NewStats: 3,262,158 , 8,176,267 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 02:37 AM 254f16

Dear nairalanders.... Am a fan of nairaland for years now and I see how lot of people shared a life changing advice for those who I believe are lost and want to be found
Am a guy just building my life but am seeing it going down with situations surrounding me now.
I av a pregnancy pinned on me but am not sure if am responsible.
I left osun state for Lagos last year August but I already have it over with this girl cuz she stage play mini fight with me cuz she wanna be with another guy which I knew very well cuz we are all products of same secondary school 8yrs ago ..
I found out about this when after almost 2 months she said I shouldnt call her but issues with my life makes me ignore her for a while and concentrate on my life... I went back to her beg her and she was acting funny even when she said she av forgiving me which I don't know exactly what I did wrong but I noticed she was hiding her phone so after 3rd day of our reconciliation I visit her again and send her to get me call card and I hold her phone to watch movie
I on her FB and I saw her chat with the guy I was suspecting and I act like nothing,she noticed but I try and hide it..
She called me the next day and told me she wants to see me and she explained that she knew I went tru her phone and confessed that she just use the guy to keep company and she is sorry... All my love for her left that minute.
But I don't say a word cuz I was badly broke den and she was showing up for me in term of need and I don't want to end things ugly way
I pick my bag in the next two weeks and left for Lagos... And barely a week in logos and she is back to her school in offa..
She nag like hell complain about everything... I got tired and told her I need distance... I later message the guy I suspect she was dating before cuz the comments the guy left on one of her post...
She called me and starts to insult me that y did I text the guy.... And later start cursing me and with this I end it all
After almost 2 month of my stay in Lagos she called that she suspects she is pregnant... I first ignore but later I told her to go for ultrasound and send me the report
She failed to send it... This January she called me since I told her to get me ultrasound report, that her parents wants to see me.. I told her am not around and I can never be around... I told her I still want to see the report cuz I can't say am not responsible or I am.. I check her friends wall. I saw the guy already unfriend her...
Her sister called me and keep saying I should come down to osun but I maintain I wont be around till April... And I want to see the ultrasound report and it almost 2 weeks she promised they will send it but I don't see anything
Pls guys I dont really know what to do
If I should say on my own now
She ought to be in about late 7months now crossing to 8
Am confused on what to do... I don't want to cast my child out but my mind keeps telling me there is foul play... Note I disflowered her
But I just don't trust her since that day

Someone should please read and summarize it for me because I yam not understanding Wetin Musa no go see for gate

From your story, she must have pinned the pregnancy on the other guy and he denied her and even unfriended her. So you are the next target. Pregnancy after 2 months of no communication, Baba no go use your head carry gbese oh. Till they send you the test results, don't go to Osun. Dy your Dy for Lagos. Or, you can bring her to Lagos, lodge her in a hotel or guest house and conduct the pregnancy test. Don't lodge her in your house or anywhere close to your house. From the age of the pregnancy, you go know your next move.

the other dude denied the pregnancy, unfriended her,she switched it to you thinking you'll be a simp

show them you ain't no modafvckin simp bro

Do DNA test on that pregnancy first before accepting it.

Omoh this one strong ooo

you wey suppose dey sch dey learn english, na toto u dey fuxk up nd down.... come go sch jare.

VicM6:
you wey suppose dey sch dey learn english, na toto u dey fuxk up nd down.... come go sch jare.

Thanks I will love if u will sponsor me

SmellySperm:
the other dude denied the pregnancy, unfriended her,she switched it to you thinking you'll be a simp

show them you ain't no modafvckin simp bro

Hmmm God help me

callyik:
From your story, she must have pinned the pregnancy on the other guy and he denied her and even unfriended her. So you are the next target. Pregnancy after 2 months of no communication, Baba no go use your head carry gbese oh. Till they send you the test results, don't go to Osun. Dy your Dy for Lagos. Or, you can bring her to Lagos, lodge her in a hotel or guest house and conduct the pregnancy test. Don't lodge her in your house or anywhere close to your house. From the age of the pregnancy, you go know your next move.

Thanks boss
I have decide no return to osun for now and if I will go,it low-key but if they call I will keep

I don't know what got you but "i can never be around" got me real bad

Someone should please read and summarize it for me because I yam not understanding Wetin Musa no go see for gate

I will not ask you to deny the pregnancy. First let them get the test, then cross check when you met out with her. If you are still confused, tell them that they will take care of the pregnancy till birth and once you carry out the test and your blood group matches with the baby's, you will make payment of their expenses (70%)

If you know what you did, you should know what to do.