NewStats: 3,262,159 , 8,176,278 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 04:09 AM y1b6y

Damn, heavy respect niqqa. No drama no nothing, when my ex text me that she was leaving I was like "Good luck". I was heartbroken but bleep it, my AZ never dissapoint i am over that sh*t already. I can't kee myself, its fun to be single believe me man, too much freedom comes along with it...

Na God help you disgrace her because your thoughts to her wards were pure and genuine.

It happens a lot.

' Even your boo get hin boo, hin boo, hin boo, share the Gala, share the booze, d booze, d booze........'. I already warned my own boo that if she must get her own boo, it can only be Bubu and no one else. Otherwise, for my street, I go make sure say no be only agbero go woo her, even the small pikins for my hood must boo her to shame.

Respect55:

I'm not a weakling. She knew there is no coming out of that. The breakup is cemented

Hope u add concrete to d cement of the break up so u wouldn't be feeling sorry for her

SalafRider:
Damn, heavy respect niqqa. No drama no nothing, when my ex text me that she was leaving I was like "Good luck". I was heartbroken but bleep it, my AZ never dissapoint i am over that sh*t already. I can't kee myself, its fun to be single believe me man, too much freedom comes along with it...

Freedom is really sweet. My silence is the beginning of my onw wrath. She doesn't exist to me anymore

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Cuccitini:

Hope u add concrete to d cement of the break up so u wouldn't be feeling sorry for her

U think it's funny huh?

daddytime:
Na God help you disgrace her because your thoughts to her wards were pure and genuine.

It happens a lot.

She knows it

Respect55:

Brother we didn't start today. It has bn rossy or so I thought for the time we have bn together. We were supposed to start marital rights by next month. Do u even know that the guy updated his whatsapp stories of pics and videos with her earlier this night at a club and I saved them. I would have posted them here but it's not necessary. I saved them for reference proposes

aghh marital rights .pls before u thinking of marriage with any lady u should know her inside out and know her friends as well.even though u guys had been together it seems u really didnt know the girl then.e no hard to know a girl wey dey play around with other men nau .there is always something secretive about them.abeg next time take time to know the girl cos if u dont u will just end up marrying a runz girl who will still sleep around when u both married.

lefulefu:
aghh marital rights .pls before u thinking of marriage with any lady u should know her inside out and know her friends as well.even though u guys had been together it seems u really didnt know the girl then.e no hard to know a girl wey dey play around with other men nau .there is always something secretive about them.abeg next time take time to know the girl cos if u dont u will just end up marrying a runz girl who will still sleep around when u both married.

I believe I didn't do enough to study her. She put up this great attitude and bought my heart and I cared less about other things. How she found her way to my elder sis's heart is another thing altogether. I pray she forgives herself

God really loves you, all things work for good,
You wont understand what you escaped.

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

No give any girl the privilege to rubbish you. And when she opts for another guy, wish her the best, and carry on as if nothing happened. And infact, nothing happened.

Reading this just made me feel so angry for you bro ...
I've always had a serious problem feeling and returning affection.. I'm like so distant emotionally, Most times end up driving everyone away with my attitude..

Reading stories on this forum and now yours also?
I'm really starting to believe i don't have a "problem".. The way I'm wired might probably be my biggest blessing from God..

I honestly don't know how you feel right now but one thing I can say is you're one very matured dude.. You handled it like a real gee should..

Believe me, it would've been way more easy for her if you'd just blown up right there and then but the "silence" and "walk away" shit? Meehnn, you best believe her status about wanting to commit suicide cause the sound of silence in matters like this is most times deafening..

Just cheer up okay?? There are still good ones out there.. You dodged a bullet, take that as a positive..

chigoziri2403:
God really loves you, all things work for good,
You wont understand what you escaped.

There is this inner peace I feel now when I slept and woke up

KiidaACE:
Reading this just made me feel so angry for you bro ...
I've always had a serious problem feeling and returning affection.. I'm like so distant emotionally, Most times end up driving everyone away with my attitude..

Reading stories on this forum and now yours also?
I'm really starting to believe i don't have a "problem".. The way I'm wired might probably be my biggest blessing from God..

I honestly don't know how you feel right now but one thing I can say is you're one very matured dude.. You handled it like a real gee should..

Believe me, it would've been way more easier for her if you'd just blown up right there and then but the "silence" and "walk away" shit? Meehnn, you best believe her status about wanting to commit suicide cause the sound of silence in matters like this is most times deafening..

Just cheer up okay?? There are still good ones out there.. You dodged a bullet, take that as a positive..

Thanks very much for your concern. I have never been a relationship type. I went to uni and came out without any relationship wahala. It was after service I chose to give it a try. My greatest mistake. Stay single till u are ready for marriage a d just pick one. U will never ever regret it

backbone503:


No give any girl the privilege to rubbish you. And when she opts for another guy, wish her the best, and carry on as if nothing happened. And infact, nothing happened.

I'm stronger than this. This one too will away. It's already past

snitchbitch:
if this story is TRUE, then good things are knocking on your door!!! Take heart man!! Hoes plenty these days!!!

If it's true I caught her or what exactly?
If not that I respect people's rights, I have their pics and videos with me

Respect55:

If it's true I caught her or what exactly?
If not that I respect people's rights, I have their pics and videos with me

bros i ire your maturity, pls take heart
i will like u to keep us posted abt it
don't entertain any emotional blackmail or wotsoever from her

with all this stories sef to go into a relationship will be worrying someone

Based on how you narrated this, you're a real gentleman. Some twisted minds would say you never really loved her for not putting up a fight (not literally).
Expecting a thread from you about her asking for forgiveness and reacceptance lol.

Op you are indeed a gentle man.

More grace bro..

Some ladies will always be a bitch. I my ex telling me not to break her heart after taking her out on her birthday..

Only for few weeks later, she came and started giving excuses that she prefer the friendship to relationship. Based on the closeness and attention I gave her as a friend.

Since such words were spoken, I opt out immediately for I know the meaning and since then everything blank..

It’s really sad when two close partner drifts away..

lefulefu:
so u were just a assistant boyfriend .hope u didnt waste all ur hard earned spending on her under the guise of girlfriend allowance .anyway sorry for ur loss and happy sunday.

lmfao

Respect55:
This life is just a small place. You will think you are sharp but when the time is come, your sin will surely find you out.
Some weeks back, a guy saw my wares online and came around to pick some footwears since we are in same city. He kept on talking on phone with a particular girl (my girl) about the type of shoe she likes. I just gave her a new pair when she requested for one. Not even up to a month.
So this guy selected 3 pairs of shoes - two males shoes and one female own. He just told me to packet them that he would call me when money comes in. Fast-forward to today, he called in the afternoon and gave me a location to bring the shoe that he went out with his girl and will be traveling in the morning.
I dressed up, picked up the shoes at the shop and dashed to the location only to meet him with my girlfriend.
I just pretended like nothing happened, ed the shoes to him. She was shocked to the marrow but the guy never noticed. He asked her to wear the shoe so as to see how it suits but she just told him that he shouldn't bother that it's OK.
He paid me and as I was about leaving, he called me back and introduced me to his girl. I told her my name like we just met and left.
That's just it. I'm out for good. I'm free

Her loss bro

The 40 Rules of Dump.

Your action? Approved.

Is it... Really? Wow. Fascinating.

I've played my role ^^^^

Respect55:

Brother we didn't start today. It has bn rossy or so I thought for the time we have bn together. We were supposed to start marital rights by next month. Do u even know that the guy updated his whatsapp stories of pics and videos with her earlier this night at a club and I saved them. I would have posted them here but it's not necessary. I saved them for reference proposes

She wasn’t your girlfriend in the first place. If she was, she wouldn’t follow that guy to the club at night after you catching her during the day. I love your sense of firmness! We all here know you are deeply hurt, but that’s life! You need to move on same way she did. Cheers

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

so funny manipulator at her game again.

Parablesonmarble:
' Even your boo get hin boo, hin boo, hin boo, share the Gala, share the booze, d booze, d booze........'. I already warned my own boo that if she must get her own boo, it can only be Bubu and no one else. Otherwise, for my street, I go make sure say no be only agbero go woo her, even the small pikins for my hood must boo her to shame.

comedian come again.

Dimples0303:
Is it... Really? Wow. Fascinating.

I've played my role ^^^^

Are you the lady in questio

No offence just asking

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

as in...U are a BRO,not some d!cks that would have come here to start asking what to do

Good decision you took bro.. I have also decided not to go into any relationship after my last breakup until I'm very much ready for marriage. Relationships in Nigeria especially are a waste of time and resources.. Cheer up bro.

great664:


Are you the lady in questio

No offence just asking

Troll

You are now as free as air.