author=Bhorbymills1990 post=91007544][/quote] I guess its calcium you are feeding then with here. Where do you get it?

Bhorbymills1990:


That's so cool ... I started less than 2 months ago with just 20snails but now I have more eggs and newly hatched snails than I can ever imagine

Show pictures of your snails/pen.

bestmutiu2019:
how can I you WhatsApp preferably ,about snail farming

If you need training or want to buy snails medium or large, 0.8.1.6.5.3.5.9.7.4.6 (Call/WhatsApp)

I am the OP of this thread.

Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in . My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I ed my uncle, my mum's younger brother in . He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.

For you to overcome your anxieties right now I think you need to be closer to God. Yes you have taken some good steps now but you need the accurate knowledge of God.

Where you are in there are people who can help you to get better and learn about God. They are called Jehovah's Witnesses. Your case is not a strange one to them as many people like you have been helped. They will surely treat you with much love unlike what happened to you in that church you attended. Give it a try.

So if you can reach out to them they will be eager to help you out. You can check online for their closest address to you. You can follow this link

https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/request-a-visit/

When it opens check the upper part of the page to change the site language to French. I sent you an email message. You can reply for other suggestions and to ask me questions. You can chat me up on +234.81.65.35.97.46. Or email formailsalone(at)gmail (dot)com

Expecting your response.

See below.

I had a similar experience with one of my gmail s. I am no longer using the phone number I used to open it so they kept asking me to use the phone number to receive the recovery codes. I couldn't do that as I have abandoned the line more than 6 years now. I was just frustrated and abandoned the .

Have you tried neem oil? Or you can use neem leaves chopped and apply. By the way, neem is common dogoyaro tree.

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Sorry man. I guess its her first pregnancy. Pregnancy causes a lot of changes in a woman's body. So please take it easy with her. Try and read up more info about pregnant women and sex stuffs in the period.

Then try to be closer to her more. Be more caring for her too. I'm sure she will gradually change for better.Her reactions are likely because she feels you are not caring enough for her in her pregnancy that you are ignorant of what she is ing through. Let me ask you, when last did you buy her a gift? Even if its some fruits for her to eat?

Don't think of divorce. That's not on the table please. I'm married with two kids so I can relate with some of the things you put up there. I can see the level your lack of experience is affecting your marriage. You as a man need to enter the college of how to handle your woman especially since you are new in marriage and she is pregnant for this first time. Dont forget about heart to heart communication.

You can read up valuable info from this link:
https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/

If you can chat me up on zero 8 one65359746

I believe you can still enjoy your woman/marriage.
Take care of yourself.

Laredojohn:
Hello definitely we are receiving goods, cargo airlines are not banned from landing into Nigeria, just that alot of agents are struggling for cargo space.. As per your location where in Ogun state that will determine as we have delivery partners who assist to deliver across Nigeria, state your location or reach out to me via whatsapp on signature

I'm in Ilaro. We had a transaction with you before. I still have your WhatsApp . Will when ready.

@Laredjohn, Are you able to receive goods from US at this Covid-19 era? If one places order how can we get it in Ogun State?

seborrhic:
Why do I have this eerie feeling that majority of people that are in of a lockdown extension are jobless,so they enjoy seeing other employed people at home,so no people can stop looking down on them?
It's like when a House's electricity supply is cut off due to inability to pay bills.When the general electricity power goes off,such people feel sadistically very happy because no one can then differentiate between those owing and those that pay their bills.
This is the case of this Op.
Even advanced countries with far well off citizens are easing down the lockdown despite still recording impressive infection figures,but here this one wants it to continue just because of joblessness.
Shameful.

Trash. By the time people around you and perhaps you or your family contract the deadly virus you will then know that health is more important than jobs at this time. Why is it that some people are incapable of analytical thinking? Go and ask Italy, US, UK, Spain and China what the Covid19 did to them due to the senselessness of their people like what you are clamouring for now then you will get brain.

It may be true.

Nobody is contributing to this again?

Where are the experts? Come and say something on this topic.

EastGold:
I used to prefer sliding before a military officer brought my attention to the importance of double sided gate in case of emergency

Can you explain this better? What is involved during emergency?

I greet you all in the property forum. An issue just came up that I need those of you that are knowledgeable to shed light on.

To erect an iron gate into a house fence, what determines the type? Sliding gate or double sided type? What actually are the merits and demerits of both type? Why is it that only few people (as far as I know) go for sliding gate and vice versa? Thanks as you shed light on this topic?

And our borders are still widely open. Chai. What a country!!!

Quite educative. Only the bosses can find a way around that predicament. Respect.

Many of the guys at Ladipo are con artists. @ Gazzuz be sure to get your cool dough from the car owner.

babythug:
Despite your peace loving nature you just must begin to assert yourself as a co-tenant and not the man’s dependant.

He’s quarrelsome and exhibiting borderline mental health decay. He won’t change any lld whether he does or not isn’t your cup of tea.

Firstly next time he calls you DO NOT respond . Let him shout till his voice is hoarse.

Ensure your wife and property in the common areas are out of harm’s way as best as you can manage. You can’t park your vehicle in your flat but ensure it’s as far as possible from his “space” .

If you do find yourself face to face with him walk away and should he be violent defend yourself as best as you can.

With or without your wife’s permission make a report to police about his constant provocations for future reference. Not an arrest just a report.

Good luck

I agree with this.

What I see here is that your life is being ruined by your wife depriving you sex. If she gives you quality sex every other thing will fall into place. Trust me.

But mind you, she may not be enjoying sex like that again. So have a heart to heart talk with her. Know the reason why she deprives you and let her know how you feel, how your personality is being affected. Hear her out too.

Buy her gifts without requesting. Be caring and see if it helps.
Visit here for more advice for married couples:

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/

Thanks all.

But I think I have found the source of the problems. Upon resting the thermostat in hot water, it didn't open. I placed it in pot of water placed on a stove and actually heated it to boiling but it refused to open.

I will request that the mechanic buy another one for me from Ladipo in Lagos because we searched around here and we couldn't get the type.

johnny2013:
Young man, get a good radiator cover and start from there, if it continues then find the solution to whatever is then the case. Am talking from experience. This thing don punish me before. When a radiator cover is bad, it can no longer bear the pressure of the hot water from the radiator and the result could be what you are seeing. Cover is just around 500. Try out like 3 different covers but ensure they bear the same number as your own and if the number is no longer on it, make sure it is the same thing. I don talk my own before they go open for your head. Lol

Still maintaining your sense of humour. Let me tell you, dem no fit open for my head oo. I don wise any roadside mechanic men. They no born them.

captainking:

Please where is your location...can i come and help you beat up that mechanic?
I hate mechanics like that

Very funny man. They are still insisting its thermostat that is responsible for the problems. Im with the mechanic right now and we have removed the thermostat. But we searched around and we could not get the same type. Now I want to go home and test it in hot water whether its actually bad or not.

Meanwhile I attached the picture of the radiator that I actually changed last year. Could you check and suggest if it look like having same issue you described?

Costee:

And so I filled with Nissan's NS-2 today (13/8/19) with 223,390 kilometres on the odometer. The Mannol CVT fluid drained ran 5,838 kilometres since 13 July 2018. No issues whatsoever. It's seems then that NS-2 is backward compatible with NS-1. I'll keep the house posted if the experiment runs into trouble

Long time Oga Costee. Its been over 6 months that you used NS-2 with the transmission. Any updates on the good performance or otherwise?

ksmart027:

Dont ever drive your car without a thermostat, if its stuck close replace it.

Noted.

Hero10001:

Well you check another mech.

Because of your previous comment, I just rechecked the fans and found out that one was blowing inside while the other was blowing out. I just changed the connection to the one blowing outside and now blowing inside.

Tomorrow I will observe if there's any effect on the engine before going to the mechanics again.

Hero10001:
Oga, your car is overheating.

Check if the radiator fan is working.

Its working perfectly sir.

Hello all the gurus and of this car talk forum. I need your solution to this problem.

Its a Nissan Primera 2.0 auto. Recently it had overheating problem and I had the gasket changed by my mechanic.

Now as I drive it is bringing hot water out from radiator openings and water reservoir in the hood.After a long distance travel yesterday, almost all the water was gushed out of the radiator.

Please note that I have the thermostat in the car since tokunbo over 6 years now. And the mechanic is pointing acusing fingers at it as the genesis of the problems and that I should get it out of the engine. Was he right? Or why is the car overheating like this?

Kindly enlighten me on what to be done. Thanks.

That's a cobra. Not a black mamba. Black mamba is not black please.

However, OP thank God for your life. You got rid of a very deadly snake. The venom is very deadly. It can raise its neck and spit deadly venom also.

ashawopikin:
nice writeup but its too late for me, I won't stop as long as my prick till dey work

Only an ashawopickin can say this.

*MYSTERY OF DNA*

(A MUST READ)

If you have SEX with a man, his DNA lives in you forever.

Workman noted that a research by university of Seattle USA has proven that;
There is now a greater understanding of why God asks us not to have SEX before we get married.

*This research proves that any man, that a woman has SEX with leaves a part of his DNA in the woman*.

The man who has had more SEX with her, leaves more of his DNA in the woman. So when a woman ovulates, the eggs that she produces contain more of other DNAs.

So we need to educate the girl child to remain a virgin till marriage.

*Anytime you have SEX with another man you become one with that man (spiritually too) and carry the man's DNA and according to Workman this is called SEX Web especially when the woman has multiple SEX partners*.

At some point when you have too many of the male DNA in you; you change, because your cells are changing.

That also proves why when married couples live together for a long time they end up looking alike. *The woman's DNA changes when she has sex with men*. This is very serious.

*The world should know this and stop silly SEX promotions*.

It is bad than good.
Unfortunately women are the victims.

This was found out in many other research articles mostly released this year. So it is new and we all have to know.

*The fact is,women retain DNA from every man they have slept with*.

Cells transferred from a man to a woman during intercourse become integrated into the woman's body after SEX, every single time they have SEX.

*This study found the presence of genetically distinct male cells in the brain of women*. This also means these other male cells will be found in a foetus when the woman gets pregnant.

(This is called microchimerism.)

*Every male you absorb sperm from becomes a living part of your life*. Sperm is a living substance. Living cells. It enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine.

*Stop experimenting with SEX*.

When the sperm enters a woman it swims until it hits a wall and then seeps into your flesh.

If it's in your mouth, (abomination) it can get into your nasal areas, behind your eyes and even your inner ear. It then enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine. You can never get rid of it.

It becomes a part of you forever. These are the true consequences of sexual intercourse.

Workman Leadership College says this Original research is from University of Seattle and Fred Hutchinson cancer research center.

They accidentally found this when they were researching to find out why pregnant women carrying boys get men neurological diseases.

This is real and not a joke.!!!

*Stop having SEX if you are not married*.

And stop having SEX with others than your husband, for the married.

*The consequences of doing this is devastating,humiliating and horrible*

*No wonder the world is the way it is,many marriages no longer hold water in peace,truth and love*!

Many children from most homes have behavioral tendencies alien to both parents

Now you know the possible cause

*Say no to SEX when not married*.

*Say no to EXTRA-MARITAL affairs also*.

*KEEP SHARING*

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PLEASE WHERE CAN I GET WONDERFUL KOLANUT IN KANO WHAT IS THE NAME IN HAUSA

You can get bitter kola in sabon gari market kano.it is called mijin goro in hausa.