NewStats: 3,261,412 , 8,173,902 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 07:20 AM 3m366q

Hello Nairalanders,

Last week a lady (casual friend) was complaining to me that her guy is an only child, and she's having mixed feelings concerning the whole relationship issue, cos according to her the guy's mum is literally controlling him and knows practically every thing about them. And she doesn't think she can continue the relationship.

I was just smiling inside me cos I'm an only child as well and my parents don't really interfer with my personal life. (I didn't tell her tho)

So the question is ladies would you feel comfortable dating or marrying an only child.

Guys as well...would you feel comfortable dating or marrying a girl who's the only child of her parents?

Yes. Why not?

I really don't care how close he is to the mum. with time, he'll outgrow all that mummy's boy and get closer to me. So??

I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum

Which kind childish talk be this?

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

.

Uzomacharles:


Which kind childish talk be this?

Nothing childish here,what I see sitting down as a lady, you can't see it on top of the highest mountain as a man

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum

Lol...I think it's the other way round. Some mum's won't just allow their sons be. They're the ones who are clingy.

longetivity:
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Why are you squeezing your face

Yes of course. Whats there. As long as there is love all things are possible

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

Hope when you give birth to your own son you would allow him to hate you and become a puppy to his wife

Olunmercy56:

What... answer yes or no.

Liposure:
Yes of course. Whats there. As long as there is love all things are possible

Exactly my thoughts

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

So if all ladies run away from them, who will marry them Or u want to tell me they will remain single for the rest of their lives.

deewhydoski:

So if all ladies run away from them, who will marry them Or u want to tell me they will remain single for the rest of their lives.

She just de catch cruise... leave am

Nazgul:

She just de catch cruise... leave am

I guess so too and she's craving for attention too and guys are giving her

Doesnt apply to all.

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

You're not matured yet. By the time you go through the process of child birth n have a child, you'd know how priceless a mother–and–child love is.

Nazgul:

What... answer yes or no.

I can if he is well trained and his mother is friendly

Zzor:
Nothing childish here,what I see sitting down as a lady, you can't see it on top of the highest mountain as a man

Nonsense Proverb...

How will you feel if your brother loves his wife and care 100% about his wife and forget your mum totally...

The same way you will feel when your son gets married and totally forget you and never care...

you mean hoe ?

.we don't engage hoe here

SILENTandSMART2:
you mean hoe ?


.we don't engage hoe here

I don't understand you bro... explain

CalliDora1:
Yes. Why not?

I really don't care how close he is with the mum. with time, he'll outgrow all that mummy's boy and get closer to me. So??

Is that what you think?

Kobicove:


Is that what you think?

Yep.

How to know simps.

Clingyness to their mother.

I can spot some of them here already

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

100% correct.

Mummy's boys are diasters waiting to happen.

They can't run their home without mummy's input.

How will their wives respect them.

any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman

The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to be a mummy's boy.

They all claim they are alfa but lives in the shadows of their mother.

The mother takes them like a surrogate husband where she pours all her emotions and frustration on.

These same guys can not leave mummy because mummy will manipulate and guilt trap them by crying so that he can stay in her basement or under her wings.

No wonder, in another news, mummy caged her son in a basement till he was 47 years old.

This same men are the ones claiming alpha males on nairaland.

How will these same men control and handĺe their girlfriends when they can't handle mummy

thebosstrevor1:
The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to a mummy's boy.

They all claim they are alfa but lives in the shadows of their mother.

The mother takes them like a surrogate husband where she pours all her emotions and frustration on.

These sames guys can leave mummy because mummy will manipulate and guilt trap them by crying so that he can stay in her basement.

No wonder, in another news, mummy caged her son in a basement till he was 47 years old.

This same men are the ones claiming alpha males on nairaland.

How will these same men control and handĺe their girlfriends when they can't handle mummy

Ur own redpill is way too toxic

lefulefu:
any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman

I agree... but there should be a limit tho, over attachment to your mum is way overboard don't you think so?

any woman who frowns at you when you have a good connection with your mom or parents is not a good woman