NewStats: 3,259,429 , 8,170,070 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 11:13 PM 3wjb

Chai some ladies ehn, imagine I just told this lady that I like her and wud love to have an intimate relationship with her. The next thing she told me that can I give her some amount of cash if she needs it now.. I said no even though I have the money but it's just strange... First time of chatting ooo, I asked her what does she need it for, she said for many things. Later told me she doesn't need my money that she has God and later rejected my proposal that "who love help? ", that I can't satisfy her need, so no relationship.

I even asked her what she can offer me if I give her the money she needs, no reply from her. She just skipped it and was saying other things. I don't understand ladies again, I know everyone needs money but I don't think that should be used as a means of survival na..


Guys what do u think? What else shud I tell her or shud I just remove her.

Cc: alasun wetin u think

Bros where una dey meet these kind of girls sef?online?

I like to meet girl wey like to beg money,still not met any. Yab wey i go yab them ehn.

You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

She is on her lane doing her job albeit codedly...why you come dey vex?

highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

I have money, I have the cash to give her but I can't keep giving her like that like that in the long run.... And our talk never even reach election Abi na erection.. Wait high queen are u blind ni, can't u see that I said first time of chatting. And who did hell told u that I don't have the strength to work for money... Ma, I get the power sef but I no get strength to be feeding imaginary orphans like u wey get papa and mama and yet expect one guy outside to be fulfilling fatherly role on their head..

Highqueen stop if na joke, no time to be yab

highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

So, the money she’s asking for is Intimacy Fee

highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

All I'm focused on is being a rich woman, a loyal wife and a great mum.


I think u lost ur focus miss... U can't be a great mum if u think she was right. Ur type will just use ur female children to be doing ashawo work just for money...


Who knows if ur pata have been used for logo Benz hence no chance of being a loyal wife or rich woman again

highqueen:
You were bold to talk about intimacy, but not bold to accept what comes out of it.
Although I know you don't have the money cos guys with money will settle their issues amicably without any cause for alarm, you should restrict yourself from washing your dirty boxers online, you have strength to have erection, but no strength to work for the money.


I would have said your boxers need to be used for rituals, but it's too dirty to be used.

You can't be a good wife and mum with this thinking..although you can be a rich feminist with poor wisdom

What's your definition of intimate. He has not even started the intimacy, he's only saying what he plans with her. Girls who are wise at extorting money from men know the intimate moments they make d requests and get it and not blabing from the beginning

As for you op, I blame you too, you shd know girls brains are not completely formed. When they talk they think of themselves first before others but when you talk, you have to consider their insensitivity before you talk..my point is, you used that word "intimate" in plain whose English meaning we all understand but look at how an insensitive girl interpreted it.

I also blame you for going after girls with young minds, go for girls at late 20s and early 30s, they're more definite and sensitive.

Timekeeper:



I have money, I have the cash to give her but I can't keep giving her like that like that in the long run.... And our talk never even reach election Abi na erection.. Wait high queen are u blind ni, can't u see that I said first time of chatting. And who did hell told u that I don't have the strength to work for money... Ma, I get the power sef but I no get strength to be feeding imaginary orphans like u wey get papa and mama and yet expect one guy outside to be fulfilling fatherly role on their head..

Highqueen stop if na joke, no time to be yab

She stated what she wanted, same way you stated yours.
But I know she won't be this childish to go online to backlash you for some ditzy teeny validations.

And don't ever insult my parents, I never involved yours.

Oluromantic:

You can't be a good wife and mum with this thinking..although you can be a rich feminist with poor wisdom

What's your definition of intimate. He has not even started the intimacy, he's only saying what he plans with her. Girls who are wise at extorting money from men know the intimate moments they make d requests and get it and not blabing from the beginning

As for you op, I blame you too, you shd know girls brains are not completely formed. When they talk they think of themselves first before others but when you talk, you have to consider their insensitivity before you talk..my point is, you used that word "intimate" in plain whose English meaning we all understand but look at how an insensitive girl interpreted it.

I also blame you for going after girls with young minds, go for girls at late 20s and early 30s, they're more definite and sensitive.

Today is Wednesday , and it's a working day, go out there and make a living for yourself.
Cheers#

Timekeeper:
Chai some ladies ehn, imagine I just told this lady that I like her and wud love to have an intimate relationship with her. The next thing she told me that can I give her some amount of cash if she needs it now.. I said no even though I have the money but it's just strange... First time of chatting ooo, I asked her what does she need it for, she said for many things. Later told me she doesn't need my money that she has God and later rejected my proposal that "who love help? ", that I can't satisfy her need, so no relationship.

I even asked her what she can offer me if I give her the money she needs, no reply from her. She just skipped it and was saying other things. I don't understand ladies again, I know everyone needs money but I don't think that should be used as a means of survival na..


Guys what do u think? What else shud I tell her or shud I just remove her.

Cc: alasun wetin u think

like your sisters ba?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPOvYCIEIlc

Guy this type can kill you o. There are those who see money first (and those one can kill for it) and there those who see love first before money. But you see, a female friend of mine once told me that they have chicken brain and we can turn it as we want - I was shock it was coming from a woman.
Why should a woman ask you for money or inquire to ask you for money while asking her out?
If it is something like this: Hey, I am not ready for a relationship now, I have school fees to pay and family to care for because my family is in dire financial situation, 8 wouldn't mind if you could even help me with some money. It would have been understandable that even though she us not accepting a relationship with you, she genuinely asking for assistance. Some are oloshos so you pay them for everything.

Davash222:


So, the money she’s asking for is Intimacy Fee

Lmao. Whatever that means to her.

Davash222:


So, the money she’s asking for is Intimacy Fee

Let's call it that.

I think the girl was right trying to differentiate a broke fvck boy from a rich one.

Unfortunately, op belongs to the former... Kudos to the girl.

highqueen:

She stated what she wanted, same way you stated yours.
But I know she won't be this childish to go online to backlash you for some ditzy teeny validations.

And don't ever insult my parents, I never involved yours.

But high queen, isn't that strange? Had it been it was during the relationship, there is no problem... But it's kinda somehow na... I didn't insult ur parents, read again miss. I would never insult ur parents .

Oluromantic:

You can't be a good wife and mum with this thinking..although you can be a rich feminist with poor wisdom

What's your definition of intimate. He has not even started the intimacy, he's only saying what he plans with her. Girls who are wise at extorting money from men know the intimate moments they make d requests and get it and not blabing from the beginning

As for you op, I blame you too, you shd know girls brains are not completely formed. When they talk they think of themselves first before others but when you talk, you have to consider their insensitivity before you talk..my point is, you used that word "intimate" in plain whose English meaning we all understand but look at how an insensitive girl interpreted it.

I also blame you for going after girls with young minds, go for girls at late 20s and early 30s, they're more definite and sensitive.

Actually I prefer ladies lower than me in age.... I just senior her with 4 years if her Facebook dob is correct sha... I'm just 25, I prefer ladies that are younger than me...

Timekeeper:



All I'm focused on is being a rich woman, a loyal wife and a great mum.


I think u lost ur focus miss... U can't be a great mum if u think she was right. Ur type will just use ur female children to be doing ashawo work just for money...


Who knows if ur pata have been used for logo Benz hence no chance of being a loyal wife or rich woman again

You guys have contract business, you came out plain, and probably met someone who has her business to meet yours, why are you crying that ladies are meant for ritual?

Who wants to be loyal to a someone that lacks respect for himself, if going online seeking for who to use as intimacy gadget yet, get annoyed when they table theirs, then you need your sanity to be checkemated.

My siggy is for someone responsible, someone who deserves every bit of it, not a guy like you.

Timekeeper:



Actually I prefer ladies lower than me in age.... I just senior her with 4 years if her Facebook dob is correct sha... I'm just 25, I prefer ladies that are younger than me...

You are even a small boy.
Now I understand better.

highqueen:

She stated what she wanted, same way you stated yours.
But I know she won't be this childish to go online to backlash you for some ditzy teeny validations.

And don't ever insult my parents, I never involved yours.

Will you keep your fvucking hire purchase puzsy up and use your brain?
So you want to be rich by always asking men to give you money? How sensible is it to you that when a man ask a woman for a relationship, it is appropriate for her to ask for money? Is intimate relationship exchanged for money? If I call you olosho no you will be angry but only an olosho collects money before give herself (soul, body and mind) for a brief moment.

APackandgo:

Will you keep your fvucking hire purchase puzsy up and use your brain?

Who is this rotten smelly pussy?

Don't ever bring your putrid gutter snipe smelly self to my mention again.
Take care.

highqueen:

You guys have contract business, you came out plain, and probably met someone who has her business to meet yours, why are you crying that ladies are meant for ritual?

Who wants to be loyal to a someone that lacks respect for himself, if going online seeking for who to use as intimacy gadget yet, get annoyed when they table theirs, then you need your sanity to be checkemated.

My siggy is for someone responsible, someone who deserves every bit of it, not a guy like you.

I hope u last long in ur marriage.... Which one is contract, like I wanna date this lady for real.. Highqueen, call me a broke nigga or not, I don't care. I wasnt born rich and it's not my fault. It will only be my fault if I die poor.... I'm a student too but yet, I have so many pressing responsibilities at my young age that I never imagined but who I go blame.. Just got to move on and keep surviving.... And please it's okay, u just mixing the whole thing up.. E don do Pls

Timekeeper:



But high queen, isn't that strange? Had it been it was during the relationship, there is no problem... But it's kinda somehow na... I didn't insult ur parents, read again miss. I would never insult ur parents .

Okay, it's not strange cos there are alot of girls that do their whatever business with any interested customer.

And the word you used triggered the whole thing.
It's a by gone now.

She thought you were in for business, chose your words mildly, when next you see someone you like.

highqueen:

Who is this rotten smelly pussy?

Don't ever bring your putrid gutter snipe smelly self to my mention again.
Take care.

But try understand me, I may be young but what I bear as responsibility, most people older than me sef don't bear.. So the last thing I need is a lady that will be asking for money not even during a relationship but at the first instance of telling her that I like her... I didn't even ask for sex, I just noticed I like her and tot if we could date and probably end of together but her sense of reasoning was touching same as her reply....

Timekeeper:


I hope u last long in ur marriage.... Which one is contract, like I wanna date this lady for real.. Highqueen, call me a broke nigga or not, I don't care. I wasnt born rich and it's not my fault. It will only be my fault if I die poor.... I'm a student too but yet, I have so many pressing responsibilities at my young age that I never imagined but who I go blame.. Just got to move on and keep surviving.... And please it's okay, u just mixing the whole thing up.. E don do Pls

Lol. You are now attaching emotions to this.
It's Okay, just that the word intimacy was just too plain, and ofcos, she has been in the business and has her own understanding of that word.

highqueen:

Okay, it's not strange cos there are alot of girls that do their whatever business with any interested customer.

And the word you used triggered the whole thing.
It's a by gone now.

She thought you were in for business, chose your words mildly, when next you see someone you like.

Nawa ooo, well I thought she was a reasonable lady sha..... Sorry for the isssshhhh BTW us jare...

Timekeeper:


But try understand me, I may be young but what I bear as responsibility, most people older than me sef don't bear.. So the last thing I need is a lady that will be asking for money not even during a relationship but at the first instance of telling her that I like her... I didn't even ask for sex, I just noticed I like her and tot if we could date and probably end of together but her sense of reasoning was touching same as her reply....

I understand you.
Not all girls like it when you come this plain, and some girls have their own understanding about the word.

Look out for who matches your financial goals, i wish you well.

Timekeeper:



Nawa ooo, well I thought she was a reasonable lady sha..... Sorry for the isssshhhh BTW us jare...

Oh yeah.

BiafraBushBoy:


Let's call it that.

I think the girl was right trying to differentiate a broke fvck boy from a rich one.

Unfortunately, op belongs to the former... Kudos to the girl.

Thanks bruh, I wasn't born rich.... But I wunt die poor... Thanks rich Bleep boy

highqueen:

Oh yeah.

But I tire oo.. 20k for intimacy fee.. That amount is capable of carrying 4 to 5 oloshos... 20 bae

Timekeeper:



Thanks bruh, I wasn't born rich.... But I wunt die poor... Thanks rich Bleep boy

Die rich?

Die poor?

Nobody's business.

Don't come here sounding too emotional as regards a smart girl who doesn't wanna get cheated in the intimacy business you were proposing.