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@Renderhelp

I am an Aussie married to a Nigerian man. He was a poor immigrant when we met. After we got married, he helped manage my Ranch. I must say, he's a hardworking bloke and a little Aussie battler.

I always wanted kids but he was never interested. He said the world was too wicked for innocent kids and I agreed.

He always sends a huge part of our income to his family in Nigeria especially his late brother's wife. I asked him why he does that and he said its part of the Nigerian culture.

One day, I was going through our bank statement and I thought to look up his brother's wife's profile on Facebook. I was shocked to see she had a few month old baby as her husband died years ago. I kept scrolling and I saw the wedding photos of she and my husband.

When I asked my husband, he apologises and explained to me about the culture of men inheriting their late brother's wife. I told him he was murking around, but I looked it up online and it was true!

I asked if he was the father of the baby and he agreed. He thought the woman was on pills. He said he had to perform his 'duty' to her if not she will report to the village chief and they will have him flogged at the square.

He suggested we bring the baby to Australia to stay with us. We are trying to process that and I'm thrilled about it.

I reckon this culture is bizarre and Nigerians are living in the dark ages. I am a true blue and I haven't seen or heard anything so ridiculous. I hope your parts become civilized soon enough.

TA!

Your are an Aussie! When did you metamorphose into an Aussie?

my simple advice is to get pregnant for him too, don't ask questions just do it so that u won't lose on both sides

you have just been mugulized

Is it our culture?
Yes.
Anything outside this, is known to him.

they will flog a man living in Australia in the village square? op use your sense na, this is obviously fake

That's his wife in Nigeria not inherited at all. He scammed you.

tee59:
That's his wife in Nigeria not inherited at all. He scammed you.

it's our culture and the guy did things culturally....no go dey spoil things.

tee59:
That's his wife in Nigeria not inherited at all. He scammed you.

Evil people like you, that's how you destroy people's relationship...

Some people are just damm evil, if this story is actually true so some people would still want to destroy the man because of what exactly, someone you don't know in real life and you all are destroying him, what if the man was saying the truth. People who envy and pull others down can never make it in life, I noticed most of the comments are from the female monikers, you girls should get a life abeg, wicked old witches
. Black people with wicked heart..

Everyone no matter where you are from deserves the truth. That used to be our culture pre Christianity time and even if it was done there is usually no ceremony like marriage and taking pictures. It is almost non existent here now.

Believe him at ur own peril. Tell him to get u pregnant or else...... and trust me, u will see the gigolo do d damn thing.

If you're still within child bearing age you need to get pregnant for this bloke ASAP!!!

Chai! That man must be named Linus

zyzxx:
you have just been mugulized

Lol.. talk wetin you know oo..

Make una no burn cable for our brother abeg.

Mrs, the man just lied to you. He is happily married and had a baby with his wife. Please use ur head.

Chai! some men no go make heaven I swear

zyzxx:
you have just been mugulized

Yahoo man with no Laptop

Op weldone,
Pls tell ur sister, friends that care that l ll like to marry her.
U are a good woman. Though we dont inherit widows in my tribe.
Pls lm very serious

oyibo can believe anything. na why dem dey fall.mugu

adontcare:
Mrs, the man just lied to you. He is happily married and had a baby with his wife. Please use ur head.

Will you get lost?Nonsense

Make ona no bust kasala for this man. Abeg oo

Pharaoh4rin:
Believe him at ur own peril. Tell him to get u pregnant or else...... and trust me, u will see the gigolo do d damn thing.

Sey your hand no fit cover your brother,no burst the man na.Leave am like that.If you burst am weting you gain

Auladimeji1:
Will you get lost?Nonsense

Make ona no bust kasala for this man. Abeg oo

busted birds of deceit

It’s better you have a child too. Get off that nonsense pills you’re on. Don’t even bother to tell him about it..

ITS OUR CULTURE AND HE CANN’T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, PERIOD . YOUR PART IS TO LOVE AND HIM. SORRY, WE WILL BE CIVILIZED SOME DAY

This your story now eh? Its like a white man trying to call a black dude a nigger in the most polite way. .. only a nigger is allowed to call a nigger a nigger

Renderhelp:
@Renderhelp

I am an Aussie married to a Nigerian man. He was a poor immigrant when we met. After we got married, he helped manage my Ranch. I must say, he's a hardworking bloke and a little Aussie battler.

I always wanted kids but he was never interested. He said the world was too wicked for innocent kids and I agreed.

He always sends a huge part of our income to his family in Nigeria especially his late brother's wife. I asked him why he does that and he said its part of the Nigerian culture.

One day, I was going through our bank statement and I thought to look up his brother's wife's profile on Facebook. I was shocked to see she had a few month old baby as her husband died years ago. I kept scrolling and I saw the wedding photos of she and my husband.

When I asked my husband, he apologises and explained to me about the culture of men inheriting their late brother's wife. I told him he was murking around, but I looked it up online and it was true!

I asked if he was the father of the baby and he agreed. He thought the woman was on pills. He said he had to perform his 'duty' to her if not she will report to the village chief and they will have him flogged at the square.

He suggested we bring the baby to Australia to stay with us. We are trying to process that and I'm thrilled about it.

I reckon this culture is bizarre and Nigerians are living in the dark ages. I am a true blue and I haven't seen or heard anything so ridiculous. I hope your parts become civilized soon enough.

TA!

This your story is not pure at all.
There's no such thing as that existing in Nigeria and nobody does that anywhere in Nigeria. You can tell that to the children as midnite stories. You even deliberately refused telling us which part of Nigeria, tribe, state and community your husband comes from.
That woman is completely your husband's wife and never was his brother's wife. Nobody and in no place anyone officially does a marriage ceremony to an inherited wife.............that will amount to paying of bride price twice and doing certain ceremonies.
It's either you're completely lying or being dumb or your husband is telling your straight lies to your face and you're buying it telling us you're an Aussie.

Apologies but this story is entirely completely false.
He has refused to have children with you because he does not want to have children elsewhere because of his love for his original wife.
Good luck.

eagleeye2:

it's our culture and the guy did things culturally....no go dey spoil things.

hahaha. Thanks for making me laugh biko.

Okay...but have you asked him what will happen to you if he dies tomorrow?

rex444:
This your story now eh? Its like a white man trying to call a black dude a nigger in the most polite way. .. only a nigger is allowed to call a nigger a nigger

What is a nigger?

mu2sa2:
Your are an Aussie! When did you metamorphose into an Aussie?

Aussie is Australia ...