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We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange s with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Space Booker

Is either you're so broke or so damn ugly, reason you're so scared and so insecure.



Rather than being grateful that you have a girl that opened up and tells you anytime a guy woes her, you're here being worried. How many girls of nowadays are so faithful to do that?

If you want her to keep it to herself anytime guys approach her, then open up to her, but las las believe me, na u e go pain .

Perhaps she feels you ain't enough for her, or maybe that's just her lifestyle— exploring guys.
@Op, if I were you, I would do the same. Women are each other's worse enemies, and they are always jealous of each other to the core. So try and start talking to her about other girls, and she would realize that her format is faded.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange s with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

na ur love still dey shark her like ogogoro, and she dey to make u feel special/ secure ,say u can trust her and all that nonsense...she go eventually stop Sha...

Immortaltunez:
na ur love still dey shark her like ogogoro, and she dey to make u feel secure ,say u can trust her...she go eventually stop Sha

Hmmm thanks for ur opinion bro

mine does that all the time. I feel cool with it though.

She might be using reverse psychology..don't be a fool and fall too hard,take care of her and be nice but never in your life trust her completely or assume she can never cheat,if u do this and the worst happens,e no go pain u too much

Ayo2004:
She might be using reverse psychology..don't be a fool and fall too hard,take care of her and be nice but never in your life trust her completely or assume she can never cheat,if u do this and the worst happens,e no go pain u too much

yes sure I try as much as possible to care for her n being nice to her.. and yes I know irrespective of the care, if she would cheat, she would still cheat, thats my believe.. just wondering why she tells me about every new guy that meets her though..

Thanks for ur opinion.. I sight u bro

Used to do it and it used to give my ex BP but its childish, So I've stopped.

I did it to make him get jealous and protective. though I don't use to collect the mens number. Your girl might have ulterior motives to be collecting other men's s.

Land for sale.

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange s with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

Its out of ur control who she meets or approaches her.. normal level. But u see that exchange of s lool.. You sure say she see u as man or as one of her girl friends? I pity u sha

pozehnani:
I used to do it and then it used to give my ex BP but its childish, So I've stopped.

I did it to make him get jealous and protective. though I don't use to collect the mens number. Your girl might have ulterior motives to be collecting other men's s.

You and that ur ex dont have sense.

Tizzz78:
yes sure I try as much as possible to care for her n being nice to her.. and yes I know irrespective of the care, if she would cheat, she would still cheat, thats my believe.. just wondering why she tells me about every new guy that meets her though..

Thanks for ur opinion.. I sight u bro

On the bright side,my cousin usually tells her boyfriend stories about how guys try to toast her and her boyfriend does the same..sometimes,they exchange phones and have fun with their suitors,they usually act like the dream couple,she might be doing to express her love for you and showing u silenty how she really values your relationship

My point is that very few people will find a partner who is meant for them but in this Nigeria,most,like 90% are not genuine and is either fake one sided or both sides,many nairalanders will bash u saying u are a a simp but personally,even thought I don't think I am going to marry,if u love her and u think she loves you too,u can go for it but never forget women can not be trusted completely..if she breaks your heart,take it as experience for future relationships but if she is really genuine,you have gotten yourself one of the rarest things on the planet;a loyal Nigerian girl

She is being sincere with you. Let's see if she would tell you when she gets fucckked/ kissed by a guy.

bigcee:

You and that ur ex dont have sense.

You are clearly a product of failed parenting. So I'm not surprised.

dairykidd:

Its out of ur control who she meets or approaches her.. normal level. But u see that exchange of s lool.. You sure say she see u as man or as one of her girl friends? I pity u sha

I bliv she no just want na who b dis story when u start to hear call or see chats

thuxzwda1:



I bliv she no just want na who b dis story when u start to hear call or see chats

Guy if she's taken she has no business exchanging numbers with guys who show her love interests.. Be like u never jam babe when love u die before. Watch ur self man

Guy that babe likes you and she's loyal to u.

pozehnani:

You are clearly a product of failed parenting. So I'm not surprised.

You need to grow up and stop being toxic. I cant even date a mumu like you.

She truly loves you

Tizzz78:
We started dating last year December, we are cool with each other, we try as much as possible to avoid quarrels.. I noticed something about my girl, everytime she meets a new guy, she tells me about it whenever we chat or talk on phone..

Pls just kind of curious, what could b my girl motive to always tell me about every new guy that meets her and exchange s with her..

Any bashing is welcomed, na normal vibes for here as long as I get ur opinions..

She might be testing the waters. Also the fact that your girlfriend or wife tells you about every guy she meets, and exchanges s with, won't stop her from falling for one of them. Those two things are mutually exclusive.

If she's testing the waters then she's smart and dangerous, because she's softening you up in the eventuality that you start making a fuss about one of them because she'll insist it's nothing "after all I was the one who voluntarily told you about him", she'll say.

Ayo2004:

On the bright side,my cousin usually tells her boyfriend stories about how guys try to toast her and her boyfriend does the same..sometimes,they exchange phones and have fun with their suitors,they usually act like the dream couple,she might be doing to express her love for you and showing u silenty how she really values your relationship

My point is that very few people will find a partner who is meant for them but in this Nigeria,most,like 90% are not genuine and is either fake one sided or both sides,many nairalanders will bash u saying u are a a simp but personally,even thought I don't think I am going to marry,if u love her and u think she loves you too,u can go for it but never forget women can not be trusted completely..if she breaks your heart,take it as experience for future relationships but if she is really genuine,you have gotten yourself one of the rarest things on the planet;a loyal Nigerian girl

thanks for this

Lyrics269:
She truly loves you

thanks man

OnlyDeCapPlease:


She might be testing the waters. Also the fact that your girlfriend or wife tells you about every guy she meets, and exchanges s with, won't stop her from falling for one of them. Those two things are mutually exclusive.

If she's testing the waters then she's smart and dangerous, because she's softening you up in the eventuality that you start making a fuss about one of them because she'll insist it's nothing "after all I was the one who voluntarily told you about him", she'll say.

normal levels.. Thanks bro

Oturatetuala:
Guy that babe likes you and she's loyal to u.

thanks for ur opinion..

pozehnani:
I used to do it and then it used to give my ex BP but its childish, So I've stopped.

I did it to make him get jealous and protective. though I don't use to collect the mens number. Your girl might have ulterior motives to be collecting other men's s.

yes sure u re right .. thanks for ur opinion

Dont be fooled!

Your girlfriend does not love you,she's just telling you all that to soften you up so you can trust her(after all,she tells me about the guys that Toasts her,so I can trust her)
Trust me bro She is a potential cheat

That being said, Nigerian girls are Useless...All of them

Anigreat:






Is either you're so broke or so damn ugly, reason you're so scared and so insecure.



Rather than being grateful that you have a girl that opened up and tells you anytime a guy woes her, you're here being worried. How many girls of nowadays are so faithful to do that?

If you want her to keep it to herself anytime guys approach her, then open up to her, but las las believe me, na u e go pain .

a gal that tells him anything after EXCHANGING S . WHY EXCHANGE CNTACT IF SHE WAN ACT COOL

pozehnani:
I used to do it and then it used to give my ex BP but its childish, So I've stopped.

I did it to make him get jealous and protective. though I don't use to collect the mens number. Your girl might have ulterior motives to be collecting other men's s.

Exactly what i was thinking

I stopped dating under 20's 2 years ago,they are dull,gluttony,sex diff guys a lot, cheap,slaying ,copyng what chioma wore on Instagram,they don't baff well ,they love money and thats all they know. They are lazy,have a sharp mouth, no more girls again 4naija. Naija girls are useless. There was one i funked ehn,asin she too love my Bleep,but she be street girl,the tin pain me. Her bro send dey beg me to forgive her,but I couldn't. She insulted me and took my kindness for my weakness. Till tmrw she still calls me but I don't pick anymore.

bigcee:

You need to grow up and stop being toxic. I cant even date a mumu like you.

U caused this, and u still cntinued it.