NewStats: 3,262,303 , 8,176,749 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 06:16 PM 283v72

Thanks for all your comments.

My friend is better u test it oo make u know watin u wan marry even if its once...coz hmmm some peeps can relate to what I mean..

Is risky to buy untested chinese products

Okay.

Doradorwa:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

wearing a rubber fixes all of those corners you raised

Now sex n money have become the other of the day, please sex beforw marriage is a sin anything you do is between you n God.

pretydiva:
Yes I can. Team no sex before wedding

so U be virgin like this abi ok kontinu

Doradorwa:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

Truth

FruitCakes:
I'm not a V, but I've been celibate for over a year and I want it to remain that way till I'm ready to get married

what's the difference??

MOVIC6:
Now sex n money have become the other of the day, please sex beforw marriage is a sin anything you do is between you n God.

many things nah Sin.

bizhop01:
Is risky to buy untested chinese products

So.na chinco product you dey eye

erico2k2:
what's the difference??

I don't understand

Keep distance between yourselves

And yes, sex before marriage is good but not on a regular

My opinion

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

Sex in itself is marriage. So just know that you become one with anyone you have sex with and marriage is about oneness.

iamcee:


Sex before marriage isn't a good thing..I just feel bad about the way pre-marital sex is now common.
If the guy loves you,he should wait..that would even be of great help in avoiding the problem of sexual diseases, abortions,etc.
Now,males and females are just in relationship for nothing else than sex and money.. that's bad...
Premarital sex isn't a good thing.. don't involve in it if you haven't
Once your partner understands you,you won't have problem.
One reason why getting a partner who understand you well is important

So after the marriage he won't contract the sexual disease assuming his partner had it. In my opinion abstenance should only come in if the would-be bride is a virgin. If not don't come and be preaching abstenance then be bleeping in secret, causing me to imagine what you are preserving under and be masturbating in secret, and pretend all is well.

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

When you want to discus issues like this and you remove religion out of it, then nothing is left now.

Many caution as regard this are based on religious beliefs. So, take away religion and you can do as you want.


I'm set to marry a girl I have been in relationship with for the past 6 years. We haven't had anything called sex. It is my personal decision and it stand. Mindset!!!

ubola:
So after the marriage he won't contract the sexual disease assuming his partner had it. In my opinion abstenance should only come in if the would-be bride is a virgin. If not don't come and be preaching abstenance then be bleeping in secret , causing me to imagine what you are preserving under and be masturbating in secret, and pretend all is well.

If a partner is already wired up to cheat.is it the premarital sex that will stop / change the person

For me me ooooo hmmmm though it's bad but i can't get married to someone I've not done :-Xwith because some men no dey belleful get to know if your partner have high or low libido so you can see if you guys are on the same page.......but how do married couples still to one partner all the time because some when you're use to eating egusi soup ogbolor go dey hungry you ( runs out of the thread )

erico2k2:

wearing g a rubber fixes al of those co corners you raised

Condom is not � sure....

Millenniumlady:
For me me ooooo hmmmm though it's bad but i can't get married to someone I've not done :-Xwith because some men no dey belleful get to know if your partner have high or low libido so you can see if you guys are on the same page.......but how do married couples still to one partner all the time because some when you're use to eating egusi soup ogbolor go dey hungry you ( runs out of the thread )

The wan at him libido your own you marry am abi all the wan you test which wan be your own.
So as them do chop egusi plus ogolor soup clean mouth go!
Na who loose na who gain

Doradorwa:
Condom is not � sure....

from std and pregnancy?

There is no day nairalanders don't bring a topic on sex in whatever guise to discuss. Its too much plssssss

Sex before marriage is selfish.

Sex before marriage starts with feelings of harmless love and masked with selfish interest.

Why not just wait if you're sincere?

Sex before marriage breeds lack of trust. If it is this easy, who knows if he/she won't have it with another person?

Why build a relationship with lack of trust?

You'd cross a line you can never come back from.

After heartbreak...

Then you have it with the next person and the next person and the next and you become Kesaya (free prostitute)

Why unwrapp a gift that wasn't the right time?

Judging by all the female comments on this thread you will begin to wonder if those ladies who actually fornicate are not in this country

This brings us to one thing, Hypocrisy

Fornication is one of them....qed.

erico2k2:

many things nah Sin.

ubola:
So after the marriage he won't contract the sexual disease assuming his partner had it. In my opinion abstenance should only come in if the would-be bride is a virgin. If not don't come and be preaching abstenance then be bleeping in secret, causing me to imagine what you are preserving under and be masturbating in secret, and pretend all is well.

No mind them! Pretenders are d worst sinners on d face of d earth. Wahala 4hu dey form saint 4 public dey commit sin 4 secret. I come in peace...but if u need some reparation 4my comment den "Let me see what I can do."

I’m a women, loyal and fully committed to my man but no way could we marry without having this beautiful sacred energy xchange that we share with each other.
If the connection isn’t right, the sex won’t be right.

Most couples don’t have much of a true connection to each other, they’re together for other reasons.

baralatie:

The wan at him libido your own you marry am abi all the wan you test which wan be your own.
So as them do chop egusi plus ogolor soup clean mouth go!
Na who loose na who gain

if you don't get off my comments

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

first of all do you know JESUS?

I think people have flogged this issue tire on nairaland. Sex before marriage is more of personal convinction than that of public debate. If you and your oarter agree to Bleep bfore marriage, good. But if not good still. Its a win win situation for everybody.
Buh me sha oo. I must sample my would be wife Atleast 5times bfore marriage. I may then leave her to be free, maybe about 2mnths to marriage. To make her look more attractive. But. I must sample.

tosyne2much:
Judging by all the female comments on this thread you will begin to wonder if those ladies who actually fornicate are not in this country

This brings to one thing, Hypocrisy

No!
What you have is clash of ideas!
While some men on this tread want sex before marriage (on the guise of discovering wether the woman is marriable or not....which gives rise to multiple partners)
Some of the other ladies want sex after marriage(on the guise of protecting her social identity ...which was laid down by the men)

How the two or more classes inter relate with all kinds of devises,pressures and needs is what brings about all kind of result.