NewStats: 3,261,630 , 8,174,560 topics. Date: Thursday, 29 May 2025 at 08:25 PM f3y3m

Op, you be real mahn

Do give us update as it unveils, many will learn from you

can't wait to catch my gf cheating, I know she a hoe just don't have evidence yet. I miss being single, back to the topic "hoes are never loyal "

Respect55:

I have ed u

I have ed too.

Respect55:

Thanks very much for your concern. I have never been a relationship type. I went to uni and came out without any relationship wahala. It was after service I chose to give it a try. My greatest mistake. Stay single till u are ready for marriage a d just pick one. U will never ever regret it

I just feel compelled to reply because I like the way you handled the whole thing. Very mature and without much emotions or sentiment. Thumbs up bro! I must commend your maturity a lot.

We should be spiritually and physically alert concerning the issues of marriage and getting a life partner. It will go a long way to help our future and forget anyone telling you to start sleeping around or sleep with her as a form of payback. It doesn't help at all.

Thanks.

Respect55:

It's just unfortunate. I'm also happy because we were planning to meet the church board on 17th of December to be interviewed prior to marriage. Thank God we haven't met them. Ally efforts are gone just like that. I wonder what some girls actually want

Good thing you found out early. No hard feelings

Respect55:

Thanks very much for your concern. I have never been a relationship type. I went to uni and came out without any relationship wahala. It was after service I chose to give it a try. My greatest mistake. Stay single till u are ready for marriage a d just pick one. U will never ever regret it

There is no formula for this thing. Even the ONE you choose can still mess you up.

You did not have to block her after viewing her WhatsApp status, that's a díck move. Your choice though.

Bro, in a year's time, you'd be grateful that she's no longer in your life. Someone mentioned that no matter how much you try to upgrade some of them, they'd still act their class, while another said a woman who leaves you for another man is undeserving of you. You have done your best. It is not until you sacrifice your life that someone can see your value. Pack your love and give it to someone deserving.

For every badly behaved girl, there are ten well-behaved girls. I can assure you. Some of them are on this forum. I know because I interact with them.

alphaNomega:


Good thing you found out early. No hard feelings



There is no formula for this thing. Even the ONE you choose can still mess you up.

You did not have to block her after viewing her WhatsApp status, that's a díck move. Your choice though.

I'm comfortable that way

obi4eze:


I just feel compelled to reply because I like the way you handled the whole thing. Very mature and without much emotions or sentiment. Thumbs up bro! I must commend your maturity a lot.

We should be spiritually and physically alert concerning the issues of marriage and getting a life partner. It will go a long way to help our future and forget anyone telling you to start sleeping around or sleep with her as a form of payback. It doesn't help at all.

Thanks.

Thanks. I have respected her body all along.

colorsofrainbow:
as in...U are a BRO,not some d!cks that would have come here to start asking what to do

I just want people to learn and always be on the look out. I have taken my decision before posting this last night

luvyaself95:


so funny manipulator at her game again.

It won't change a thing

SouthSouth1914:


She want your girlfriend in the first place. If she was, she wouldn’t follow that guy to the club at night after you catching her during the day. I love your sense of firmness! We all here know you are deeply hurt, but that’s life! You need to move on same way she did. Cheers

I have already moved on.

ambassadorgozie:


bros i ire your maturity, pls take heart
i will like u to keep us posted abt it
don't entertain any emotional blackmail or wotsoever from her

Believe me I won't

GeniusWannabe:
Based on how you narrated this, you're a real gentleman. Some twisted minds would say you never really loved her for not putting up a fight (not literally).
Expecting a thread from you about her asking for forgiveness and reacceptance lol.

When I said I have moved on, take those words for real. I will update her next moves

monichannel:
Op, you be real mahn

Do give us update as it unveils, many will learn from you

Nothing else have happened since last night. I will update when there is any

Respect55:

I'm just surprised because I make sure we share what we have. What if I tell u she waited for me outside the church gate this morning to collect some money for offering and ish

how i wish you will help the other brother too,so that he wont be mistaken a stone to diamond.

emkz:
Bro, in a year's time, you'd be grateful that she's no longer in your life. Someone mentioned that no matter how much you try to upgrade some of them, they'd still act their class, while another said a woman who leaves you for another man is undeserving of you. You have done your best. It is not until you sacrifice your life that someone can see your value. Pack your love and give it to someone deserving.

For every badly behaved girl, there are ten well-behaved girls. I can assure you. Some of them are on this forum. I know because I interact with them.

I make mistakes. That's my own problem

Danzakidakura:
how i wish you will help the other brother too,so that he wont be mistaken a stone to diamond.

Sorry I won't do that

Respect55:
It won't change a thing

yea, I believe you gidi gan.

Vado:

I have ed too.

have ed the league two of una .

you this boy again

alphaNomega:


You did not have to block her after viewing her WhatsApp status, that's a díck move. Your choice though.

Of course, he had to block her. She's not even sorry for her behaviour and on top of it she's trying to guilt-trip him.

Why should he have to read that kind of rubbish out of some misplaced sense of duty to the cheating liar?

She's the one who's making dick moves.

[quote author=Respect55 post=84336533]She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha[/quot

Such a wicked OP. You just dashed another man a bag of your problems and made profit on top of it. I feel for the guy.

Respect55:
I have already moved on.

I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

Hello man, I'd advise you to give her benefit of doubt and unblock her and be ready to hear her out. I'm interested in this story because you said it was a no-sex relationship.

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Daviddson:
Hello man, I'd advise you to give her benefit of doubt and unblock her and be ready to hear her out. I'm interested in this story because you said it was a no-sex relationship.

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Daviddson:
Hello man, I'd advise you to give her benefit of doubt and unblock her and be ready to hear her out. I'm interested in this story because you said it was a no-sex relationship.

Why can't she call him, or go to his house and see him?

This matter has ed whatsapp.

A cheater is threatening suicide...so what should the person who has been cheated do

You handled it well enough, just move on from her and be happy you dodged a bullet.

Let her conscience judge her

midnighter:


Why can't she call him, or go to his house and see him?

This matter has ed whatsapp..

A cheater is threatening suicide...so what should the person who has been cheated do

Do you know if she even set it up herself to see the guy's reaction and probably cement their love? LOL. Just kidding.
I advise him to keep an open mind, because it could turn out differently.

Daviddson:
Do you know if she even set it up herself to see the guy's reaction and probably cement their love? LOL. Just kidding.
I advise him to keep an open mind, because it could turn out differently.

Yes, he should be willing to listen to her and not conclude too hastily. Anything could happen.

I just disagree with the whatsapp stuff...she should explain herself in person if she's serious.

Up until the time he blocked her, she couldn't even open a chat to explain. All she knew how to do was write rubbish status update smh

midnighter:


Yes, he should be willing to listen to her and not conclude too hastily. Anything could happen.

I just disagree with the whatsapp stuff...she should explain herself in person if she's serious.

Up until the time he blocked her, she couldn't even open a chat to explain. All she knew how to do was write rubbish status update smh

She is only trying to get the guys attention with her WhatsApp status. The poster himself should give her a benefit of doubt by listening to her and then move on from there....

employ her as your marketer simple.