NewStats: 3,259,375 , 8,169,946 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 07:43 PM 5m4v4x

I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have comion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

Violent lady ye find, violent lady you shall see, shout a very big thunderous Amen...

How does this concern us bayi o ?



Even if you found werey attractive , nah your problem be dat,



We're not ready to answer any werey questions,



Misplaced priority everywhere


You go dey alright lasss lasss

You're not well sir

Arrrrrrrh


I swear you need serious deliverance. Are you a Christian? If you are then you need to know this. Even the Bible the husband to be the head and the wife the neck.

Please don't envasage such kind of women thinking because you grew up with violent ladies. They ain't funny, you will be use and dump like rags. I know some ladies will like the kind of your type if you are rich cause she will control you.

Marrying a violent woman is like living abject hell I swaer. Cause they moment you vex her, she will beat the living day light outta you and pray you don't fall to those with anger, all the home appliances gone.

The following are result you will get if you marry one:-
1. You will die because of frustration.
2. Your kids won't respect you.
3. They can turn against you anytime cause mummy will rule them.
4. You will just hate your existence because of her (your wife) nagging.

The way out is,
1. be the boss, have your own say . don't always nod to people's decision.have an objection with valuable facts.
2. Go for intensive deliverance.
3. Watch debate to be able to defend your decision when some one buzzed you.
4. Move with guys than women.
5. Stop iring aggressiveness or violence.

With the above you can change gradually Sir.
That's my own verdicts !!

Those that like violent women are the major complainants in the Romance section of this forum. They are quick to open a thread about how their woman dealt wickedly with them and will be asking for advice.
We will love to hear what she did to you after you are done with her

Chi chi , arike, omowumi this girls been use me do shakara least few months
Now Dem come dey call me up wetin they sup like this

You want to knw if there are other men like you out there? Yes, there are several men like you in fact one even disgraced us and went to a reality show to display his level of foolishness meanwhile the so called lady he is asslicking is winning endorsement deals while he is busy wearing a short nika.
You can add him up on Instagram or Facebook so that he can be your role model. If possible open a WhatsApp page titled SIMPS group

I have read some replies to my post.

Let me go and charge my phone.

When I come back, I will continue reading.

Please keep the replies coming in. I'm learning a lot already from your replies.

leksite120:
You're not well sir

Who told you? he is OK and perfectly alright. He was born to serve women like Nigerian Youth Service Corps. Pls allow him to kindly carry out his responsibilities diligently. Don't you knw when he was coming down to earth, that was part of his job description?

You will die quick bet it

You never jam agbako one, just keep finding violent woman....u go learn

Violent ke??


Come mushin olosha or oshodi oju irin


U go see plenty of them wey don drink paraga bellefu

Bleached skin and tattoo

Toast any of them
Pay her bride's price and enjoy ur life

When she kills you and you are dead, don’t come here to complain oooo

There is a man for every woman..u will find d lady dat like men like u..but I pray she doesn't take advantage of u and genuinely loves u

tnerro1:
When she kills you and you are dead, don’t come here to complain oooo

.. . Dead men don't talk.

everybody get hin own taste oo

Strange occurrences everywhere you go...

Chai you think say sibling fight be like lovers fight,when you've learnt come back and say another thing, for now we are still your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

I'm A Gentle Guy & An Introvert Too. I Want A Lady Dat Her Mouth Is Sharp Well, Well To Balance Things.

Truvel:
I'm A Gentle Guy & An Introvert Too. I Want A Lady Dat Her Mouth Is Sharp Well, Well To Balance Things.

You suppose Don find her na cos almost all women have sharp mouth,so you no get problem

There are many men like you but I don't think you'll find anyone to it it on nairaland cos they don't wanna look less macho. But it's still kinda hot to see calm males

Sarita01:

You suppose Don find her na cos almost all women have sharp mouth,so you no get problem

Not All Av It Ooo. I'm A Gentle Guy, I Don't Want A Gentle Woman. I Want A Woman Dat Won't Take Shit 4rm Anyone. If U Dare Say Any Rubbish Abt Her Guy In Presence Or Absent, She Will Blast U. Yes, Dat's D Kind Of Woman I Want. Do U Know Why? I'm A Gentle Guy, I Barely Talk, I Barely Exchange Words With People.

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It's a psychological thing, and I am no psychologist so i can't help.


Try dating women in the force. The are more authoritative and some are violent .

Sarita01:

You suppose Don find her na cos almost all women have sharp mouth,so you no get problem

Maybe you are the one for him

Truvel:
Not All Av It Ooo. I'm A Gentle Guy, I Don't Want A Gentle Woman. I Want A Woman Dat Won't Take Shit 4rm Anyone. If U Dare Say Any Rubbish Abt Her Guy In Presence Or Absent, She Will Blast U. Yes, Dat's D Kind Of Woman I Want. Do U Know Why? I'm A Gentle Guy, I Barely Talk, I Barely & Exchange Words With People.

Hmm,that's why I said most women not all,so you want woman that will be shouting for you,you want possessive woman nawa o. Sha dem many,you just never see the one you like,oya come make I dey shout for you,shouting is my hobby

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