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So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

It's common with Nigerian men jor

agbonkamen:
It's common with Nigerian men jor

It's not normal. Can it be termed normal if I do this? I will be labeled a prostitute, a bad wife and mother #sad

Issokay:


It's not normal. Can it be termed normal if I do this? I will be labeled a prostitute, a bad wife and mother #sad

well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

If I were you, I’d look inwards....
Maybe your other room is whack
Maybe you ain’t giving him attention
But overall, that act of his ain’t one to be proud of

Allow your man to test ogbono soup and know it's difference from egusi...
BIKO nnu

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keeps her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

What were you doing in the romance section?

FYI: he planted the number there in the hope of catching you. Now you have proven him right, that you have an ulterior motive in constantly visiting the romance section.

You better start confessing to him now or....time will indeed tell.

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

Evolutionary psychology taught that the reason why women' private part is shaped the way it's is, actually, because at a time in history women majorly prefer double penetration into their private hole which can only be possible if a woman taking two men at a go.
:Evolutionary psychology by David Buss. Chapter : challnges of sex and mating in women.

You know that actually makes sense.
It was after men have successfully domesticated them that they were condition to take only one Man at a go.
that's why we constantly hear women protesting and demanding for a bigger crotch for better sexual satisfaction.

My point is women are naturally polyandrous.

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

What research aid did you use to arrive at that figure?

What are you too, looking for in a dating/ romance section when you are married. To look for buhari's number?
On a serious note, what type of topic did he put his number. Is he claiming to be single or looking for a relationship or is he giving advice and the person requesting to call him for counselling? What's it all about?

Listen madam, someone could have added his number there intentionally or unknowningly........you couldn't have asked him now anyway, but watch and monitor him to or even try to use another number to set him up.........so he may actually not be the one who sent in his digit there......just believe me.......... spoken from experience

It might just be for fun not intentionally for a serious reason.....
Forget what you see online nothing is serious in online dating, majority are scam.

blackjack21:

Evolutionary psychology taught that the reason why women' private part is shaped the way it's is, actually, because at a time in history women majorly prefer double penetration into their private hole which can only be possible if a woman taking two men at a go.
:Evolutionary psychology by David Buss. Chapter : challnges of sex and mating in women.

You know that actually makes sense.
It was after men have successfully domesticated them that they were condition to take only one Man at a go.
that's why we constantly hear women protesting and demanding for a bigger crotch for better sexual satisfaction.

My point is women are naturally polyandrous.

sense is far from you I swear.... Truth is always bitter

J111333:
What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keep her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

I totally agree with you That men will always cheat The earlier we ladies realise that better for us.

Issokay:


It's not normal. Can it be termed normal if I do this? I will be labeled a prostitute, a bad wife and mother #sad

It's probably someone trying to set him up. Don't listen to pple in this section. They break a lot of marriage and relationship daily and don't even know it, they don't even care.

I never knew you are married to Zuckerberg. So we are with Zuckerberg's wife on nairaland and we don't know? You see this life....

Maybe he is looking for an assistant wife

He is looking for adventure.... Maybe u no dey agile to him... He needs spark in his love life...

J111333:
What fvcking prayer?
Truth is men will always cheat, those who aren't cheating currently haven't seen the opportunity or an excuse.
A wise wife keep her home in peace and in one piece, not fighting to keep her husband from cheating. It's a waste of time and effort to try to stop him from cheating but keeping the home in peace will discourage him and reduce his chances.

Pls not all MEN cheat, u cheat does not mean another will do d same or have a reason to do.

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

How sure re u??

linearity:


What were you doing in the romance section?

FYI: he planted the number there in the hope of catching you. Now you have proven him right, that you have an ulterior motive in constantly visiting the romance section.

You better start confessing to him now or....time will indeed tell.

Are you his PA!

Issokay:
So, I saw my husband's (I know his moniker) mobile numbers in a topic under the romance section for people to post their digits where they can be hooked with 'seriously searching ladies' .

I have been wondering why he had to do that. He's quiet kind of, usher in the church, a good father figure etc. Our marriage is 6 years.

I am really confused. Anyways I confronted him and he said he doesn't know how his numbers ended on that topic.

Still confused....time will indeed tell.

but you two look happy , very happy on your dp....hehehehehehe don't mind me oooo

agbonkamen:
well I will advice you to put it in prayer but to Frank with you 99.9% men cheat I don't know why probably because men are polygamous in nature.

Correction. Men are selfish in nature not polygamous in nature. Only a man with no self control fvcks anything in a skirt.

pharrell8:

Pls not all MEN cheat, u cheat does not mean another will do d same or have a reason to do.

Give a man money, you'll see his real character and give woman a position of authority, she'll show her hidden character.
Mr. Man, I can smell your type from the distance. All it takes for you to get a sidechick is a huge wallet and some level of exposure trust me.

Ebonygirl1:

Correction. Men are selfish in nature not polygamous in nature. Only a man with no self control fvcks anything in a skirt.

Having no self control is different from cheating.
All men cheat/will cheat but it takes the hegoats among them to follow anything in skirt.
Sadly, that is the reality.

J111333:
Having no self control is different from cheating.
All men cheat/will cheat but it takes the hegoats among them to follow anything in skirt.
Sadly, that is the reality.

Nope. I don't agree. One must condition the mind over time to think and act a certain way. Cheating is a choice. It's lack of self control.

Ebonygirl1:

Correction. Men are selfish in nature not polygamous in nature. Only a man with no self control fvcks anything in a skirt.

Calm down jor. Its not about self control or lack of it. A man is constantly faced with the temptation to have a relationship outside his current commitment. And as a human, he is likely to fall sooner or later.
And yea, men are naturally polygamous in nature, so just deal with it!

joe4christ:


Calm down jor. Its not about self control or lack of it. A man is constantly faced with the temptation to have a relationship outside his current commitment. And as a human, he is likely to fall sooner or later.
And yea, men are naturally polygamous in nature, so just deal with it!

It all comes down to self control bruv. You think women don't feel the need to get with other guys too? . If one conditions the mind to think and act a certain way, one will not fall prey to such temptations. There's no law anywhere that says a man is polygamous in nature. It's selfishness that makes him try to justify his short comings. Deal with it.

Truth be told op u have lost ur chance of ever finding out the truth,honestly u shouldn't have confronted him like that,this is the problem with most women they let emotions block their judgement,trust me if he was actually cheating then u might have lost ur only opportunity of ever finding out,u just made him more discreet n careful.it will take God's grace to find out but I wish u the best in ur marriage