NewStats: 3,263,739 , 8,181,208 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 04:03 PM 4f2q25

I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?

What a pity. Report the matter to the police immediately.

.Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.

Most Women are naturally wicked.

Op just leave her nemesis ll surely catch up with her in the future.

It is well..

Just leave her alone.. And take good care of your child...
Ignore her I can tell you that her plans is to fustrate you or blackmail you out of that house.. Just overlook it " You are better than that" And be close, kind and playfull with her children especially that her last born ... When you gain their trust, trust me she'll hate her self for hating on you...
Just keep calm like Sansa in game of thrones and play the mind game with her

just rent another apartment if your husband is staying very far or better still move to your husband place, don't put law in your hands

I m so sorry about your baby.
please don't do that.
You might land yourself in bigger problem.
Vengance is of the Lord.
Just talk to God about it and one day she ll get her rewards.
You should be more concerned about how to go back to your house after this Covid-19 pandemic

Codely poison her naa.........

I don't know which of you two women is more silly.

Is it the witch who poured hot water on a baby, or a grown-up you who feels entitled to getting fed in a house you're squatting in.

Her own level of fvckery is definitely higher than yours though, that much is certain.

My heart goes out to your child!

Please, report this incident to the police immediately!

That evil step mom should be arrested ASAP!!

Thy LORD is your strength!

Madam pls go back to your home and manage it as it is.

Ahh! Some women are devil. Imagine what this woman have done to this innocent baby.

No matter how merciful your ALLAH or JESUS is. He would find it difficult to forgve some people.

My advice.
Sister, i feel your pain but please take things easy for now. Don't rush for revenge, even if you forgive her karma will still hunt her.
I wish you have strong evidence against her to put her behind the bar. Consult your husband for every step you are going to take.

And for you Dad, he need deliverance. Yes, I am serious he have been possessed.

Dear baby, Lord will heal you quickly. smile, your Mums love you.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.

Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

Hmmn, just let her be. No use repaying evil for evil.

Tiarababy:

Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

Go and report this matter to the police immediately even if your dad would be offended. The woman would surely do more in future if you don't make it official.


It's your father's house and she's in her husband's house. Everyone should leave in piece. She has no greater claim to the house than yourself whether you are married or not.

Babies can get really hurt from having seemingly small areas of burn/scald injuries though. An example is immediate kidney shutdown (I will not use medical ) with can lead to death.
So while you are pondering what to do, you have to take her to the children emergency of the teaching hospital near you. They will rate the degree of injury and treat accordingly. She will likely need fluid therapy, ointment, maybe antibiotics and or other ive therapy.
This is very very important dear poster.

After ensuring the baby is okay (or after starting therapy if it’s not), you can come back and negotiate how you have to go back to your husband. How you can help your situation. How to fight your stepmom, etc
The immediate need is to ensure your child is all right .

sorry.as for me I must pay u back .

Don't retaliate sis. Just do everything to avoid her. Beside go manage with your Husband then start to do mini business to assist d family

Tiarababy:

Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

....Yeah I understand. Don't worry everything will soon be ok. Do all you can to avoid her

Pls u and ur husband should try to rent a room,even if its inside a bush,if there's love,u both can manage.my wife and I ones lived in a single room without a toilet or bathroom.we wake as early as 4 am to take our bath outside d room,I deficated in a potty due to my condition(lame),she pours it out in a near by bush whenever I do without complain.

Until God help Us to move out,she did it for 3yrs. I love her so much.

Be more vigilant, don't leave your baby for anybody to take care of. If you can afford to move you can move, if not, manage until you can move out.

merahki:
Babies can get really hurt from having seemingly small areas of burn/scald injuries though. An example is immediate kidney shutdown (I will not use medical ) with can lead to death.
So while you are pondering what to do, you have to take her to the children emergency of the teaching hospital near you. They will rate the degree of injury and treat accordingly. She will likely need fluid therapy, ointment, maybe antibiotics and or other ive therapy.
This is very very important dear poster.

After ensuring the baby is okay (or after starting therapy if it’s not), you can come back and negotiate how you have to go back to your husband. How you can help your situation. How to fight your stepmom, etc
The immediate need is to ensure your child is all right .

My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital

Ahmed0336:
Most Women are naturally wicked.

Op just leave her nemesis ll surely catch up with her in the future.

It is well..

She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget all her life

Better go and arrest her and get a restraining order against her. The next thing she will do is poison your baby and you won't know what happened.

If u are living with them in that same house while still married, u are like an unwanted guest.. So whatever they throw at u, u accept it. That's just the harsh reality.

Take your child and nurse her.. Nemesis will do it's job when the time comes. Though it takes time but it will..

Don't do anything stupid that will make your dad and the whole family turn against u... She wants you to leave the house. That was her message.. it's up to u to understand it or prepare for more challenges ahead. .

Tiarababy:
Am married with one kid , my husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant we are not longer living together , am back to my dad house with my step mom and 4 siblings. Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one she only cooks for herself , my dad and her children , she don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food , I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband, I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day. Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down , I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby , she was screaming in pain and when I look she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand , I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good health my brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water , I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us , I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care she acted like nothing no even a sorry to me, my dad says i should be quiet accident do happens and it’s nothing to be angry about, his words really shocked me but what can I do. What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who pur water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum. I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof , I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did , I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much , why pur hot water on a baby just because of bread , I hate her and I want to pur hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby . Should I pur hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch ?

Go back to your house and manage with your husband.

You can add acid to the hot water when you want to pour it on her, she is very evil for hurting the innocent child on purpose

Modified.

SweetCunt97:
Go back to your house and manage with your husband.

How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for them

A woman for that matter she is a witch just go back to your husband and manage with him. Don't let her kill you and your baby

Biglittlelois:



How do you know her husband is living in their house? What if he had to leave cos he's unable to pay for rent and he's squatting with a friend? What if he told his wife to go live in her father's house so that he can hustle to get a place for them

Quite pathetic. Advantages of not solely depending on a man

Biglittlelois:



Disgusting, is it by force to marry? Some people like and are used to hardship that's why they can put up with any bs.....

Hahhahahaahahahha,some without d husband got nothing to return to so they gotta suffer it up. The guy you quoted, him wife try o.. Chai