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Miss Adetutu narrated how her friend had called her few weeks to her Introduction about having nowhere to stay at Ibadan, after a seminar she attended.
Her story:

My friend Adeola said babe I have nowhere to crash the night do you have anyone I can stay with, I replied her and said I don't have anyone except my fiance.
But let me call him.
I called him and he said anything for me.
My friend later went to my fiance place at apata, she stayed the night and the next day came back to lagos.
Just last week she called me and said I can't go ahead with my introduction because am about to wed the Father of her child.
I asked If she was alright and she said the other day she slept over at my fiance place they had s** together and had resulted to her pregnancy.
Am confused. My fiance has apologized to me after I confronted him. And I already promised him at the beginning of our relationship that I will always forgive him no matter what.

I want to go ahead with the wedding but the issue of my friend pregnancy Is the issue.

Please advice me what can I do

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CC: LALASTICLACLA Everyone needs to Learn from this True Life Story.

I have Nothing to learn from the story

♻ed story...

all I can say is that you should cut ties with that friend of yours. She deliberately got pregnant for him so you would cancel your marriage

2special:
I have Nothing to learn from the story

Obviously...... "Birds of the Same feather"

koyen:
Miss Adetutu narrated how her friend had called her few weeks to her Introduction about having nowhere to stay at Ibadan, after a seminar she attended.
Her story:

My friend Adeola said babe I have nowhere to crash the night do you have anyone I can stay with, I replied her and said I don't have anyone except my fiance.
But let me call him.
I called him and he said anything for me.
My friend later went to my fiance place at apata, she stayed the night and the next day came back to lagos.
Just last week she called me and said I can't go ahead with my introduction because am about to wed the Father of her child.
I asked If she was alright and she said the other day she slept over at my fiance place they had s** together and had resulted to her pregnancy.
Am confused. My fiance has apologized to me after I confronted him. And I already promised him at the beginning of our relationship that I will always forgive him no matter what.

I want to go ahead with the wedding but the issue of my friend pregnancy Is the issue.

Please advice me what can I do

#TrueLifeStories @ www.knowefritin.com

To be honest, if you want to pay back tooth for tooth, I will tell you to go ahead. Tell her you and your fiance have decided to go ahead with the wedding and you wouldn't mind adopting her child as yours. That will put her in her place.

However, ask yourself this question - Is it worth it to spend the rest of your life with a man you can never trust? Sleeping with your best friend is the highest level of betrayal and distrust. That guy will never .....ever be loyal to you. Come on.. its like sleeping with your cousin or sister.

You can forgive but can you forget?

So you are telling us that you sent a basket of fish to a cat. My advise; please allow that cat enjoy its fish in peace.

This is a very dicey situation. After crying my eyes out to fill a big drum I would walk away and promised never to have anything to do with him.

If he comes to beg me I would ask him if I should get “pregnant for his friend “, if he would take me back and go ahead with the marriage .

His response would determine if I will forgive him.

koyen:
CC: LALASTICLACLA Everyone needs to Learn from this True Life Story.

True story... Pai you dere!

Then your man is a dog, sex is a thing of the mind,. Did she rape him

He didn't trip and fall into her vagina. It was consensual so hold your he-goat of a fiance to .

I didn't read the shitty lielie story, by the way.

koyen:
CC: LALASTICLACLA Everyone needs to Learn from this True Life Story.

The only thing I'm willing to learn at this stage is making more money

MEGA4BILLION:
So you are telling us that you sent a basket of fish to a cat. My advise; please allow that cat enjoy its fish in peace.

... Even after realizing the fish had lots of BONE ?

Ginaz:


If he comes to beg me I would ask him if I should get “pregnant for his friend “, if he would take me back and go ahead with the marriage .

His response would determine if I will forgive him.

Its not the same thing fa!

I'm sure you know the Master key and ashewo padlock story.

MEGA4BILLION:
So you are telling us that you sent a basket of fish to a cat. My advise; please allow that cat enjoy its fish in peace.

This your analogy ehn..

MusaDanladi1:
This your analogy ehn..

Reason with me now

koyen:

... Even after realizing the fish had lots of BONE ?

The cat will still manage it onto logistics

Hokum

Ur fiance is a womanizer..... Better now, than to be sorry forever.
Look for a better man.

Before you say 'cut ties' you have to understand the dilemma the guy is in. The fiancee caused all of these, why would you tell your friend to crash at your fiance's place? Why tempt the poor guy? (So after marriage, she may do such)
Any girl friend of hers who needs a place to crash could have stayed in an hotel for the night. It was planned from the beginning- else how do you leave Lagos for Ibadan without having a place to crash!

fable

lol why will you tell your friend to go sleep at your fiance's house girls with fish brain you got served. them no dey give dog born make E keep. E go definitely chop am.

You sold your fiancé out girl.. find your own man elsewhere. When you are not mad, you called your fiancé to host a female friend of you over night. Mad oooo

Rajman45:
Ur fiance is a womanizer..... Better now, than to be sorry forever.
Look for a better man.

You cant really blame him naaa. If you were the man would be starring at her over the Night ?

koyen:


Obviously...... "Birds of the Same feather"

She could have equally done dsame to her ......#Na dem

koyen:


You cant really blame him naaa. If you were the man would be starring at her over the Night ?

The only women that interest me are the ones I have affection for. Reasonable folks don't cross some lines

Stale

Lol

Rajman45:

The only women that interest me are the ones I have affection for. Reasonable folks don't cross some lines

Everybody is not like that you know....... What if the guy refused her severally but the lady kept pestering and na only two of them come dey house o.

no amount of trust can make me leave my girl overnight with my nigga,if I trust her or him I no trust conji



so there fore, conji takes the lion share of the blame here, cos nigga man was on his own minding his business

You caused it. Disappoint that bitch. Marry your man.