NewStats: 3,261,189 , 8,173,345 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 01:55 PM 1t3c3d

Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Sounds like it was a set-up and you failed. Sorry tho

Eaztzide:
Sounds like it was a set-up and you failed. Sorry tho

The girl doesn't know her .. They have never met.. And gf traveled as far as four states away

God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm mm

What more can I say but hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

enshi:


The girl doesn't know her .. They have never met.. And gf traveled as far as four states away

Ohh
Konji na bastard

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Thank you ... I deserve even worse than that..
Pls how do you think I can fix this

Eaztzide:
Sounds like it was a set-up and you failed. Sorry tho

At least you didn't say she is a witch to have returned at that moment.Its always the woman's fault. Abi no be she set her boyfriend up?

Shiit happens...

Na beg plus more begs and true repentance from a contrite heart you need. If she fails to forgive, you need to let her be and move on with the knowledge that you ruined it all by yourself.

Should she forgive and decide to get on with you, a huge dent would have been made on the fabric of trust in your relationship which would take years to fix and regain back.

E don happen to me, my gbola shrink sharp sharp as I begin to speak French, Dutch, English, and Arabic all at the same time.

Not nice an experience.

stop making flimsy excuses abeg,the painful part is the girl might return back to you.

enshi:


Thank you ... I deserve even worse than that..
Pls how do you think I can fix this

You don't have anything to fix young man.You are a cheat, a leopard never change it's spot.You claimed never to have cheated on her in one year and four months, lol you were counting months and it was only a matter of time before you did else you wouldn't have gone down with someone you met within hours.

Lose and cheap is what you are.

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Just few days and you could not leash your pipi.

People like you can't be trusted. Well let your fellow cheats advice you.

Ariza:
You don't have anything to fix young man.You are a cheat, a leopard never change it's spot.You claimed never to have cheated on her in one year and four months, lol you were counting months and it was only a matter of time before you did else you wouldn't have gone down with someone you met within hours.

Lose and cheap is what you are.

I just realized this though

Oya beat your chest 3 times and say i am stupid.

enshi:


I just realized this though

I went through your profile and saw this.
https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5452092/gf-cheated-me

Honestly you could have walked out of your relationship since the trust is gone than put yourself all through this stress and disgrace. You never saw her the way you used to and even though you tried to patch things up, the crack was there.
However, going down with a woman you met within hours is very cheap!

I guess this is supposed to be a joke.......How do you meet a girl in the morning and lay with her by noon, no good girl should be with your kind

Or your gf never travelled? Anyone would be mad at that moment.. If you caught her too would you forgive her? Anyway, try and send her a text...

Have no fear, u will be 2geda.
Call her and observe how she responds.
She's expecting ur call or some explanation right now.
If she doesn't take ur calls send her messages.
Tell her that the girl was just a fling...girls don't generally care about who u f*ck but who u r dating.

As the conversation goes on find
a way to put some of the blame on her

At d end nak her the make up nak.

Hahahaha... na una way be that. if I be your gal friend, the thing no-go ever pain, it won't affect me lielie. but I will make sure I Bleep that same gal that's if she's beautiful oo. hahahaha. but hope you used CD sha? if not go for test now because ayam not understanding this kinda rush rush sex.

Shugargal:
Hahahaha... na una way be that. if I be your gal friend, the thing no-go ever pain, it won't affect me lielie. but I will make sure I Bleep that same gal that's if she's beautiful oo. hahahaha. but hope you used CD sha? if not go for test now because ayam not understanding this kinda rush rush sex.

You swing both ways?

BTW how does that make you feel better? And what if the lady isn't bisexual? And how does this affect the guy?

Just asking.

Baba na set up and u failed in her trap.


Okay, tell me how you take scop her?

I mean d one f*ked in the absent of ur babe

Shugargal:
Hahahaha... na una way be that. if I be your gal friend, the thing no-go ever pain, it won't affect me lielie. but I will make sure I Bleep that same gal that's if she's beautiful oo. hahahaha. but hope you used CD sha? if not go for test now because ayam not understanding this kinda rush rush sex.

.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.

If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

Ariza:
You swing both ways?

BTW how does that make you feel better? And what if the lady isn't bisexual? And how does this affect the guy?

Just asking.

Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.

Thank God she caught you....

How do people lay with different people and are at ease. Isn't it disgustingly irritating....??


Not even for 2 months habaaaa!.....




May God help you....

you are evil

Michelle55:
If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.

After that the girl will still fall ABI.....

Don't encourage him. Where is self control?



This story might even be a nollyhood script....

Eaztzide:
Sounds like it was a set-up and you failed. Sorry tho

The guy failed woefully. With distinction sef

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

Amen and me too, shameless man... Game up

praz001:




After that the girl will still fall ABI.....

Don't encourage him. Where is self control?



This story might even be a nollyhood script....

.. I understand sir. Thanks