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Pele dear.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Pele dear.

thanks dear,una do well.

It's no picnic in the USA either. I've been married and divorced twice. No Children. Actually, not having children is even worse than never being married. At least in the USA, you can pretty much ignore you family if it gets to rough!

obowunmi:
Being a single woman in Nigeria is very, very terrible. Your parents treat you badly, friends abandon you and even strangers don't stop with the insulting comments.

Be strong, I truly hope you find someone.

I think I rather get a decent boy toy than to run around being depressed. Not a cheap STD infected one. But a younger, yet appropriate aged one. Maybe an introvert. At least then I will only be called a cheater, lol!! Or if I'm lucky "an Old Slapper"!

Vega100:

I just saw one last week.
Last week too, there was a lady captured on Camera crying and lamenting on the road for not having a husband... U can search for it.
Last 2 years an elderly spinster in my compound, ran mad out of a long time depression she was battling with... . , like frank mad, people were holdinv her and covering her with lappa ,
You will soon follow

Patriarchal society was fine until I had to witness my mother getting beat close to an inch of her life every other weekend for 12 years because my father had psychological issues with his mother. When he broke her jaw, I no longer gave a Bleep!!

Altern8:


Lol. Exactly. Patriarchy is ed by many women but they won’t confess. They are covertly enjoying the perks of being considered the fairer / weaker sex. However, every time I treat ladies the same as guys (especially when it comes to responsibilities) they think I’m just wicked or inconsiderate. But I’m only giving them a taste of the equality they say they want!

MarjieJ98354:
It's no picnic in the USA either. I've been married and divorced twice. No Children. Actually, not having children is even worse than never being married. At least in the USA, you can pretty much ignore you family if it gets to rough!

i was told that Nigerian men over there don't like dating Nigerian ladies who live there except the ones they bring from back home , how true is this?

zed7:
It's not easy finding a partner, a lot of people are mentally, economically, emotionally damaged. Since I am a man, I will speak of the opposite sex. Most girls are not sure of what they want, I met a girl in her 30's who still wants a man that will give her butterflies in her tummy. Some want rich men when they have no job and are not even intelligent enough to get an average job. A lot have very rotten attitude, bad character, no manners, no foresight etc. Trust me it will take a lot for a right thinking man to marry such a woman.
Men too have issues, some are unambitious, unintelligent, irresponsible etc and yet they want a perfect woman. People should work on themselves first before thinking of bringing someone into their world. Don't bring anybody into your damaged life. The reason a lot of people are single (not by choice) is because they have issues which others see and they don't or they choose not to.

You're very correct.

They might probably be right.

I am possibly a male version of you, I don't like girls I have find myself dating... it's either they match my physical taste and they have good intellect but amiss in character, or they are of good character, high intellect and not sexually or physically attractive, or they are sexually, physically attractive and they also have good character but of low intellect ( mostly they can't hold a logical and meaningful discussion ).

until I realised that i myself might be the problem, that I should be more understanding to the perspective of others. then I realised that compatibility to a complex mind is making effort to understand the less complex mind.

I am not accusing you of being faulty I am only saying; live life more freely and make effort to understand all situation from a more beautiful aspect and from the standpoint of both yourself and the other person(s) involve.

unsentimental love most times is a sacrifice .

Truthsbitter:
They might probably be right.

I am possibly a male version of you, I don't like girls I have find myself dating... it's either they match my physical taste and they have good intellect but amiss in character, or they are of good character, high intellect and not sexually or physically attractive, or they are sexually, physically attractive and they also have good character but of low intellect ( mostly they can't hold a logical and meaningful discussion ).

until I realised that i myself might be the problem, that I should be more understanding to the perspective of others. then I realised that compatibility to a complex mind is making effort to understand the less complex mind.

I am not accusing you of being faulty I am only saying; live a life more freely and make effort to understand all situation from a more beautiful aspect and from the standpoint of both yourself and the other persons involve.

unsentimental love most times is a sacrifice .

Thanks.

Duggedised12:
hahahaha, why am I not surprised? I know there will be a vile creature that will attempt to transfer their demon. That you took out time out of your so called perfect life to read rubbish shows alot . Its a rant bro, it doesn't mean I am depressed so I don't have to bro.

And by the way ,you might just die before me, who knows ,the universe works in mysterious ways

For a self confessed introvert you are impressively mouthed

DeeMain:


For a self confessed introvert you are impressively mouthed

lol,i am not mouthed o. I just don't like mean and mannerless oafs. Imagine in this time where suicide is rampant and someone thought it was OK to type that. That person is evil.

NnaaGuy:
Send your pics to [email protected] let's see what we can do.

Is she looking for job ?

GLYCOLYSISS:

Is she looking for job ?

Yes nah. Wife job.

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

Ladies just quit this victim act, Singles ladies always rant about societal pressures, please listen very well "NO ONE CARES IF YOU REMAIN SINGLE OR MARRIED"

NnaaGuy:


Yes nah. Wife job.

lol

NnaaGuy:


Yes nah. Wife job.

spot on.

How does someone apply? Any specific qualifications?

BuikemWillz:
How does someone apply?
Any specific qualifications?

must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

Duggedised12:
must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

How does the person you?

BuikemWillz:



How does the person you?

DM

Duggedised12:
must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

You don't plan to bring anything to the table or the two people is to anticipate for your baby

anonimi:


You don't plan to bring anything to the table or the two people is to anticipate for your baby

The family budget of any marriage should be based on the income of the husband ,what a woman brings to the table should be to .That is why women are called "helpers".

Thought of you...... I hope you are doing great. Just dropping a Hi

MarjieJ98354:
I think I rather get a decent boy toy than to run around being depressed. Not a cheap STD infected one. But a younger, yet appropriate aged one. Maybe an introvert. At least then I will only be called a cheater, lol!! Or if I'm lucky "an Old Slapper"!

stop misleading ppl with ur fake moniker

most of them no get character,and unfortunately for them,the boyfriend théy were dashing poosy 247 thinking he will marry em,deep down in his heart knows they re not getting married,..homie will just be greasing the poosay till e becomes evening vanguard papers

Tuhndhay:
Thought of you...... I hope you are doing great. Just dropping a Hi

am good,thanks

Kingsteve:
Op, at least you for profile pic, make people see as you be small.
I'm not saying you will find a relationship via this platform, but you never just know.

I empathise with you though.
I have one Fulani sweet chic in her early 30's.
Cash dey overflow her side, very slim and beautiful.

She spends most of her time abroad...Dubai in particular, but the problem, she's not married yet.

If not for the complications, I swear...I no for mind marry that chic.
It's a sad situation though!

Give me the connection please

Duggedised12:
must be 32 years and above , must not be a Muslim, must not be a northerner,must have a source of livelihood that can two people can comfortably live on.

Dis boo seems to qualify ur criteria. Watsapp ur beloved husband to be08094943690

Congratulations. You don marry.

Mayne your purpose on earth is to be used for rituals

gerizzim:


Dis boo seems to qualify ur criteria. Watsapp ur beloved husband to be08094943690

Congratulations. You don marry.

thanks for the offer,but i am not interested,thanks once again.

MarjieJ98354:
Patriarchal society was fine until I had to witness my mother getting beat close to an inch of her life every other weekend for 12 years because my father had psychological issues with his mother. When he broke her jaw, I no longer gave a Bleep!!

Exceptions does not annul the rule.

Duggedised12:
The family budget of any marriage should be based on the income of the husband ,what a woman brings to the table should be to .That is why women are called "helpers".

What your mama and village people told you may not always apply in the modern world or of what essence is your education?