NewStats: 3,262,644 , 8,177,776 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 07:19 AM 313qi

Mikester:


The woman who makes a man feel like a "man" most is the woman he falls for. Keep calm and take my advice. I know what I'm saying

Thanks. Your advice is noted. I appreciate.

MeghaneMorgane:

Na you sabi. It has no title because it is real life

SammieGanja wishes you luck

Ee

Robertgreene1:
intresting...whether u like him or not..what else will it end in...if not sex nd sex nd more sex... then one of u getting sick nd tired of d other person after so much sex..then breaking d other person's heart...In other words.."it will still end in tears"..

He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

You're moving too fast.

Whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not sleep with him!

Udo!

CANDYDADDY:

wont be surprised if you later come here to lament how irritating nice he is

I like him because he is serious. I've met very unserious guys in my life time.

mariahAngel:


You're moving too fast.

Whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not sleep with him!

Udo!

Thank you. It is noted. I feel it's too fast too. But the guy seems like he has no time to waste.

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

I see...

Ohizfly:



SammieGanja wishes you luck

Thanks

Love though.

Smokes Kpoli in peace


May the odds be in your favour baby girl.

SarutobiEky:
Love though.

Smokes Kpoli in peace


May the odds be in your favour baby girl.

Thanks. I appreciate.

MeghaneMorgane:


Thank you. It is noted. I feel it's too fast too. But the guy seems like he has no time to waste.

My dear, I beg you, don't rush into it to avoid heartbreak, and the feeling of being used.
Take your time to slowly savour the feeling.
No matter what, don't let him rush you into doing something you're not ready for.

His true intentions, whether good or bad, can only be revealed if you're patient enough to give time.

mariahAngel:


My dear, I beg you, don't rush into it avoid heartbreak and the feeling of being used.
Take your time to slowly savour the feeling.
No matter what, don't let him rush you into doing something you're not ready for.

His true intentions, whether good or bad, can only be revealed if you're patient enough to give time.

You're right. Thank you. Somehow I'm more calm now. After reading these advices. I'm glad I came here to talk about how I was feeling. Thanks a lot.

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

Most importantly, unless clearly stated by your companion, only order what you can pay for to avoid stories that touch

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

He has come again o

MeghaneMorgane:


You're right. Thank you. Somehow I'm more calm now. After reading these advices. I'm glad I came here to talk about how I was feeling. Thanks a lot.

You're welcome dear.

Just enjoy the excitement and get to know him more.
Most importantly, ask God to guide you so that you don't make a mistake that you'd regret for the rest of your life.

mariahAngel:


You're welcome dear.

Just enjoy the excitement and get to know him more.
Most importantly, ask God to guide you so that you don't make a mistake that you'd regret for the rest of your life.

Thank you. I'm praying about it.

MeghaneMorgane:


He will say he loves me first. Heaven will not fall if he says it. It is not me that will say it first. I have a job.

What's bad if you say it first? Na hell won fall if you say it first?

dermmy:


What's bad if you say it first? Na hell won fall if you say it first?

It is his line to say not mine. After he says it, I'll say it too. I'm ready to make it very easy for him. But at least he has to play his part as the man. I won't take his lines or take his roles.

MeghaneMorgane:


It is his line to say not mine. After he says it, I'll say it too. I'm ready to make it very easy for him. But at least he has to play his part as the man. I won't take his lines or take his roles.

Lol. You better be bold and do it yourself before another lady snatches him away from you.

dermmy:


Lol. You better be bold and do it yourself before another lady snatches him away from you.

If they snatch him, then he was not mine to keep .

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Women and pretending.
If you like him, why do you want to pretend that you don't? You're only confusing yourself and us.

Don't start a relationship with lies and pretence. Be honest.

RisenPhoenix1:


Women and pretending.
If you like him, why do you want to pretend that you don't? You're only confusing yourself and us.

You're getting me wrong. I'm not pretending I don't like him. Like I said, I already organised some fun activities we both can participate in when he comes. But I don't want to come across as liking him too much so that he doesn't begin to take me for granted. I'm just being cautious.

Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tears

Hmm, Guy. you have to mind how you comment.

MeghaneMorgane:


Funny enough, I could be a virgin

I like your choice of words

MeghaneMorgane:


You're getting me wrong. I'm not pretending I don't like him. Like I said, I already organised some fun activities we both can participate in when he comes. But I don't want to come across as liking him too much so that he doesn't begin to take me for granted. I'm just being cautious.

Pretending to like him less is still pretending, whatever the reason. Just be honest. Where did that belief; that men take women who show that they like them for granted; even come from?

If he's the serious type, then don't waste his time by pretending. When he finds out that your body language doesn't match your statements, you will come across as petty and dishonest. Do what comes naturally and be open about how you feel. Not every type of coy behaviour that women engage in is attractive to all men, believe me.

Kriss216:

You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important part

OlawaleBammie:


Zzor

Fati2001

Saphire

Onyi22

Chi59

It can not be bukatyne

Prettyprincess

It can not be fatymore

I dont tink its Bola ibadan

Talotunku oooo

RisenPhoenix1:


Pretending to like him less is still pretending, whatever the reason. Just be honest. Where did that belief; that men take women who show that they like them for granted; even come from.

If he's the serious type, then don't waste his time by pretending. When he finds out that your body language doesn't match your statements, you will come across as petty and dishonest. Do what comes naturally and be open about how you feel. Not every type of coy behaviour that women engage in is attractive to all men, believe me.

Ok, thanks for your advice. It is noted.

MeghaneMorgane:


I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

Did you study Relationship Engineering ?

MeghaneMorgane:


He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

Give him small mafo so that he will know the taste of what he is buying naa!