NewStats: 3,264,035 , 8,182,367 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 11:34 AM 1eg1k

I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

take that money to any orphanage or hospital

its better there

I don't think that girl really needs money

Is she an orphan?

If she's not satisfied with what her parents are giving her, she should go into prostitution and stop using emotional tricks on you. Don't even relate with her as if you've asked her out in the past.

You can help her if you have the money

2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

Davash222:

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area

Pls dont ask me where i live

2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

Did you just say help?

If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about.

Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status.

Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil.

God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly.

ceeroh:


Did you just say help?

Yes if he has

If dangote ex ask him for money
If he dash the ex 1million will it affect him

ceeroh:
Is she an orphan?

If she's not satisfied with what her parents are giving her, she should go into prostitution and stop using emotional tricks on you. Don't even relate with her as if you've asked her out in the past.

NICE TALK

2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

Make she no use me shine dat my fear

lonelygem:
If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about.

Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status.

Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil.

God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly.

I AGREE WIT YOU.

Yes help her of course and ask if you can help her entire class mates too.

You were not good for a boyfriend but you're very good for a helpmate after all, God blesses a cheerful giver.

J111333:
Yes help her of course and ask if you can help her entire class mates too.

You were not good for a boyfriend but you're very good for a helpmate after all, God blesses a cheerful giver.

HAHAHA

"If I were you, will you help her"? What a silly question.

Why should I be you?..thank God I'm not you to help her

Don't be emotional here pls go and look for who needs help in your family and help them pls the lady will sort herself out

I would've said that you should help her, but the veracity of her claim is the problem. we all know how her ilk concoct fables to mugurize men, but if you can establish for a fact that she is indeed telling the truth, then, help her.

there's more to this life than romance.

lol, do whatever ur mind tells u to do bro

How many family or genuine friends have u helped??

Op she turned you down because of your grammar


Talking about helping her, if you have the money and you are willing to partway with any amount, then help her, it's no biggie.


Everyone must not be in a relationship with you. What if she was in a happy relationship before you stepped into the picture?

yes,you can help but dont let her turn you to father christmas

2dice01:
Yes if he has

If dangote ex ask him for money
If he dash the ex 1million will it affect him

And if Dangote goes about dashing out money to all the girls he has asked out in the past, would that be a wise thing to do?

Meanwhile, the girl in question is not even OP's ex.

don't waste your money. but if you feel otherwise just send it to this number 2189490964 ZENITH BANK. I will pray for you everyday throughout this year

Send her 2k or 3k and wait to see her response after 2 days.

If she act funny afterward... Just call/txt her you are actually planing to send her more money probably next week when u got d money u expecting.. False promise dey work on dem wella... U don put her on hold and she go humble till next week be dat. Infact na she go dey call u sweetie .

Some girls have a way of making one look like a fool after you send them a token. They won't even call to say " I've got the money" it's irritating.


Just use ur head.

Well she turned you down 4 yrs ago but you two are still communicating fine I guess as friends right? Help her as a friend, friends help each other, she's not asking for a chance to love you or be loved by you why take revenge cause someone said she's not in love with you, don't be surprised even with your money she will still turn you down, she's a friend not a lover

It's your call. I never knew that ladies were supposed to have a 'reasonable excuse' to turn down an advance.

ceeroh:


And if Dangote goes about dashing out money to all the girls he has asked out in the past, would that be a wise thing to do?

Meanwhile, the girl in question is not even OP's ex.

will all his ask for money

This is the first time she asked for money

If I have sef i will just tell the op to send the girl number to Me...

This Buhari regime don make una dey think upside down

Na pple like this we go have as friends and family and hunger go dey wire us and dem go even complain about hardship you...

2dice01:
lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area

Hahahahahahaha...... Lol

lilmax:
take that money to any orphanage or hospital

its better there

I don't think that girl really needs money

Perfect Answer!!

Think of it as helping the needy nt as helping d lady dah turned u down it should be easier