NewStats: 3,262,255 , 8,176,626 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 03:43 PM 8k5x

united442:


heheheh...dude if u wanna get better,though there is no easy way,jst allow ur self to feel the pain,if you feel like crying,CRY!!!

trust me, i knw u are currently depressed, feeling that revenge spirit, loss of appetite to even drink or eat, stomach cramp as if there is something moving inside.,dude just bare am and feel it.. trust me, its only a matter of time..

Wooow! Bro it seems u are d only one dat understand d way i feel right now. I have promise myself i will never feel dis way again until i die, na 2 go into my next relationship with half heart and lots if side chick be my plan.

crazyabbey:


God!! you have really done alot 4 dis your Ex-girl, nawa 4 dis our girls o my own relationship is just about 9 months wen its end. I she called me on phone and ask me 2 send her money for phone and i said i don't have money, d next thing i see on her whatsapp status is "i will never stump so low 2 date a broke guy again in my life" a week later she bought a new phone and she told me one of her friends bought it 4 her.

Na so my own start her drama o,

no b small thing ooo..

moving has be quite difficult cux she lived very close to me in my area and even school,we still live close..
so seeing her everyday, dnt u see its going 2 b x2 difficult for me?

but ah man,wat to dooo?

united442:


no b small thing ooo..

moving has be quite difficult cux she lived very close to me in my area and even school,we still live close..
so seeing her everyday, dnt u see its going 2 b x2 difficult for me?

but ah man,wat to dooo?

Damn it!! Dat means am lucky den, because my own is far away from me although we are within d same state. U just have 2 carry eyes away from her side ni o, d best option is for you 2 act like she doesn't exist in your world anymore. because she fit friendzone u later

crazyabbey:


Damn it!! Dat means am lucky den, because my own is far away from me although we are within d same state. U just have 2 carry eyes away from her side ni o, d best option is for you 2 act like she doesn't exist in your world anymore. because she fit friendzone u later

she's already outta ma world oo

By listening to music.

crazyabbey:


Thanks so much, I agree with you 100% i am learning my lessons d hard way

I guess there is always a first time for everything

crazyabbey:


Thanks so much, I agree with you 100% i am learning my lessons d hard way

I guess there is always a first time for everything

Treat people right, don't be vindictive, bitter towards harmless people. Don't treat people bad if they haven't given you reasons to.

Being vindictive after a negative experience doesn't define you (it shows you are yet to heal from the experience). it deprives you of inner peace and joy.


Channel those energies you would waste on side chicks on building your life and enjoying it while it lasts.

bro hw far have you gone in your heart break mourning... for me,am abit relieved...

Lol heartbroken i am always ready for anything because all this girl are unpredictable.......

dudesexy111:
Lol heartbroken i am always ready for anything because all this girl are unpredictable.......

lolxx..true talk ooo

The worst mistake you'd make is to keep to yourself. Talk to someone about how you feel and you'd feel better.

united442:
bro hw far have you gone in your heart break mourning...
for me,am abit relieved...

Morning bro, am feeling a little bit better now all thanks to the little advice you guys gave me. We will get through it bro my only problem now is that am kind of an introverted kind of guy i am always alone at home most of the time and dat is making things hard a little bit.

crazyabbey:


Morning bro, am feeling a little bit better now all thanks to the little advice you guys gave me. We will get through it bro my only problem now is that am kind of an introverted kind of guy i am always alone at home most of the time and dat is making things hard a little bit.

lolxxx...dude ah swear,its as if after God finish creating me,he created you next
that's exactly me..i fucking love 2 be alone..

dude d bitter truth is that its going 2 be dam hard for you..

try n get something doing or mingle with people..

luckily for me i have resume school after d strike..

you just have to stop being along,its part of the recovery process.

united442:


lolxxx...dude ah swear,its as if after God finish creating me,he created you next
that's exactly me..i fucking love 2 be alone..

dude d bitter truth is that its going 2 be dam hard for you..

try n get something doing or mingle with people..

luckily for me i have resume school after d strike..

you just have to stop being along,its part of the recovery process.

Lols our lifestyle is just the same, it's very funny. You are still more lucky than me, u are in skul i just finished my NYSC last year December and i am still trying 2 set things up dat is why i am staying at home at the moment. I don't just know what to do.....it painful

crazyabbey:


Lols our lifestyle is just the same, it's very funny. You are still more lucky than me, u are in skul i just finished my NYSC last year December and i am still trying 2 set things up dat is why i am staying at home at the moment. I don't just know what to do.....it painful

easy man..

better days ahead..
the current condition isn't going 2 be permanent.
things are going 2 change as time goes on.

wishing u all d best in future.

stay calm.

united442:


easy man..

better days ahead..
the current condition isn't going 2 be permanent.
things are going 2 change as time goes on.

wishing u all d best in future.

stay calm.

Thanks bro, i really appreciate.

crazyabbey:


Hummmmmm, you are saying this because you have been protecting yourself from the start and dat was the mistake i made. Me i was thinking my girl is different based on the fact we meet in church and she was promising me heaven and earth i didn't know this girl still want 2 explore life small. Na one yahoo boy she dey follow now posing pictures everywhere!!! Dis life sha

oga na church girls dey bad .. it ll take time but surely u ll get over er ,or u just turn a fvck boy (HBK)

crazyabbey:


Thanks sister, i will delete all her pics and numbers on my phone just 2 clear up my head a little. I think she was actually having someone else even while we were dating, because she moved on immediately she end d relationship with me. By the way, i was the one who was always trying 2 make d relationship work. With any slight argument she will block my numbers and tell me it is over, i will have 2 be the one begging her b4 she calms down.

u brought this upon ur self bro ... UV been a sucker fr er

Gebbson007:




u brought this upon ur self bro ... UV been a sucker fr er

I know am 100% sure it's my fault, in my little mind i was doing things so dat i won't lose her, i thought d more attention and care i shower her should make d love grows but reverse was d case 4 me. Hummmmmm..............anyway i learn my lessons d hard way.

I have never been heartbroken.

Gebbson007:



u brought this upon ur self bro ... UV been a sucker fr er

it can happen 2 anybody especially if its your first time.

GameKartel:
i jst felt her luv for me was scam, thats all. and today i av had 7 breakups in d last 6yrs afterwards. dating is war? so far d result is 7-1. and as soon as steady paper rest on my side, i go equalize the score?

Funny. Who are u doing? No one is perfect, I know u keep fishing out Lil things for breakup

crazyabbey:
Am Currently experiencing my first heartbreak i don't want to go into all the details but the most painful thing is that my Ex- girlfriend moved on immediately after She end our relationship which means she was dating someone else while we were dating.

The problem now is: i can't stop thinking about her i keep blaming myself and feeling depressed. I will greatly appreciate it If you guys can tell me how to get Over this feeling or is there something wrong with me.

i have to know your present state of mind before i make any comment; so permit to ask how you're feeling now

united442:

it can happen 2 anybody especially if its your first time.

true tho ... my 1st heart break ehn, I'd say ur own case iis better than mine ... I couldn't eat or do anything right,I WS just drinking water but now girl way go break my heart go try ooo. .

united442:


this is what am currently ing through..
story shot:
i was dating my self for the 2 months before i knew she into someone else..

the depression,pain, confusion, and other negative feeling that goes with it is a one kind of a hell..

please guys help us.,how did u get over ittt..

I feel u brah...!!! The fact dat the relationship was barely 2 months old Should have atleast given u the much courage to forget her and move on.. I know its tough though... But u just have to do wat u have to do..!!! U don't deserve negative people in your life cause life they say is too short .. Make more friends preferably females and am sure as hell know u will forget her as fast as the speed of light..!!

Lipslikecandy11:



I feel u brah...!!! The fact dat the relationship was barely 2 months old Should have atleast given u the much courage to forget her and move on.. I know its tough though... But u just have to do wat u have to do..!!! U don't deserve negative people in your life cause life they say is too short .. Make more friends preferably females and am sure as hell know u will forget her as fast as the speed of light..!!

thanks..

Biglittlelois:
I cried for 5 minutes, that's it, no time.

it did nt work for me.

mhizbel:
I have never been heartbroken.

pray harder never to be.

Lol

In life your happiness is a priority, nothing on earth is more important than your joy of heart and mental state of mind. Not even a girl friend cos the wrong people leave for the right ones to stay. Bleep love, hustle for money and bitches will be all over you. Even your ex will.

am currently going through that heartbreak right now but what hurts me more my ex lives in the same street as me and I do see him with is new girl and that hurts a lot

ImaIma1:
By listening to music.

you mean love music lol

Trishiana:
am currently going through that heartbreak right now but what hurts me more my ex lives in the same street as me and I do see him with is new girl and that hurts a lot

thats the reason they say dnt date someone who live close to you..other than breakup,there wont be respect..

currently thesame with me,my ex live vry close to me at home and in school..

jst imagine seeing her everyday..hmm..it hurt though.