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begoniaa:


For who? For you?

For yourself, abi winsh no dey tire you ni play role of angel for ones

Zzor:
Rant of an expired ashawo man mtcheww

Did he hit a nerve? tell me truth

needanswer:


For yourself, abi winsh no dey tire you ni play role of angel for ones

Wrong answer. You don't tell who I should be. I love my winshy self the way I am - so why exactly should I change or for whom??

And it's once* .

begoniaa:


Wrong answer. You don't tell who I should be. I love my winshy self the way I am - so why exactly should I change or for whom??

And it's once* .

I know, I make typo errors -i dont even preview whatever I type, it's not an exam ok (wish I can eye you but that's on a lighter note).

Like whatever I say is relevant to you before...I know it was never, and I am happy like that

needanswer:


I know, I make typo errors -i dont even preview whatever I type, it's not an exam ok(wish I can eye you but that's on a lighter note).

Like whatever I say is relevant to you before...I know it was never, and I am happy like that

Can you see why ya unmarried? How do you expect to be picked by the woman you desire when you're not strategically and brilliantly marketing yourself nor paying attention to your aura and words?

Your redpilll leaning is another thing that could be chasing an alpha, matriachal woman away from you. I mean, imagine an obstinate man with strong views who's not ready to be submissive.

Nbotee:
Aswear ooo.. It is wen it gets to making marriage decisions dat U begin to notice how limited ur options are

Um. Hello. Where do we put SMV, high-value, and "men hage like wine and can get the choicest of young virgins?" O.O You want to tell me girls are not flocking to you??

Omo. That's awa own script, na. *We* are the ones that get desperate and found wanting "for" a man as we grow older. Una don forget?

begoniaa:


Can you see why ya unmarried? How do you expect to be picked by the woman you desire when you're not strategically and brilliantly marketing yourself?




Um. Hello. Where do we put, SMV, high-value, and "men hage like wine and can get the choicest of young virgins?" O.O You want to tell me girls are not flocking to you??

Omo. That's awa own script, na. *We* are the ones that get desperate and found wanting "for" a man as we grow older. Una don forget?

You live to type but don't READ to TYPE magnoliaa. If you read my post, I stressed I was looking for such a woman and not PICKED by such a woman. there are only beautiful women around but they lack the substance to keep me from moving on in a relationship. I'll be bored to death

needanswer:


You live to type but don't READ to TYPE magnoliaa. If you read my post, I stressed I was looking for such a woman and not PICKED by such a woman. there are only beautiful women around but they like the substance to keep me from moving on in a relationship. I'll be bored to death

And ayam telling you to drop some of your ego. Shrink your views. Yunno? Stooping to conquer? Sounds familiar?

What do you need a mental stimulation and all those bleh for when you can get a providing woman ready to take your shame away and crown you as a virtuous man?

Stay there and still be keeping standards, mtcheeew. You think Women like to rub shoulders and have their authority challenged?

Hhmm... Choosing a life partner is a very serious business and it's not really easier for any gender. We all have our shortcomings. We don't see them cause our friends and family have normalized them. But the moment you let another party into your life, these limitations are revealed. It's up to us to search for a partner whose limitations we can condone. I don't subscribe to the idea that any gender is particularly shallow. But some people are definitely shallow. You just have to set your priorities. Many not-shallow-girls might not have the physical looks you want. And considering the fact that physical looks are the first thing that usually attracts one to another before other features are observed, it's possible that you aren't even looking at the girls with the personality you desire. Again, some of the girls you'd have liked to have (those with the attributes you desire) might have slipped through cause you aren't their spec. It's not like women sit down like goods in the market waiting for anyone that wants their type to pick them. They're also actively searching for what they want. You friends found what they want. Don't use your spec to grade them. Just keep looking for yours and be ready to make compromises.

Good luck.

Nbotee:
Aswear ooo.. It is wen it gets to making marriage decisions dat U begin to notice how limited ur options are

This is just the simple truth. And a guy only begins to think he has limited options when he's quite sure and definite about what he's looking for in a potential partner. And I think it's a curse sometimes because some of us don't have the energy to want to mess around with relationships that's leading to no where, we then have to remain single till we'll eventually have to settle for one to marry and pray it works out.

I think girls have it easier choosing the right partner. I mean, guys are unto them all the time. Even if they are definite about what they're looking for, they have enough chances to find it than the average guy.

begoniaa:




And ayam telling you to drop some of your ego. Shrink your views. Yunno? Stooping to conquer? Sounds familiar?

What do you need a mental stimulation and all those bleh for when you can get a providing woman ready to take your shame away and crown you as a virtuous man?

Stay there and still be keeping standards, mtcheeew. You think Women like to rub shoulders and have their authority challenge?

You still havent read my post, READ IT . I have a girlfriend, it's there and before her i had others,all beautiful. And we get along fine just that I get bored with most of them except one because she was violent.


Read the rest above and get the point

gfon:
Niggar you ain't alone,my own worse .Have got like 5 babes at my beck and call...worst fear is that marriage doesn't even trips me at all.

It cannuh trip you
When you aff tasted all waters

WoundedLamb:
Hhmm... Choosing a life partner is a very serious business and it's not really easier for any gender. We all have our shortcomings. We don't see them cause our friends and family have normalized them. But the moment you let another party into your life, these limitations are revealed. It's up to us to search for a partner whose limitations we can condone. I don't subscribe to the idea that any gender is particularly shallow. But some people are definitely shallow. You just have to set your priorities. Many not-shallow-girls might not have the physical looks you want. And considering the fact that physical looks are the first thing that usually attracts one to another before other features are observed, it's possible that you aren't even looking at the girls with the personality you desire. Again, some of the girls you'd have liked to have (those with the attributes you desire) might have slipped through cause you aren't their spec. It's not like women sit down like goods in the market looking for anyone that wants their type to pick them. They're also actively searching for what they want. You friends found what they want. Don't use your spec to grade them. Just keep looking for yours and be ready to make compromises.

Good luck.

I like your comment because you read through, then shared your thoughts. Although not all you said about me is true, the essence of your post is valuable not just to me but to anybody who reads it. Thank you.

needanswer:


You still havent read my post, READ IT . I have a girlfriend, it's there and before her i had others,all beautiful. And we get along fine just that I get bored with most of them except one because she was violent.


Read the rest above and get the point

You are you lively?
Maybe you're the boring one,cause it seems like the Lady you liked was the one initiating the liveliness

needanswer:


You still havent read my post, READ IT . I have a girlfriend, it's there and before her had others ,all beautiful. And we get along fine just that I get bored with most of them except one because she was violent.


Read the rest above and get the point

Tor. I read and understood your post oh. Was only tryna be an half-baked counselor...

Anyway, since/seems you have a ******************************************** head and you wouldn't even get anything I say, I guess I should clear for road for the rest of your gender to contribute.

needanswer:


Firstly I cant act dumb just to fit in. It wont work in the long run, that is in years. I'll be miserable.

And I dont stir up any anger, sure couples can disagree but when everytime she is turning violent it doesnt make sense. If I was violent on her on every issue we disagree on , you wont advice her to stay either.

And yes I am seeing someone currently but she doesn't inspire me ,I am bored in the relationship already, barely a few months.

Then you're definitely not into her if you're already bored.

Just be good and do whatever makes you happy.

jelel6:


This is just the simple truth. And a guy only begins to think he has limited options when he's quite sure and definite about what he's looking for in a potential partner. And I think it's a curse sometimes because some of us don't have the energy to want to mess around with relationships that's leading to no where, we then have to remain single till we'll eventually have to settle for one to marry and pray it works out.

I think girls have it easier choosing the right partner. I mean, guys are unto them all the time. Even if they are definite about what they're looking for, they have enough chances to find it than the average guy.

Mehhnn I'm just laughing here
Some guys don't know there's always a time in their lives when their perfect fits comes around but they say they're not ready yet,like the guys themselves.
And then they flow with time,till time seems limited and "now ready to settle"
See ehn,the ready made you're looking for,you'll pay the express fee to get it

begoniaa:


Tor. I read and understood your post oh. Was only tryna be an half-baked counselor...

Anyway, ... since/seems you have a ******************************************** head and you wouldn't even get anything I say, I guess I should clear for road for the rest of your gender to contribute.

So you finally read it, you just wanted to be your mischievous self

Whatever the asterisks mean...its okay.

And I get along with ladies here, no fight, no quarrel except you and the other lady. I dont want her mention so I am not quoting her

needanswer:



So you finally read it, you just wanted to be your mischievous self

Whatever the asterisks mean...its okay.

And I get along with ladies here, no fight, no quarrel except you and the other lady. I dont want her mention so I am not quoting her

Oya lemme read through your chats,lemme try and see if you're boring,I think you are sha but lemme see
I'll dash you my time for free

pozehnani:


Then you're definitely not into her if you're already bored.

Just be good and do whatever makes you happy.

Exactly I am not into her. I am good and I'll keep trying to make myself happy

Lucrativress:

Oya lemme read through your chats,lemme try and see if you're boring,I think you are sha but lemme see
I'll dash you my time for free

Please read through. I dont toast here sha so it might be serious stuffs you might find

needanswer:



So you finally read it, you just wanted to be your mischievous self

Whatever the asterisks mean...its okay.

And I get along with ladies here, no fight, no quarrel except you and the other lady. I dont want her mention so I am not quoting her

It doesn't mean anything; don't think too much about it.

I guess my jokes tend to go over (most) peoples' heads.

needanswer:

I see my friends get married almost monthly but truth is their babes seem shallow to me, yes they are beautiful like mine but shallow.

This is one of the reasons you'll keep searching

needanswer:


Please read through. I dont toast here sha so it might be serious stuffs you might find

It's in this your same thread I'll try and know

Lucrativress:

You are you lively?
Maybe you're the boring one,cause it seems like the Lady you liked was the one initiating the liveliness

I am not boring but many things can bore me.

Lucrativress:

It's in this your same thread I'll try and know

Detective fash junior, please go ahead

needanswer:

This doesn't show intelligence
You couldn't even decode the Parent question..

begoniaa:


It doesn't mean anything; don't think too much about it.

I guess my jokes tend to go over (most) peoples' heads.

Yeah, you deliberately do it. It's well thought out . I like intellectual discussions to just random arguments.

needanswer:


So no hope for me yeah,? I cant find someone like my ex but without the violence

Look here
You can't "find someone like your Ex" not even yourself

Lucrativress:

This doesn't show intelligence
You couldn't even decode the Parent question..

That's a guy I quoted right? If it is, he wasn't been helpful to me. He asked a question, I responded and then he gave be a phrase or whatever that is. Am I supposed to beg him for the explanation?

Lucrativress:

Look here
You can't "find someone like your Ex" not even yourself

Really? You too. So you are saying my ex is an exception, a one in a million?

needanswer:


but they like something extra to keep me from becoming bored once the relationship starts or i settle down with them.

"To keep you from getting bored"
A man that can't initiate himself in liveliness but heavily relying on someone else to give it to him..
Are you sure you're not boring like this?

needanswer:


Really? You too. So you are saying my ex is an exception, a one in a million?

You are not looking for your type,you're looking for someone else
You'll keep on looking Oga