NewStats: 3,262,643 , 8,177,771 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 07:11 AM mm58

You don't need advise on how not to show this guy that you like him too much.
You need advise on how you should bring out and up your best behavior.
But be careful. You need to see the guy first to love him

Boxer007:



bro but why did u mention that man pretending to be female: Zzor.
Thats the rumor. He a known nairaland male pretending to be female

Pls the rumored male monicker is??

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Are you dating any man presently?

Let's start from there

Most young women of these days goes for irrelevant things about men

Back to topic, just look good & presentable, don't rush things

Que Sera Sera

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

Forget that virgin part abeg, but she's a virgin all good

This is just perfect. This is super perfect

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

bukatyne:


Ma waja, alapa tirin, elese pepeye, oloju wokonko bi ina moto.

But i said its not u naaa

Na so e dey start for India films.... .. If u want it put ur all... Thats my own share of advice

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

Is that how you love?Somebody she does not even knw in person? Nan ur type marriage non dey last.You think love comes from looks.

Some guys like myself cannot marry or date a virgin. Don't ask me why. You be virgin??

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

post the picture weither he fine bobrisky

Kk

wow wow wow, So true love still exists?? why am I still single?

Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tears

You don dey mad I swear

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

show him your nude pics. Let start from there

MeghaneMorgane:


I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

Which type of Engineering do you do?

MeghaneMorgane:


I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

I don't believe you are a decent lady, you a just a bitch with a fish rotten kpekus

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.

You like him so much and you don't want him to know. Well don't just discourage him to the extent he won't want to see you again

Boxer007:



huh? all this simply becuz she want to fok a guy? Bro u like too mush story....real talk.
all MeghaneMorgane simply need to do is bleach to lightskin & simply were Mini sket wit no bra... PREACH!!!!

na who be this?

99thEnemy:


Give him small mafo so that he will know the taste of what he is buying naa!

bukatyne:


Ma waja, alapa tirin, elese pepeye, oloju wokonko bi ina moto.

Wait, i had to go back to my profile page to check if my pic is there, cus this ur description hmmmmmm

Odoogu:
In cases like this it may be difficult to stop yourself from showing you really like him. the feeling is from within you ( a good feeling though) but first thing I will suggest is that you try and make him feel same about you too, just to balance the reaction... be yourself, crack your jokes, dance to that random beat ... whether he digs it or not

Am guessing you know "enough" about him already...
keep your opinions opened during conversations, if he has a opinion on something and it differs from yours, make sure you air your opinion also ( not argument oo ), don't just keep mute and nod your head ...

Correct

bukatyne:


Ma waja, alapa tirin, elese pepeye, oloju wokonko bi ina moto.

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

Look at the bolded.
That statement is every player's line.

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Let me give you 4 things you should avoid doing.

1, Don't ask for money
2, Don't ask for money
3, Don't ask for money
4. Don't ask for money

Things you should do.
1, Be yourself.
2, Infact, don't restrain yourself but explain to him that you are a real person but that some guys take you for granted the moment they notice that you don't pretend. Tell him any time you notice him taking you for granted you would walk away.
3, Encourage him to be himself, tell him you are not expecting a saint but a normal human being.
4, Ask him his standards and let him know your standards.

5, Finally, never ask him for money, because that is where you people miss it all the time. This insatiable uncontrollable greed anytime you see a handsome guy doing well for himself.
6,Las Las, you will be alright. No be exam na date. Go with an open mind. It may or may not work, it is not the end of the world. I wish you the best of luck! Go enjoy yourself.

BTW, the only thing that attracted him to you is his handsomeness.

You don't know him in the real world.

The chance of this going shittt is 9/10.

Who knows, you could be the 1/10.

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

U r my onions, lori iro, u r my rodo, lori iro.....

MeghaneMorgane:


I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

And do u tink its necessary to reply everybody


Some are not worthy of ur reply for goodness sake.

Get down on your kneels and propose to him, time no dey

MeghaneMorgane:


Well ... He will find out if it works out

Before or after marriage?

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Hope you're not talking to a scammer.

Since today my sister has not eating because the rich Nigerian guy she met asked for an MTN airtime today from Canada.

She has been depressed because she posted the picture and 23 girls started fighting over the guy. Saying they've been also chatting with him for months now.

Nigeria na survival of the fittest

I hope this is not our "The Future is female"

I usually don't comment on this kind of topics, but since you asked for advice, I will gladly give you. First of all, what you are feeling right now ain't love, yet, infatuation is more like it. Love develops over a long haul, which created an unbreakable bond. Secondly, you are setting yourself up for an intensely jealous love relationship that might end in tears, if not put under firm control. You may become a future detective to your lover and possibly, husband to be. Do not allow that to happen, otherwise the relationship is doomed from the onset. Lastly, ask questions and do your private investigation about this guy, before you dive head first into a crocodile infested water. I no wan hear stories that touch on the next thread.