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Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Invest in yourself, fiance go come.

Sorry to say but hustle more. Earning 50k is not enough for you to take care of yourself and your girlfriend, coupled with rent, clothes and food.

Lalasticlala

Anyone can have a girlfriend


It all depends on the kind of girl you find

Ahamefuna0001, no Nairalander is in the position to tell you when to keep one, na your bank balance go tell you when e don reach to finally keep one, no go put pesin pikin for suffering biko, so, go back and
HUSTLE O!

Fiancee or girlfriend ?

Riele:

Fiancee or girlfriend ?

What's the difference

lilmax:
Anyone can have a girlfriend

It all depends on the kind of girl you find

Can you throw more lights on this

Charleys:
Invest in yourself, fiance go come.

Thanks a lot man. one love

Charlynega:
Sorry to say but hustle more. Earning 50k is not enough for you to take care of yourself and your girlfriend, coupled with rent, clothes and food.

This is so true. thanks a lot man

Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

Ahamefuna0001:

What's the difference

Seriously ?
You're asking that ?

Riele:


Seriously ?

You're asking that ?

At this stage of my life how will I date or friend a girl whom I don't have any intentions of marrying and starting a family with.

To me girlfriend and fiancée are same.. unless you're referring to teenagers girlfriend and boyfriend relationship which has no future.

V1C70R:
Ahamefuna0001, no Nairalander is in the position to tell you when to keep one, na your bank balance go tell you when e don reach to finally keep one, no go put pesin pikin for suffering biko, so, go back and
HUSTLE O!

Lol. I love this
Thanks man

Ahamefuna0001:


At this stage of my life how will I date or friend a girl whom I don't have any intentions of marrying and starting a family with.

To me girlfriend and fiancée are same.. unless you're referring to teenagers girlfriend and boyfriend relationship which has no future.

Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

Girlfriend ooo

Fiancee oooo


All na scam.


Just get the rubbers and you will settle down with anything your heart desires.


Money rules the world

Riele:


Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

You are advising him to own a house before settling down? His salary is 50k today and to own a house he will need to work for the next twenty years without doing any expenses.


Are you not the Tata abi Pikin that her thread graced Fp? Stop giving kids advice because other people are trying to learn something meaningful

Riele:


Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

Lol.everyone got their different orientation and opinions.
Thanks a lot.

lovat:
Girlfriend ooo

Fiancee oooo


All na scam.


Just get the rubbers and you will settle down with anything your heart desires.


Money rules the world

Lol. Naso brother.
Thanks

lovat:
You are advising him to own a house before settling down? His salary is 50k today and to own a house he will need to work for the next twenty years without doing any expenses.


Are you not the Tata abi Pikin that her thread graced Fp? Stop giving kids advice because other people are trying to learn something meaningful

I meant he should have a house of his own maybe rent one .

He can't marry a woman into a house shared with a friend .

For your second question , Get some sense.

Riele:


I meant he should have a house of his own maybe rent one .

He can't marry a woman into a house shared with a friend .

For your second question , Get some sense.

Go and tell Nna gi to get sense.


Social media has given you ticket to talk trash.

Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

Wow. I'm touched. just ed my close female friend back in Tertiary institution.
God bless you sir.

lovat:
Nna gi will get sense.

He has one already .
Now get way from my mention .

Riele:


He has one already .

Now get way from my mention .

I know that you are insulting mpa gi and not me

When you have 5 million in your aza

When you can feed, cloth, house yourself

Take care of yourself fully and can afford to take care of another

In Nigeria, 20 is ok

... At these 3 stages

1. When u can feed 2 mouth and additionally feed her family tooo


2. When u can bear her cheating with another man and u wunt rush to nairaland to ask for an advice. women are polygamous in nature

3. When you know you are mentally, physically okay to stay with one woman for the rest of ur life...

sex will not allow you to marry in good time cause you're tasting it late.

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

Op is not set

This one no de get stage.

Once you are emotionally, psychologically and financially stable, you can get that. Provided that you have seen the right or atleast, near right lady. No one is 100% perfect.