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There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could ed, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost , for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could ed, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

u know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost , for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

, but just last month, her call came, that she saw my on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keep crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

Love is sweet but it doesn't sustain a marriage.
Can you both deal with the problems that come with an inter religious marriage?

Na tight corner u dey oh...family no gree, u need to look another corner. Except u want make her ur babymama.

Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

Harshreality:


Love is sweet but it doesn't sustain a marriage.
Can you both deal with the problems that come with an inter religious marriage?

As for me, all things will go down well, but from her side I doubt it she can deal with inter religious marriage.

We both just confused now

guy give am belle

Sundrus:
Na tight corner u dey oh...family no gree, u need to look another corner. Except u want make her ur babymama.

She even say something like this before that I should impregnate her, that with that her dad might consider, But I resist from doing that.

madridguy:
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

Have called her times without number for her approval in ending the relationship, but she never opt in

I'm just stunned a woman can allow herself to date a man for 11 yrs. Like WTF

samincredible44:
guy give am belle

But her dad might imprisoned me, or disowned her ....
and am afraid to be identify as an ex convict

liquidfaya:
I'm just stunned a woman can allow herself to date a man for 11 yrs. Like WTF

Not direct eleven years like that, we lost for like 6 years, but later reconnect this year.

madridguy:
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

But she refused to end the relationship..... she keep crying everyday

Teebaba30:


She even say something like this before that I should impregnate her, that with that her dad might consider, But I resist from doing that.

e fit be better plan ooh. Try ur luck.

Teebaba30:


Not direct eleven years like that, we lost for like 6 years, but later reconnect this year.

well the story gets even more sad. Ha ha.

Teebaba30:

But her dad might imprisoned me, or disowned her ....
and am afraid to be identify as an ex convict

two of you should run away

samincredible44:


two of you should run away

Yes we have plan this, she even said she is ready to foot the bill, we should leave the country, but wot if her parent starts disturbing my parent

Sundrus:
e fit be better plan ooh. Try ur luck.

Am about doing that, but I quickly give it a second thought

[quote author=liquidfaya post=89356291]well the story gets even more sad. Ha ha. [/quote

Can't understand, more sad in what essence ...

Teebaba30:


As for me, all things will go down well, but from her side I doubt it she can deal with inter religious marriage.

We both just confused now

I believe you guys are adults
If you really believe that you can made an inter religious marriage work then you should respectfully tell your parents you're getting married.
They will be angry and might disown you but at the end of they day they have no choice but to accept.

Just know that the marriage would be one of compromise.
There can not be selfishness from anybody.
I've seen some workout and some fail
you guys have to be all in.

At the end of the day, there and millions of men and women out there but only few truly complete us.

Give her belle nd thank me later [color=#000000][/color]

Give her belle nd thank me later

[quote author=Teebaba30 post=89356517][/quote]
Okay it's a happy story.

Harshreality:


I believe you guys are adults
If you really believe that you can made an inter religious marriage work then you should respectfully tell your parents you're getting married.
They will be angry and might disown you but at the end of they day they have no choice but to accept.

Just know that the marriage would be one of compromise.
There can not be selfishness from anybody.
I've seen some workout and some fail
you guys have to be all in.

At the end of the day, there and millions of men and women out there but only few truly complete us.

But she's always afraid to be disowned by her parent, Cos she's the only daughter

Yellowblack:
Give her belle nd thank me later

What if her dad get me jailed nko....am afraid to be and ex convict

A bird might love a fish, but where will they build a home together

Why not march up to her parent and explain your position like a man? What are you scared of? You have the no go get the yes.... Your demeanor, attitude and intelligence may soften their rigid stance.

Your grammar gave me migraine and I have taken pain killers. I'd advise you when I feel better..

Teebaba30:


But she's always afraid to be disowned by her parent, Cos she's the only daughter

Then it can't work.
You can always remain friends.

If you truly love her go to court and get married,there is really no need to convert inter-religious marriage is not a new thing,but if you truly need your parents and societies is better to break up cause nigerians are fundamentalists and aren't open to such marriages

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could ed, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

u know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost , for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

, but just last month, her call came, that she saw my on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keep crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

why can't the both of you stick to your various religion without the other person trying to covert the other?
must their be convertion self? Una just dey make a mountain out of a hill

How can you say you were dating a lady for 11 yrs and you guys lost for 7yrs.That one na dating.Who does that,7good yrs.

The matter wey dey on ground so...e heavy for mouth