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bukatyne:


First, you have to do a small wedding
Secondly, you have to do everything on the same day
Thirdly, you can explore the option of a week day.

Pay the bride price in the morning with only both families in the babe's sitting room. A small meal like yam and egg sauce can be used to entertain the guests.

Next, go to church for the ing.

Come back home/reception changing into your traditional wear.

So you are only feeding people at the traditional reception and because it is a week day, the crowd is limited.

Dear Op,


Kindly take this advice, it's exactly the same thing i wanted to type but I was not quick.

ctleurocollege:
My plan is to wed my girl this year. I want to do church, court and pay dowry during introduction, is this possible? Ideas on how to work on this budget is needed. Thanks in advance

Very possible. Fela Durotoye married in to a one room apartment... and used his mattress to cover torn carpet...

500k is the money for wedding grown or the food Oga go hustle money before you marry

Thegeneralqueen:
500k is the money for wedding grown or the food Oga go hustle money before you marry

Is this a joke?

Bros! Choose one of two advice I have for you. In the end the decision is yours to make.


If N500k is all you have, plan well.
In the end, you'll realise that what you spend will be more than your budget because family and friends will assist in a way or the other. Go to God in prayers and discuss thoroughly with your woman before you begin.

I repeat! If N500k is all you have with no reliable means of income, invest it.

Smartchoiice:

Very possible. Fela Durotoye married in to a one room apartment... and used his mattress to cover torn carpet...

I have a furnished apartment. I don't want to spend too much on wedding because I am of the opinion that life after wedding is more important

ctleurocollege:
My plan is to wed my girl this year. I want to do church, court and pay dowry during introduction, is this possible? Ideas on how to work on this budget is needed. Thanks in advance

First, you have to do a small wedding
Secondly, you have to do everything on the same day
Thirdly, you can explore the option of a week day.

Pay the bride price in the morning with only both families in the babe's sitting room. A small meal like yam and egg sauce can be used to entertain the guests.

Next, go to church for the ing.

Come back home/reception changing into your traditional wear.

So you are only feeding people at the traditional reception and because it is a week day, the crowd is limited.

GuestLog:
Bros! Choose one of two advice I have for you. In the end the decision is yours to make.


If N500k is all you have, plan well.
In the end, you'll realise that what you spend will be more than your budget because family and friends will assist in a way or the other. Go to God in prayers and discuss thoroughly with your woman before you begin.

I repeat! If N500k is all you have with no reliable means of income, invest it.

Thanks bro, it's not all but what I have earmarked for the wedding expenses for now

ctleurocollege:


Thanks bro, it's not all but what I have earmarked for the wedding expenses for now

plan small. You can never satisfy people no matter how big you budget.

bukatyne:


First, you have to do a small wedding
Secondly, you have to do everything on the same day
Thirdly, you can explore the option of a week day.

Pay the bride price in the morning with only both families in the babe's sitting room. A small meal like yam and egg sauce can be used to entertain the guests.

Next, go to church for the ing.

Come back home/reception changing into your traditional wear.

So you are only feeding people at the traditional reception and because it is a week day, the crowd is limited.

Thanks the idea of doing all on the same day is worth Iooking into. My budget can go up a bit more but I want to make her very comfortable after the wedding, not to exhaust our finances just for wedding celebration

500k...white wedding,court wedding and paying of dowry...na urself u wan marry?

ctleurocollege:



Thanks the idea of doing all on the same day is worth Iooking into. My budget can go up a bit more but I want to make her very comfortable after the wedding, not to exhaust our finances just for wedding celebration

That is a great idea.

ctleurocollege:



I have a furnished apartment. I don't want to spend too much on wedding because I am of the opinion that life after wedding is more important

I really don't understand wedding for your side.

In Yoruba land... it's the girl's family that would be worrying now.

bukatyne:


Is this a joke?

I noticed she's just a troll displaying her witless talent in this forum.


She's best ignored.

Thegeneralqueen:
500k is the money for wedding grown or the food Oga go hustle money before you marry

Is he the one wearing the gown that he is buying wedding gown for you are you handicaped even who is handicapped still does something for him/herself.



@Op you can do registry marriage very cheap or do small traditional wedding inside parlour nor invite village people make them nor chop your money finish. If the girls family are reasonable they can assist you you should not be the only one to spend on your wedding. You can just call your pastor to pray for you, no need to do party and invite church or else you go feed up to 100 people for the three events and the 500k nor go reach.
Do a very small wedding save the money and plan for your marriage with your wife to assist you. You must not do all three pick one or two and invite less people and that 500k will cover up all the little expenses with change to spare after the wedding is the most important

Ladyhippolyta88:

Is he the one wearing tge gown that he is buying wedding gown for you are you handicapoed even who is handicapped still does something for him/herself.



@Op you can do registry marriage very cheap or do small traditional wedding inside parlour nor invite village people make them nor chop your money finish. If the girls family are reasonable they can assist you you should not be the only one to spend on your wedding. You can just call your pastor to pray for you, no need to do party and invite church or else you go feed up to 100 people for the three events and the 500k nor go reach.
Do a very small wedding save the money and plan for your marriage with your wife to assist you. You must not do all three after the wedding is the most important

For this brilliant comment, I will propose to Tacha on my birthday.

Smartchoiice:

I really don't understand wedding for your side.

In Yoruba land... it's the girl's family that would be worrying now.

If to say I know na Yoruba girl I for marry ( )

O boy everything dey my head for now. We haven't discussed what she intends contributing but I will surely ask what part her family will play financially

Erediauwa:
For this brilliant comment, I will propose to Tacha on my birthday.

Please do make I plan wedding for her

Ladyhippolyta88:

Is he the one wearing tge gown that he is buying wedding gown for you are you handicapoed even who is handicapped still does something for him/herself.



@Op you can do registry marriage very cheap or do small traditional wedding inside parlour nor invite village people make them nor chop your money finish. If the girls family are reasonable they can assist you you should not be the only one to spend on your wedding. You can just call your pastor to pray for you, no need to do party and invite church or else you go feed up to 100 people for the three events and the 500k nor go reach.
Do a very small wedding save the money and plan for your marriage with your wife to assist you. You must not do all three pick one or two and invite less people and that 500k will cover up all the little expenses with change to spare after the wedding is the most important

Guys see marriage material here. If you're looking for a wife this sister should be considered

ctleurocollege:


Guys see marriage material here. If you're looking for a wife this sister should be considered

Thanks let bluntboy not see this post he will come for those guys. I don't want trouble

Ladyhippolyta88:


Please do make I plan wedding for her

Oh well,

I didn't tell you.... You're the "Tacha" I am referring to.

ctleurocollege:


Guys see marriage material here. If you're looking for a wife this sister should be considered

They better look elsewhere.

Erediauwa:
Oh well,

I didn't tell you.... You're the "Tacha" I am referring to.

I comment my reserve my name is Siobhan not Tacha

ctleurocollege:


If to say I know na Yoruba girl I for marry ( )

O boy everything dey my head for now. We haven't discussed what she intends contributing but I will surely ask what part her family will play financially

You bring your 500k and she adds about 300k,that should go a long way ryt?

BluntBoy:


They better look elsewhere.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Happy new year, my goddess. Don't forget to send my tasty fried chickens. When we get married, I will always make barbecued chickens for you on days like this.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I comment my reserve my name is Siobhan not Tacha

"Siobhan"


Please, which bush locality bears such name?

AwkaetitiBabe:
You bring your 500k and she adds about 300k,that should go a long way ryt?

For sure it will, but she's not working yet. Hopefully this year she will secure a job

very important

ctleurocollege:


If to say I know na Yoruba girl I for marry ( )

O boy everything dey my head for now. We haven't discussed what she intends contributing but I will surely ask what part her family will play financially

ctleurocollege:


For sure it will, but she's not working yet. Hopefully this year she will secure a job

Amen! I thought there's a propaganda against marrying unemployed women though ... Wish you d best..

BluntBoy:


Happy new year, my goddess. Don't forget to send my tasty fried chickens. When we get married, I will always make barbecued chickens for you on days like this.

Happy new year.

Make it everyday