NewStats: 3,262,122 , 8,176,130 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 08:35 PM 4n51f

Petyprincess:

Have only visited nd i have a white boyfriend so i know literally everything about Europe! Bt trust me you gonna get used to it nd you will definitely make some friends not necessarily Nigerian friends
Wish you all the very best!! I'm still following your thread though

Wow, Grandmasters in this matter. Anyone that argues with you, I'll report them to Boss Justwise.

CornOak:


Yes, it used to be super fantabulous. But right now, they seem to have closed the doors on Nigerian students. Getting an interview date has now become extremely hard.

The result? Nigerian students are now looking elsewhere. Quite painful.

It's not door they close, it's the fact that lots of people are squeezing their way through the poor door. Irish Visa takes 5 weeks, I got mine in 7.

Petyprincess:

Better start believing b4 reality drawns on you! Even the OP agreed nd he is a student in Ireland
UK might be exception though because interracial couples are really common there with lots of immigrants nd open minded people!

op hasn't spent up to 4 months now . But Ireland is very close to UK. I might believe if another person who has been living there for a while confirm sha.

_{but which one is "before reality drawns on me", ooh, you thought I would travel on visit visa just to marry one? I can never do that}

Chiggsglover:

It's not door they close, it's the fact that lots of people are squeezing their way through the poor door. Irish Visa takes 5 weeks, I got mine in 7.

That's a nice point though, very true. German student visa used to be one of the easiest in Europe, but once the rejected USA and Canada applicants got to know about the easy route, everything became saturated.

Ireland is towing the same lane.

Petyprincess:

Please loud it!!! Even that my friend is complaining nw he spent millions of naira for a post graduate course nd after two years he could only get a factory job! I'm pretty sure if he had chosen Switzerland,denmark or even Austria he can easily get a descent job! Canada is immigration friendly to the extent foreigners hardly get a suitable job! I always advice people to go to country with less immigrant because you have more opportunities nd options! If you can learn the language of these countries i listed trust me you can easily find a descent nd well paying including in Norway

You have a point but have you thought about depression? A lot of people especially Nigerians in those countries are depressed. You may be surprised that why are they depressed when they are in a good country? This question bring us to look into certain factors that cause depression for them.

Using Nigerians as a case study, we are a fun loving people and boredom isn't for us. In Finland and other Nordic countries, they commit suicide because of boredom. Yes, they have everything, even things that are not available to most Americans but that doesn't stop the rate at which Nordic citizens commit suicide due to boredom.

Migration is lifetime plan. It requires determination and knowing what you want in life. You need to think about what makes you happy in a country. As a Nigerian, with no doubt, America is the best country. Reason is because it is the most diverse country in the world, you will get to see different nationalities and make friends with them. Apart from that, there are countless number of Nigerians there so it feels like home.

@emboldened It's not only in Canada but it also happens in those countries you mentioned. No country is perfect and you should know this but Canada has a balanced system that is similar to both United States of America and Scandinavian nations. That is one of the advantages of living in Canada because you have the best of the two.

Petyprincess:

Will you date a Nigerian single mother? Most Nigerian guys stigmatized single mother nd ladies above 30 by calling them evening newspaper bt they can marry a great grand ma for green card nd you will hear them saying age is just a number all in the name of green card

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Those Nigerians that call single mothers "evening newspaper" are not enlightened.

Chiggsglover:

My boss is here.

how your persuit

Maximum respect sir

pursuit is on a hold for now. I'm not financially capable yet. I'm trying to raise money to pursue my dream of living in a sane country i can call home

How's Ireland treating you

Hadampson:


Maximum respect sir

pursuit is on a hold for now. I'm not financially capable yet. I'm trying to raise money to pursue my dream of living in a sane country i can call home

How's Ireland treating you

Ohhhh, that's great, I deferred my ission sef just so I package my application and hit my shot.
Getting a refusal isnt a good thing.
Ireland is fantabulous. I'm enjoying the ride, as class no dey, I get plenty time.

Hadampson:


Lol.. I knew you would ask this question. For your question, yes. I don't care about nationality or anything. As long as i love her, i would gladly marry her whether she is a single mother or not.

I once dated a single mother in the past and she is a Nigerian. I left her simply because her family don't want her to marry someone younger than her.

She is 7 years older than me and she has 4 beautiful kids but I don't care about that. I love her for her.

Those Nigerians that call single mothers "evening newspaper" are not enlightened.

Haaaaaaa, that's too much, 7yrs, she go quick old o, me dey find young sissy. That's why we like them younger.
Its not that it's bad, some of them with good firm body will be great. Its actually about the person tho.
Like the saying, Men age like wine.

olalekan9320:
op hasn't spent up to 4 months now . But Ireland is very close to UK. I might believe if another person who has been living there for a while confirm sha.

_{but which one is "before reality drawns on me", ooh, you thought I would travel on visit visa just to marry one? I can never do that}

Lol, true sha, where are the Old Gs.

UK is €25 for flight, lol

CornOak:


That's a nice point though, very true. German student visa used to be one of the easiest in Europe, but once the rejected USA and Canada applicants got to know about the easy route, everything became saturated.

Ireland is towing the same lane.

Na smalls, they'll keep taking till everywhere full, lol

Hadampson:


You have a point but have you thought about depression? A lot of people especially Nigerians in those countries are depressed. You may be surprised that why are they depressed when they are in a good country? This question bring us to look into certain factors that cause depression for them.

Using Nigerians as a case study, we are a fun loving people and boredom isn't for us. In Finland and other Nordic countries, they commit suicide because of boredom. Yes, they have everything, even things that are not available to most Americans but that doesn't stop the rate at which Nordic citizens commit suicide due to boredom.

Migration is lifetime plan. It requires determination and knowing what you want in life. You need to think about what makes you happy in a country. As a Nigerian, with no doubt, America is the best country. Reason is because it is the most diverse country in the world, you will get to see different nationalities and make friends with them. Apart from that, there are countless number of Nigerians there so it feels like home.

@emboldened It's not only in Canada but it also happens in those countries you mentioned. No country is perfect and you should know this but Canada has a balanced system that is similar to both United States of America and Scandinavian nations. That is one of the advantages of living in Canada because you have the best of the two.

Even though you never move, this has lots of wisdom, I sabi your rep as a great reader, that's why the way must clear for you, you nailed the point. Sometimes I get overwhelmed and get boring, thinking of home, is enough to Zap me to the realm of Appreciation.

Chiggsglover:

Lol, true sha, where are the Old Gs.

UK is €25 for flight, lol

Can you enter the UK with your Schengen visa?

CornOak:


Can you enter the UK with your Schengen visa?

Don’t get it twisted, Ireland is not in the schegen zone

Hadampson you have a point about America been a diversed country,if you are kinda extrovert nd love to mingle with your nationality then America is recommended.
About the single mother stuff if what you wrote is true that i give you a thumbs up because you dnt have this typical Nigerian mentality,about you being 7 years younger you get mind o

olalekan9320:
In western European country like Ireland ? I don't think I believe this

There are only a few countries like that. Ireland and Italy. Turkey, Cyprus ladies can also be like that. But it's not a common thing.

I don't know why these guys are generalizing. 'White girls' do this and do that. I'm still trying to figure that out.

CornOak:


Can you enter the UK with your Schengen visa?

Ireland doesn't give schengen, we have to apply.
It's like strolling to your backyard.

Phelixblaq:


Don’t get it twisted, Ireland is not in the schegen zone

Sadly Yes.

Petyprincess:
Hadampson you have a point about America been a diversed country,if you are kinda extrovert nd love to mingle with your nationality then America is recommended.

About the single mother stuff if what you wrote is true that i give you a thumbs up because you dnt have this typical Nigerian mentality,about you being 7 years younger you get mind o

Yes, that's it.. If you are an extrovert, there is high tendency of being bored which may lead to depression in Nordic countries but Nordic countries is a great destination for introverted people

You will get to enjoy government welfare there

Chiggsglover:

Ireland doesn't give schengen, we have to apply.
It's like strolling to your backyard.

Crazy, and I was thinking Ireland gives Schengen Visa since they are part of the EU. So you won't be able to stroll around Europe without visas?

Oga o.

Petyprincess:
Hadampson you have a point about America been a diversed country,if you are kinda extrovert nd love to mingle with your nationality then America is recommended.
About the single mother stuff if what you wrote is true that i give you a thumbs up because you dnt have this typical Nigerian mentality,about you being 7 years younger you get mind o

True sha, Hadampson get mind no be small.

Phelixblaq:


Don’t get it twisted, Ireland is not in the schegen zone

Damn! I already got it twisted, lol.

Hadampson:



Yes, that's it.. If you are an extrovert, there is high tendency of being bored which may lead to depression in Nordic countries but Nordic countries is a great destination for introverted people

You will get to enjoy government welfare there

Bt why do some people prefer only making friends with their nationality in foreign country? Some nationality are even accommodating than than blacks! Yes that's also why divorce is rampant because single mothers get welfare depending on how many children you have I dnt even know if I'm extrovert or introvert bt what i know i make friends easily doesn't matter what nationality

Chiggsglover:


True sha, Hadampson get mind no be small.

He don have mentality of oyinbo fast fast someone like him wnt have a problem living anywhere in the because he seems to know alot compare to that guy trying to derail this wonderful thread

ChristoBam:


There are only a few countries like that. Ireland and Italy. Turkey, Cyprus ladies can also be like that. But it's not a common thing.

I don't know why these guys are generalizing. 'White girls' do this and do that. I'm still trying to figure that out.

I do get the reservation about Generalization
Its important to play sef when you've had people showing you scars about being manhandled by the jealous ex, brothers and friends of the white girls.
Theres a video trending on YouTube about an Irish lady on rampage in an African man store.

Petyprincess:
Hadampson you have a point about America been a diversed country,if you are kinda extrovert nd love to mingle with your nationality then America is recommended.

About the single mother stuff if what you wrote is true that i give you a thumbs up because you dnt have this typical Nigerian mentality,about you being 7 years younger you get mind o

Not Nigerian mentality actually but African mentality... It's only uncivilized people that have African mentality. Apologies to those that still possess that archaic mentality

Hadampson:



Yes, that's it.. If you are an extrovert, there is high tendency of being bored which may lead to depression in Nordic countries but Nordic countries is a great destination for introverted people

You will get to enjoy government welfare there

Its sweet if you're going with ya spouse or gf so that you'll always have company.