NewStats: 3,263,880 , 8,181,718 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 02:04 PM u5d6d

Mindlog:


Now that while seeking it elsewhere, it has resulted to pregnancy and now wants the same wife, to talk to the side chick to abort the pregnancy, what have you got to say to that?

If it she was a man, the response will be so different. They would have called him a simp for even marrying her and told him that he needs to chase her out immediately

Carcholce:
Why not start from a mental home first. Take care of the problem.

A lot of Nigerian women have mental problem but they call it “mood swings”

Please am not suffering from mood swings..this is something that is affecting my life and not some mood swings

Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise

Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids.

I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.

I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.

I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.

I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.

If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves.

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.

But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.

Please advise.

Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise

Ifakiland:

Your story no jell atol....you no think the lie well abeg....from where the woman steal your money....were you so close to the woman that her baby wanted to take your len?? Wtf is even a lens....your story no make sense abeg....

Like a medical glasses...
There are somethings I can't even explain myself.
I just need help...is it possible to trace her bank ...like I have her number and name, can I go to the bank and trace and how can I go about it

seborrhic:
Don't even understand the head and tail of the story.
Once a story starts having holes,people will start doubting.
Your story is not complete and there are obviously some parts of it you skipped or hiding.
I advice you narrate the whole story,even the parts you may feel ashamed of or don't want to disclose.That way more people would believe and you would then get genuine,meaningful advice or even someone that may want to help you sort out the problem.
But narrating only the part you want people to know won't help your cause.

See believe me when I tell u....I don't know when that woman took the money but I know it's when she was near me and I was distracted with her baby

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