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I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

And so?

lol... but is she saying the truth or what

ur case just reminded of a girl who mocked her own boyfriend at the barbing saloon i went for a hair cut some few yrs back
she came to charge her phone
was telling the guy cutting my hair how her boyfriend is so caring and he"s the one paying her school fees plus sending her rent money but that the guy is too ugly for her liking and as soon as she finishes from school she would do away with him
from what i see in cases like this most times the ladies are never attracted to the guys and the guys use money and material things to keep the girls in the relationship
i am very sure dats how ur own case is
just dump the girl and try to improve ur appearance
no man is ugly

oga, if you wowo then she is not lying.
console yourself with the caring aspect she spoke about.
abeg no let you wowo nature cause wahala for that fine relationship oo.

Modified...
The quote I've received for this comment is one of the reasons I hardly comment on nairaland.
I have always been told that I am the ugly version of my brothers. Even my gfrnd don tell me that same thing over and over.
I always believe that as far as I hustle hard and make good money, I won't be disrespected because of the looks.
So I have never allowed it affect my emotions or my relationship and I have never opened a thread on nairaland for it.
Please no body should quote me again abeg una...
Me too am ugly...

digitalgeorgy:
oga, if you wowo then she is not lying.
console yourself with the caring aspect she spoke about.
abeg no let you wowo nature cause wahala for that fine relationship oo.

Beg your sense to come back to you sir

lefulefu:
ur case just reminded of a girl who mocked her own boyfriend at the barbing saloon i went for a hair cut some few yrs back
she came to charge her phone
was telling the guy cutting my hair how her boyfriend is so caring and he"s the one paying her school fees plus sending her rent money but that the guy is too ugly for her liking and as soon as she finishes from school she would do away with him
from what i see in cases like this most times the ladies are never attracted to the guys and the guys use money and material things to keep the girls in the relationship
i am very sure dats how ur own case is
just dump the girl and try to improve ur appearance
no man is ugly

Thanks boss.
I'm not ugly though. I think I'm more attractive than the idiot sef

dear Op.
Nobody wowo, they are just broke. Simple.

Make the paper and watch them melt at your feet, and make your pick of whoever catch your eyes.

Bro can you compete with Adam oshiomole in physical attractiveness? if not then you are simply too broke!

no man is ugly. Na money never touch your life.
Money if the focus, evry other thing shall be added, girls, luxury, fame. etc.

you need to end things with her before it affects your phycology . and before you do. tell her the reason you are ending the relationship is cus you have been managing her,l before you find a beautiful girl, that she's ugly and you don't think you can continue.

Serves you right!

What were you looking for in her phone

Don't mind her I'm sure you are not ugly than Ned Nwoko look at how beautiful ladies are fighting to be Baba wife

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment
He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.
He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you
He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare
He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly
What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

Please do, trust me. She doesn't respect you and a lady that don't respect you can't love you.

omo see casting..... hahahahaha

Why must you hack her phone? Or don't you think it would be wrong if we hacked your thoughts?.sth meant for one's privacy.it shows what a person you are. You would be saved all this stress if you did what was best .

See Op sef. Do you want her to lie?
At least she fall for you wey dey make her wonder.

Secondly, hacking her phone just shows your level of insecurity but at least you found what you were looking for.

Know this and stop being a simp



A woman will get old and become ugly but a man is never ugly. He matures with age and is dignified.


Buchi Emecheta

guy think twice before you introduce her to ur family. don't tell her about what you see...
if she can't appreciate you now she might not appreciate you later

I am not ugly, I am very dark skinned. I have met girls who laughed at me and swore they can never date a "devil" like me. I have also been 'toasted' by some REALLY BEAUTIFUL Queens who gushed all over me. Believe it or not, but I have been 'raped' by three ladies at once. All I am just saying is, even if you are 'ugly' for real, you can still be attractive to someone who respects you. The chick obviously doesn't respect you or is only tryna scope her way back into the exe's life. She's still in love with the idiot. And you sef, no dey sneak enter people privacy.

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Why are you worried then? maybe you are ugly because if you are not, it won't get to you like this

Na money be fine boy, na your pocket she dey refer to, go and hustle.

Also chat one of your friends and tell him your girlfriend is not pretty, after that allow her get into your WhatsApp and see it, so she will feel what you just felt.

[quote author=MoxxxxO123 post=98449913]Why must you hack her phone? Or don't you think it would be wrong if we hacked your thoughts?.sth meant for one's privacy.it shows what a person you are. You would be saved all this stress if you did what was best .[/quote

what's this one even saying.

MoxxxxO123:
Why must you hack her phone? Or don't you think it would be wrong if we hacked your thoughts?.sth meant for one's privacy.it shows what a person you are. You would be saved all this stress if you did what was best .

You would rather I crossed an express road with my eyes closed??

[quote author=LeeSantos post=98450742][/quote]
Don't mind the child

all hose ones saying why should he hack her phone are not normal.

this is Africa and not some development continent where 99% of girls nowadays shouldn't be trusted.

if it was to be other developed continent, the girl can just wake up and drop a note or text or something that she had let him and found someone else. but Nigeria here the girls will know she is not committed into the relationship but will still stay and be fcking your friends, Ex's, neighbours, dad and brothers.

just imagine if her ex was living in the same street or close by, that conversation would have strike her to become Hot if the ex wants.

This same thing happened to my neighbour, the wife will be running to Mushin everyday to greet her parents, not knowing she had this guy close to her parents house she was always going to meet. myself and some of his friends know what she was doing, we told him and he never cared, we turned to his enemy. until one fateful day his mom who also lived around Mushin got news that his son's wife is in a room with another guy. lo and behold she caught them red handed in the act. she then came to where we were living to throw away the girls property.

if it was even possible for us to hack their mind and brains we go do am.

brotherly abeg teach the rest of us how you hacked her WhatsApp jawe. we need it for this generation of females.

Are you more concerned that she called you ugly, or that she is having this kinda chat with someone that should be her ex when she is in a relationship with you

My younger bro hacked into his girlfriend WhatsApp last week and what he saw made him to lost appetite since then....
I just told him to ghost her immediately and he did...

Jokes apart, saying you are ugly doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly.....But you see,na money dey yab man,if not, there's no man on earth who doesn't know whatxup....Ive equally seen a cripple getting married to a pretty lady....there is a special someone for everybody...

The truth is that these hoes ain't loyal no matter how hard they may try to paint it...Just let her go back to her handsome ex......na her self she dey fool before that her ex,no be you

Las las,na the one wey you catch nai you know..

One of my beautiful girl like dat tell my guy say she just love me like dat, no be say I fine like dat but she love for no reason, my guy come tell me just smile, I no worry at all and relationship just dey go smooth, guys come dey jealous me dat time cos the girl too set... so no worry yourself just enjoy ur relationship..

LeeSantos:
all hose ones saying why should he hack her phone are not normal.

this is Africa and not some development continent where 99% of girls nowadays shouldn't be trusted.

if it was to be other developed continent, the girl can just wake up and drop a note or text or something that she had let him and found someone else. but Nigeria here the girls will know she is not committed into the relationship but will still stay and be fcking your friends, Ex's, neighbours, dad and brothers.

just imagine if her ex was living in the same street or close by, that conversation would have strike her to become Hot if the ex wants.

This same thing happened to my neighbour, the wife will be running to Mushin everyday to greet her parents, not knowing she had this guy close to her parents house she was always going to meet. myself and some of his friends know what she was doing, we told him and he never cared, we turned to his enemy. until one fateful day his mom who also lived around Mushin got news that his son's wife is in a room with another guy. lo and behold she caught them red handed in the act. she then came to where we were living to throw away the girls property.

if it was even possible for us to hack their mind and brains we go do am.

brotherly abeg teach the rest of us how you hacked her WhatsApp jawe. we need it for this generation of females.

I think it's most guys that are responsible for this behaviour in some ladies,its stupid trying to hold a girl in a relationship with your money because as for me i see no reason to even date someone who dosent love me from the onset. If babe love you even money go hard her to dey ask you but if she dey demand all the time that's a red flag to me and many other but many chose to ignore this signs and keep wallowing in self denial.